My oh my. Don't think I would like the direction this is going!
How are you handling it?
It is exciting and very scary at the same time.
Welcome back TO!
So far I'm handling everything okay. On the domination front, she is doing what we have both wanted for a while. I have been wanting more from her and she has been put off at times with my attitude and we both think this is a step in the right direction. I've been wanting her to take a tighter grip on the reins for a while now and she is ready to do so too.
As for the chastity thing (I know you aren't into the hard core stuff) I've been locked 24/7 for long stretches so that's nothing new for me. She is very jealous so chastity gives her some security. She also absolutely hates for me to masturbate without her permission (which she rarely gives) and I have a hard time not doing it so the cage solves that issue too. The tease & denial is a good thing for both of us. She loves teasing me and the power of locking me back up frustrated. My sex drive has diminished over the years so keeping me somewhat on edge and denied works for us both. I am always turned on by her, but if I have an orgasm I have pretty much no interest in anything sexual for at least a week or more. Keeping me denied keeps me always wanting to do oral on her and cuddle with her and that sort of thing. Only being allowed to cum while being pegged and locked in chastity also plays into that. As I said, it's not a good orgasm and still leaves me wanting and she has figured this out. I don't get the severe drop that I experience with a full on orgasm but I still get to experience cumming. It's kind of hard to explain. I would guess it's something like ruined orgasms, you get to cum but you're still frustrated and wanting more.
Not being allowed to fuck her with my penis. That one was a surprise to me but I'm not surprised that she made that decision. She enjoys me inside her but I've gotten to the point where I can't go more than a few strokes without wanting to cum and it gets very frustrating for her. She is very multi-orgasmic and will cum several times while being fucked. She can get that from her lovers and from me fucking her with the penis sheath but it ain't happening with my bare dick! She is lucky if she can get one orgasm before I have to pull out to keep from cumming inside her, which I'm not allowed to do. On very special occasions she has broken the rule about not cumming inside her and has let me have a full orgasm while fucking her so if I really wanted to fuck her bareback and the time was right I'm sure she would allow it. It would have to be on something like my birthday or our wedding anniversary. She has never been able to cuckold me on our anniversary even though I have encouraged her to do so!
And, there's the sissy stuff. She knows I have a thing for women's undergarments, especially stuff like garters and stockings and panties. I've told her that when I was a kid my turn-ons came from the women's undergarment section of the Sears catalog and to this day a woman in girdle with stockings still trips my trigger! The sissy maid outfit was her idea but hey, if it turns her on I will give it a try. I used to say I would never suck a cock but she changed that! I did ask that she keep that a thing just between the two of us though, I can't really see me dressed like that around anyone else. Besides, any way you slice it, I would make an ugly woman!
So yeah, I'm pretty excited to see where she takes us with this new step up in control!