I’ve been into the hotwifing thing for some time. Was really turned on to the thought of my partner sleeping with other people. However the problem was my partner didn’t like sleeping around. She only enjoys sex with someone whom she had cultivated a deeper connection with.
She thought a good candidate would be her ex boyfriend whom she still loved and admits she has a great sexual connection with. I thought about it and realized that I’m turned on by what turns her on. And if the sexiest thing for her was re-establishing a connection with a past partner I was all for it.
She’s met up with him twice in the past couple weeks and had sexual experiences both times with him. She told me she loves him and has always loved him. I really like the idea of that. It makes me happy and tuned on that she’s making love to him and not just hooking up.
He doesn’t yet know that I know. And for all he knows me and my girl friend are just openly dating. But lately I’ve been wanting him to know about us and particularly my acceptance and happiness of their relationship. Both times I dropped her off at his place. The second time she told me they kissed at the door and if I looked hard enough I would’ve seen it. I would’ve loved seeing that embrace. She admits she loves their sexual chemistry and she hopes to continue with it.
She feels like part of the sexiness about it is that he can feel as though he’s “getting her” while she’s attached to someone else. Maybe like he holds that power over her. So we treat it as tho they are going behind my back.
We’re going to try and get us all on the same page soon... so that I can watch and witness their connection. I really want to see her kiss him, cuddle in bed, adore him. I suppose I’m finding excitement in a more poly relationship. Next she’s going to invite him to my house. She’ll tell him I’m leaving for a few hours and that he should visit while I’m out. We’ve also discussed that she would ask him to meet me before I leave them alone. Pretend it’s just a friendly meet and greet and then they jump on eachother when I leave. Or we could plan that I show up after they fooled around. I’d come in and shake his hand pretending I’d be a victim of a oblivious boyfriend.
I like the idea of him sleeping in our bed. Taking her when he wants. I like her being totally into him while I’m on the outside looking in. Id hole to join them in bed, but if they needed alone time I’d go to the couch and just listen. I crave the submissive aspect. I suppose I’d like being cuck’d. I’m really hoping their relationship gets more serious.
To me the prospect of us sharing her on many levels is so much sexier than hotwifing. I just hope it’ll work out where my roll is to be submissive and tend to their needs.
Sounds like a good basis for your partner becoming a hotwife and you a sub cuckold - Firstly, because she's found a situation that she likes for it to happen, since she doesn't like the idea of just sleeping around or having random hook ups.
It's pretty normal that you want him to know you know. For me, that's a huge part of the sub turn-on; most of my wife's men know that I know, even if they only fuck her privately. There have been a few over the years who have just thought she was a cheating wife, and for one reason or another we didn't change that.
I completely get what turns you on about knowing she's in love with him, and wanting to see her in his arms, sharing more than just sex...sure, the sex is important, but you want to see and know their passion and their need for each other. As you said, you like sharing her on many levels. That's less common, particularly for a relatively new sub cuckold, but it does happen.
My wife has a long time boyfriend who quickly became more than that..he became her lover. She openly admits she's in love with him, needs him, adores him, and wants to see him often. She also says he's absolutely the best lover she's ever had, and that he satisfies her completely, more so than I ever do or could. Their emotional, connected relationship is far more intensely arousing for me than any of the fuck-buddy style relationships she's had in the past, and I'm always urging her to find times to be with him. About the only negative in their relationship for me is that I'll never get to see them together - he only wants to see her privately, even though he knows that I'm aware of their relationship and that I approve of it.
Hopefully you'll get to enjoy the best of all worlds with your partner and her ex! Keep us posted.