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Please only answer if the wife has actually fucked another man while married to you. If you are answering about an exwife, answer for both you and her.
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Re: Educational level
I am confused here... there are 'him' answers.... 'her' answers.... but you can only select one option. Also - who does the him refer to?
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Re: Educational level
Sorry, I messed this one up.
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Redo it then! The questions are interesting!
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I've been in "hotwife" relationships with several women, including a long-term girlfriend. Except for my first wife, who I met in college, the rest had at least a college education. I have a law degree, an option that was not included.
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Re: Educational level
Please redo.. maybe title it “education level - redone”
This could be a very interesting thread !!
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This could be a very interesting thread !!
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Why do you want to know?
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unfortunately i don`t understand the selection options compared to the question neither, but it would be interesting.
my wife is educated at an university level, is even teaching right now at the university too. but the interesting part is what level have her lovers.
my wife is educated at an university level, is even teaching right now at the university too. but the interesting part is what level have her lovers.
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I liked the poll found it interesting. But looking at it out on the "Far Side" (LOL) the grammar throughout this forum does not match the poll's average high education level.
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Thanks for running the poll though it does seem to have issues.
That being said, it confirmed something for me. My gut said something about cuckolding being an “educated fetish”. 20% of respondents have a masters or phd, that’s higher than 15% from wiki.
That being said, it confirmed something for me. My gut said something about cuckolding being an “educated fetish”. 20% of respondents have a masters or phd, that’s higher than 15% from wiki.
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I think the poll fits my thoughts I had when we used to do swing clubs prior to COVID and our journey into the hotwife life. I noticed many swinging couples were well educated and in careers with high stress or positions of power. This was a great outlet away from the grind. My hotwife is a principal and loves to let the men take control to reverse her normal role. I've seen many degreed professionals in law, medical, and education fields in this lifestyle. It makes sense, and it keeps everyone safer, discreet, and socially more exclusive.
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You hit the NAIL ON THE HEAD. Especially back when I was in private practice.....brilliant observation.Iamgroot wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 7:14 amI think the poll fits my thoughts I had when we used to do swing clubs prior to COVID and our journey into the hotwife life. I noticed many swinging couples were well educated and in careers with high stress or positions of power. This was a great outlet away from the grind. My hotwife is a principal and loves to let the men take control to reverse her normal role. I've seen many degreed professionals in law, medical, and education fields in this lifestyle. It makes sense, and it keeps everyone safer, discreet, and socially more exclusive.
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I suspect there are multiple reasons why the educated find the hotwife lifrstyle so alluring. Some thoughts on the reasoning:
1. Mental stimulation. The more intelligent someone is, typically the more stimulation they need. At the ultra intelligence level, vanilla in anything is never interesting enough. Exploring is always needed in many areas of life. That is less the caae for those with more fixed views of the world.
2. Physical limitations. Often the very smart are not the same as the very strong. The theoretical alpha is basically a jock. If a man is adored for his physique he rarely has the incentive to strive professionally and intellectually in order to get the ideal mate. Smarter guys often have to work harder to prove themselves than tall athletic specimens. This can lead to the beta complex among what are actually clearly alphas.
3. Smart people have doubt. Certainty tends to erode amongst the intelligent. Confidence is much more common amongst those not smart enough to realise quite how limited they are. We all know that women love confidence and some of us may find it appealing ourselves.
4. Educational attainment and professional achievement does have some aasociation with obsessiveness. In this field it can mean that once an idea grips firmly, it can take root obsessively to the exclusion of other almost as good ideas.
5. Husbands vs lovers. There may be something to the idea that a woman wants a smart, educated man to provide for her family. A long term relationship like a marriage benefits the woman if the husband is intelligent and so earns well. Smart guys should also have interesting things to talk about and are more likely to be funny. But the hotwife concept taps into a woman's short term desires which can allow her the primal pleasure of a lover while still having the intelligent provider for her family.
Just some thoughts for causation over correlation. Not all would apply in all cases of course. For me, the entries 1&4 are likely the main ones drawing me to want to be a cuckold to my loving wife.
1. Mental stimulation. The more intelligent someone is, typically the more stimulation they need. At the ultra intelligence level, vanilla in anything is never interesting enough. Exploring is always needed in many areas of life. That is less the caae for those with more fixed views of the world.
2. Physical limitations. Often the very smart are not the same as the very strong. The theoretical alpha is basically a jock. If a man is adored for his physique he rarely has the incentive to strive professionally and intellectually in order to get the ideal mate. Smarter guys often have to work harder to prove themselves than tall athletic specimens. This can lead to the beta complex among what are actually clearly alphas.
3. Smart people have doubt. Certainty tends to erode amongst the intelligent. Confidence is much more common amongst those not smart enough to realise quite how limited they are. We all know that women love confidence and some of us may find it appealing ourselves.
4. Educational attainment and professional achievement does have some aasociation with obsessiveness. In this field it can mean that once an idea grips firmly, it can take root obsessively to the exclusion of other almost as good ideas.
5. Husbands vs lovers. There may be something to the idea that a woman wants a smart, educated man to provide for her family. A long term relationship like a marriage benefits the woman if the husband is intelligent and so earns well. Smart guys should also have interesting things to talk about and are more likely to be funny. But the hotwife concept taps into a woman's short term desires which can allow her the primal pleasure of a lover while still having the intelligent provider for her family.
Just some thoughts for causation over correlation. Not all would apply in all cases of course. For me, the entries 1&4 are likely the main ones drawing me to want to be a cuckold to my loving wife.
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have you ever tried to write with the correct grammer in an other language than your mother tongue?
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your purely subjective guess indicates that the same percentage is in the forum as in the world out there. purely from an academic scientific point of view, however, this is not correct.harmankard wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 6:33 amThanks for running the poll though it does seem to have issues.
That being said, it confirmed something for me. My gut said something about cuckolding being an “educated fetish”. 20% of respondents have a masters or phd, that’s higher than 15% from wiki.
the long stony way: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57837
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who said that, that educated people find the hotwife lifestyle more alluring than non educated? your statement suggests this opinion.
maybe i`m wrong with this interpretation. in this case i`m sorry.
it could also be, that only more educated are willing to talk about it or to participate in this forum. but it says nothing about the actual prevalence in the population as a whole.
the long stony way: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57837
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It's a supposition backed up by anecdotal evidence and the evidence of the eyes. It is pretty much the thesis of this thread. There is far less evidence presented to the contrary. If you have a counterpoint then you should make it as arguing the null is too simplistic.gruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:16 pmwho said that, that educated people find the hotwife lifestyle more alluring than non educated? your statement suggests this opinion.
maybe i`m wrong with this interpretation. in this case i`m sorry.
it could also be, that only more educated are willing to talk about it or to participate in this forum. but it says nothing about the actual prevalence in the population as a whole.
I have presented my case which I believe to be correct but I am of course glad to have new ideas to advance my understanding. Your being a sceptic is fine but without a theory to contradict the prevailing one, hiding behind sample size is just an empty argument.
I could certainly hear argument about cultural norms as I am familiar with places where the exercize of cuckoldry is an expression of power. Those who I have seen do that have had status and success way beyond a level most of us could ever dream of but rarely a sophisticated level of educational attainment to accompany their prowess so do not invalidate the experience I and this thread in general posit.
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i have met intelligent people in my life who do not have a college degree.Bapak wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:50 pmIt's a supposition backed up by anecdotal evidence and the evidence of the eyes. It is pretty much the thesis of this thread. There is far less evidence presented to the contrary. If you have a counterpoint then you should make it as arguing the null is too simplistic.gruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:16 pmwho said that, that educated people find the hotwife lifestyle more alluring than non educated? your statement suggests this opinion.
maybe i`m wrong with this interpretation. in this case i`m sorry.
it could also be, that only more educated are willing to talk about it or to participate in this forum. but it says nothing about the actual prevalence in the population as a whole.
I have presented my case which I believe to be correct but I am of course glad to have new ideas to advance my understanding. Your being a sceptic is fine but without a theory to contradict the prevailing one, hiding behind sample size is just an empty argument.
I could certainly hear argument about cultural norms as I am familiar with places where the exercize of cuckoldry is an expression of power. Those who I have seen do that have had status and success way beyond a level most of us could ever dream of but rarely a sophisticated level of educational attainment to accompany their prowess so do not invalidate the experience I and this thread in general posit.
on the other hand, i have met many at university who were not particularly bright, but for whatever reason managed to get a degree.
university education, in my opinion, has nothing to do with intelligence.
but now I'm drifting away from the original topic.
yes, my wife has an university degree and yes, her lovers in the past had one in the most cases too. but that wasn`t important for my wife. the important part why she fell for them was because they were powerful and successful.
i`m not speaking of her ONS. i know less about them.
the long stony way: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57837
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Educational attainment does have something to do with intelligence but it is only partially correlated. It is an indicator. There are genius level people who have only limited education. There are plenty of dumb people who have outstanding qualifications. But in general people who are educated are smarter than people who are not.gruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 10:03 pmi have met intelligent people in my life who do not have a college degree.Bapak wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:50 pmIt's a supposition backed up by anecdotal evidence and the evidence of the eyes. It is pretty much the thesis of this thread. There is far less evidence presented to the contrary. If you have a counterpoint then you should make it as arguing the null is too simplistic.gruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:16 pmwho said that, that educated people find the hotwife lifestyle more alluring than non educated? your statement suggests this opinion.
maybe i`m wrong with this interpretation. in this case i`m sorry.
it could also be, that only more educated are willing to talk about it or to participate in this forum. but it says nothing about the actual prevalence in the population as a whole.
I have presented my case which I believe to be correct but I am of course glad to have new ideas to advance my understanding. Your being a sceptic is fine but without a theory to contradict the prevailing one, hiding behind sample size is just an empty argument.
I could certainly hear argument about cultural norms as I am familiar with places where the exercize of cuckoldry is an expression of power. Those who I have seen do that have had status and success way beyond a level most of us could ever dream of but rarely a sophisticated level of educational attainment to accompany their prowess so do not invalidate the experience I and this thread in general posit.
on the other hand, i have met many at university who were not particularly bright, but for whatever reason managed to get a degree.
university education, in my opinion, has nothing to do with intelligence.
but now I'm drifting away from the original topic.
yes, my wife has an university degree and yes, her lovers in the past had one in the most cases too. but that wasn`t important for my wife. the important part why she fell for them was because they were powerful and successful.
i`m not speaking of her ONS. i know less about them.
Your point about power and success agrees with my point. Power and success are only partially correlated with education and most of that correlation comes from basic levels of education ex. literacy. Success is driven by several other factors of which emotional intelligence, strategic coherence, and persistence under pressure are ones I've noticed.
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This past conversation shows both you Bapak and You Gruenberg is interesting, but have point of views that appear to be from an educational background. I do not have a formal educational background other than high school then into the military service. Afterwards I was into construction and found myself transitioning into finance in order to help idiots with masters and PHDs. So for the last 30 plus years without a higher education, I have helped others become financially successful in many ways.Bapak wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 10:19 pmEducational attainment does have something to do with intelligence but it is only partially correlated. It is an indicator. There are genius level people who have only limited education. There are plenty of dumb people who have outstanding qualifications. But in general people who are educated are smarter than people who are not.gruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 10:03 pmi have met intelligent people in my life who do not have a college degree.Bapak wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:50 pmIt'sgruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:16 pm
who said that, that educated people find the hotwife lifestyle more alluring than non educated? your statement suggests this opinion.
maybe i`m wrong with this interpretation. in this case i`m sorry.
it could also be, that only more educated are willing to talk about it or to participate in this forum. but it says nothing about the actual prevalence in the population as a whole.
on the other hand, i have met many at university who were not particularly bright, but for whatever reason managed to get a degree.
university education, in my opinion, has nothing to do with intelligence.
but now I'm drifting away from the original topic.
yes, my wife has an university degree and yes, her lovers in the past had one in the most cases too. but that wasn`t important for my wife. the important part why she fell for them was because they were powerful and successful.
i`m not speaking of her ONS. i know less about them.
Your point about power and success agrees with my point. Power and success are only partially correlated with education and most of that correlation comes from basic levels of education ex. literacy. Success is driven by several other factors of which emotional intelligence, strategic coherence, and persistence under pressure are ones I've noticed.
I have seen people with a second grade education level become millionaires and those well educated people come in to my office as financial disasters. Success comes from the heart as I would presume most men wanting to or who are a current cucks (like myself) could have originated more from desire or in acceptance of their inabilities. I think if you search other websites such as SLS or SDC you may find more of those that are uneducated and do not have a desire to write about it as many do on this thread. Since Hotwifing and Cuckold is the second largest form of downloaded porn today, this leaves us with the thought that this is only a tiny sample of cuckolds and polls samples on this thread may only be a reflection of us who are here and not all who are out there.
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In the leading militaries, including the US military, I would suggest that the level of education offered is vastly superior to that enjoyed by a civilian equivalent at each level. Simple things like understanding military law would get you a qualification in the academic world. And that's before the clear difference in common sense.mrdnrm wrote: ↑Mon Apr 10, 2023 2:58 amThis past conversation shows both you Bapak and You Gruenberg is interesting, but have point of views that appear to be from an educational background. I do not have a formal educational background other than high school then into the military service. Afterwards I was into construction and found myself transitioning into finance in order to help idiots with masters and PHDs. So for the last 30 plus years without a higher education, I have helped others become financially successful in many ways.Bapak wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 10:19 pmEducational attainment does have something to do with intelligence but it is only partially correlated. It is an indicator. There are genius level people who have only limited education. There are plenty of dumb people who have outstanding qualifications. But in general people who are educated are smarter than people who are not.gruenberg wrote: ↑Sun Apr 09, 2023 10:03 pmi have met intelligent people in my life who do not have a college degree.
on the other hand, i have met many at university who were not particularly bright, but for whatever reason managed to get a degree.
university education, in my opinion, has nothing to do with intelligence.
but now I'm drifting away from the original topic.
yes, my wife has an university degree and yes, her lovers in the past had one in the most cases too. but that wasn`t important for my wife. the important part why she fell for them was because they were powerful and successful.
i`m not speaking of her ONS. i know less about them.
Your point about power and success agrees with my point. Power and success are only partially correlated with education and most of that correlation comes from basic levels of education ex. literacy. Success is driven by several other factors of which emotional intelligence, strategic coherence, and persistence under pressure are ones I've noticed.
I have seen people with a second grade education level become millionaires and those well educated people come in to my office as financial disasters. Success comes from the heart as I would presume most men wanting to or who are a current cucks (like myself) could have originated more from desire or in acceptance of their inabilities. I think if you search other websites such as SLS or SDC you may find more of those that are uneducated and do not have a desire to write about it as many do on this thread. Since Hotwifing and Cuckold is the second largest form of downloaded porn today, this leaves us with the thought that this is only a tiny sample of cuckolds and polls samples on this thread may only be a reflection of us who are here and not all who are out there.
All professions offer some form of informal education. The military probably just does it better than most. For a soldier the training is so much better than a laborer. For an officer, the education is basically a Masters degree.
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Wow. I walk away for 5 minutes… I noted that I looked quickly at Wikipedia US education level attainment and… the small sample that I saw here was higher for post graduate work than on wiki. Also, yes… education is decent and lazy gauge of intelligence.
I argue enough like this at work, I don’t plan on doing it here. I wasn’t writing a thesis on this and made that observation.
I argue enough like this at work, I don’t plan on doing it here. I wasn’t writing a thesis on this and made that observation.
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Re: Educational level
After re-reading the answers that were posted here, I think the only thing I can say is .....IDK. I think highly educated men like myself are drawn to this lifestyle, in part, b/c we like to surrender control. But at the same time, I remember having feeling well before I became "highly educated" that, upon reflection, were indications of a "draw" to cuckoldry....I just didn't know it at the time. And I'm not even in this lifestyle as of yet. Correlation is certainly not causation, I can agree with that. And I can also agree with proposition that some fairly brilliant people (and I"ve known some lawyers in this category) have absolutely no common sense. Once again....IDK.