Is there a cuckold/Stag scale?

[StagLifeSac]

I typically identify as a Stag/cuckold hybrid. Not sure if that offends any purists but that's the best way I can describe my kink. I love everything about the cuckold lifestyle, but I don't find it humiliating at all. I love cleaning other men's cum from my wife's pussy, I love when my wife locks me in chastity, I love getting on my hands and knees and kissing my wife's high heeled feet while begging her to have more sex with her male lovers. But again, I find all of that exhilarating, not humiliating. Things about cuckolding I don't typically get into include impregnation fantasies, small cock humiliation and BBC (to be honest, I love it when my wife fucks black men but no more so than any other race/ethnicity). But I can reach a blissful state serving my wife and doing everything within my power to make sure her sex with other men is wonderful.

I guess we're all individuals and approach this lifestyle in our own way.

[hubudig2]

There's too many neurons in the brain for it to be as simple as a scale lol.
I think the scale is a rough guideline/reference but everyone's unique.
Humiliation in particular is a subjective thing, each person feels and defines it differently.

How would you describe why you like being locked in chastity and cleaning cum from her pussy?
You said exhilarating, is that like riding a rollercoaster type of feeling?
You don't feel any embarrassment or degraded by it?

I feel like most submissives feel some type of humiliation.
Submissive women will have things they feel "slutty" about doing but as they get hornier, it becomes easier.
Not many women would say they enjoy humiliation though.
Humiliation could probably be subdivided into different types/scales too.
Orgasm denial and chastity are a different kind of humiliation to small penis humiliation.

[sherulestherooster]

I feel similarly. We started our kinky play with FemDom play which I never thought as humiliating. We both just really enjoyed her teasing and denying me and being under her control, but loved the role reversal of having a female-centered (and asymmetric!) sex life. She usually came 3-5x more than me and we had some fun with chastity while she was still monogamous. We maintained denying me throughout the relationship even after she quit being a hot wife (she forced me to use condoms with bare as a “treat” which we both thought was hot).

During our cuckolding (I really prefer this term) phase, we learned through trial and error that it was more intense to deny me for a week or more leading up to a date and have my cock locked on her date. So that’s how we played, all her dates were solo and she usually went multiple rounds (bulls were mostly younger cubs). We experimented with me only having a release after a date with her bull which we both liked but just wasn’t that practical for us. Had she had a regular boyfriend I could definitely see us pushing those limits and slowly giving her bull more sexual privileges. We just loved that aspect.

I didn’t ever consider any of this humiliating either. It’s weird that most of the times we did things to push my envelope we just loved, I don’t have any regrets. I loved it when she called me “her cuck” to her bulls and she’d call me a “good boy” if I refrained from orgasming for her. Just really turns me on and she liked the power and control over me.

Having said that, I do enjoy cuckolding humiliation porn A LOT. I don’t think I could handle being belittled but rather cerebral teasing of undeniable facts by her were quite nice. But no way could I handle a bull belittling me.

[Dream Weaver]

Stag is just a weird invention for people to virtue signal that they would NEVER belittle themselves which is just LOL to most everybody else.

[Johnann2227]

I see myself as a stag who my wife cuckolds (if that makes sense). I get a thrill out her fucking other men and support and encourage her to do so. I enjoy organising her dates and making sure everything works out for them. I book her hair and nail appointments prior to the date, book restaurant or hotel reservations for them, drive them to and from the date if needed, make sure she has condoms in her purse, buy her new lingerie for each date, keep a record of what she wears on a date so that she doesn't wear the same thing with the same lover, do extra housework so she can spend more time getting ready and dating, and when the kids were younger I would look after them and make up stories of where mummy was. I am not into humiliation nor chastity. i would never let anyone cage me. I am not sissified. I do not have a micro penis (I am actually close to 8 inches with good girth and my thinks my cock is perfect). My wife always treats me with respect and I her. I love fucking my wife and do so at least 4 times per week. I prefer to be in a threesome with her and her lover but understand alone time is something she sometimes craves. However I get so turned on seeing her flirt with a guy or hold hands with her boyfriend if I see them on a date. I love meeting a boyfriend when I drop her off at his house for a date and thanking him for fucking her and giving her pleasure. So, I have some cuckold tendencies but still see myself as a stag.

[warmnsalty]

I’ve heard cuckolding deceives as simply as a man who lets other men fuck his wife. In these times there seems to be a need for people to develope subcategories for everything. Some people enjoy the various categories snd “rules” of the lifestyle and being a cuck. I’m very much like the original poster i find acts that are normally categorizes as cuckolding exhilllersting not at all humiliating. Love kissing my wife while she’s getting fucked love looking in her eyes as i’m sucking the fly who’s going to be fucking her and nothing beats watching as a guy pumps his load into her then cleaning them both up. I look at the lifestyle as a grab bag of fun pick the things you like avoid the things you don’t and have fun - i don’t worry about the labels

[mrdnrm]

I typically identify as a Stag/cuckold hybrid. Not sure if that offends any purists but that's the best way I can describe my kink. I love everything about the cuckold lifestyle, but I don't find it humiliating at all. I love cleaning other men's cum from my wife's pussy, I love when my wife locks me in chastity, I love getting on my hands and knees and kissing my wife's high heeled feet while begging her to have more sex with her male lovers. But again, I find all of that exhilarating, not humiliating. Things about cuckolding I don't typically get into include impregnation fantasies, small cock humiliation and BBC (to be honest, I love it when my wife fucks black men but no more so than any other race/ethnicity). But I can reach a blissful state serving my wife and doing everything within my power to make sure her sex with other men is wonderful.

I guess we're all individuals and approach this lifestyle in our own way.

I found nearly everything you wrote is much like myself. We have been a Hotwife and Cum Eating Cuckold since 2003. I love and crave every minute of it. I myself have found the the term Stag is for men who don't like the word Cuckold itself and those that love the term Cuckold can take it to the extreme in the opposite direction. Either way I feel when you are standing there watching another man fuck your wife you are a Cuckold, if she does it without you there your a cuckold, If you are totally fully 100% participating in the action with your wife and another man it's just a threesome or if it's long term maybe a poly type relationship.

You do have to be directly humiliated to be humiliated, example if you are watching you wife fuck another guy and she says things directly to the man fucking her like, your cock is so big, I want it deep inside me, yes oh my G.. and she is saying these things to another man and she doesn't say these things to you, that in my book is indirect humiliation. My wife likes the term Stag better than Cuckold when we met a guy but she really understands she is cuckolding me especially when he pulls out and she calls me over to eat the cream pie. She doesn't say anything humiliating but the action itself is no doubt humiliating. Don't believe me try bragging about it at the gym with a bunch of men hanging around listening to your story. If you don't have the guts to do that it may because you feel you will be embarrassed by it?? (I know we like to keep that private right next to your photo on a swing site)