emca753 tell us more Sonja and I had 4 children. Gillian, 14 and Allan 10 from a previous marriage where she kept her married name , we had two of our own, Simone 3 and Ethan 1; we had 17 year old Eileen as a babysitter, who we loved; Eileen had a 14 year old sister named Dawn who would come over and take money and cigarettes from Eileen while she was babysitting, I saw Dawn slap Eileen at various pool parties and frequently saw Eileen light Dawn's cigarettes and fetch drinks for her smaller, younger sister, as an aside, i found it arousing, even if Sonja and I were upset someone we liked was treated this way
One Friday, while Eileen was babysitting our kids across the street and Gillian was at a friends we were at one of their pool parties,, over time Sonja got into a different frame of mind and chastised Dawn for picking on her older sister, Dawn challenged Sonja and Sonja and Dawn wrestled in front of us....Dawn placed Sonja in a headlock and after 4-5 boring minutes Sonja went to the ground and Dawn sat on my much bigger wife, twisting her arm and making Sonja apologize to her, as well as a few other things; emanating from this was Dawn's boyfriend, Eileen's former boyfriend, Justin waching this... despite the fact I suspected Justin had a thing for Sonja before this, I would call this a definite push towards what eventually became a 3 year secret relationship from Dawn
My wife and I started going out when we were 16. Within a year she had an affair with an older guy. Like desertsub, she confessed to letting him kiss her but concealed the rest. I was aroused but hurt. Later she had another affair and this time, when I found out about it, he told me the truth about the first one. Being told about her infidelity with others (yes, there had been others, too) by someone who had fucked her really turned me on, though I managed not to let it show.
After that, I began to encourage her to dress more sexily and to flirt. We started to play strip poker with groups of male friends and go skinny dipping. One one occasion she fucked one of the guys in front of me after a game of strip poker. Gradually, the scale of her sexual encounters intensified and we got into a pattern of her being unfaithful and then getting caught or confessing, which would precipitate a row.
A few years after we got married it became clear that she would continue to have other men, but we were both fed up with the rows. I came clean about my conflicting emotions and even admitted the arousal was the more powerful component in this heady mix. She responded by going up a gear in the frequency and depravity of her affairs and by describing some of them in cock-tingling detail. We came to the understanding that ours was a half-open marriage: I was to remain monogamous, she was to explore and express her sexuality as she wished.
Our 14 year old babysitter out wrestled my tipsy larger wife and made her a form of bitch, Dawn's 16 year old bf Justin was soo aroused he started coming over alone more often, he and Sonja , my 42 year old wife at the time started doing cheap cigarette runs to get Dawn her Marlborough Lights, Sonja started to teach Justin how to drive, pretty soon I set up their first kiss as I was aroused at their mutual attraction carl