As the title says, this isn't my first time in chastity so let me start with our background. My wife and I have been married for over 25 years and we learned to be open with each other early on. I told her about how I was turned on by BDSM and submitting to a woman right off the bat and that was where things started. My wife loves to fuck and likes kink and about the only thing she draws the line at is she is NEVER submissive and she doesn't like anything to do with foot fetish. We got into bondage and discipline games and we eventually got to a point where my wife would go out partying with her girlfriends and would leave me home tied to our bed and blindfolded so I couldn't really tell how long she was gone. A couple of times she even brought a friend into the room with her when she returned and showed how she would leave me while she was out with them! As time went by she was becoming bolder in her dominance!
The point where things took a change was the night she went out with some girlfriends to a local bar to see a male stripper show that was in town. As usual she left me tied and blindfolded in the bed, with the promise that she would return very horny and aroused. When she finally came home she never said a word, just undressed and pulled the blanket back and started stroking me. This wasn't unusual because she had done the same thing when she had brought her friends home and let them fondle me. I wouldn't know there were two of them until they would start talking. This time it was just her and she finally said to me "I had a great time tonight, but I have to make a confession. I hope you won't be mad, but I gave a blow job to one of the strippers!" I told her I wasn't upset and was in fact totally turned on that she had done that! She said she was glad I was okay with it, as she would like to start doing more than just partying with her girlfriends. She said she would like to be able to fuck another guy once in a while if I was okay with it. All during the conversation she never quit stroking me and by this time I was so aroused I would have agreed to just about anything, she knew exactly what she was doing! I reminded her that she was the one in charge and she could do whatever she wanted. She then mounted me and as she lowered herself onto me she said I had better be ready to spend more time tied, as she would be coming home a lot later.
For some time after that she would go out with her friends and every now and then hook up with a guy. She would always tell me about it when she returned home, usually while riding my erection while I was still tied up. One night she came home and as soon as I heard her come into the room she climbed onto the bed without saying anything and immediately straddled my face and had me start eating her pussy! I hadn't heard her undress, so I assumed she had stripped before coming in the room which was a little unusual. After a couple of minutes she said "How do you like the taste of your best friend's cum in your wife's pussy? I just fucked him in our driveway and came straight in here without even dressing so you could taste him!" I had never done anything like that before, but when she told me what I was tasting I found that it turned me on! She later told me what a huge turn-on it was for her to know I was home tied up and unable to do anything but think about her being out fucking another man!
My wife cuckolded me several times like that through the years and we tried swinging for a couple of years too, but gave up on that after getting fed up up with all the fakes and phonies and the B.S. Shortly after we quit the swinging scene my wife also quit going out and seeing other guys too. It seemed like everything extramarital just kind of stopped and my wife said she just wasn't interested in it anymore. Several years later she confessed to me that the reason she stopped was because she had started having some very strong feelings for a guy she had started seeing on a regular basis, and it scared her that it could possibly break us up. It had taken her a long time to be able to tell me that she had started to fall in love with him.
After several years of a basically vanilla sex life I found myself more and more looking at porn on the internet and masturbating a lot. I was pretty much ignoring my wife and her being as hot blooded as she was it was causing problems in our relationship. I eventually got up the courage to tell her what I had been doing and suggested chastity as a way to resolve the problem. She thought that would be a good idea and I purchased a CB3000 which she promptly locked me in. So began my start in chastity! It didn't go all that well the first time around. I do a lot of motorcycle touring and I couldn't ride with the CB3000 on. I bought a Bon 4 in hopes that the flexible nature of a silicone device would be the solution. Due to other issues I found it to be too uncomfortable to use for extended periods also and went back to the CB3000. After it split along the seam and pinched me I got a CB6000s which fit me better, but my wife pretty much quit making me wear it. She was concerned about "her penis" getting damaged. I would get her to lock me up from time to time but it seemed like something would come up that I would have to take the CB6000s off and it would be weeks before it went back on.
During this period she had gotten back in touch on Facebook with a boyfriend she had before we met. I had met him after we were married, as he came to visit for a few days and my wife told me later that he had hit on her while he was staying with us but she had turned him down. This was before we had started doing anything extramarital. She had also told me that he was very well endowed, to the tune of about 10 inches when erect, but that he didn't get near as hard as I do. I'm only about 5 &1/2 inches when erect (hence the CB6000s) but my wife says she's never had another penis as hard as what mine gets. Jack (not his real name) was working as a civilian contractor in Afghanistan at this time and was coming back to the States for a break and my wife asked me if she could invite him for a visit. I asked her if she would like to go to bed with him again and she said that she had given that some thought and was definitely interested so I told her to go ahead and invite him. After that their texts back and forth got pretty hot so I knew it would probably happen. He showed up at the house a couple of weeks latter and we put him up in the bedroom next to ours, which has a door between them. That night my wife and I were lying in bed watching TV and without saying anything she got up and went into Jack's room. A little later she came walking back into our room totally naked with her nightgown in her hand and a big smile on her face. I knew what had happened and asked her how it was. She said he had never gotten really hard and had cum pretty quick. She thought he was nervous about me being in the next room. The next morning she told me to go in his room and thank him for fucking her, which I did. Since I'm retired and my wife still works I spent the next couple of days with Jack and we talked a lot about the things we had done between his last visit and this one. He said he appreciated the opportunity to 'renew acquaintances' with my wife and if it wasn't for the fact he was getting married pretty soon he would come to visit more often. He said his fiancee wasn't into that sort of thing, which was a shame.
This is were my return to chastity begins. This all took place last fall, and after that my wife started getting more dominant again. I'm guessing that being with Jack again broke the ice and she started wanting to be in charge again. Just after the first of the year I suggested we try chastity again and she agreed wholeheartedly! She locked me up in the CB6000s again on January 4th and she has only let me out for one ruined orgasm on January 11th! She unlocks me about once a week to shave, which she supervises. She said she wouldn't even allow me to do that except she is afraid of cutting me so she allows me to shave myself while she watches then locks me right back up. About two weeks after she initially locked me up I had to take a 1000 mile motorcycle trip. In the past I've never been locked up longer than two weeks. She asked me if I wanted to remove the CB for the trip and I told her no, I wanted to try to do it locked up. She said she was hoping that's what I would say, but she wanted to put a plastic security lock on in place of the padlock in case I had to take the CB off. I left on the trip and that night when I was in the hotel room she texted me and asked how it was going after riding 500 miles. I told her it was a bit uncomfortable but I could handle it okay. She then told me that that made her happy because she really wanted to keep me locked all the time and now she knew I couldn't use the motorcycle trips as an excuse to get unlocked.
When I returned home a couple of days later she took the plastic lock off and put her padlock back on. She then informed me that after riding 1000 miles on the bike locked up I had no excuse for being unlocked and that this time it was a lifetime change. From now on the only reason for being unlocked will be for her pleasure, and necessary things such as shaving and going to the doctor etc. A week or so later I told her that I thought a custom made Jail Bird chastity cage would be quite a bit more comfortable and a lot easier to keep clean. When I had bought the Bon4 she wasn't too happy about what it cost so I didn't think she would be too receptive to the cost of a custom built cage but when I told her the price she said "Get it ordered! Since you have to live in it I think it's a good investment! I also don't trust the one you have to not break like the other one did." There is no doubt in my mind she is serious about lifetime chastity now, I've never seen her so positive about this before. After being locked up for 6 weeks I find that I can't keep my hands off of her and jump at any opportunity to fondle her and give her oral sex! She loves the attention she's getting now and just the other night she informed me that the only orgasms I'll be getting from now on will be ruined orgasms and maybe an occasional prostate milking. She also said she that she does enjoy feeling a man cum inside her from time to time and isn't willing to give that up so she will be having sex with other men occasionally. She says that it will be an occasional thing, probably a spur of the moment thing when the situation presents itself and just a one night fuck. She feels that our relationship has matured enough and is solid enough that she's not worried about developing an emotional attachment with someone else now and besides, how could she give up a man who's willing to have his penis locked for her pleasure? I have to say, I'm looking forward to this journey and will be posting updates as they take place!
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