Re: A HW guide for having threesomes MFM
Posted: Tue Oct 20, 2015 2:44 am
How to Start for the first time
So tonight is the night, the first time. The very first time you and your partner will be having sex and including another man.
OK, this is straight MFM, no humiliation. Or cuckold stuff. Use this and adapt as required. Notwithstanding everything above, to avoid repetition.
in the beginning it can be difficult especially the first time and everyone is a bit nervous. The one thing you want to avoid is drinking to excess as it increases the risk that boundaries will be crossed thereby leading to issues later. I always say for the first time one drink. Not one bottle of wine, one drink no more.
The husband/wife need to start by planning how to start it and make sure there is a firm agreement with it and if not then the two of you will need to find a way around it. This is key, even if it feels fake or false, it works to plan and rehearse.
With that said, based on experience with threesome the best way to start a threesome is to make sure everyone is included. There are many ways you can do this and I will include a few tips to give you ideas. However it will be up to you decide, based on your knowledge of everyone about what will work.
Very nervous
1. A cheesy but effective one would be playing strip poker (or other quick card game) whereby the 'looser' removes an article of clothing.
2. Play 'Twister' naked. Not so simple with some of our age groups on here.
3. Write 12 cards with instructions on them and then place them into two containers so that each person can pick two randomly.
3a. Pot one has cards marked tongue, finger, hand, nose, palm and knee. The second pot has mouth, Pussy/cock, nipples, ass hole, chest and stomach. Then in turn you marry up the pot one with the pot two on somebody of the opposite sex. Replace and go again. The woman should swap between the men.
More adventurous
With this suggestion the woman takes lead by either undressing in front of them or leave the room to slip in something "more comfortable" in which she put on something sexy. She then begin to undress the friend and she encourage him to explore her body while the husband watches. Then all three of you go to the bedroom.
The very adventurous
Once you are together - go for it say "We all know why we are here" and the woman should go full on for the other man, it is easy for the hubby to catch up.
Or
The Hubby just starts undressing and the wife joins in and encourages the OM to follow suit.
This is by far the most direct and sure fire method I have ever tried.
In conclusion there are many ways to start a mfm threesome and hopefully some of these suggestions will help. Remember this can be one of the most enjoyable parts of the threesome or it can be a point that creates conflict. The best way, I feel, to make it as enjoyable as possible is to talk it through lots before meeting the third, to let him know what you have planned and to work out any issues that he may have. If you can do this then I feel it will be enjoyable experience for all three of you.
So tonight is the night, the first time. The very first time you and your partner will be having sex and including another man.
OK, this is straight MFM, no humiliation. Or cuckold stuff. Use this and adapt as required. Notwithstanding everything above, to avoid repetition.
in the beginning it can be difficult especially the first time and everyone is a bit nervous. The one thing you want to avoid is drinking to excess as it increases the risk that boundaries will be crossed thereby leading to issues later. I always say for the first time one drink. Not one bottle of wine, one drink no more.
The husband/wife need to start by planning how to start it and make sure there is a firm agreement with it and if not then the two of you will need to find a way around it. This is key, even if it feels fake or false, it works to plan and rehearse.
With that said, based on experience with threesome the best way to start a threesome is to make sure everyone is included. There are many ways you can do this and I will include a few tips to give you ideas. However it will be up to you decide, based on your knowledge of everyone about what will work.
Very nervous
1. A cheesy but effective one would be playing strip poker (or other quick card game) whereby the 'looser' removes an article of clothing.
2. Play 'Twister' naked. Not so simple with some of our age groups on here.
3. Write 12 cards with instructions on them and then place them into two containers so that each person can pick two randomly.
3a. Pot one has cards marked tongue, finger, hand, nose, palm and knee. The second pot has mouth, Pussy/cock, nipples, ass hole, chest and stomach. Then in turn you marry up the pot one with the pot two on somebody of the opposite sex. Replace and go again. The woman should swap between the men.
More adventurous
With this suggestion the woman takes lead by either undressing in front of them or leave the room to slip in something "more comfortable" in which she put on something sexy. She then begin to undress the friend and she encourage him to explore her body while the husband watches. Then all three of you go to the bedroom.
The very adventurous
Once you are together - go for it say "We all know why we are here" and the woman should go full on for the other man, it is easy for the hubby to catch up.
Or
The Hubby just starts undressing and the wife joins in and encourages the OM to follow suit.
This is by far the most direct and sure fire method I have ever tried.
In conclusion there are many ways to start a mfm threesome and hopefully some of these suggestions will help. Remember this can be one of the most enjoyable parts of the threesome or it can be a point that creates conflict. The best way, I feel, to make it as enjoyable as possible is to talk it through lots before meeting the third, to let him know what you have planned and to work out any issues that he may have. If you can do this then I feel it will be enjoyable experience for all three of you.