would u care to describe just how it all came about the first time?
Cassie and I are both 35. We’ve been together 18 years and married for 10. Even though we used to have sex a fair bit, I’ve never been one that’s lasted long and I’ve always been convinced I never truly make her orgasm. She always said sex ‘was nice’ but I could tell she deserved more. Thoughts about another man being with her kept going through my head the past few years.
These thoughts kept getting bigger and bigger until I just had to tell her. One night after we’d made love, I said to her that I knew I didn’t last the longest and I love her so much that I wanted to see her in pleasure that I couldn’t deliver but maybe another man could. She asked if I wanted to be with another woman but I told no. It was just about her with another guy and she was the only one for me.
Nothing else happened for a few weeks until she brought it up. I remember it so well. We were sitting cuddled on the sofa watching tv and she looked up at me and said “Do you still want to see me with another guy?” I replied “yes, more than anything”. She said she had thought it through and if I really wanted it then she’d do it. But as a one off. My dick was rock hard and she knew it turned me on. She stroked me and asked who I wanted to fuck her. I said my friend Paul. Paul has always fancied Cassie and I knew he was someone that pleased the ladies so he was the easy choice for me to suggest and he often was the one I fantasised about fucking her. She wasn’t sure at first but I suggested that as we knew him and he was our friend that we knew he’d be safe. I left it entirely up to her and she could back out at anytime and we would forget the whole thing. We made love that night and she said his name during it. I came right away. As we lay in bed, she turned to me and said “invite Paul over on Friday night”