Something you guys should do...please look at every cock size thread on this website. You'll see a fascinating thing. The "verified Hotwives" don't get involved in them.
So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size. Anything in the 4-6.5 inch range feels about the same. Any bigger and it can be painful hitting the cervix. Any smaller and it can slip out easily making sex kind of wonky. Guess what? 99% of men are average size and I can't tell the difference inside. Even with girth there's no big difference unless it's super size. I can take about 6 inches inside and that's it. Anything more than 6 inches and the guy can't go all the way in and I miss out on the direct contact of our bodies touching down there. My husband is 5.5 inches and it's the best sex I've ever had.
All this talk about giant dicks 7+ inches is just ridiculous. I think men see this stuff in porn and build this fantasy in their head. That's why these guys are in porn! Their length allows for great camera angles and the penis is always visible because it can't go all the way in making for more exciting visuals. Porn wouldn't be much fun with 4-6 inches because the penis wouldn't be visible for the entire time and the action would be hidden because the people would be closer together blocking the view.
Most importantly, men and women don't judge size correctly. If you look at the Top 10% thread here the biggest ones are like 6.5 inches legit.
Ok, I simply can’t resist dropping my support for AZVixen here. Those few who have read my few replies know what’s coming. The fact is most, and again I say most, women.....don’t care, about the size a cock as long as it’s not super small or super big. They don’t care, they don’t care, and one last time in case your missed it.....They don’t care.
Now that being said this lifestyle is not just about them. Last I checked you have to be married to be a Hotwife and Husbands DO care. This, I strongly feel is why this turns into such a hot button issue.
In any successful marriage both spouses love and respect each other, therefore, wives want to turn on there husbands just as much as they want their wives turned on. What I’m trying to say is, if my wife knows that watching her suck and fuck a large cock turns me on, then she wants to fuck and suck a large cock because it turns me on. We are a pair, and partnership. She likes large cocks because I like to see her with large cocks, her preferences are skewed towards mine in that regard.
I see it as a competing thing, men in our society are mostly competive. Some more so then others, but most men are in some way. So let’s say I make six figures, have six pack abs, and resemble a taller version of Brad Pitt. But.....I get very turned on by watching or hearing about my wife have sex with men who are more hung then me. Why? Because her lover has something that I simply can not compete with......a larger cock. I can’t make my cock bigger, I can’t compete, therefore, it’s a turn on. My wife sees me turned on, then, gets amazing, erotic, taboo, mind stimulating sex, therefore she’s turned on.
Wham, happy lifestyle couple.
In reality, she wants a lager cock because her SO wants to see her with a large cock because she loves to see him turned on. If it was just her, she would care less but the size of cock inside her as long as it was working it’s magic in the right way.
Just for reference, I'm one of the few men who could care less about the size of my wives lovers cock. I just want her dripping wet with anticipation for what going to happen, and when it happens, seeing, and helping (We are a MFM couple) her losee herself in the pleasure of two men. Also, of course the societal dynamic of watching another man fucking her to orgasm is intoxicating for both of us! <—- With the help of her clit toy. (Sorry had to add that)