Changing her appearance

[Excuck_79]

Has anyone else experienced their wives change their appearance not only while with their lover, but even when life resumes at home? When the wife and I had a black bull that she became smitten by, her appearance started changing. She would fix her hair in corn rows and paint her nails black. She even started listen to R&B and music by black artists pretty much all the time.

[PANTIES]

After spending 30 days with her lover and I only saw her twice in that time I could hardly recognize my wife. She had changed her hairstyle, makeup, dress for him. In addition she was wearing his ring on her ring finger replacing her wedding rings. When I asked her about this, she just said, remember you gave me to him when you asked him to be the man in my life.

Pauline

[Long Lurker 34]

After spending 30 days with her lover and I only saw her twice in that time I could hardly recognize my wife. She had changed her hairstyle, makeup, dress for him. In addition she was wearing his ring on her ring finger replacing her wedding rings. When I asked her about this, she just said, remember you gave me to him when you asked him to be the man in my life.

Pauline

P If your wife is still with this BF has she continued with these changes?
Or if she is no longer with this BF has she changed back to old look or changed to something different again?

[PANTIES]

She’s still with him and she refuses to change back. She’s still my wife, however she belongs to him. Her mother is aware she has a lover.

Pauline

[OZCPL]

P
Sounds like she now lives with him and is for all practical purposes his wife but remains your wife under the law only.
How often do you see her or communicate with her.
Do you have any children with her.
Does her mother still recognise you as her husband.
You certainly do have an intriguing situation but not one I could live with.
Do you have relatives who you explain your circumstances to.
I am interested but if you do not wish to reply I will understand.

[Janes Husband]

From time to time she did. Not so much lately.

[troilusand]

When Cressida last had a longterm lover, he got her to gain weight (he liked her meatier) and grow out her cunt hair. When I mildly objected, she said, "Well that's what HE likes, so that's what I'm going to do!"

I only mildly objected because I knew she'd do what he wanted anyway. She was in love, and he gave her FANTASTIC orgasms!

Troilus

[PANTIES]

P
Sounds like she now lives with him and is for all practical purposes his wife but remains your wife under the law only.
How often do you see her or communicate with her.
Do you have any children with her.
Does her mother still recognise you as her husband.
You certainly do have an intriguing situation but not one I could live with.
Do you have relatives who you explain your circumstances to.
I am interested but if you do not wish to reply I will understand.

No, she does not live with him full time. This was a one time opportunity. When she’s with him I do not reach out to her, if she needs something she reached out to me. No, we don’t have children.

Yes, my mother in law is aware my wife had taken a lover. The two of them have spent the weekend at her mother’s home and there is no issues. Lately when she’s with him for a long weekend I spend time at my mother in laws home.

There’s a lot more to this story.

Pauline

[watcher5]

There was not an instant but gradual change in my wife Sue’s appearance and attitude, starting with wanting me to buy her more sexy underwear, which previously she had no interest, then her make up, lipstick etc, shorter and shorter skirt, dress lengths, teasing tops to expose more flesh, tease the eye. I was certainly not complaining!

All influenced by her on going fun with her boyfriend(s) over the years.

Can hardly believe my prude wife is now a sexy temptress.

[gruenberg]

fortunately my wife didn`t.

but, she had a lover a while back, her boss, who often mocked her about her small breasts. my wife is rather petite and small. i think, she is perfect. but he, the bastard, even suggested directly that she would get a breast augmentation.
my wife considered it and it was not easy for me to accept it. fortunately she finally didn`t go this way.

now, looking back, i often wonder why she was into this guy.

[Long Lurker 34]

When Cressida last had a longterm lover, he got her to gain weight (he liked her meatier) and grow out her cunt hair. When I mildly objected, she said, "Well that's what HE likes, so that's what I'm going to do!"

I only mildly objected because I knew she'd do what he wanted anyway. She was in love, and he gave her FANTASTIC orgasms!

Troilus

T - Gain weight, that seems different. How much of a weight gain and how did Cressida go about it? And did she loose the weight when things ended? Oh, and how long were they together?

[Knotty Irish]

My wife did shave her pubic hair off and later got her hood pierced. He loves that.

[jenfel480]

I’ve always encouraged my wife to be free to change things but she’s close to her mom. We have talked about getting a cumslut tatoo or Queen of spades. She’s ok with temp tattoos and is considering a tramp stamp. I wish she was into nipple piercings but she’s open to non pricing stuff because she does not like the idea of the pain of piercing needles

[Tommy]

As soon as my wife started sleeping around her appearance changed.
Dropped 30+ pounds in short order.
Grew her hair long for the first time since college.
Started wearing makeup regularly.
New jewelry. More dangles and bangles.
Wore only tight clothes: pants, dresses, skirts, shirts, sweaters.
Panties, gone!
Pussy hair, gone!
Actual high heels. Hosiery often.
Fun lingerie for the first time in her life for her trysts.

Acquaintances who hadn't seen her in a while didn't even recognize her.

[ucaneffher]

fortunately my wife didn`t.

but, she had a lover a while back, her boss, who often mocked her about her small breasts. my wife is rather petite and small. i think, she is perfect. but he, the bastard, even suggested directly that she would get a breast augmentation.
my wife considered it and it was not easy for me to accept it. fortunately she finally didn`t go this way.

now, looking back, i often wonder why she was into this guy.

I don't know why but that is actually a huge turn on for me...

I feel like i would feel so helplessly turned on if my girlfriend or wife went on an extended "vacation" with her lover and came home with some huge obviously round fake tits that are such high profile that she can touch the sky as they point up. Something that people can clearly tell is fake.

Maybe it's my mind associating huge fake tits with slutiness and porn actresses so it would further confirm that he has turned her into his personal slut, which I'd also want.

[Jmoney]

My wife had a breast augmentation after starting.

[bewareoflizzy]

Liz would move into her mid thirties with a rising libido and an exquisite beauty that cried out for lovemaking. When we moved to a moderately conservative area of Upstate New York she decided to apply for a part time waitress position at a popular restaurant so she could still be home for the kids in the daytime. I remember her walking out of the house for her interview in the tightest jeans I've ever seen and stiletto high heels. She had asked me if she should and I dared her to do it, so she did. She was instantly hired and started working at one of the most popular family restaurants in the region. Her popularity soared with the younger crowd as she led the way with wearing short skirts and tighter blouses. Of course, her antics drew the attention of all the male workers at the restaurant and she said she could have had her pick. But one cook in particular drew her attention and she set her sights on seducing him. Her grooming increased fourfold and she indulged in hairdressers, manicures, and tanning booths. Her blond hair took on a reddish, strawberry color that complemented her fair complexion and blue eyes. Being the late 80's, she sought out the best salon for perms and coloring. Her curls and waves gave her a carefree, wild look that only fueled the desire of her young paramour. Make-up was taken to a whole new level with vivid, smoky eyes and bright lipsticks. Her long, slender hands were perfectly manicured every week and her long, red nails enticed and seduced. She reveled in her femininity and sexuality and it showed. Clothing was always form fitting even when food shopping. A reputation developed as she flaunted her beauty whether in the neighborhood or at work. Christmas parties were opportunities to wear the tightest and shortest dresses with stiletto pumps making her male co-workers drool. She loved to tease and flirt but only one guy got to enjoy the nectar of her sopping cunt and that was Jim.

[ucaneffher]

My wife had a breast augmentation after starting.

Care to share more of how that happened?

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife had a breast augmentation after starting.

JM - Was this because of one guy, not you, egging her on in some manner or on own her desiring to 'play the part' more?
Was this accompanied with changes to her hair, makeup and clothing too?
And then what?

[Jmoney]

My wife had a breast augmentation after starting.

JM - Was this because of one guy, not you, egging her on in some manner or on own her desiring to 'play the part' more?
Was this accompanied with changes to her hair, makeup and clothing too?
And then what?

Her desire to play the part, I was not thrilled with hr having the surgery.
She started top be waxed regularly, and definitely changed her wardrobe top more fitted and revealing clothes.

[gruenberg]

fortunately my wife didn`t.

but, she had a lover a while back, her boss, who often mocked her about her small breasts. my wife is rather petite and small. i think, she is perfect. but he, the bastard, even suggested directly that she would get a breast augmentation.
my wife considered it and it was not easy for me to accept it. fortunately she finally didn`t go this way.

now, looking back, i often wonder why she was into this guy.

I don't know why but that is actually a huge turn on for me...

I feel like i would feel so helplessly turned on if my girlfriend or wife went on an extended "vacation" with her lover and came home with some huge obviously round fake tits that are such high profile that she can touch the sky as they point up. Something that people can clearly tell is fake.

Maybe it's my mind associating huge fake tits with slutiness and porn actresses so it would further confirm that he has turned her into his personal slut, which I'd also want.

i know it might be a bit out of character here, but i wasn't particularly pleased about it. in the end, she didn't do it, although the talks about it were already very serious. her lover, her boss, wanted her to do it and he had a hugh influence on her.
i think, her body and breast are perfect. she is rather small, tiny with perfect breasts. any augmentation would have destroyed the perfect proportions of her silouette and would have been seen as artificial.
my wife is a nudist by heart and likes to spend holidays at nudist beaches, thatswhy a lot of people would have seen her bigger boobs in real life.

[ucaneffher]

fortunately my wife didn`t.

but, she had a lover a while back, her boss, who often mocked her about her small breasts. my wife is rather petite and small. i think, she is perfect. but he, the bastard, even suggested directly that she would get a breast augmentation.
my wife considered it and it was not easy for me to accept it. fortunately she finally didn`t go this way.

now, looking back, i often wonder why she was into this guy.

I don't know why but that is actually a huge turn on for me...

I feel like i would feel so helplessly turned on if my girlfriend or wife went on an extended "vacation" with her lover and came home with some huge obviously round fake tits that are such high profile that she can touch the sky as they point up. Something that people can clearly tell is fake.

Maybe it's my mind associating huge fake tits with slutiness and porn actresses so it would further confirm that he has turned her into his personal slut, which I'd also want.

i know it might be a bit out of character here, but i wasn't particularly pleased about it. in the end, she didn't do it, although the talks about it were already very serious. her lover, her boss, wanted her to do it and he had a hugh influence on her.
i think, her body and breast are perfect. she is rather small, tiny with perfect breasts. any augmentation would have destroyed the perfect proportions of her silouette and would have been seen as artificial.
my wife is a nudist by heart and likes to spend holidays at nudist beaches, thatswhy a lot of people would have seen her bigger boobs in real life.

I feel very much the same about my girlfriend except she does not have small breasts. She is a double D but has a tiny little waist with s perfectly flat stomach and a huge butt and big delicious legs. Not petite but definitely not overweight in any way.

I also feel that her frame and form is absolutely perfect and if she were to add just an extra cup size, she would look borderline vulgar as she already has extreme amounts of sex appeal due to her body shape.

That being said, I still would be open to a lover convincing her to get implants and getting her to achieve that highly sexual look where a surgery would make it obvious that she wants attention.

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife had a breast augmentation after starting.

JM - Was this because of one guy, not you, egging her on in some manner or on own her desiring to 'play the part' more?
Was this accompanied with changes to her hair, makeup and clothing too?
And then what?

Her desire to play the part, I was not thrilled with hr having the surgery.
She started top be waxed regularly, and definitely changed her wardrobe top more fitted and revealing clothes.

JM - Ok, surgery aside, how did you feel about those other changes?
Would you care to relate your and your wife back storey and journey to present?

[gruenberg]

fortunately my wife didn`t.

but, she had a lover a while back, her boss, who often mocked her about her small breasts. my wife is rather petite and small. i think, she is perfect. but he, the bastard, even suggested directly that she would get a breast augmentation.
my wife considered it and it was not easy for me to accept it. fortunately she finally didn`t go this way.

now, looking back, i often wonder why she was into this guy.

I don't know why but that is actually a huge turn on for me...

I feel like i would feel so helplessly turned on if my girlfriend or wife went on an extended "vacation" with her lover and came home with some huge obviously round fake tits that are such high profile that she can touch the sky as they point up. Something that people can clearly tell is fake.

Maybe it's my mind associating huge fake tits with slutiness and porn actresses so it would further confirm that he has turned her into his personal slut, which I'd also want.

i know it might be a bit out of character here, but i wasn't particularly pleased about it. in the end, she didn't do it, although the talks about it were already very serious. her lover, her boss, wanted her to do it and he had a hugh influence on her.
i think, her body and breast are perfect. she is rather small, tiny with perfect breasts. any augmentation would have destroyed the perfect proportions of her silouette and would have been seen as artificial.
my wife is a nudist by heart and likes to spend holidays at nudist beaches, thatswhy a lot of people would have seen her bigger boobs in real life.

I feel very much the same about my girlfriend except she does not have small breasts. She is a double D but has a tiny little waist with s perfectly flat stomach and a huge butt and big delicious legs. Not petite but definitely not overweight in any way.

I also feel that her frame and form is absolutely perfect and if she were to add just an extra cup size, she would look borderline vulgar as she already has extreme amounts of sex appeal due to her body shape.

That being said, I still would be open to a lover convincing her to get implants and getting her to achieve that highly sexual look where a surgery would make it obvious that she wants attention.

sometimes the form and frame is perfect and every change would ruin it. this would had been definitely the case in my wife`s situation.

for me, another big point would have been the surgery, with all its possible complications and what can happen. it's absolutely not worth it from my point of view. especially not if you have a perfect body. i understand that some people would like to change something on their body and i am abolutely fine with it, but not if it is already perfect. i am aware that beauty is a purely subjective feeling.

a surgery goes also with pain in the process of healing. i don`t want her to see her being in pain.

[Andrew]

My wife has changed her hairstyle to a somewhat shorter style a few times, and she has dyed her hair blonde a couple of times as well. Furthermore, she has grown out her pubic hair from bald to a full bush, as that's how her lover likes it (it is not my preference!). Also, she is wearing more revealing clothing and especially for him she is wearing nice lingerie. She never wears nice lingerie for me.