Gold band with a lock

[Threeisacharm]

I did a search but couldn't find any. A couple I hooked up with, he wasn't wearing a cage but he had a gold band around his cock with a small clasp and lock and she had the key on her anklet. Is that common?

[iloanmywife]

It sounds like a locking cock ring. It won't prevent an erection or orgasm like a chastity cage. Quite the opposite, actually, as they are designed to enable better erections and arguably more powerful orgasms. A locking ring is a good solution for couples who want the submission/ownership aspect without the outright orgasm denial. Or rather, any denial is on the honor system. "You can play, but never forget that this is mine." Plus, a cock ring doesn't have all of the hygiene or practicality issues that come with chastity devices. If sized perfectly, an ergonomic cock ring can be worn almost indefinitely.

Ask me how I know, lol.