hey guys. so reason why I let her do it is because at the beginning it was fun. also I often had to travel out for work so I felt it would be good for the bull whom is close to us to take care of her both emotionally and sexually. for example when I went to work she would move in with the bull of vice versa and they would do things like a married couple. I.e weddings. date nights and even weekend getaways when I'm gone for weeks long. also I talked to my wife and she said she isn't necessarily planning divorce but things may change in the future. but for now she wants to be married to me. however she also wants to go deeper with him emotionally and cultivate a genuine bond with him. she said she loved us both and loved us for different reasons. she also said however the intimacy between her and bull is not only stronger but more special since they have more common interests I.e like movies. they particularly like ron com's and romance which I'm not big fan of. this further allows her to do things with him while they are doing things they both like. for example often when they are watching a movie my wife gives him oral. they also spend a lot of time in his spa. however saying this she said she loved me and said we will get through this with some adjuatments. that she said we all three have to talk.
Honestly, I get really turned on by the idea of my wife falling in love with one of the guy's she fucks, but when an emotional bond recently developed between her and a guy she fucked it scared me to death. The thought of her experiencing the level of pleasure he made her feel when they had sex, partly due to how she felt, turned me on more than anything before. My absolute love for her wanted the greatest level of pleasure possible for her, but the same love also started freak me out at the thought of losing her. I actually pictured a similar situation to your current life, where she started spending more and more time with him at the cost of the time we spent together. We ended up talking about it, and it turned out to be something we really didn't want to introduce to our lives. If you truly love her and want to keep your marriage, I would really consider talking to her about getting out of the lifestyle for a bit and going back to just the two of you. She's either going to react by continuing her current activities despite your desire to stop, which means you're already to a point where your relationship is broken at the foundation, or she could surprise you by agreeing. You never know, she could realize how much she loves you and realize her commitment to your marriage is far more important than the feelings she has for someone who's only in her life because you loved her enough to want her to experience as much pleasure as she wanted.