Christinebitg wrote: ↑Fri Oct 08, 2021 6:25 am
Misslindassub wrote: ↑Fri Oct 08, 2021 6:02 am
I love cock being fucked by guys and the whole thing but am only interested emotional relationships with females, but also sexual with females so maybe bi?
Lots of people are familiar with the Kinsey scale.
You might be interested in something called the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid.
This way of looking at orientation includes separate scales for:
- Sexual attraction
- Sexual behavior
- Sexual fantasies
- Emotional Preference (who you love and like)
- Socialize With (men vs. women)
- Lifestyle (sexual orientation of people with whom you spend time)
- Self-Identification
These are normally numerically rated on a 1 to 7 scale. (As opposed to Kinsey's, which was 0 to 6.)
And each of these areas are rated with regard to:
- Past
- Present
- Ideal
In my mind, I somewhat visualize "Ideal" as being "Future Desired," but that may be just my uninformed interpretation.
I have read the book that Dr. Klein wrote on this and after reading it makes much more sense than at first look. A person, male or female, can perform and even desire a homosexual act at times, but have zero interest at other times. This is not a sliding scale. It is a circle with seven rings around the center and according to some feelings one feels and how strong they might be is marked in one of the outer rings. the most outer ring is a seven meaning the strongest feeling at a certain time. I am not explaining this well, it has been almost 20 years since I read the book and took the tests, but the point is, ones homosexual or heterosexual feelings can change hourly, daily weekly or however much time between a sexual encounter, be it male or female. As many have said about cleaning up cum from a wife or girlfriend or just tasting ones own cum, the minute one has an orgasm the desire leaves very quickly. The Klein scale is very similar to this and takes this into account. This may help.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klein_Sex ... ation_Grid The book is titled "The Bisexual Option" by Dr. Fritz Klein
As for me, I am still attracted to women, but for a number of reasons, I have stopped dating the ladies and now and since 1999 only orally service men. In the past I knew I was bi sexual but only indulged when not in a relationship with a woman. My past wife is the exception. She I guess would qualify as a hotwife although she cucked me for the first couple of years after we married and she was doing it while we dated. When I found out that she was cucking me, we came to agreement after some serious talks. She could continue but I was always kept in the loop and sometimes watched and at times could join in fluffing her BF and cleaning up afterwards if the BF agreed. She had quite a few boyfriends over the next 10 years we were married.
I feel the heat of the moment many men can perform with the other male. Some never will and be completely straight. Others are bi, like myself from the start and may remain bi . Some, again like myself will possible gravitate to only having sex to whatever degree with other men. I only perform oral on other men now.