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Unread postPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2018 12:22 am 
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She is not staying in motel, but I am sure she will have story to tell tonight.


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Unread postPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2018 10:17 pm 
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I chickened out. She came home after fucking him in the car, but was going to go away with him for the weekend but it was up to me. I was feeling mixed and she said no problem. Was going to be with him and his friends. I think I fucked up. My dick says so.


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Unread postPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2018 10:39 pm 
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No offense, but I'll never understand why so many people on the various cuckold forums wrangle back and forth trying to get a consensus on the question of what constitutes cuckoldry. Should there be this amount of humiliation or more? Should humiliation even be involved? If a sissy wears lipstick when he/she sucks my cock does that make it less gay?

There's never a right answer. The only right answer is your answer.

As far as online materials go, it depends what you're looking for. I rather enjoy the long, introspective "real life" threads, and I've learned many things through the years from wise forum posters.

But when I'm bopping Billy, I want unrealistic stories of abject humiliation. I want bitchy, busty, blonde wives, and wimp slave hubbies who turn over every penny of their paychecks to their mistresses and spend their nights tied up in the basement listening to the moans of pleasure upstairs.

Commercial porn? It is what it is. I just turn the sound down and fap to the visual, which is often sexy as hell. There are a few good commercial clips, too...some of the Chinese cuck videos are hot as hell, even if I can't understand what they're saying. It's the tone/attitude that counts.


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Unread postPosted: Tue Jun 05, 2018 11:07 am 
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SirGinTheD wrote:
No offense, but I'll never understand why so many people on the various cuckold forums wrangle back and forth trying to get a consensus on the question of what constitutes cuckoldry.


It is just a way of grappling with the contradictory feelings and gaining an identity in which the cuck can feel he is not alone.

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Unread postPosted: Tue Jun 05, 2018 11:00 pm 
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Johor wrote:
SirGinTheD wrote:
No offense, but I'll never understand why so many people on the various cuckold forums wrangle back and forth trying to get a consensus on the question of what constitutes cuckoldry.


It is just a way of grappling with the contradictory feelings and gaining an identity in which the cuck can feel he is not alone.



This is a good point. I hope I didn't come off like a dick, because I really hate snarky online dicks and don't want to be one. It does seem like a lot of time is spent trying to nail down these definitions (should wives/bulls/cucks do/not do this or that?), but your point is well taken.

I absolutely understand people's desire to find kindred spirits. Pretty much everyone at some point feels like a freak, and worries people are laughing at them. This goes tenfold for folks living alternative lifestyles, or who have kinky fantasies. "What's wrong with me? This isn't normal." So, feeling not normal in the outside world, they then want to know: "is what I'm doing accepted in the cuckold world?"

I remember in my early 20s when I went to my first BDSM party back in the early 1990s. It was invigorating to realize there are lots of others out there like me, and that I'm not the only freak in the world! :)


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Unread postPosted: Wed Jun 06, 2018 9:58 pm 
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There was a time when the simple fact that the wife was fucking another man would be make a man feel humiliated. All the more so being in the presence of a man making your wife cum hard. A man would have been shamed. .... now there is no humiliation felt from the rejection of the husband for the other man who at some way meets a need he can't, even if just for variety.

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Unread postPosted: Thu Jun 07, 2018 1:16 am 
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Just having other people know that she was fucking other guys was Humiliating enough, but having the guys who fucked her flirt with her in front of me was very humiliating and very stimulating.

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Unread postPosted: Fri Jun 08, 2018 1:05 pm 
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This is an interesting post. I can relate to many of the comments in many ways. I will relate my story and would love any feedback or comments.

First off, in case people want to skip over this, I will declare that my wife is not a hotwife, its just a fantasy of mine which we have shared to a certain degree. I have had some (sorta) experience with this in other relationships but I will restrict this post to my marriage.

We have been married about 15 years and have two children. I would rate our marriage and family life as excellent. Im a very lucky and happy guy. The one area that is lacking, for both of us, is the bedroom. We only dated and were sexually active for about year prior to marriage and other than this period (and maybe our first six months after marriage) our sex life has been pretty mediocre.

My wife is very sweet and loving (and a fantastic mom and wife) but also very direct at times. This directness has helped me draw out some of thoughts, and frustrations about our sex life. I grew overtime to understand that she had had previously always had a very active and fulfilling sex life (although this was with just a few partners and always in a committed monogamous relationship. She is definitely not very promiscuous). While we shared good intimacy and enjoyed our physical life it was clear to me that she felt something was lacking. I was also never able to make her orgasm, which of course was a large part of prior experiences. She has admitted that sex without a vaginal orgasm leaves her very frustrated I should note that I have never been able to give her an orgasm from intercourse in 16 years together. She had been able to reach orgasms in prior relationships, in particular her 5-yr on-again, off-again relationship just prior to ours. Im also smaller than average, and these two points now form a major part of my fantasies. Knowing the details of her prior relationships is not something that she naturally disclosed but I would draw it out over time with persistence, trust and an understanding by her that not only did I not mind this but that it excited me (a couple of times alcohol helped!). I also learned that this past boyfriend was extraordinarily well endowed and as she at first described it, “this isn’t a bad thing”. I grew to learn, as she did I suppose, that his size was more than just a ‘good thing’ and she also admits now that this was a big part of why their sex was so mind-blowing. She admits that the relationship really went on for so long because of the physical connection they had and even when it should have ended, as she was very busy professionally and as she didn’t want to be with anyone she just kept going back because of the sex. She once (after a few glasses of wine) admitted that our relationship is perfect in everyway ‘except in bed’ while their relationship was deficient in every way except the sex; he was her ‘sexual soulmate and Im her soulmate in every other way. She has (at my extensive prodding) described their sex as being very long (45 – 60 minutes) and he would give orgasm after orgasm.

Over the years she will provide a nugget of information here and there (i.e. they used to share a beach house with other couples and were relegated to a small separate building because they had sex so much and she was so loud! Comparatively, we now rarely have sex and she is as quite as a church mouse), she would never do in a demeaning way to me. Rather she will (again at my prodding) restrict her comments to how great it was with him (and let me draw my own conclusions; he was hugely endowed and she would climax many times per extended session, Im just under 5”, and have never made her climax). It excites to me no end. I have tried to pull her along, get more information out of her and maybe even advance this beyond a fantasy. I think the possibility of this exists but its not the most likely outcome.

The only time we do anything that would come close to actual humiliation is the following (and to be clear she doesn’t consider this as humiliation at all or she would never do it). I mentioned that she just isn’t into sex anymore (or at least not with me?). This is in part because its just not very good for her, in part she is too busy with the kids and the job and part passage of time. She does masturbate occasionally (she says once every couple of weeks) but I know her orgasms aren’t very good. Nothing like what her past partner could do for her. So we’ve gone through long stretches with very limited sex and that’s pretty much the case today. Our sex now is always scheduled (Sunday nights) and even then when we have actual intercourse its only about one in four weeks. The other times I mostly just masturbate and she will tell me a ‘story’. They story is never of her, but rather of some other ‘woman’, typically married who goes and finds a well endowed lover while on a business trip to give her the orgasms her husband cant. I always love it! However, the times we do have sex is what I wanted to mention. She has been clear that the faster I am the better. If I take too long (and this was never a problem for me unless lots of alcohol) she will usually stop it. It begain as a bit of joke and she will still say she’s not serious about it (but clearly she is) but we now have a ‘time limit’ on how long I can last. I play along with this so she has gotten much more comfortable able enforcing it but I know she would anyway to some extent. We now have a two-minute time limit on intercourse, its an unwritten rule that I don’t masturbate on either Friday or Saturday and if I have any alcohol then then chances of actual sex go to zero. We have a clock in our room that has a second hand and I always see her glance at it when we start. I know two minutes sounds pretty pathetic but it excites me to think about and she has ways to make me finish even faster. Id estimate my average time lately is one minute. We even talk about it now if I bring it up she will definitely say the ‘time cap’ is still in effect.

I have lots more to say but Ill wait to see if I get any comments or if Im way off base here. Id love to hear back from people.
Gavin


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Unread postPosted: Tue Jun 19, 2018 12:11 am 
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My wife is two nice and loving to humiliate me but she is also honest about how her bulls big cock feels so good and gives her multiple orgasum's.She say's she loves me and my cock and I believe her but she also says he's the best fuck she's ever had and if she's going to fuck other guy's they have to have a big cock and can go all multiple rounds and fuck her really hard. I love it when tells me this not to hurt me but saying what she craves.I love my wife for telling me what she wants.


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Unread postPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2018 7:09 pm 
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I wouldn't want my wife to do the whole exaggerated humiliation thing. It becomes more of a role and a game than the much more organic and real casual and backhanded humiliation - wiseass remarks, casual mentions of this guy or that guy's cock and how good they were, things like 'he's a real man' but not in accusatory way just in an "it's so obvious I don't need to mention compared to you" and she feels free to speak as she pleases.


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Unread postPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2018 7:33 pm 
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SheezNCharge wrote:
I wouldn't want my wife to do the whole exaggerated humiliation thing. It becomes more of a role and a game than the much more organic and real casual and backhanded humiliation - wiseass remarks, casual mentions of this guy or that guy's cock and how good they were, things like 'he's a real man' but not in accusatory way just in an "it's so obvious I don't need to mention compared to you" and she feels free to speak as she pleases.

Yes! What he said...


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