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 Post subject: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2018 6:09 pm 
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Hi! My first post here since finding this site! Anyways my girlfriend and I have enjoyed some pretty hot fetish stuff like bondage, and now after talking about this for a while...she has found a lover. I honestly think it is pretty hot :) and she is loving it too! So the thing is she doesn't want to have sex with me if she has another lover...she will like stroke me off or let me go down on her (which I totally love doing :)) but no penetration.
Do most, or other women prefer to limit sex with just their lovers? Do they lose interest in doing other stuff with their boyfriend (or husband)? We still go out together and she tells me she's not interested in leaving me, but she is honest an says she loves the sex :)


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2018 6:20 pm 
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Everyone is different but that is perfectly normal. My wife denies me all the time because I just don't do anyting for her sexually and that's ok!


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2018 6:32 pm 
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Is being denied sex hot for you?

"Normal" is not a useful concept here.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2018 6:42 pm 
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I found his situation "normal". I think I'm allowed to state that and I think it's a fair and useful thing to share. I apologize if you did not find it useful. Have a great day!


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2018 6:50 pm 
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larryt wrote:
Is being denied sex hot for you?

"Normal" is not a useful concept here.


The idea of being denied is taking getting used to! But I am finding it pretty hot! specially when we mess around for a while, we both get pretty turned on...and her hand on me when I'm so hard! I love it then when she strokes me off, but a couple of times when I've tried to fuck her she pushed me away, telling me not now!
Yep, thanks! you're right...normal really isn't in play here!


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 9:02 am 
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Location: metro boston
A denied submissive is a focused submissive.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 10:00 am 
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I get denied sex by my wife and find it hot.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 10:21 am 
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Every couple is different, and often the nature of the relationship evolves over time. From the discussions I have had with other couples, it seems that most wives still have sex with their husbands, but a minority do not. My husband and I have started experimenting with denial for the past few months. We still make love. He fucks me with dildos and he eats me, and I give him blowjobs and hand jobs, but I do not let him penetrate me. Even so, we have given into temptation a couple of times. He has come in my pussy once and in my ass once since we started denial.

In any case, I think that anything that makes both of you happy is completely fine.

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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 10:45 am 
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rockynook wrote:
A denied submissive is a focused submissive.


Very true !! It leaves a sexual hunger inside him that is begging to be satisfied .. and a willingness to do whatever is necessary to satisfy it.. even tho it forces him deeper into submissiveness and the will to serve. It is a conditioning process that is very exciting for a hot wife and her BF to enforce and can be taken from mild to very extreme situations.

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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 10:53 am 
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It seems to me that many wives don't want their cuckolds to penetrate them while they are in a relationship with another man. It's like they feel like they are cheating on their boyfriends or they only want one man penetrating them while in a relationship. I know that when my wife took another man then all I got was hand jobs and nothing more. She would give other men blow jobs and anything else they wanted but me, just hand jobs. I could look at her body all I wanted but I could not touch. She belonged to another man. Just hand jobs for me.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 11:30 am 
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bradisalpha wrote:
rockynook wrote:
A denied submissive is a focused submissive.


Very true !! It leaves a sexual hunger inside him that is begging to be satisfied .. and a willingness to do whatever is necessary to satisfy it.. even tho it forces him deeper into submissiveness and the will to serve. It is a conditioning process that is very exciting for a hot wife and her BF to enforce and can be taken from mild to very extreme situations.

Brad


And i find as a focused submissive is one who understands there can be no extreme to how low he will go to please her BF which in turn excites his wife!


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 12:26 pm 
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petey boy wrote:
bradisalpha wrote:
rockynook wrote:
A denied submissive is a focused submissive.


Very true !! It leaves a sexual hunger inside him that is begging to be satisfied .. and a willingness to do whatever is necessary to satisfy it.. even tho it forces him deeper into submissiveness and the will to serve. It is a conditioning process that is very exciting for a hot wife and her BF to enforce and can be taken from mild to very extreme situations.

Brad


And i find as a focused submissive is one who understands there can be no extreme to how low he will go to please her BF which in turn excites his wife!


You are now understanding how to get your wife’s attention and respect for submitting to both of them and servicing her BF as called on also. Denial leads to some very interesting scenarios !!

As a BF, I enjoy a hot wife and cuckold husband that are both as excited to see me.. submit.. and serve.

Brad

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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2018 1:52 pm 
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sounds extreme but it happens, Maybe when her bull moves on she will desire you again. not a sure thing but could happen. And yes it did happen to me.


Last edited by tony51 on Wed Apr 25, 2018 9:20 am, edited 1 time in total.

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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2018 3:12 pm 
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I love being denied.

When my wife and I were first together, I'd usually give her head and then fuck her. At some point, we just started skipping the fucking part (because it wasn't doing much for either of us), and I just gave her head until she was done and jacked myself off afterwards. It was a big improvement, and I definitely haven't missed penetration (although there are other things I do miss...).


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2018 9:22 am 
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When this happened to me, I at first did not know the cause. She and the bull were secret about it. I did not find out until later and then I understood. Can be confusing but once it is known it makes sense.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2018 10:39 am 
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Be glad that She helps you get off, even if it is not inside Her. Next step will be prohibiting your cumming at all. That will make you more focused on Her needs and desires.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2018 10:46 am 
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Being denied sex frustrates me. I'd protest, get angry then to calm me, my wife would masturbate me. After I climaxed in her hand, I'd get remorseful because I was denied my male dominance which added to her dominance. I'd get feelings of shame. That I'm inadequate which led to my submissiveness and obedience to her. When my wife has a lover, keeping me denied is her way of keeping me under her control.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2018 12:36 pm 
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We have evolved over the 10 years from me having reclaim sex with her every time they fucked to now, not having any sex at all. I am relegated to just looking at her hot body and jerking off with her telling me about how satisfied her boyfriend makes her. She has ZERO interest in having sex with me. I agree with others that is almost like she is cheating on him if she allows me to penetrate. She likes being able to tell him that she is monogamous with him, and that is a turn on to him as well. It seems like it has been a very natural progression for both of us. The alpha male gets what the alpha male wants and deserves....its nature at its best!


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2018 11:15 pm 
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Thanks for the replies! So kinda as I expected there are all kind of variations when this sex play happens. So last Monday she was with her lover, and when she came to my place I really wanted sex, we fooled around, kissing, hands on each other, but she pushed me away from any fucking. She did feel me and stroke me a little, but not until I came...she said she wanted to wait until later! I did go down on her and as I said I love doing that, and she got off on it :)


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Thu Apr 26, 2018 12:13 pm 
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Great topic and replies. A few you mentioned you are fully denied penetration, I would love to hear how long it has been since you last had your cock in a pussy? As I have posted on other blogs here we are slowly increasing my denial. I am currently not allowed anal, give or receive oral, or hand jobs. I get one pegging a month and have use my rubber pussy. I get 5 minutes to cum from peggings. I currently get 8 minutes of pussy time a month because we do not currently have a regular for her. I have to wear am extynze numbing condom. I am not allowed to ever cum in her again. I can also lose minutes for losing my temper, not paying enough attention to her etc. I am allowed to masterbate all i want to pictures and videos of her only. When/ if she finds a bf, I will be denied all sexual contact with her except for an occasional pegging.

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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Thu Apr 26, 2018 4:59 pm 
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coloradohotwife wrote:
Great topic and replies. A few you mentioned you are fully denied penetration, I would love to hear how long it has been since you last had your cock in a pussy? As I have posted on other blogs here we are slowly increasing my denial. I am currently not allowed anal, give or receive oral, or hand jobs. I get one pegging a month and have use my rubber pussy. I get 5 minutes to cum from peggings. I currently get 8 minutes of pussy time a month because we do not currently have a regular for her. I have to wear am extynze numbing condom. I am not allowed to ever cum in her again. I can also lose minutes for losing my temper, not paying enough attention to her etc. I am allowed to masterbate all i want to pictures and videos of her only. When/ if she finds a bf, I will be denied all sexual contact with her except for an occasional pegging.

Very hot! Do you get aroused during the pegging? We haven’t done it yet, but I’d like to try.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Thu Apr 26, 2018 5:01 pm 
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I love it! Very. Once of my favorite things.

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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Fri Apr 27, 2018 9:15 am 
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I have not had sex with my wife or anyone in 3 years....I'm in a cb 6000 , 24/7......the only time I'm alowed any sex , is when my wife comes home from a date ( or a weekend ) if her lover satisfied her, she will unlock me , and let me jerk myself off as she tells me in detail about her date. If he didn't satisfy her , she will still tell me in deatil about it, but won't unlock me. Her rule is if she isn't satisfied, then I won't be......since I live me sex life vicaroulsy through her, we have to share the same pleasures as well as the disapointments.


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Fri Apr 27, 2018 11:22 pm 
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It has been 3 months for me since my girlfriend has let me have penetrative sex with her...but thankfully she likes stroking me off or occasionally will let me mount her leg an rub myself off...


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 Post subject: Re: denied sex
Unread postPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2018 4:07 am 
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Denial has become a part of our sex life but its because I just really don't cut it for my wife anymore. She's turned into a real size queen and my average size cock is just nothing for her anymore. It's not that I'm not allowed to have sex with her anymore, she just doesn't want to. The last year or so when we had sex I just flopped around inside her big pussy and she was so bored. I'm allowed to fist her and make her cum but now I get nothing in return. Before she gave me pitty sex but now it's not worth her time. Only her big boyfriends are allowed to fuck her and I'm forced to jerk off on my own. One time she let me hump her ass but I wasn't allowed to cum on her. She told me that would be the last time and she wasn't lieing. Other guys are allowed to fuck her pussy and ass and cum all over her.


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