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In your experience, what size does your SO prefer?
5" 2%  2%  [ 5 ]
6" 10%  10%  [ 23 ]
7" 29%  29%  [ 68 ]
8" 41%  41%  [ 96 ]
9" 19%  19%  [ 45 ]
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Unread postPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2017 10:09 am 
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Good day,

So to the never ending question, does women actually enjoy a larger penis?

I know that this question is frequently asked, and that most answers are something along the lines "it's not the size, it's how you use it" or "if it's too big it hurts" etc.

So imagine a boyfriend having sex with his girlfriend, they both love each other and he is good in bed.

The size I considered "bigger" is 18-20.5 cm (7-8'') with normal girth, will that feel better, and visually look better than an average 12-14.5cm (4.7-5.7'') ?

I'm 14.5cm (5.7") and from my experience my girlfriend loves my dick but using a bigger dildo or double penetrate her with a vibrator or fingers gives her a more powerful feeling. You could say, at least in my experience, a bigger size feels more powerful and affects her senses and body more notably.

When she's very wet I will barely touch the sides of her pussy, it will be penetration without any friction. Especially after she has orgasmed, then she will not feel me that much and will just lay waiting for me to cum. If I then use a vibrator or two or three fingers together with my penis, or I use a bigger dildo around 8" then she will react both by moaning and body language.

In my experience my girlfriend is perfectly satisfied with my dick. But using a bigger size just causes her to react stronger than my average sized penis can. I've tried to encourage her to be more open and admit it and not be afraid to hurt my feelings.

You could say that having sex with me is like using a average car, it's nice, comfortable, can be fast and thrilling and takes her from A to B. But using a bigger size is like using a fast muscle car, like a mustang, it got the roar and the power to affect her stronger. It's not maybe what you use every day, but once in a while you need to take her for a ride.

So to conclude, average women prefer an average dick in a relationship for everyday use. However, once in awhile, they need and want a bigger size, both for the thrill of sheer visual effect and for the feeling.

am I correct in that assessment? And what is your experience?


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Unread postPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2017 11:41 am 
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You need another poll on circumference.


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Unread postPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2017 12:27 pm 
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I don't think your assessment as stated in your conclusion is accurate. It is also rather a generalization. There are many surveys and a few of them are actually reliable. Typically of course they ask the wrong questions, word the questions poorly leaving them open to different interpretations (and thus inaccurate responses) or worse are biased to presuppose a result (intentionally or not). Unfortunately such is the fate of most surveys on any subject. With all due respect yours is also flawed, since it does not give options for several obvious possibilities. For example: less than 5", greater than 9", as long as possible, etc. Also thickness has a huge impact and you completely ignore that. A shorter but thicker cock could be much more satisfying than a thinner longer one (especially for anal sex). What about size and shape of the cock head? Or straightness/curvature? And what does "prefer" mean to start with? Is it based only on what they have actually experienced so far or what they think they would like to have? How can they know what they would actually like best if they have not had the opportunity to sample a large enough range (excuse the pun) in spite of our cuckold efforts to ensure they can have as much as they want? Don't get me wrong, I am not putting you down. It was a valiant effort to broach the subject and I am sure it will encourage a healthy discussion from which we will all learn something to help us be better cuckolds for our wives. But the subject is so complex that it is extremely difficult to cover with a simple survey.

In our case so far on the upper end of the range Carol has only had the pleasure of about 9", but very thick (also straight and a big knobby helmet shaped head). Otherwise she has only had smaller cocks - down to about 4". We have talked about it and she says she prefers 8 inches plus and thinks she would like much longer. But she also prefers thick cocks - as thick as possible. She said she would like to try "a monster". We do have an 11" x 2.25" diameter e-glass dildo - about 2.75" at the "head" - that she enjoys occasionally, usually lamenting how small mine is in comparison. :whip: :oops: Mine is an inch or so above average length (when it is not caged :oops: :whip: :D ) but below average thickness and while she loves making love with me she has made it abundantly clear that my little dick is very disappointing for her these days for purely sexual satisfaction, now that she has experienced hard rutting a sex with big thick alpha cocks. She also says that given a minimum of about 7.5", below which she is not interested, thickness would probably win over length if a choice must be made - especially for anal. She also likes big knobby heads - helmets for appearance and cocksucking but mushrooms for the thrusting feel, again especially for anal. Being a submissive bisexual sissy faggot myself, I echo all her comments and preferences - especially big thick flared mushroom head cocks for anal penetration, and the longer the better too. She says curved cocks (like mine) can be great depending on position for G spot stimulation. But I would add that extremely upward curved cocks are difficult to deep throat unless inserted from above, especially when really hard. That's one thing I have experience of that she does not. I would also add that she is very good at deep throat and really enjoys a long (and thick) cock down her throat with her face buried in the man's stomach, or him fucking her throat, until she has to come up for air (and then goes down again). Whereas although I love long cocks I can only comfortably deep throat 6.5" for more than a few seconds at a time and I am still honing my skills above that and working on the gag reflex (though lately I have been forcibly getting more practice - usually with her hand on the back of my head. :whip: :oops: )


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Unread postPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2017 1:13 pm 
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simply put 8" and a good sized GIRTH


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Unread postPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2017 6:43 pm 
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One of my ex-wife's favorite playmates, and the one she said many times she'd love to be able to play with him again, was a guy with ED who couldn't get it up at all. So all they did was make out, kissing and him playing with her nipples, and I'm not sure what else. I just know that he never got her pants off, and never even touched her below the waist. But she had the best orgasms nonetheless.

I'm pretty sure his cock size didn't matter at all! He did it by stimulating her sex organ. (The one between her ears, that is!)

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Unread postPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2017 7:38 pm 
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I would say it depends on the woman Herself. I have a 9 inch cock. I have had women who want no part of My cock inside their pussy. (never mind their ass) Their love to play with it and suck it and hold it in their hands.
Others its "No Holes Barded. It just depends on the woman. There is no perfect size.


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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 5:42 am 
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As a BF the women I have been with do love the bigger size (8 1/2 X 6). Sometimes it does take a lot of foreplay to be able to fuck them properly.. deeply. But I also find they love to play with it.. rub it.. hold it.. and suck it.. and of course I love that !!

I have been with a few that could deep throat mine but most cannot. I love the feeling of popping through that one last little boundry as my Cock goes into their throat !! I had one girl inparticular that loved deepthroating me and would cum when I shot into her throat... she loved it as much as fucking. After sex we would go to sleep for a while and her favorite was to slide down under the blankets and put my cock into her mouth and just slowly sucked on it while she fell asleep. She just loved having a cock in her mouth. And, of course, who was I to say no !! Lol !!

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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 8:03 am 
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aralap007 wrote:
In my experience my girlfriend is perfectly satisfied with my dick. But using a bigger size just causes her to react stronger than my average sized penis can. I've tried to encourage her to be more open and admit it and not be afraid to hurt my feelings.

You could say that having sex with me is like using a average car, it's nice, comfortable, can be fast and thrilling and takes her from A to B. But using a bigger size is like using a fast muscle car, like a mustang, it got the roar and the power to affect her stronger. It's not maybe what you use every day, but once in a while you need to take her for a ride.

So to conclude, average women prefer an average dick in a relationship for everyday use. However, once in awhile, they need and want a bigger size, both for the thrill of sheer visual effect and for the feeling.

Your analogy is not only very funny, I think it's absolutely correct. I know I can fully satisfy my wife, sexually, with my average dick. But, I also know she loves her BF's 8 inches. She tells me she prefers my dick for blow jobs more than his because she can get all of me into her mouth. On the other hand, I know what his cock can do for her when he's inside her pussy. I think a big part of what attracts women to larger cocks is the visual stimulation and the "fantasy" of a big cock. It's like Bradisalpha said in his post, I think many women are just fascinated with big cocks, like to play with them and handle them. Why wouldn't a woman like to experience a nice big cock, either on a regular basis or just an occasional chance to play with one?


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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 9:44 am 
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As many have said, skill is more important than size. My husband is average sized (5.5" long, 4" girth, straight), which is actually a little above average for Indian guys in my experience. He has been able to satisfy me completely. On the other hand, I have been with larger men who just assume that size is all that matters, and that they do not need to put any effort into satisfying me.

All things being equal, however, larger and thicker, up to a point, is better. I think that my preference is 8" long, 6" girth, slightly upward curved. I am like your girlfriend. I enjoy making love with my husband, but of late our lovemaking no longer includes his dick inside my pussy. He uses large thick BBC and WBC dildos on me, that give me far greater pleasure and far stronger orgasms than his dick ever could. The same goes for larger sized men who are skilled and are aware enough to know that they have to work at satisfying me, especially if they ever want to fuck me again.

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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 10:43 am 
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bradisalpha wrote:
As a BF the women I have been with do love the bigger size (8 1/2 X 6). Sometimes it does take a lot of foreplay to be able to fuck them properly.. deeply. But I also find they love to play with it.. rub it.. hold it.. and suck it.. and of course I love that !!

I have been with a few that could deep throat mine but most cannot. I love the feeling of popping through that one last little boundry as my Cock goes into their throat !! I had one girl inparticular that loved deepthroating me and would cum when I shot into her throat... she loved it as much as fucking. After sex we would go to sleep for a while and her favorite was to slide down under the blankets and put my cock into her mouth and just slowly sucked on it while she fell asleep. She just loved having a cock in her mouth. And, of course, who was I to say no !! Lol !!

Brad

As a husband who literally fits in the 2% category on this survey, I can affirm what several others have commented in this and other related posts on penis size, is that my wife seems to greatly enjoy making love to me as her husband (my penis is merely a tool to that end.) We enjoy great intimacy emotionally and spiritually. Physically my wife does enjoy the occasional stimulation and sexual release that our friend whose Cock is bigger than mine and has more stamina in bed than I do, is able to give her.

i quoted Sir Brad here because He said something that i learned from my wife, but had not until now seen anyone else talk about. my wife's ex husband's Cock was between 7 and 8 inches and He taught (actually forced her to learn) how to deep throat Him. She said it took her months but she finally got to the point where she understood that she had to ignore every natural instinct that her body had to resist something so large from being forced down her throat, and as soon as she relaxed and let Him.."pop through that one last little boundary as His Cock went into her throat..." she was able to deep throat Him. She said she even got to the point where she enjoyed doing it for Him. Now she of course "deep mouths" me (i am not big enough to enter her throat).

i just wanted to let Sir Brad know that i understand exactly what You were saying about a larger Cock popping past that certain point as it enters a throat. Not that i have experienced it, but it is how my wife described it when she took her ex husband that way.

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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 11:37 am 
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7" to 8" thick with a big knobby head.
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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 12:05 pm 
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bradisalpha wrote:
As a BF the women I have been with do love the bigger size (8 1/2 X 6). Sometimes it does take a lot of foreplay to be able to fuck them properly.. deeply. But I also find they love to play with it.. rub it.. hold it.. and suck it.. and of course I love that !!

I have been with a few that could deep throat mine but most cannot. I love the feeling of popping through that one last little boundry as my Cock goes into their throat !! I had one girl inparticular that loved deepthroating me and would cum when I shot into her throat... she loved it as much as fucking. After sex we would go to sleep for a while and her favorite was to slide down under the blankets and put my cock into her mouth and just slowly sucked on it while she fell asleep. She just loved having a cock in her mouth. And, of course, who was I to say no !! Lol !!

Brad

As a husband who literally fits in the 2% category on this survey, I can affirm what several others have commented in this and other related posts on penis size, is that my wife seems to greatly enjoy making love to me as her husband (my penis is merely a tool to that end.) We enjoy great intimacy emotionally and spiritually. Physically my wife does enjoy the occasional stimulation and sexual release that our friend whose Cock is bigger than mine and has more stamina in bed than I do, is able to give her.

i quoted Sir Brad here because He said something that i learned from my wife, but had not until now seen anyone else talk about. my wife's ex husband's Cock was between 7 and 8 inches and He taught (actually forced her to learn) how to deep throat Him. She said it took her months but she finally got to the point where she understood that she had to ignore every natural instinct that her body had to resist something so large from being forced down her throat, and as soon as she relaxed and let Him.."pop through that one last little boundary as His Cock went into her throat..." she was able to deep throat Him. She said she even got to the point where she enjoyed doing it for Him. Now she of course "deep mouths" me (i am not big enough to enter her throat).

i just wanted to let Sir Brad know that i understand exactly what You were saying about a larger Cock popping past that certain point as it enters a throat. Not that i have experienced it, but it is how my wife described it when she took her ex husband that way.

Mark


mark,

It is nice for you to recognize my description as many do not understand that relaxing and desire are the only two things that will let her (or him !!) overcome the natural reflexes and go beyond the normal to reach this satisfaction. And feeling that “pop” as you plunge through is very exciting to the bf !!

It is the same with a big cock pushing deep into her pussy. So much is said about depth of a pussy and her cervix being the stopping point.. but.. if she is properly excited, relaxed and prepared sexually, her pussy will open up and her cervix will move up and out if the way to accept a larger cock. It is called “vaginal tenting” and does require her to be relaxed and comfortable through forplay and exited with desire to feel a big cock deep inside her. It is a natural involuntary reflex. Trust me it will fit !!

Anal sex with a big cock works the same as relaxation, excitement and desire are the only way her muscles will open up for entry. And once they do it is comparable with the “pop” in her throat because as soon as it is passed there is plenty of room inside !!

All three of these activities are what I strive for as a bf with a large (but not the largest) Cock. It is up to me to seduce her and turn her on to the point that she ignores her natural reflexes and opens up to take me deep inside her. Once that happens a craving will build inside her that, even though she is in a happy, satisfying marriage, she will always have her eyes open for an opportunity to feel the lust involved by taking a big Cock... either by living a hot wife/cuckold lifestyle .. or cheating. It is usually up to the husband as to which direction she takes !!

Brad

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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 12:24 pm 
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As a husband who literally fits in the 2% category on this survey, I can affirm what several others have commented in this and other related posts on penis size, is that my wife seems to greatly enjoy making love to me as her husband (my penis is merely a tool to that end.) We enjoy great intimacy emotionally and spiritually. Physically my wife does enjoy the occasional stimulation and sexual release that our friend whose Cock is bigger than mine and has more stamina in bed than I do, is able to give her.

i quoted Sir Brad here because He said something that i learned from my wife, but had not until now seen anyone else talk about. my wife's ex husband's Cock was between 7 and 8 inches and He taught (actually forced her to learn) how to deep throat Him. She said it took her months but she finally got to the point where she understood that she had to ignore every natural instinct that her body had to resist something so large from being forced down her throat, and as soon as she relaxed and let Him.."pop through that one last little boundary as His Cock went into her throat..." she was able to deep throat Him. She said she even got to the point where she enjoyed doing it for Him. Now she of course "deep mouths" me (i am not big enough to enter her throat).

i just wanted to let Sir Brad know that i understand exactly what You were saying about a larger Cock popping past that certain point as it enters a throat. Not that i have experienced it, but it is how my wife described it when she took her ex husband that way.

Mark
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mark,

It is nice for you to recognize my description as many do not understand that relaxing and desire are the only two things that will let her (or him !!) overcome the natural reflexes and go beyond the normal to reach this satisfaction. And feeling that “pop” as you plunge through is very exciting to the bf !!

It is the same with a big cock pushing deep into her pussy. So much is said about depth of a pussy and her cervix being the stopping point.. but.. if she is properly excited, relaxed and prepared sexually, her pussy will open up and her cervix will move up and out if the way to accept a larger cock. It is called “vaginal tenting” and does require her to be relaxed and comfortable through forplay and exited with desire to feel a big cock deep inside her. It is a natural involuntary reflex. Trust me it will fit !!

Anal sex with a big cock works the same as relaxation, excitement and desire are the only way her muscles will open up for entry. And once they do it is comparable with the “pop” in her throat because as soon as it is passed there is plenty of room inside !!

All three of these activities are what I strive for as a bf with a large (but not the largest) Cock. It is up to me to seduce her and turn her on to the point that she ignores her natural reflexes and opens up to take me deep inside her. Once that happens a craving will build inside her that, even though she is in a happy, satisfying marriage, she will always have her eyes open for an opportunity to feel the lust involved by taking a big Cock... either by living a hot wife/cuckold lifestyle .. or cheating. It is usually up to the husband as to which direction she takes !!

Brad


Sir Brad thank You again for Your taking the time to reply. i learned much from my wife about her experiences being married to an Alpha Male (her first husband). The things You describe as an Alpha Boyfriend really does echo what my wife has said about her experiences. The way she described the feeling of her ex husband's Cock penetrating her so deeply (orally, vaginally and anally), was that once the Cock passes that certain point, that the experience quickly went from pain to great pleasure.

Also, from my observation as a small, submissive cuckold husband, i can also affirm that once a woman experiences the pleasures of being with an Alpha Male, it is something that never truly goes away. my wife went over 30 years being monogamous (as far as i know) with me, but in 2014 when the opportunity happened for us to share her with an Alpha Friend...she (acted reluctant to cross that line again) but ultimately could not resist having the experience once more. So for almost 4 years now, she has enjoyed the sexual pleasures that You described.

(also Sir Brad, thank you for noticing my attempt at respect by capitalizing my references to Alpha Males' Cocks...and my humility by using lower case for my own references. Something i have learned from some unique sources :-)

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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 12:40 pm 
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bradisalpha wrote:
As a BF the women I have been with do love the bigger size (8 1/2 X 6). Sometimes it does take a lot of foreplay to be able to fuck them properly.. deeply. But I also find they love to play with it.. rub it.. hold it.. and suck it.. and of course I love that !!

I have been with a few that could deep throat mine but most cannot. I love the feeling of popping through that one last little boundry as my Cock goes into their throat !! I had one girl inparticular that loved deepthroating me and would cum when I shot into her throat... she loved it as much as fucking. After sex we would go to sleep for a while and her favorite was to slide down under the blankets and put my cock into her mouth and just slowly sucked on it while she fell asleep. She just loved having a cock in her mouth. And, of course, who was I to say no !! Lol !!

Brad


Damn, that is really hot.


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Unread postPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2017 11:09 am 
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Something you guys should do...please look at every cock size thread on this website. You'll see a fascinating thing. The "verified Hotwives" don't get involved in them.

So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size. Anything in the 4-6.5 inch range feels about the same. Any bigger and it can be painful hitting the cervix. Any smaller and it can slip out easily making sex kind of wonky. Guess what? 99% of men are average size and I can't tell the difference inside. Even with girth there's no big difference unless it's super size. I can take about 6 inches inside and that's it. Anything more than 6 inches and the guy can't go all the way in and I miss out on the direct contact of our bodies touching down there. My husband is 5.5 inches and it's the best sex I've ever had.

All this talk about giant dicks 7+ inches is just ridiculous. I think men see this stuff in porn and build this fantasy in their head. That's why these guys are in porn! Their length allows for great camera angles and the penis is always visible because it can't go all the way in making for more exciting visuals. Porn wouldn't be much fun with 4-6 inches because the penis wouldn't be visible for the entire time and the action would be hidden because the people would be closer together blocking the view.

Most importantly, men and women don't judge size correctly. If you look at the Top 10% thread here the biggest ones are like 6.5 inches legit.

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AZVixen wrote:
So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size.


Based upon comments my wife made with her lovers, I think she'd agree with AZVixen. Five of the six men she had intercourse with were "about your size". I only saw one photo of one of her playmates, and it did seem we were the same size. She said that one of her lovers was substantially bigger than me (practically used italics when she talked about it). I have no doubt he was well hung, and she seemed to have a good time with him, but only played with him that one time.

Part of my hotwifing fantasy was for her to play with a much bigger cock than what I can deliver, but frankly she seemed to care less about that. I think she does like the variety that comes with hotwifing, but it seems that bigger cocks is indeed something that's in men's heads. At least that's our experience. She actually told me that our foray into hotwifing made her appreciate me more, as I focus on her orgasm a lot more than most of her lovers. Go figure.

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Unread postPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2017 9:24 am 
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Unread postPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2017 11:56 am 
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AZVixen wrote:
Something you guys should do...please look at every cock size thread on this website. You'll see a fascinating thing. The "verified Hotwives" don't get involved in them.

So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size. Anything in the 4-6.5 inch range feels about the same. Any bigger and it can be painful hitting the cervix. Any smaller and it can slip out easily making sex kind of wonky. Guess what? 99% of men are average size and I can't tell the difference inside. Even with girth there's no big difference unless it's super size. I can take about 6 inches inside and that's it. Anything more than 6 inches and the guy can't go all the way in and I miss out on the direct contact of our bodies touching down there. My husband is 5.5 inches and it's the best sex I've ever had.

All this talk about giant dicks 7+ inches is just ridiculous. I think men see this stuff in porn and build this fantasy in their head. That's why these guys are in porn! Their length allows for great camera angles and the penis is always visible because it can't go all the way in making for more exciting visuals. Porn wouldn't be much fun with 4-6 inches because the penis wouldn't be visible for the entire time and the action would be hidden because the people would be closer together blocking the view.

Most importantly, men and women don't judge size correctly. If you look at the Top 10% thread here the biggest ones are like 6.5 inches legit.

In my experience with women this seems to be the narrative! You are 110% right it is in our heads! Between porn, TV, movies, magazine articles etc it plays into our insecurities, or at least mine. I feel society puts insecurities on both men and women when it comes to body image.

I will disagree on one thing tho there’s always that one woman who goes on and on about cock size and makes every man in the room regardless of what he’s packing feel insecure.


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Unread postPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2017 3:33 pm 
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My hotwife has definitely become a true size queen. She recently played with her first bbc, who has a great cock, thick, huge vein running over the top and a bit over 8". After he left, she said the sex was ok, but that he really isn't that big! I guess the regular that she has been fucking who is over 9" and bottoms out on her all the time, has stretched her significantly. Where does that leave me and my 6" dick? Usually not in her pussy! LOL

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My wife has always said "the bigger the better." But I think most of this has to do with the aesthetics of a large cock. She likes touching and licking larger cocks and she says this gets her excited. It's much like her attraction to taller, larger men. She is only 5' but she likes guys to be over 6" and muscular. At first I was a little uncomfortable with her preferences since I'm 5'9" with slim build and I have a 5.5" cock, but I've come to realize that the contrast between me and her lovers is a large part of the excitement for my wife.


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My wife is wanting 7-8" and thick. The thick is a must for her.


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My wife has always said "the bigger the better." But I think most of this has to do with the aesthetics of a large cock. She likes touching and licking larger cocks and she says this gets her excited. It's much like her attraction to taller, larger men. She is only 5' but she likes guys to be over 6" and muscular. At first I was a little uncomfortable with her preferences since I'm 5'9" with slim build and I have a 5.5" cock, but I've come to realize that the contrast between me and her lovers is a large part of the excitement for my wife.

My wife has never said, "The bigger the better," but I do completely agree with you that a very big part of her excitement and pleasure with a bigger cock is the contrast, the difference and the fun of "playing" with a warm dildo that has a man connected to it!


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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 23, 2017 3:58 am 
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Anything over about 6" causes my wife discomfort, but she really likes width.

Her favorite bull was about 6" but extremely wide.

Her bull before that was 8" but really thin. She jokingly referred to him as "pencil dick" when we'd talk about him! LOL

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Unread postPosted: Sat Dec 23, 2017 11:32 am 
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Something you guys should do...please look at every cock size thread on this website. You'll see a fascinating thing. The "verified Hotwives" don't get involved in them.

So here's my real take on this whole thing: it's all in your head. Most of us JUST DON'T CARE about size. Anything in the 4-6.5 inch range feels about the same. Any bigger and it can be painful hitting the cervix. Any smaller and it can slip out easily making sex kind of wonky. Guess what? 99% of men are average size and I can't tell the difference inside. Even with girth there's no big difference unless it's super size. I can take about 6 inches inside and that's it. Anything more than 6 inches and the guy can't go all the way in and I miss out on the direct contact of our bodies touching down there. My husband is 5.5 inches and it's the best sex I've ever had.

All this talk about giant dicks 7+ inches is just ridiculous. I think men see this stuff in porn and build this fantasy in their head. That's why these guys are in porn! Their length allows for great camera angles and the penis is always visible because it can't go all the way in making for more exciting visuals. Porn wouldn't be much fun with 4-6 inches because the penis wouldn't be visible for the entire time and the action would be hidden because the people would be closer together blocking the view.

Most importantly, men and women don't judge size correctly. If you look at the Top 10% thread here the biggest ones are like 6.5 inches legit.


Thank you and, it's all in both of their heads. I've had great relationships with couples for many years and I don't fall into that "monster cock" category and it doesn't cause me the slightest bit of insecurity. I guess you'd say I'm "above average" but I think that lends more to the "something different" factor. When I've measured it's usually above six and a half but, holding a ruler, cock, and concentrating on that plus holding and focusing a camera isn't exactly an excitable moment where as when a lover just has to measure me while playing it's a nice seven inch with "above average" girth. So, it's a long way in the excitable arena between playing camera operator/surveyor technician and a woman doing to a man what she does best...I'd say close to half inch of long way. :)

I think where a lot of what I do different comes from when I was a teenager just starting to learn about sex. I noticed very quickly that the more excited a woman got, the more excited I got so, I started at a very early age learning to read a woman's movement and passion and focusing on her pleasure because the more I gave, the more I got! Yes, being a nice guy pays its own dividends. I've had couples tell me she has difficulty achieving orgasm, never has one with a new lover till about the fifth encounter...and most likely that gets proven wrong and not because I'm some natural born sex Svengali, but more because I learned early on to pay attention to a woman. So, in my view the "above average" thing plays a minor part just because it may be a different feel than her current husband/lover, the bigger part comes from being tuned in to her. It's what is in their head that counts. If they want to see that eight to ten inch cock, then I'm not their guy and tell them so and good luck in your search because that is what they have expectations of to fulfill their fantasy and are geared to that scenario and anything else wouldn't "measure up". I've enjoyed women that never experienced a vaginal orgasm become multiple orgasm queens after our first encounter and that, in my mind, is because she has just not had an attentive lover till then.

So, nice to know the bulk of women aren't necessarily the kind that can only be satisfied with that abnormally large cock. Just reinforces what I always experienced, that it isn't the size, it's the big picture, the connection you have, the appreciation you have for her as a woman, and paying attention to her in bed. Oh, and yes, giving to get can be a bit selfish on my part, depends on how you look at it but, everyone walks away with a smile on their face.


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Unread postPosted: Sun Dec 24, 2017 10:11 am 
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As a BF the women I have been with do love the bigger size (8 1/2 X 6). Sometimes it does take a lot of foreplay to be able to fuck them properly.. deeply. But I also find they love to play with it.. rub it.. hold it.. and suck it.. and of course I love that !!

I have been with a few that could deep throat mine but most cannot. I love the feeling of popping through that one last little boundry as my Cock goes into their throat !! I had one girl inparticular that loved deepthroating me and would cum when I shot into her throat... she loved it as much as fucking. After sex we would go to sleep for a while and her favorite was to slide down under the blankets and put my cock into her mouth and just slowly sucked on it while she fell asleep. She just loved having a cock in her mouth. And, of course, who was I to say no !! Lol !!

Brad

As a husband who literally fits in the 2% category on this survey, I can affirm what several others have commented in this and other related posts on penis size, is that my wife seems to greatly enjoy making love to me as her husband (my penis is merely a tool to that end.) We enjoy great intimacy emotionally and spiritually. Physically my wife does enjoy the occasional stimulation and sexual release that our friend whose Cock is bigger than mine and has more stamina in bed than I do, is able to give her.

i quoted Sir Brad here because He said something that i learned from my wife, but had not until now seen anyone else talk about. my wife's ex husband's Cock was between 7 and 8 inches and He taught (actually forced her to learn) how to deep throat Him. She said it took her months but she finally got to the point where she understood that she had to ignore every natural instinct that her body had to resist something so large from being forced down her throat, and as soon as she relaxed and let Him.."pop through that one last little boundary as His Cock went into her throat..." she was able to deep throat Him. She said she even got to the point where she enjoyed doing it for Him. Now she of course "deep mouths" me (i am not big enough to enter her throat).

i just wanted to let Sir Brad know that i understand exactly what You were saying about a larger Cock popping past that certain point as it enters a throat. Not that i have experienced it, but it is how my wife described it when she took her ex husband that way.

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mark,

It is nice for you to recognize my description as many do not understand that relaxing and desire are the only two things that will let her (or him !!) overcome the natural reflexes and go beyond the normal to reach this satisfaction. And feeling that “pop” as you plunge through is very exciting to the bf !!

It is the same with a big cock pushing deep into her pussy. So much is said about depth of a pussy and her cervix being the stopping point.. but.. if she is properly excited, relaxed and prepared sexually, her pussy will open up and her cervix will move up and out if the way to accept a larger cock. It is called “vaginal tenting” and does require her to be relaxed and comfortable through forplay and exited with desire to feel a big cock deep inside her. It is a natural involuntary reflex. Trust me it will fit !!

Anal sex with a big cock works the same as relaxation, excitement and desire are the only way her muscles will open up for entry. And once they do it is comparable with the “pop” in her throat because as soon as it is passed there is plenty of room inside !!

All three of these activities are what I strive for as a bf with a large (but not the largest) Cock. It is up to me to seduce her and turn her on to the point that she ignores her natural reflexes and opens up to take me deep inside her. Once that happens a craving will build inside her that, even though she is in a happy, satisfying marriage, she will always have her eyes open for an opportunity to feel the lust involved by taking a big Cock... either by living a hot wife/cuckold lifestyle .. or cheating. It is usually up to the husband as to which direction she takes !!

Brad


Vaginal tenting happens during the first stage of the sexual response cycle i.e. the excitement phase. It has nothing to do with being relaxed and comfortable, in fact the opposite is true. The muscles in the body will begin to tighten. It happens naturally, and has nothing to do with "desire to feel a big cock inside her." A vagina will tent to the same size no matter if there's a 5 inch or 8 inch penis in front of them.

There's a good article on Huff Post by Dr. Gloria Brame that will explain why the majority of men have 5 inches (because that size is perfect for 99% of women). And if you read her books and her research, the deepest vagina she's ever measured was 6.7 inches fully aroused on a 5'11" woman. Also, because the rear of the vagina tents, the penis doesn't actually touch the walls of the vagina back there anyway, no matter how thick a penis is. The first 2-3 inches are where most of the nerve endings and blood vessels are, and where the actual penis/vagina friction takes place.

Also Brad, I'd love to see your 8.5x6 cock. What page can I find it in the top 10% cock thread?

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