So, forgive me for asking, but why are you still here?
And by "you" I don't specifically me you in particular, but anyone on this forum that has come here and conclude that hotwifing is not a good lifestyle?
It's like you came to check out the party, determined it's not for you, but stayed anyway. That fine, all are welcome, but it's a little odd. Plus, if you are gonna stay at the party that you don't like, please don't tell the other people the party sucks. That's a little rude.
And, again, I'm addressing the may "you's " that have determined this is not for you.
Odd question with an odd answer. Should I really answer in the first place? As it's off-topic by quite a lot, shouldn't you better make a thread with a poll or something? I can even give back the question to you since I've been wondering why, in the last couple of months, you've tried to actively promote your choices in life and glorifying the lifestyle to newcomers or people who have doubts beyond what I would consider mere friendly advice, especially when you have extoled virtues while forgetting to even mention the sacrifices necessary to achieve happiness and balance. Don't take this in the wrong way by any means – I’m not judging and the question is really rhetorical, at best. No one can point a finger at someone else other than him or her for a bad decision he or she took, IMHO. Just like me, those newcomers who came here must have read other testimonies, right?
Anyway, to satisfy your curiosity like some very kind people satisfied mine before, I will offer you’re a proper answer. There are interesting threads worth reading, IMO. Like the very insightful (for outsiders) current "Anklets" thread and the always funny caricature (my personal take) of the cuckold written by Excitedcuckold also here in the Library. It’s also nice to read feel good stories like Rob+8’s, even though the way he plays with his wife is way out of my comfort zone. Other threads have attracted my interest from time to time too. This wouldn't be a good forum without active and engaging posters, after all. Do not also forget that this website is the place that Xleglover decided to call home and release his stories first, last time I've checked. It's worth coming here from time to time to know if there's new updates or news about the author of this thread.
Once here, is it then really forbidden to read other threads? If that is indeed true, then it is a new unwritten forum rule, at least one I did not know about before. I am always learning around here!
PS: If and when you make your poll, do make sure to choose possible answers that could meet a very diverse set of reasons. Who knows? It could turn out to be a very helpful poll for the whole website in various ways.