Ownership contract

[Barrylisa]

Bit of a long post

We first entered this amazing world on the 15th of December 2015, 2 years after we got married, after lots of talking we decided to ask someone to join us in our sex life, that first meeting did not go very well, although he was really nice and Lisa enjoyed his cock she didn't enjoy the whole experience, so we thought that was that, but something didn't sit right with me so I spoke to Lisa, we should of enjoyed it, we both knew that and we were confused as to why we didn't, so again after lots more talking we decided to try again, we wanted to give it a proper try so 3 months later during a weeks holiday together we arranged 3 different meets with 3 different men, after that week we were hooked and we have been playing on and off ever since,

We did try swinging with couples but Lisa got very jealous when we played with couples and didn't like to see me with other women, so we started looking for single men to join us, some of these were threesomes, but I do like to watch so most of them were just me watching, we started off that we would only play if we were together and safe sex,
I remember one time Lisa was playing downstairs with someone we were seeing regularly, she was dressed in stockings and he was playing and licking her pussy while I was seated on the other sofa, he started rubbing his cock along her pussy and the next thing I knew he was inside her Bareback, I was shocked but really turned on, I kept quiet and let them carry on, they decided to go upstairs and he fucked her BB, when he left Lisa apologized and said she got carried away in the moment, I asked her if she enjoyed his cock inside her bare and she admitted that she did, I agreed to them fucking BB after that, we carried on seeing him for a while after that till it ended, during our time of playing with men we discovered that not only did I like sucking cock but Lisa loved watching me suck cock, this grew to me being fucked by one of Lisa's friends one evening and we all loved it, I remember being on all fours with this guys cock inside me and hearing Lisa and him kissing, it was an amazing experience, Lisa started pegging me from then on.

We tried the polyamourous life style for a bit but I didn't feel comfortable with Lisa having feelings for someone else, we tried it with 4 men and they never worked, we are happy to admit that we both made mistakes and didn't handle things in the right way, we also think our communication with each other was not good enough at the time.

Lisa has also been an escort, she made a lot of money in the short time she was doing it and has played with a lot of men, when we started seeing each other I was her 10th partner, thanks to escorting and our lifestyle she has now been with over 340 men either orally or full sex.

We have been into light BDSM since we got together on 2010 but we haven't really been doing much of it for a while, in fact our sex life has dried out recently, our love and our marriage is still amazingly strong though, this comes on to the reason for this update post,
a few months ago me and Lisa decided to have a proper open and honest talk about where were where and where we wanted to go, Lisa admitted something that I had known for a while, I didn't satisfy her sexually anymore, since being with other men she has developed a taste for bigger cocks and mine just wasn't doing it for her anymore, as well as that I didn't last long enough, in her words " I'm just getting going and its over" , I asked if she still loved me, to which she replied 100% your an amazing Husband and you make me so happy but I prefer bigger cocks, we talked some more and with a few ideas I had read about on here we came up with a solution for us,

we decided that Lisa should make a small group of men who she sees regularly for her sexual needs, we live in a one bedroom house so I couldn't sleep in a spare room while they are over so we built a four poster bed with cage underneath it, I will be sleeping in there when her lovers are over, I am now in 24/7 Chasity although due to my work not caged 24/7, the rules are once I'm home from work and showered the cage goes on and doesn't come off till the next time I go to work, the rest of the time I have promised not to wank or play with myself, when at home as long as there are no Vanilla or non lifestyle people or family members over I will be either naked or in women's clothing, Lisa now decides if she goes BB with her lovers or not I have no say, but once a month I get to choose a stranger from our swingers site for Lisa to fuck ( safe sex ) she has no say in who I choose, I am only allowed to fuck Lisa after she has had sex 10 times with her lovers and that must be protected sex, the only time I am allowed to fuck Lisa BB now is if she already has one of her lovers cum inside her, I'm allowed to perform oral sex on her which she loves me doing and of course perform clean up duties on her and any of her lovers that want me too, Lisa continues to peg me and wants to start stretching me for her lovers to use me too,

yesterday we both signed a contract of Ownership, I am now owned by my wife in all sexual matters and her slave, we haven't been this happy for a very long time, Lisa has one lover already and if everything goes ok this week she has someone 20 years younger staying over Saturday while I sleep in the bed cage under them, I'm happy to post updates if people would like that.