Our Hotwives

subtoall wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 01, 2024 9:51 pm

collegecuck_tx3 wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 01, 2024 11:00 am

Or, she could once again just be testing me, seeing if I will completely abandon these desires in the interest of our relationship and prioritize us completely, knowing that eventually she may want to get back together with Carlos or someone else later on.

If she is testing you, this kind of deceitfulness on her part is not conducive to a healthy relationship, and she appears to have done this before with you so you may be right. You guys are young, so it's somewhat understandable that this kind of behavior is happening but this tendancy of hers does not reflect well on her IMO.

Honest communications from both of you is needed if you want to avoid future disasters as a couple. You already had a disaster around this kind of stuff last year. I fear you're not ready for marriage and children if you can't both figure out how to be honest with each other.

collegecuck_tx3 wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 01, 2024 11:00 am

Only time will tell, but as you say, I am going along with her desires here. She wants me to commit to us and set these fantasies aside. I am going to do everything I can to comply with that wish.

slenderfish wrote: ↑

Tue Apr 02, 2024 7:21 am

Time is your friend here. Take your time and show your love and support. Of course she is allowed to ask for a break in the cuckolding activity, as are you. And just like you would like her to accommodate your requests, you should accommodate hers.

At the same time, you are still the same person, and so is she. Your desires over the long term will not change. Her ability to enjoy participating, and her desires, are the unknowns here. Will this be a short-term break? A long-term break? Or permanent? Time will tell.

But again, sitting here from my perspective (and I believe just about everybody on this site who has this kink), your desires will not change over time.

And I also speak from experience, that getting married while in college is not a high-percentage success play. Again, time is your friend.

DavaoMike wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 01, 2024 1:29 pm

She may honestly think she can transform herself into a traditional, vanilla, monogamous wife, but she’s just kidding herself. If you love her, then marry her, and don’t raise the subject of being a cuckold until she does. I’d be willing to bet that, down the road, she’ll want some variety on her own. I suggest that you go along with the idea, then let her lead the way.

collegecuck_tx3 wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 01, 2024 8:06 am

There has been a rather significant development over the weekend, I guess actually starting on Wednesday with Carlos.

Apparently Jess told Carlos on Wednesday that it was going to be their last time together. She didn’t mention this to me until we were on our drive back to school after spending Easter with family.

We had a long conversation about our future together after the weekend at home. I think the incident with Jamal made her take stock of where she’s at in her life and made her rethink where she’s going.

She wants us to start thinking about marriage again. We aren’t setting a date or making any specific plans yet, but she says she’s been thinking that she really would like us to start planning a future together. But she says she feels like the experimentation we’ve been doing is not what she would want in a marriage. I think she’s interested in figuring out if I can put my desires aside and step up to be the only man in her life, which is how she would want it to be as a wife.

So, for now at least, the extracurricular activity has been put on hold and Jess wants us to focus on what our future together might look like.

So the ball is in my court. I have to decide if I can live without these desires that have been given free rein for a little while.

I think I can, but we shall see

collegecuck_tx3 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 18, 2024 4:08 am

There is an update.

We have decided to go ahead and get married.

I know this is something many of you have recommended against, but we’ve talked about it and can’t see a compelling reason not to. We are living together anyway. When we go home for the summer, we will have to spend most of the summer apart because neither of our parents will let us stay together in their house if we aren’t married. It’ll make both our parents much happier if we are married and won’t change much between us to make it happen.

Except, of course, the active participation in my fantasies which are basically put aside completely.

But I have Jess and that’s an amazing thing even without getting to play around with the kink.

We are working with our parents to set a date, trying to do it as early in the summer as possible so that we can continue to live together when we are home as well.

collegecuck_tx3 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 18, 2024 4:08 am

There is an update.

We have decided to go ahead and get married.

I know this is something many of you have recommended against, but we’ve talked about it and can’t see a compelling reason not to. We are living together anyway. When we go home for the summer, we will have to spend most of the summer apart because neither of our parents will let us stay together in their house if we aren’t married. It’ll make both our parents much happier if we are married and won’t change much between us to make it happen.

Except, of course, the active participation in my fantasies which are basically put aside completely.

But I have Jess and that’s an amazing thing even without getting to play around with the kink.

We are working with our parents to set a date, trying to do it as early in the summer as possible so that we can continue to live together when we are home as well.

afagehi7 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 18, 2024 2:01 pm

Congratulations! Don't worry, your hotwife/cuck adventure is not over, it's merely beginning. She might take a break but once married she'll be more secure and she's already realized how much fun she can have. The box is open

4herpleasure89 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 18, 2024 6:23 pm

Stop posting here without Jess’ knowledge or consent. You’re going to be married now.

collegecuck_tx3 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 18, 2024 4:08 am

There is an update.

We have decided to go ahead and get married.

I know this is something many of you have recommended against, but we’ve talked about it and can’t see a compelling reason not to. We are living together anyway. When we go home for the summer, we will have to spend most of the summer apart because neither of our parents will let us stay together in their house if we aren’t married. It’ll make both our parents much happier if we are married and won’t change much between us to make it happen.

Except, of course, the active participation in my fantasies which are basically put aside completely.

But I have Jess and that’s an amazing thing even without getting to play around with the kink.

We are working with our parents to set a date, trying to do it as early in the summer as possible so that we can continue to live together when we are home as well.