Tip 10 - By Special Request - The Art of the MFM - A Hot Wife Hub perspective
MFM threesome she stays in the middle, an MFM is all about the girl, hence the ‘F’ in the middle. A little known fact is the position of the letters
MMF that is Man in the middle but it is the second ‘M’ so therefore the middle guy is not the primary in the relationship, normally the guest.
FMM – The primary guy is in the middle. Et’al So it is always about the middle person, also that does not prevent interaction between all three.
Today we deal with the HW favourite of MFM, I have been in a few with my wife and I have observed her in a few also. Whether or not the men are into experimenting, touching, rubbing, oral sexing or even fucking with each other is very relevant to the entire scene because, if they’re not, then things will get awkward when they’re naked next to each other. You need to establish how far you will go, what are your limits (all three), what you are comfortable and what is a no go area. Some guys are happy to be blown, however won’t return the favour. If you are against or freaked by any same sex touching, do not go for this as it is inevitable, you are going to touch. You might even experience the old gay cliché of your balls banging against your buddies balls. Absolutely funny as hell the first time.
It is about the woman, Therefore she doesn’t want to be drunk or tired as she will be getting double the dosage of ‘happy seed’ she is used to and the guys will often compete to see who fucks best. She needs to be in control of the scene, stay focused and be in please them mode. So the best bet is for the woman to remain in between them and that will keep the focus on her. This way, she will receive the utmost pleasure and have four hands and two cocks at her beck and call at all times.
MFM begins, She leads the way, guys if she is kissing the other guy, kiss her neck, go down on her, do not pull her away. Remember due to the outnumbering of cock to pussy a threesome can have awkward moments, especially if it is the first for anybody or if the woman is not too confident and doesn’t stay fully in control. Also, some guys are a little apprehensive about taking control for obvious reasons, so it’s up to the woman to lead the way. There is nothing wrong with being the conductor.
“Touch there and lick that.” Guys love that.
The don’ts are “Would you like to fuck me now?” The hardest question for a guy ever. It always works better if the girl says “Bill, Bob.” Whoever she choose – “Fuck me.” Guys get off on that and they love sexy women that know what they want.
Guys if it is your girl, have already before you meet the order in which you want to have your first fuck. It is rude to say – But I wanted to go then, it is a cock deflator without a doubt
Nobody has to shout out orders or place the other threesome participants in position; all the woman has to do is get on all fours on the bed and begin blowing a cock and the orchestra will follow, the other guy will easily get the hint that it’s time to penetrate, however keep the chat in the locker just in case. When she’s ready to switch, she can stop sucking, look up at the guy that slipped from her mouth and say in a low voice, “Now, I want you to fuck me.” Sometimes you need the hint and the roll of the eyes toward the night stand “Condom please babe.” He’ll get it......
If anyone is keen on the bum business and anal sex is on the menu – to the guys or the girl it’s imperative to discuss this beforehand, unless you are already very accustomed to being anally penetrated, there is some serious prep to do. The last thing anyone wants is a woman shouting at the top of her voice in pain and ending the session whilst she rubs ice cubes on her arse ring, or a poo-stained pecker being thrown in the mix. Anal sex is not like the porn films and the bum hungry plumber shoving a log sized cock up the wife’s poop shoot. Reality is about, diet and prep and butt plugs and lube.
An unwritten rule used to always be the old One man up, one man down routine, but double Blow Jobs are fun, that is two cocks in her mouth or two mouths on one cock. That obviously requires a bit of brotherly love and trust. It’s a great idea for one guy to stay on her upper regions when the other is on the lower, and vice versa. That way, a woman’s chances of having multiple orgasms increases. However there is a sex position called “The Bomb”, girl is penetrated by one guy and licked to orgasm by the other. It can be really hot if the guys don’t mind being in close proximity of each other, then each one can suck a nipple or take turns kissing her body all over. Also break the taboo of having another guy’s cock in your mouth, it aint so bad, you never know until you try it. Some of the best blow jobs I have ever received have been from men.
Make sure your room is like condom central, have condoms everywhere. It also keeps everything clean. My wife makes a condom necklace. When doing this, be sure not to put the needle through the latex, she sometimes at events wears a condom necklace around her neck and when a guy comes along, she pulls one off and applies it to his cock, unless she saw him put one on, she will remove his current one and fit a clean one. SAFETY FIRST NOW. Even if you think you know each other really well, condoms are your friend and you should use them. You should have enough around so that condoms can be changed often. It’s possible that the HW or the men may not want to suck on a condom that has been inside her, or you are cool with bare oral. It takes a little something away from the spontaneity of the sex and, most threesomes don’t lend themselves to enthusiastic condom use, but I recommend them and you will hopefully use them.
No double entry dipping. If it is has been in a bum and is not going straight back in there, remove the rubber. Same deal for pussy. The bacteria between pussies and arses are not great and definitely not between different people. All condoms are one hole and gone.
Give equal attention, for a novice HW this can be difficult for several reasons
1. You chose this guy because of his monster cock and it is the biggest one you have ever seen. Unless this is your scene as a couple, you cooing like a five year old on Christmas is going to kill future dates.
2. He could be the best fuck you ever had
3. You get down to it and he is a one and done guy and no matter what you do he can’t get hard again.
4. Hubby decides to go to the corner and watch.
While it’s okay to spend a few minutes enjoying oral sex without having to do anything in the meanwhile, you do need to keep in mind that leaving someone out for an extended period of time is bad threesome etiquette and it becomes a one on one with a voyeur whether intended or not.
Make sure that you’re giving pleasure while you receive it more often than not, reach out and rub some balls or a cock while you suck. Or go for the spit roast. Again when you are not in brilliant physical fitness shape, it can be quite breath taking, so sucking somebody off while you are breathing heavy, could be tough.
I mentioned, sitting and watching, having a wank or a diddle. Feel free to watch, it maybe the first time and you are in awe of whatever the combination is. Be careful though of whispering sweet nothings, when the third is away at the loo, getting drinks or wanking in the corner, a sure promoter of the old green eyed monster, jealousy.
Sometimes the men involved may feel comfortable enough to play with each other, this is mind blowing for a woman to see. My wife loves it. The woman can sit back and enjoy the scene. And sometimes one of the men will take a break because he doesn’t want to cum to quick (think the one and done guys, not their fault), and so wants to just watch as the woman gets fucked by the other guy. You have got to feel free to wank off if the mood strikes.
I should have mentioned earlier, be comfortable about walking around nude with each other.
From oral sex on each other to stroking each other as you all have sex, especially when men aren’t afraid to get in each other’s line of fire, the sexual experience will be that much more enticing.
Be creative, from three way oral sex to double penetration, let your creative ‘juices flow’ ha ha when you get involved in a MFM threesome because you never know when, or if, this opportunity will present itself again.
Feel your way through with each other and think up interesting ways to make the experience as fulfilling a possible for all of you. She can double blow on both men (wank one while sucking the other, then switch); let one fuck her while she sucks the balls of the other; let one place his cock between her tits while the other fucks her, snowball some spunk between sexy kisses. There is no limit to the amazing things you can do in a MFM threesome.
Threesomes Golden Rule – Honesty with what you want to get out of it, your fantasy in full and your personal limits.
Having an MFM threesome may not happen often for most of us, but when they do, most women admit that it is an experience that they will never forget.
So if you’re ready, willing and able, engage in one of the biggest fantasies of all married men and most married women dream of – get on board and enjoy it!
That is the end of my 10 tips.
I am happy to give tips on other things, if people want it. I have been watching my wife fuck other men and women for close to 25 years, I have been lucky enough to join in from time to time. So if we can help, please let us know.
Have fun out there and don’t do anything sexually that the Truckstars wouldn’t do. Mmmmm That don’t leave much.