Re: Fighting the cuckold fantasy
Posted: Mon Mar 25, 2024 7:58 pm
Hmmm... Some of my replies kind of got mixed in the yellow text, oh well.
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Tire_Kicker wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 7:55 pmI saw a couple so in love that they would truly do anything for each other. It was a special relationship. I really liked Randy and would have done anything for him.
I have so much respect for cuckold couples. I'm actually jealous of what it does for relationships and the trust involved to allow it to work.Tire_Kicker wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 7:55 pmI had girlfriends, she had flings and in the end I realized that the thought of her with another man was a huge turn on. I could also be fiercely jealous, it was confusing and exciting. I guess we were finding ourselves...
I wasn't sure if you were posting a follow up...?
As mentioned previously, I'm still trying to figure out the class structure, it could be that we are a cuckold couple just not as often. My wife can't wait to be back with me and "reclaimed" as some call it on here. It has never been more than a one night thing and she is adamant that it is for me and my "weird' fantasies and nothing more. I've been making her toes curl for four decades and she wants nothing more. It drives her crazy when women come on to me, sometimes right in front of her. Kind of surprises me too truth be told, I tell her it's just to keep her on her toes lol.hubudig2 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 1:47 pmTire_Kicker wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 7:55 pmI saw a couple so in love that they would truly do anything for each other. It was a special relationship. I really liked Randy and would have done anything for him.I have so much respect for cuckold couples. I'm actually jealous of what it does for relationships and the trust involved to allow it to work.Tire_Kicker wrote: ↑Mon Mar 25, 2024 7:55 pmI had girlfriends, she had flings and in the end I realized that the thought of her with another man was a huge turn on. I could also be fiercely jealous, it was confusing and exciting. I guess we were finding ourselves...
I preach it to those that are considering it but there's not an ounce of me that thinks I could share my wife.
The idea doesn't turn me on at all, it's entirely bad feelings. Jealousy isn't the word, more like disgust.
When someone reaches out to me that's torn between finding it highly erotic and horribly gut punchy, I actually find that quite easy to imagine and feel the need to do anything I can to help.
I wasn't sure if you were posting a follow up...?
Or is that for me to follow up?
I'm always reluctant to put definitions to labels publicly, it often starts heated debates.Tire_Kicker wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 9:39 pmAs mentioned previously, I'm still trying to figure out the class structure, it could be that we are a cuckold couple just not as often. My wife can't wait to be back with me and "reclaimed" as some call it on here. It has never been more than a one night thing and she is adamant that it is for me and my "weird' fantasies and nothing more. I've been making her toes curl for four decades and she wants nothing more. It drives her crazy when women come on to me, sometimes right in front of her. Kind of surprises me too truth be told, I tell her it's just to keep her on her toes lol.
She's fully aware of everything I do, as of about 2 years ago (we've been together for 14-20 years).Tire_Kicker wrote: ↑Tue Mar 26, 2024 9:39 pmDoes your wife know you're a practicing bull? What is that conversation like...
Honestly, no.hubudig2 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:07 pmThanks for such a hot and detailed response!
It seems like a hot concept (for me at least) to consider that you were competing to out-do each other there.SheLikesWhenIWatch wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 6:38 amThen, the squeaky bed noises. Mike was going all in, and his bride was becoming much more vocal. My wife pulled me on top of her, and we started to return the hot favor of “mutual moaning” to let the other party know we, too, were having some fun. It eventually got raucous with headboards SLAMMING the shared wall, almost like Mike and I were trying to out-do each other in the “I can fuck my wife harder than you can fuck yours” realm. We surely did damage to that wall on both sides.
The forfeit was 10 years jerking off to the thought of the winner fucking his wife.
I wonder what you might've thought about that concept in that moment.
We have made this “lifestyle” work for us because we have committed to it. But it wasn’t just smooth sailing as we got started, either.hubudig2 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:07 pmEver consider if that night hadn't happened, would you have gotten into it at another time? Or maybe never at all?SheLikesWhenIWatch wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 6:38 amTo be honest, though, THAT moment……watching Mike’s dick sliding in and out of his bride’s sweet pussy…..was when I imagined how utterly HOT it would be to watch him do the same to my wife, ultimately filling her with his cum, listening to her moaning and enjoying it, his fucking cute wife and me watching him “own” my wife’s pussy…..him claiming my wife’s sexy cunt for himself in front of his bride……and then claiming his own bride’s pussy immediately afterward.
I was dumbstruck! In that moment, I looked down at my own cock and could imagine nothing more than it being HIS cock that was splitting my wife open. I couldn’t imagine anything else. I knew in that moment that I wanted to be a cuck. I wanted my wife to fuck another man, take his cum inside her, and show me how much she enjoyed it.
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Although Mike’s wife was cute as hell, I really didn’t care about swapping. I didn’t want to fuck her, actually. I wanted Mike to “demonstrate” his superiority by fucking both girls to orgasm and depositing his sperm in my wife.
I didn’t know what it was called at the time, but I wanted my wife to cuck me……ideally right away……with Mike and his newlywed wife. I wanted to watch my wife enjoy another man’s raging cock. I wanted to watch her enjoy being manhandled (rough play? light choking?) by a man who’s clearly stronger than me.
If you put 100 men through that same experience, how many would have the same outcome?
(These are the kinds of questions that keep me up at night )
Sadly, as you know, their honeymoon to our family’s Rocky Mountain cabin was cut short by her father’s cardiac arrest (which he survived, but scary nonetheless).hubudig2 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:07 pmDoes Mike know what an affect that night had on you?
Was he doing anything in particular that grabbed your attention like that?
e.g. Was his cock bigger? Was he more capable? Did his wife look like she was enjoying it more than yours?
Or did your mind make it seem like those things were true? Because it was a hot idea to you?
It does sound like he took charge of the situation.
Why do you think fucking side-by-side like that caused you to latch onto this idea?
As readers know, my wife eventually cucked me with her boss.
I’ve indicated in previous posts and in this one (above) that my wife was devoutly Catholic early in our marriage, when Mike and his wife came to Colorado for a “cheap honeymoon.”hubudig2 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:07 pmDo you think it had something to do with what you went on to explain about him seeing your wife naked and fucked?
It was close enough to a cuck experience to trigger you?
I'm sure you've discussed that occasion many times with your wife.
I'm assuming when you first told her how you really felt about it, when she looked back on it, she wasn't into the idea of fucking Mike?
Now that she's into the idea too, does she look back on it like a missed opportunity?
I agree that A LOT of guys are into the idea of getting cucked…….but society looks down upon us, so no one wants to admit how fucking intoxicating the notion is. I love reading about all of the “alpha by day; cuck by night” stories here, on OHW. These are the men who admit, “It’s kinda fun to let her drive every now and then.”hubudig2 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:07 pmIt does seem crazy but I actually believe that most, if not all guys are capable of being into this, it just takes a particular [set of] experience[s]/circumstance[s].SheLikesWhenIWatch wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 6:38 amUntil that moment, the thought never crossed my mind.
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Crazy, right? (It’s amazing to be blindsided by something like that at such a young age. We were so naive.)
I think I've been personally responsible for converting 2 or 3 guys.
I actually like that idea and I don't know if that makes me a bad person?
I do occasionally feel the pangs of self-doubt.hubudig2 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:07 pmDid you not feel conflicted about it after cumming? That time or any time thereafter.SheLikesWhenIWatch wrote: ↑Fri Mar 22, 2024 6:38 amI was that deer in the headlights. (“WTF just happened?” I remember thinking.)