I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by mundyman » Wed Aug 08, 2018 8:51 pm

Wow, what a huge bomb to get from your wife. You two seem to have a lot to figure out how this is going to work and how you’re going to figure out a way to deal with your confidence issues.
Good luck and best wishes to you two.
Good luck on starting a family.
Thanks for sharing and please keep us posted.
Any extended work trips coming up??

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by BigHotMess » Wed Aug 08, 2018 11:00 pm

What Zona is saying is that your wife is being hypocritical (I say this respectfully). On one hand she is saying that you have nothing to worry about and on the other hand she’s saying that she needs you to be clear headed so that you can ‘pull her back’ if you have to (and you’ve had to).

‘Pulling back’ is very very dangerous and represents unecessary risk. There are many risks and just like anything else you need to protect against risks.

Proper boundary setting is one way to mitigate risk. It does seem like you’ve setup some new boundaries with Wade. Both you and your wife, though, need to address these decisions specifically as boundaries - use those exact terms. She’s expecting you to be able to pull her back but the more ‘team’ decision is to make sure that you don’t have to.

It’s probably not a bad idea to pivot away from certain guys at certain times. If what she is saying is correct about how she feels about wade, then he’s fungible anyways. She’s an attractive woman under 30, it should be easy enough to find others. For me, personally, ‘he likes to think that he owns a part of me’ would present a very significant red flag. Very significant.

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Re: I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

Unread post by realcucklife » Thu Aug 09, 2018 4:20 am

Great to see you back!
She might be smart enough for the two of you.
She understands who you are, and she likes you being in that roll.
Go with it.

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Unread post by vmb69 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 7:13 am

I'm sure many couples here could give you dozens of successful and total failures. I think it's better to just read stay within oneself personal opinion and just just go with current happiness of someone. Opinions are like ______, everyone has one

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Thu Aug 09, 2018 8:23 am

To clarify, the experience I wrote about a couple of days ago happened almost two weeks ago, and since then, my wife’s been slowly turning up the heat. It started a few days after we got back when I was at work and I saw a pop-up notification in the lower right corner of my computer monitor alerting me Jaimee had uploaded new files to our shared Dropbox folder. Now this folder hasn’t been updated in a while, so as soon as I was alone in my office, I opened up the folder and found about a dozen new pictures.

I opened the first one and what I saw instantly gave me a hardon. I could see my wife’s lips wrapped around a good size cock. The picture cut off most of her face, only showing her stretched lips. I realized pretty quickly that this wasn’t Wade’s cock. She had taken this cock all the way to the root, and she can’t even come close to doing that with Wade. The rest of the pictures were similar. I could tell that the guy was wearing slacks, and I got a couple of glimpses of a desk, but nothing more that I could use to identify whose cock it was. She had taken these pictures about mid-morning so it had happened while she was at work. The last picture was a total porn style cum shot, taken from above with her mouth open and a mouthful of spunk while she was looking directly at the camera. In seconds I had my phone out and was calling her. It went to voicemail but I got a text from her almost instantly.

Text: Can’t talk now, my slutty little cunt’s demanding some attention.

I sent her back a text which went unanswered. In fact, the rest of the day passed without a word from her. I had to work late, as I’ve been doing a lot lately, and when I got home, I found her in the kitchen baking bread. She was conservatively dressed and wearing an apron. It was like a scene from some 1950s TV show.

I stood in the kitchen, lust flaring through my veins, and she looks at me, smiles, and says, “Dinner is in the refrigerator.” She was acting like it was just any other day, like nothing had happened. She was acting all innocent and like she was blissfully unaware of her raging husband standing inside the kitchen doorway.

Acting on total instinct, I walked over to her, turned her around so that she was facing the island’s counter top, pulled her skirt and panties down enough to be out of the way, and entered her from behind. She let out a loud squeal but that changed quickly into a low and throaty moan as I fucked her over the island. I pushed her hips up onto the island so that her feet were dangling above the floor. God, I love my short little wife. Her pussy was loose and sopping wet, but I felt her muscles pinching down on me as I pumped in and out of her. I came as hard and almost had to sit down my head was spinning so badly. I was panting and really starting to sweat it had been so fucking intense.

Jaimee slid herself down from the island and her skirt fell back into place. She had flour all over her front. The apron caught a lot of it, but there was flour everywhere. She looked down at herself and then gave me a very coy smile and said, “I guess I should bake bread more often—I had no idea it would fancy it this much.”

“It wasn’t the fucking bread woman.” I growled out. “Who was that in those pictures you uploaded? Who did you fuck today?”

My wife’s attention turned from me to her skirt as she began to crane her head around to look at her backside the best that she could. She put her hand down the front of her skirt towards her cunt, “I have to go clean up, Ky. You actually came a lot,” she said without answering me.

“Fuck cleaning up, Jaimee,” I was trying to sound all alpha and aggressive, and I think I was doing a pretty good job of it, but my wife was having none of it. She gave me a look that told me everything—I wasn’t in charge. But I pressed on anyway, “I want to know who had his cock inside my wife.”

Jaimee came over to me, put her arms over my shoulders and kissed me on the cheek, “Of course you do, my handsome cucky.”

But she still didn’t answer me. She took of her apron, set it on the counter and walked out of the kitchen into the front room. I followed her up to the bedroom where she started to remove her flour coated blouse and skirt, all the while completely ignoring me.

“Seriously, Jaimee,” I said, not happy with how pleading my voice sounded, “Who was that?”

She was completely nude now, her short hair mussed and disheveled. She approached me and then when she was only a foot away, she gave me a push so that I sat on the edge of the bed. My gorgeous, raven haired wife them pushed me until my upper body was lying down on the bed, my feet still planted on the floor. She then crawled over me until her cunt was right over my mouth.

“You owe me an orgasm, cuck-boy,” she said as she looked down at me, the rings in her nipples hanging about a foot above me—yeah, she put them back in a while ago and they’ve never come back out—and I was so horny that I dove in without reservation. I didn’t even think about the fact that I had barely cum in her minutes ago. To be honest, I was so over the top filled with lust that I didn’t even think about it. I just went at it with all that I could. Like a lot of guys, I’ve tasted my cum, and I found it to be horrible. Despite being very appreciative of my wife’s efforts and willingness to swallow, I don’t know how she does it and looks like she likes it—how she makes it look sexy even. But I guess if your blood is really pumping the lust through your veins, your taste buds don’t work as well, or maybe it was just a one-off, I don’t know. Before long, my wife was really grinding herself on me. She had my head locked into a sex vice of sorts, squeezing her thighs tightly against my head as she came. And man did she cum. Long and hard. So beautiful.

She flopped onto the bed, near comatose. I undressed crawled on top of her and we kissed deeply. It was so erotic because my face was covered from her pussy juice and my jizz, but she didn’t even seem to notice. I pulled her legs over my shoulders and made love to her for as long as I could hold out—which was a while since I’d already cum once.

After, while we were both laying next to each other, I asked, “So who was the guy?”

Jaimee gave me a sultry laugh and pulled my head into an embrace so that my cheek was pressed against her breasts, “poor cuck-boy, so hot and bothered, always wanting what he can’t have.”

We stayed awake talking until way too late that night, but try as I might, I couldn’t get her to tell me who she had been with. I know she would have told me if I’d given up my safeword—I could tell she was enjoying the game, so I decided to let it play and see what developed from it. I think she’s been with Greg, but when I asked her if it was him, she was too smooth and didn’t give up any clues. I suspect it’s him, but I’m not certain. As a quick reminder, Greg is a man she met, and fucked once, earlier this year. She met him through work as he’s in the same basic industry. I know Greg wanted to pursue more with Jaimee, but, well, the game didn’t break that way back then.

After that incident, all was calm on the cuckold front for a couple of days. Then it was like Déjà vu, I got another popup alert and more pictures in Dropbox. This time I was already alone in the office and so I immediately went to take a look. This time, the picture was taken from the guy’s perspective. A condom wrapped cock – it looked like the last mystery cock – was deeply imbedded in my wife. Her legs splayed out, her pussy sloppy and wet with the cloth from her G-string pulled to the side. That night was a repeat of the first night with amazing sex and me trying, and failing, to get her to tell me the name of guy.

“So what John does that cock belong to?” I asked her as she was on top of me, riding my dick. I could feel her moving her hips, trying to find just the right angle, but I could see that she was having a hard time finding what she was looking for. I just wasn’t doing it for her. Which is a feeling that is both erotic and devastating at the same time.

“Who said his name was John,” she asked me, a bit of frustration in her voice. She laid her head on my chest and was thrusting down, pushing on my dick almost hard enough to be painful.

“I meant a John, as in what the cops call a male customer picking up hookers.”

Her head shot up and for the briefest of seconds I saw red flames in her eyes, but she realized quickly that I was trying to bait her and so she laughed it off, “funny cuck-boy,” she said sarcastically. She then lifted her hips until my dick slipped out of her pussy. Pinning my dick between us, she started to grind her clit over my hardon. It seemed to do the trick and moments later she was cumming.

…One thing my wife is very good at is making herself cum.

She laid down next to me. I looked at her flush face, a light perspiration on her forehead, “You look content,” I commented.

She returned my smile easily, “I should hope so after getting stuffed by two cocks and one dick in the same day.”

“No fucking way!” I nearly shouted. “Who is this guy Jaimee?”

She shrugged her shoulders at me. Her smile grew a little wider. Then she gave me this pouty look, and almost a teasingly condescension said, “Does my cuck-boy really want to know what new lover has had his big cock in my slutty pussy?”

“Yes dammit,” I blurted in near desperation. She was killing me with this new game. “I think I should know who’s fucking my wife.”

I watched in fascination as she absorbed what I’d just said because a look of pure eroticism passed over her features as she bit onto her lower lip and closed her eyes briefly. She smiled again as a look of pure contentment settled onto her face. “Tell me cuck-boy, what did you think of the cock in the pictures?”

I hesitated for a moment, this was not a question I was prepared for. What the hell was she asking me this for. I knew it wasn’t for nothing. She’s very calculating that way—cunning even. “It was a cock. It was in my wife. What do you want me to say?” I managed to ask in a calmer voice.

She propped herself up on her pillow. “What did you like about it? What did you find attractive about it?”

Side note: Did you pick up on how she asked the questions? I did as soon as she said them. I’ve been married to her long enough to know her crafty ways—at least some of them. You see, she didn’t ask me if I liked it, or if I found it attractive. She automatically jumped to ‘what’ did you find attractive about it, pushing the implication and the assumption that I found it attractive in the first place.

“Don’t manipulate me you little twat,” I scolded teasingly. “I don’t find anything attractive about another man’s junk. No man has an attractive cock—it’s just a cock.”

She shot me a sneer but went on undeterred all the same, “That’s not true and it’s also very short sighted of you since someday you’ll be every bit the pro I am when it comes to gagging on them.”

I couldn’t hold it in. I laughed pretty hard at that. “No fucking way,” I said bluntly, shaking my head. “I just wasn’t made that way. I’ve never found the thought of sucking a cock to be attractive—never have—never will. I might—MIGHT—try it someday just to fulfill your crazy fantasy, but that’s a long way away from becoming a pro at it.”

Her sneer turned into a smile, and it was way too sincere a smile for my liking. She’s up to something, I couldn’t help thinking. “Indulge me love,” she said, “let your insecurities go and just let yourself open up to a new thought,” she moved closer to me so that she could talk softer, “Let me tell you about what makes a cock sexy,” she reached down and lightly touched my dick, “First is the feel. The skin is always so soft, so smooth. And of course, the taste is amazing,” she said seductively. She then licked my neck, “through a cock, you can feel a man’s arousal,” she continued. “You can tell what he likes because it swells and expands in your hands and in your mouth. When you first put a cock in your mouth, your tongue will feel the soft, but firm veins that run down it’s length. The way the shaft meets the head of a penis is fascinating. Each one is so different, but still kind of the same.” She had me hard yet again, and she was slowly stroking my dick in her hand.

“Do you think I have a sexy cock?” I asked, not really sure I wanted the answer. She hesitated so I pressed, “Be honest—what do you think?”

“It’s sufficient, but no, not really sexy.”

“Ouch,” I said, a little hurt, but mostly turned on.

“Oh, don’t get your knickers in a twist. I have small boobs—I accept that and move on,” she chided me.

“That’s not the same, babe,” I replied, “your breasts are perfect—and very sexy.”

I couldn’t see her face, but I knew she liked what I’d said, even though she replied, “Well, I’m happy my cuck-boy thinks so. That’s all that matters—now stop distracting me,” she said and returned back to her musings, “you can feel when your lover is getting close to his orgasm because it swells even more. There’s all this anticipation and you know you’re close. And then is twitches in your mouth and starts to spasm, and you feel this warm gush hit your throat. It’s all so brilliant that you can’t believe how much you enjoy it. After you do it a few times, it starts to get addicting. You start to fascinate about different cocks, bigger cocks.”

After a moment of silence, I said, “That was incredibly descriptive.” And it was. I only wrote what I could remember, but she went on about cocks for a good ten minutes.

“So, what about the cock in today’s picture did you like?” she asked again.

I thought for a moment and finally found what I thought would be fairly innocuous, “That it seemed to be making you happy,” I said.

She lightly punched my shoulder, “You’re being purposefully gormless, Ky.”

“Not really, you just don’t understand how averse I am to thinking about another guy’s cock. I can’t help it.”

She seemed to deflate a little after I said that. We were quite and just enjoyed being together for a time. I reached down and gently manipulated one of her nipple rings. It’s something I’ve found I enjoy doing when we’re near each other and I can get away with it. Short hair, nipple rings, yeah, she’d made some big changes in this last year. I miss her long hair, and she assures me that she’ll start growing it out again soon, but she’s enjoying the change for now.

The last couple of weeks have been interesting—different than times past. One day we seem to play the game, dialing it up and her pushing my buttons. Then a couple of days go by and it’s like we’re not playing at all. It’s just normal, everyday life. Maybe this is the balance we’ve been trying to find. One thing I’ve learned about the balance of things is that it’s a constant effort. The minute you stop working at it is when you fall off of the high-wire.

Her time with Wade has been fairly consistent. They see each other every day at his gym, and fuck often. But she sleeps at our house, although Wade has spent the night a couple of times. I know there are mixed opinions on Wade and his intentions, but to us he’s been nothing but great. He could easily have a girl on each arm if he wanted to, but for now he’s content to have Jaimee as often as she’ll let him—which yes, is fairly frequent. He’ll make the occasional comment to push my buttons that Jaimee’s the first girl he’s been able to perfectly custom fit to his cock, and now that she fits him so well, he’s remiss to find another girl. I think Jaimee put him up to saying that to me actually.

Jaimee and Wade are close. And that should probably scare me more. But I’m good with it. The people that frequent that particular CrossFit gym all pretty much think that the two of them are an item—and while they’re there, they are. She has a good group of close workout friends there. She’s happy. It was mentioned that some of the things Wade said should be raising flags, and also that they closeness of their relationship should also send up flags. I’ll just say, you might be right, but realistically, shouldn’t everything done and talked about on this forum send up flags? Are some flags just a little brighter red than others? I mean really, our significant others are engaging in sexual relationships with other people. If that isn’t a recipe for disaster, I don’t know what is, and yet, we don’t stop. It’s all pretty fucking crazy. Also, from what I’ve read on this forum, what my wife and I have done is NOTHING compared to a lot of the things I’ve read on here. In fact, I’d say we’re one of the most tame and boring couple in this lifestyle.

On another note, I finally agreed to try a cage. She’s pretty happy about it. She loves the idea of leaving me locked up while she’s out getting her freak on with her boyfriend. I think it’s a power trip for her. Anyway, she ordered one online that’s supposed to arrive in a couple of days. It rated okay and wasn’t too expensive. I’m not ready to spring for the highly rated jail-bird just yet. This is just something to try for now. She finally wore me down I guess.

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Unread post by elina » Thu Aug 09, 2018 11:09 am

Dear Ky,

Good to see that Jaimee is back to Her full, teasing, sexy self.
Ky_Da wrote:Jaimee slid herself down from the island and her skirt fell back into place. She had flour all over her front. The apron caught a lot of it, but there was flour everywhere. She looked down at herself and then gave me a very coy smile and said, “I guess I should bake bread more often—I had no idea it would fancy it this much.”
I saw the previous comments related to Her English origins, I laughed out loud reading the remark above, so very Brittish like if it was in a movie directed by John Cleese!
Ky_Da wrote:On another note, I finally agreed to try a cage. She’s pretty happy about it. She loves the idea of leaving me locked up while she’s out getting her freak on with her boyfriend. I think it’s a power trip for her. Anyway, she ordered one online that’s supposed to arrive in a couple of days. It rated okay and wasn’t too expensive. I’m not ready to spring for the highly rated jail-bird just yet. This is just something to try for now. She finally wore me down I guess.
Good luck, hope you don't have a bad experience because the cage doesn't do its job properly. I am among the few who had quite some incidents with the plastic toys before my Wife decided we should get the Jail-bird; worth every cent...... Just tell Jaimee not to leave you in there for too long a time and not to leave you alone without a spare key in case something unexpected happens. There are ways to ensure that Jaimee will know if you broke out...

Anyway, hope you will share your cage experiences with us when it gets that far.

Sincerely
elina

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Unread post by vmb69 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 11:36 am

Your recount is again the best I have read on this site. Jaime sure knows how to push your buttons. I would say finally giving in does remove some angst, and the cage will also fix that problem of your Alpha wanting to surface after you cum, my has found that not letting me cum after she came home made it easier to prevent the "alpha cucky" angst or jealousy to surface. Making it all easier for her to take more control. I think you will soon find out who's dick that was has you finally start sucking it. I do envy you 2 and can't wait for my wife and I to be back in the same spot.

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Unread post by SutterKane » Thu Aug 09, 2018 12:20 pm

Ky_Da wrote:
SutterKane wrote:I'm just glad the two of you are doing well and that all the unasked for "Preaching" and "Advice" you get on here hasn't run you off.
I do have a question that has been bothering me since you left Guatemala but I hate to bring it up. Did you ever hear anything on the fate Augustin and his son?
I don't know all the details because my Spanish is sub-par at best, but what I did verify was that his body was found next to his son's. It looks like they were together in the end which gives me some comfort. What I'm not so sure about is who else in his family died. I understood that he had gotten several of the family out, but I couldn't understand much more when they were talking about aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. I only knew Agustin for a short time, and most of that time was him having me on about one thing or another. But his passing really touched me. It made me see my own reality and made me feel very mortal.
My condolences on the loss of your friend. He did the right thing and paid the price.
"Women and cats will do as they please,and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea"-Robert Heinlein
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Unread post by Xalar11 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 3:12 pm

Thank you for the update. You're an excellent writer. If it is not too much to ask, I hope you can answer one or two questions for a better understanding.
Did I understand you correctly, Jaimee goes to the gym and meets with Wade every day. Really, every single day, even on the weekends? You also said Jaimee and Wade have sex often. Can I ask what this exactly means? Maybe not every day, but them having sex with eachother about 4-5 times in a week or indeed every time when they meet at gym or somewhere else?

Please excuse my prying. Hope it's not inappropiate asking.

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Thu Aug 09, 2018 3:24 pm

Thanks, Xalar11

To answer your question, Jaimee goes to the gym Mon-Fri. She goes directly from work before she comes home. CrossFit has this Workout of the Day thing, and if you attack it, you're done in like 30-45 minutes. She doesn't go on the weekends, but lately she's been getting plenty of exercise surfing on the weekends. As far as how often they have sex... I'd say it probably averages 3-4 times a week. They'v got this routine of going to his place after her workout for sex. She showers there and then comes home, while Wade usually goes back to the gym to train other clients in the evening. Once in a while we have Wade over to our place. This is something we've been doing for a while now. I don't know, it happens maybe every other week. He'll come over for dinner and usually stay the night, so of course, more sex with Jaimee. She used to spend the night at his place once in a while, but we haven't been doing that in the last couple of months.

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Unread post by Xalar11 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 3:35 pm

Thanks for the immediate response. Do you and Jaimee have actually "reclamation-sex" every time or at least most of the times when she returns to you?
Again, I hope it's not too personal to ask, but does Jaimee refrain from sex on her fertile days with Wade or any other guy, in regard she certainly wants only to get pregnant from you, her beloved husband?

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Unread post by vmb69 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 3:49 pm

Ky_Da wrote:Thanks, Xalar11

To answer your question, Jaimee goes to the gym Mon-Fri. She goes directly from work before she comes home. CrossFit has this Workout of the Day thing, and if you attack it, you're done in like 30-45 minutes. She doesn't go on the weekends, but lately she's been getting plenty of exercise surfing on the weekends. As far as how often they have sex... I'd say it probably averages 3-4 times a week. They'v got this routine of going to his place after her workout for sex. She showers there and then comes home, while Wade usually goes back to the gym to train other clients in the evening. Once in a while we have Wade over to our place. This is something we've been doing for a while now. I don't know, it happens maybe every other week. He'll come over for dinner and usually stay the night, so of course, more sex with Jaimee. She used to spend the night at his place once in a while, but we haven't been doing that in the last couple of months.
Do you feel she can still feel you as much with the amount of sex she is having with wade, and now it seems with Mr X, and perhaps Mr Y.? When my wife was with our friend and fucking regularly initially, she finally told me that she had sex with me for the connection, and not because she enjoyed it or got anything out of it. Which of course made me even harder and more in love with her.

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Unread post by vmb69 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 3:55 pm

to add to Xalar, have you discussed the possibility? That is something that my Queen and I discussed after an initial scare. Since we both didnt like abortion, and my friend looked like me we finally decided if she did end pregnant we would keep the baby and raise it has our own like any other kid we had together.

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:17 pm

Xalar11 wrote:Thanks for the immediate response. Do you and Jaimee have actually "reclamation-sex" every time or at least most of the times when she returns to you?
Again, I hope it's not too personal to ask, but does Jaimee refrain from sex on her fertile days with Wade or any other guy, in regard she certainly wants only to get pregnant from you, her beloved husband?
If you've read much of what I've posted, you'll see that I've shared just about everything, so don't worry about asking personal questions. When my wife is the most fertile, we do keep those days to ourselves. The rest of the time, she makes Wade wear a condom. Everybody hates condoms, but we both want this baby to be ours.

As far as reclamation sex... no, we don't have it every time--I honestly don't think I could keep up with that pace. This will probably set off some people's sensibilities, but Wade has about twice as much sex with my wife than I do. I'm sure I'm setting off people's triggers in admitting that, but well, that's the way it is. And I'm okay with it. I'm getting as much sex as I need/want, and so is my wife.

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:21 pm

vmb69 wrote:to add to Xalar, have you discussed the possibility? That is something that my Queen and I discussed after an initial scare. Since we both didnt like abortion, and my friend looked like me we finally decided if she did end pregnant we would keep the baby and raise it has our own like any other kid we had together.
We have discussed the possibility. We even went so far as to have a conversation with Wade about it. If something were to happen, and she did get pregnant by someone not her husband. We wouldn't have an abortion. We both don't feel like that would be the right path for us. We would raise the child as ours. I enjoy the fantasy, but i really do want this child to be ours. This is one fantasy that we will not be fulfilling.

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Unread post by vmb69 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 7:04 pm

We were pretty much in the same situation, both with reclaiming, and potential of pregnancy. My wife was getting so much sex from our friend that, one I could not keep up, two she was too sore, and 3 she couldn't feel me anyways. She also spent over a week with him at his house, almost 2 weeks actually. While we have not played in 8 years we both agree we would not change anything. the experience brought us closer, we had ups and downs, but I also learned that I'm a cuck. Once you get past the angst or thinking "you are the man" everyone is happy. Let the triggers be triggered, after all you cant make everyone happy. just worry about Jaime and you.

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Thu Aug 09, 2018 7:38 pm

vmb69 wrote:
Ky_Da wrote:Thanks, Xalar11

To answer your question, Jaimee goes to the gym Mon-Fri. She goes directly from work before she comes home. CrossFit has this Workout of the Day thing, and if you attack it, you're done in like 30-45 minutes. She doesn't go on the weekends, but lately she's been getting plenty of exercise surfing on the weekends. As far as how often they have sex... I'd say it probably averages 3-4 times a week. They'v got this routine of going to his place after her workout for sex. She showers there and then comes home, while Wade usually goes back to the gym to train other clients in the evening. Once in a while we have Wade over to our place. This is something we've been doing for a while now. I don't know, it happens maybe every other week. He'll come over for dinner and usually stay the night, so of course, more sex with Jaimee. She used to spend the night at his place once in a while, but we haven't been doing that in the last couple of months.
Do you feel she can still feel you as much with the amount of sex she is having with wade, and now it seems with Mr X, and perhaps Mr Y.? When my wife was with our friend and fucking regularly initially, she finally told me that she had sex with me for the connection, and not because she enjoyed it or got anything out of it. Which of course made me even harder and more in love with her.


I started writing an update today that actually was about this exact topic. I'll keep working on it so maybe I can post it in a day or two. My wife is very good at giving herself an orgasm, so she can get off when we're having sex. Sex for us is a lot about connection. Nothing compares to passionate, loving sex to connect you with your spouse. But that said, yes, there is a difference. She's admitted as much a few times--especially lately. My wife has been with Wade for a little while now, and they do have sex A LOT. I don't give her that full, stretched feeling like Wade does, but I know the spots she needs hit. And if I'm not getting it done, she'll just get it done by using me--which I don't mind, haha.


She was concerned the other night because she's gotten so used to having sex with Wade. It always used to take her some getting-warmed-up with Wade before she'd start really enjoying it, and even then it was always on the edge of pain and pleasure. But lately, it's just felt like normal sex. I guess kind of how sex felt with me before she started experiencing larger cocks. I don't know if that makes much sense, I'm mentally shot tonight. Hopefully the next update will explain my thoughts better.

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Unread post by vmb69 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 8:21 pm

makes sense, after few weeks with our friend my wife got used to filling full, and his length. He would hit her spot at the perfect point making sex much more enjoyable. But he was thick and with the constant sex they had she honestly felt different for me, that when she started telling me that she really couldn't feel me anymore, but that she enjoyed when I came in her, and teased me about it.

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Unread post by haibinh » Thu Aug 09, 2018 8:31 pm

Your wife often has sex with her boyfriend so, If she wants to get pregnant with him and make sure the pregnancy is his, what do you do?

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Unread post by SutterKane » Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:32 am

Too long, don't bother reading!
Zona wrote:
SutterKane wrote:I'm just glad the two of you are doing well and that all the unasked for "Preaching" and "Advice" you get on here hasn't run you off.
I do have a question that has been bothering me since you left Guatemala but I hate to bring it up. Did you ever hear anything on the fate Augustin and his son?
The preaching and advice that you tell the OP to ignore is well intended. You either don’t see the risk Wade presents, or you don’t care. Are you willing to see the destruction of their marriage just so you can get your thrill?

I’ve seen far too many marital train wrecks occur because the wife falls in love with her BF. I could name NINE that l am personally familiar with. There are dozens more.

Edited to correct typo.
Zona, I'm at a bit of a loss at your response.

The preaching and advice that you tell the OP to ignore is well intended.
Where in this thread did I advocate "Pro" or "Con"? I don't think my post questioned anybodies "intentions". My statement was directed at the aggressive level of "Advice" Ky has been given over the length of his thread. Reading back over my post, I fail to see where I said or implied "ignore" anything.

You either don’t see the risk Wade presents, or you don’t care.

I didn't mention Wade. I didn't advocate "Do" or "Don't do" anything. I don't feel qualified to to give the people living this particular cuck/hotwife scenario any advice. I don't have an opinion on who shot JFK either, but lots of folks do. Strong ones too.
On the "or you don't care" part, still don't see where you draw that inference from. I posted to show that I, in fact, care and wanted him to know that he/they have my support and best wishes. I had enough concern that I asked about any word on his friend Augstin's fate. I had hoped he and his son might have turned up safe later on. Sadly, it was not to be so.

Are you willing to see the destruction of their marriage just so you can get your thrill?

Once again I can't see where I said(or implied)anything about what he/she, Wade, Derick, the mailman or the family dog should do. I was just offering my support and commenting on the highly emotionally charged "Advice" he was being given on this and his other thread. I have watched OP's run off this forum due to aggressive and demanding comments. A thread that offers insight into a unique point of view, situation and the opportunity to learning more about this life for one member, can be one that causes fear and anxiety and need to "Warn" the OP in another member and still another demand that the OP live out that members personal fantasy scenario. Everybody is trying to have THEIR needs met. Sometimes the OP's needs get lost in all that.
The way I see it is we are on the ground at a private air show, if you will. We have been given a special privilege to even be here. The pilot is attempting complicated dangerous maneuvers. The pilot is on the radio telling us of what he has and will be attempting. Not trying to relay each and every bit of info that he, and only he, is privy to. He knows that he is pushing this plane beyond what 99% of pilots would be comfortable with. Some folks on the ground are sure that the plane will break apart. Some are sure that he will fly into the ground. Some want him to go balls to the wall and shove the stick forward regardless of the cost to himself or his plane. Some are hoping that he does crash, so they can say "See! I warned him that this would happen!". Some want him to go faster and fly higher so he will crash. Me? I hope he and his plane do a victory roll over the field after doing whatever maneuvers he decides to do.
I don't know what he knows. I don't know his skill level. I don't know his level of faith in his plane. I don't know his level of risk that he is willing to endure. I simply don't have all the info he has. If I did, I might be the one calling the for the ambulance and corner. Or I might just slap him on the back and say "You got this, kid!"and go take a nap until he lands. As it is, I'm just a spectator in the bleachers, Hoping and praying that he and his plane return to earth, safe and sound. I'm funny like that.

I've seen far too many marital train wrecks occur because the wife falls in love with her BF. I could name NINE that l am personally familiar with. There are dozens more.

I'm a 1%er biker. I ride hard and fast. I ride 2-3 thousand miles a month. I bury 3-4 club brothers a year in a good year, more in a bad one. Most killed by drunks or people in cars not paying attention, but some by taking a curve faster than they could handle, by hitting a pothole at 120 mph or clipping a curb at 25 mph. I've been almost killed more times than I can count. I was rear ended and knocked of my bike at 70 miles an hour a few years ago, still walk with a limp. I have a real good idea what risk I take. I keep my bike in top shape. I don't ride with bad tires or brakes. I change the oil once a month. Got good insurance. I wear a helmet(After you've sat on the side of the road holding someones head together waiting on an ambulance, you tend to), gloves, canvas pants and vest. I control for the factors that I can reasonable control for. But when I mount that bike, the factors I can't control for increase exponentially. Still hop on and ride. It's like a wire in the blood. Kinda like this life. As Hunter Thompson said- "Better to be shot out of a cannon than squeezed out of a tube".

Zona, I looked back over my only two other post in this thread. Still can't find where I said or implied what you felt I said/ implied. I think I have been consistent in my statements. Here they are. Feel free to point out my oversight.

my first post on this thread July 6th, 2018
You have give us a amazing look into your world, but thats all it is, a look. We see into that glass but darkly. You and Jaimee are they only ones that have any real idea what is really going on between you. You two should be the only ones that matter in this adventure. Read what the other posters have said and cautioned you about but remember that advice is generally only worth what you pay for it. Just like mine here :)



My second post from Aug. 4th
Ky I hope the two of you are finding your happiness, whatever and wherever that takes you both. But if you would, drop us a line and let us know the two of you are OK. We worry.
Zona, If I spoke or implied anything that you felt was an attack on you or your point of view, I most humbly apologize. I think you feel strongly about things. I bet you yell at the T.V. too :P

Edited for Correction! I made a post after Zona's comments to me that I failed to account for. It was my condolences to Ky on hearing the Augustin was indeed dead.
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Unread post by Wistful » Fri Aug 10, 2018 12:01 pm

Nice post SutterKane.

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Fri Aug 10, 2018 12:24 pm

I agree with Wistul, and I've always appreciated your comments. Well though out analogies, too.

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Unread post by Ky_Da » Fri Aug 10, 2018 12:28 pm

haibinh wrote:Your wife often has sex with her boyfriend so, If she wants to get pregnant with him and make sure the pregnancy is his, what do you do?
They do have a lot of sex, and even being careful, there is a risk of pregnancy - I understand and accept this. But as for her purposefully getting pregnant by him, I really can't do anything about that. She's my wife, but we don't live in the Middle East where honor killings are allowed. I love and trust her. At some point that's all we can do. Love and trust. If it doesn't work out, and we're taken advantage of, well, we move on and do the best we can.

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Unread post by vmb69 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 1:04 pm

well said Ky

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Unread post by SutterKane » Fri Aug 10, 2018 2:25 pm

Ky_Da wrote:I agree with Wistul, and I've always appreciated your comments. Well though out analogies, too.
My thanks to you and Wistful. I'm here to lift folks up (for the most part) and to learn.
Ky, my wife and I have found your story to be more than compelling to us. I have learned and experienced a lot (vicariously) through you and your angst! You two have gone places my wife and I have not and may never go. I love seeing her with a Bull (usually a BBC) but the though of her with a BF, especially a long term BF, fills me with more angst than I can (at this point) handle. But I know that what she and I want and need now maybe miles in the rear view mirror in a few months or a year. I trust her. I'm commented to full, open communication as is she to me. Thats the only way we can make this work.
It took a long while to get to where we are and we had bumps in the road (usually me and my angst) but thankful not too many. I do take some small pride in trying to do my due diligence on this life and controlled for as many factors as felt I reasonably could (My wife said I talked this to death) before closing our eyes and stepping off the cliff into Hotwifedom.
Now, it turns out, she really gets off cucking me and I have found I get off on it too (much to my surprise, alpha 1%er and all)! She would say or do little cuck teasing things, that if I hadn't been paying attention, I would have missed or just wrote off. But I saw how hot she got when she did those things and that made me willing to go there. I'm glad I went! We had to talk (a lot) about how when she did/said cuck things, I enjoyed it as much as she did, she wasn't hurting me saying/doing those things and that I could tell how much she got turned on by doing/saying them. Turned on a LOT. It was worth it to overcome my uncertainty about going there, now I'm glad I did. I mean she got TURNED ON A LOT :mrgreen:
This, from just over two years ago were we weren't having sex more than once a month, to now she has her bull 2-4 times a week and we have sex almost every day (our mileage will vary depending on real life crap). That, my friends, is how much the worm turned for us. We are in our mid 50's and she stays dripping wet most all the time. Her friends wanted to know why she started to hum and smile and laugh like she hadn't in years. That's what a happy, well serviced hotwife will do.
Ky, I owe this turnaround to you and the other posters on here that showed that it could be done and done well. I saw the pitfalls and travails that had happened to some and the joy and happiness that could be from doing this wisely and thoughtfully. Still got a lot of learning to do. I well know that things can go off the rails and I may invent a whole new way to fuck this up. Still going to do it, wire in the blood and all that. :lol:
I'm returning your thread after hijacking it, and thanks for letting me. BTW you and your lady are righteous bad asses and you have my respect for what you're doing and letting us get a look!
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