New marital developments
Posted: Sun Mar 31, 2024 9:28 am
Hello everyone. I've been meaning to make this post for a while and am finally getting around to it. My wife Betsy and I are in our mid/late 40s and married for close to 15 years. She's a dental hygienist, 5'6", long blonde/dirty-blonde hair, with a non-skinny voluptuous figure. We have always had a fairly vanilla sex life which is why the events of the past 8 months are so remarkable.
It all started when she met Joe, a new patient at work, last summer. He's a mid-20's office manager for a small to medium company in our area. When she got ready to clean his teeth she realized the chair she normally sits in was traded for another one that was adjusted lower, and she was unable to move it up. This resulted in a situation where one of her breasts was routinely being pressed into his head throughout the cleaning. She is a consumate professional and didn't really think about it until he complimented her "bedside manner" with a flirty quip after all was said and done. She took it in stride of course and gave a noncommittal response.
Later after the appointment was completely over and she was ready to send him to the front desk for checkout, he asked her out on a date, to which she replied she was flattered but also married.
When she told me about it I was somewhat flabbergasted that a young man had asked my wife out. I took a very positive approach to my response, doing a general "good for you" vibe as we both laughed about it. In the following weeks I couldn't help but catch myself thinking about what if she said yes, and the idea of her dating a much younger guy began to appear in my head on a regular basis. There was no denying that while it was a very dangerous idea if actually taking place, it was also exciting to me. As to our sex life it's okay if not thrilling, and all I'll say is there is a pretty decent chance in my mind a younger man could take her to places I can't.
That being said I couldn't help but mention Joe here and there, jokingly asking if she was going to change her mind and what not, to which she simply shushed me and moved on.
It was about a month later when he returned for a filling and she assisted in the procedure. Again he talked her up when they were alone in the room, and again asking her out, to which she said no.
I've never been to any sort of hotwife or cuckolding fantasy but when she told me he was still interested a month later, I found myself actively fantasizing about the two of them together, and I loved the idea of her getting fully into it and having the time of her life with him.
One night after dinner with a few drinks and we were on the couch flirting, the subject of joe came up and I asked if she had fantasized about him. She was a little taken aback but I assured her it was a playful topic and I had no issues with it if she did. She still said no but became very frisky as our bedroom time commenced.
Over the next few months I didn't mention the situation often but I did bring it up on occasion so as not to let it become completely forgotten.
"Has Joe been back in?" was usually how I would start it up and she would say no, ask if I was feeling any jealousy, to which I replied no not at all and that she was free to flirt with him if she wanted. Also telling her it was not uncommon for couples to be okay with some level of flirting outside the marriage.
After the third or fourth time she became extra frisky when his name came up, I commented on it gently and suggested next time he comes in she should try maybe doing something other than completely shooting him down, and we could then pick things up together in the bedroom when she got home. She more or less shot that idea down but lo and behold things did progress a few months ago when he showed up for another cleaning.
This time as she was cleaning his teeth and watching the TV on the ceiling, they started talking about the cartoon that was on, and how he had watched the show growing up. When she told me later she had let him text her a funny video, I could see she was visibly shaken and I hugged her and told her it was completely fine, and I was the one who suggested it.
I had a hunch another text would come and I wasn't surprised when it came that very night. She showed me the phone and I saw firsthand that again he asked her out. We went to the bedroom, had an amazing time, and for the first time ever we discussed the situation seriously afterwards. I asked her how she was going to respond and she simply said it would be with an unwavering no. I made the case that she could also try being just a little bit less than fully clear since we were reaping the benefits in the bedroom. She laughed and shrugged it off.
From that point on he started becoming a bit of a household name. I made it clear I was happy for her that, as a still beautiful woman she was getting attention from a younger man, and I felt it was an all around good dynamic for both her and my morale in the bedroom. She seemed to adopt this position as well.
About a week later she again showed me her phone, and I saw her response of "my husband probably wouldn't approve" and found it to be more playful and less final than even I imagined she would come up with. He started texting her on a regular basis after that. I encouraged her to have fun and I was 100% good with whatever she decided to do.
For a month after that whenever I would ask she would tell me he texts her regularly and she only sometimes answers, not really saying too much but not shutting him down completely either.
Things have progressed since then but getting a little long on this one. Will have to add more later.
It all started when she met Joe, a new patient at work, last summer. He's a mid-20's office manager for a small to medium company in our area. When she got ready to clean his teeth she realized the chair she normally sits in was traded for another one that was adjusted lower, and she was unable to move it up. This resulted in a situation where one of her breasts was routinely being pressed into his head throughout the cleaning. She is a consumate professional and didn't really think about it until he complimented her "bedside manner" with a flirty quip after all was said and done. She took it in stride of course and gave a noncommittal response.
Later after the appointment was completely over and she was ready to send him to the front desk for checkout, he asked her out on a date, to which she replied she was flattered but also married.
When she told me about it I was somewhat flabbergasted that a young man had asked my wife out. I took a very positive approach to my response, doing a general "good for you" vibe as we both laughed about it. In the following weeks I couldn't help but catch myself thinking about what if she said yes, and the idea of her dating a much younger guy began to appear in my head on a regular basis. There was no denying that while it was a very dangerous idea if actually taking place, it was also exciting to me. As to our sex life it's okay if not thrilling, and all I'll say is there is a pretty decent chance in my mind a younger man could take her to places I can't.
That being said I couldn't help but mention Joe here and there, jokingly asking if she was going to change her mind and what not, to which she simply shushed me and moved on.
It was about a month later when he returned for a filling and she assisted in the procedure. Again he talked her up when they were alone in the room, and again asking her out, to which she said no.
I've never been to any sort of hotwife or cuckolding fantasy but when she told me he was still interested a month later, I found myself actively fantasizing about the two of them together, and I loved the idea of her getting fully into it and having the time of her life with him.
One night after dinner with a few drinks and we were on the couch flirting, the subject of joe came up and I asked if she had fantasized about him. She was a little taken aback but I assured her it was a playful topic and I had no issues with it if she did. She still said no but became very frisky as our bedroom time commenced.
Over the next few months I didn't mention the situation often but I did bring it up on occasion so as not to let it become completely forgotten.
"Has Joe been back in?" was usually how I would start it up and she would say no, ask if I was feeling any jealousy, to which I replied no not at all and that she was free to flirt with him if she wanted. Also telling her it was not uncommon for couples to be okay with some level of flirting outside the marriage.
After the third or fourth time she became extra frisky when his name came up, I commented on it gently and suggested next time he comes in she should try maybe doing something other than completely shooting him down, and we could then pick things up together in the bedroom when she got home. She more or less shot that idea down but lo and behold things did progress a few months ago when he showed up for another cleaning.
This time as she was cleaning his teeth and watching the TV on the ceiling, they started talking about the cartoon that was on, and how he had watched the show growing up. When she told me later she had let him text her a funny video, I could see she was visibly shaken and I hugged her and told her it was completely fine, and I was the one who suggested it.
I had a hunch another text would come and I wasn't surprised when it came that very night. She showed me the phone and I saw firsthand that again he asked her out. We went to the bedroom, had an amazing time, and for the first time ever we discussed the situation seriously afterwards. I asked her how she was going to respond and she simply said it would be with an unwavering no. I made the case that she could also try being just a little bit less than fully clear since we were reaping the benefits in the bedroom. She laughed and shrugged it off.
From that point on he started becoming a bit of a household name. I made it clear I was happy for her that, as a still beautiful woman she was getting attention from a younger man, and I felt it was an all around good dynamic for both her and my morale in the bedroom. She seemed to adopt this position as well.
About a week later she again showed me her phone, and I saw her response of "my husband probably wouldn't approve" and found it to be more playful and less final than even I imagined she would come up with. He started texting her on a regular basis after that. I encouraged her to have fun and I was 100% good with whatever she decided to do.
For a month after that whenever I would ask she would tell me he texts her regularly and she only sometimes answers, not really saying too much but not shutting him down completely either.
Things have progressed since then but getting a little long on this one. Will have to add more later.