Body Image - What men really think is sexy

[afagehi7]

Do men really think they can tell hotwives on here what they should look like and how to dress to attract men?
Kinda like men telling women what kind of dick they need.

I was complimenting farmgirl.

[Her number1]

Do men really think they can tell hotwives on here what they should look like and how to dress to attract men?
Kinda like men telling women what kind of dick they need.

I was complimenting farmgirl.

I know, that's why I didn't quote you. LOL
I was just adding my cup of coffee worth.

[Farmgirl]

Understandable your personal preference is for women to be all made up as you have mentioned before "glam".

I don't wear makeup unless I'm going to a formal event. I have had more than a few people (both men and women) tell me I don't need to wear it.
I'm far from colorless or pale

I have never needed makeup or to be glammed up to catch a man's eye

My personality and presence when meeting in person is what catches their attention. My eye contact and the way I carry my body, the way I move and use the space around me. None of that has anything to do with what I am wearing or if I have added color to my skin. (My dirty mind attracts the men online, lol)

I'm thick and I know it but I also know that all I have to do is offer to walk (slowly) up the stairs in front of him and most men will be hooked.

Own it Hotwives! You are all awesome! ❤

Sexy, confident ATTITUDE is the most alluring thing to me. The feminine color thing is my own preference - but also that of MANY guys out there. Just watch a lady with killer makeup walk by guys and notice how they turn their heads and follow her until out of sight. I've made a point of watching other guys in just such a situation - because I wanted to learn what "looks" interested guys.

I was working construction in an office building on a renovation / expansion job. There were a couple of "glam" ladies in those offices who turned EVERY head whenever they walked by. Not all young teenie-boppers" either - but mature, colorful (dress and makeup), very sharp ladies. Those women KNEW they were getting the attention of every guy on the site, and a few times I'd notice them with a slight smile on their faces. Those ladies LOVED all that male attention. Other, equally attractive women who were "minimalists" with their dress and makeup - didn't get the same attention. (don't shoot the messenger - just reporting what I saw!!). They say we guys are VISUALLY stimulated - and I noted which "look" got the most attention. I've noticed the same results in many other settings as well. Just sayin' ........ for those interested.

Sometimes, earlykink, you just need a bigger shovel so you can dig your hole faster
If it takes "glam" to get your attention or other men's attention, then you/they won't be getting to sample this Hotwife.
I always dress nice, always have makeup on, even to rake hay or to work cattle. I don't dress up because I don't dress down, ever. I'm sexy and confident the way I am, I have no use for superficial men looking for "glam". If a man really needs "glam", it can be found at Walmart in the toy section. You can pose Barbie and dress her however you want. She won't mind at all that she's just an object, glammed up for a man to gawk at, with no real substance.

I think he's using glam loosely for lack of a better term. I'd say that you are just right, some make up and nice dress... Especially your beloved sun dresses

[dinoo]

Marco wrote:
"I find attitude to be extremely arousing."

Yes, but with a ever present smile.
Well dressed and letting men know she likes their kind attention.

[traddis]

All women are beautiful even those who think they are not. They do not need to have large breasts, black tattooed arms or tin tacks through their lips or nose. The colour or shape of their hair is not important. All they need to be is soft and warm. To hold a woman in your arms, any woman is magic.

[mr-nobody]

Confidence. A confidant woman who carries herself with confidence is sexy as hell to me. She's comfortable in her own skin. She's not bashful in the bedroom. Doesn't giggle at inappropriate moments (such as when I drop trou) Loves men and you can tell she loves men. Isn't afraid to try new things. Moving slowly and confidently - damn, that just gets me every time!

That's what makes a woman sexy to me.

[SRKnight]

Confidence. A confidant woman who carries herself with confidence is sexy as hell to me. She's comfortable in her own skin. She's not bashful in the bedroom. Doesn't giggle at inappropriate moments (such as when I drop trou) Loves men and you can tell she loves men. Isn't afraid to try new things. Moving slowly and confidently - damn, that just gets me every time!

That's what makes a woman sexy to me.

I think that sums it up best…. Confidence. My wife is a BBW and has never had confidence in her dress. Once she started HW activities she has gone much more confident about wearing long cut tops and showing cleavage. She understands now that most men are attracted to a confident woman that takes pride in her assets. It has been a remarkable change over the last 10 years

[farmerJ]

I have found as i have gotten older that i like a woman that looks like a woman, let me explain. A woman is one that has curves and and embraces herself as she is and does not try to make herself into something she is not. I guess it might be said that she has character. Her eyes sparkle and she is full of life. A womans beauty has nothing to do with her size , or shape. My wife is a plus size girl and she is my life but i dont look at her as a plus size girl. A few of lifes events on woman adds to her beauty not detracts.

[kay0113]

I think skinny eomen r not attractive at all. Thick ass well dhaped and oreety face!! Ill take my wife all day!!’ Just wanna wztch her have sex though. Lol

[afagehi7]

I think skinny eomen r not attractive at all. Thick ass well dhaped and oreety face!! Ill take my wife all day!!’ Just wanna wztch her have sex though. Lol

How about a picture? Is she going to get verified?

[Hotwifejoy]

Not sure if you are looking for a woman's opinion, but what I can tell you is that all the guys I have been with have been very forward about what they find sexy...#1: my boobs...#2: by tight pussy (and how it tastes) #3: my bj skills... #4: How open I am about what I want....the proof is in how fast they get hard when they see me....lol

[CuckHusband11]

I have no set ideals for what I find attractive in women (or men for that matter) but I have noticed that as I’ve gotten older I find younger women less sexually appealing, not unattractive but I find it difficult to look at a woman under 30 and think of her in a sexual way. Other than that I can look at a lot of different people and see things that turn me on. Also I never used to like how breast enhancements look but now find them fascinatingly attractive, especially if it’s quite obvious they are fake

[Ladybird]

The two posts I made on Aug. 9th at 3:05 and 3:42 talking about women "rocking their sexy womanhood" are NOT just about the superficial aspects!! By doing those outward things, you ladies project that you're OWNING your femininity - your sexy womanhood. That in itself sends the signal that you want to look great and catch a guy's eye. You're putting your feminine, pretty side out there for guys to notice you. Question ........ Do you want to "blend into" the background, appear colorless and pale, plain, bland and "blah" ?? Or do you want to catch the eyes of guys, make them look a 2nd or a 3rd time - be that POP of color that women have been known for ....... for decades??

IMO - pale lips make women look sickly, and their lips (which we guys find a SUPER-HOT attraction!!) just disappear on their faces. Their are a few young women on TV and sports shows that wear "white-ish" lipstick / gloss ......... and their lips disappear. They look anemic and sickly. WHY (!!!!!) do they do this??? It IS NOT ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!! We guys ARE NOT attracted to a woman who looks like a sickly, skinny, teenage boy!!!

Put these tips for attracting guys into 4 "C's" - curvy, colorful, confident, and cuddly.
Curvy - not pencil thin & gaunt-faced. Have some curves.
Colorful - put on some COLOR ladies!! Dresses/tops/skirts/shorts, lips, mani-pedi, blush.
Confident - OWN your feminine looks and sex appeal. Don't hide in the shadows like a cobweb. Make eye contact!!
Cuddly - Show the guy you love being close to him!! We guys have our own brand of fears & insecurities too - if you snuggle up close to us we relax and are more ourselves = more fun to be with. Not stick to him like 2 coats of paint - but pleasant physical contact ........ hand holding, sitting close, hugs, snuggling up (especially in cooler weather!!)

I hope this helps any ladies with doubts & questions. Remember the 4 "C's" !!!

Understandable your personal preference is for women to be all made up as you have mentioned before "glam".

I don't wear makeup unless I'm going to a formal event. I have had more than a few people (both men and women) tell me I don't need to wear it.
I'm far from colorless or pale

I have never needed makeup or to be glammed up to catch a man's eye

My personality and presence when meeting in person is what catches their attention. My eye contact and the way I carry my body, the way I move and use the space around me. None of that has anything to do with what I am wearing or if I have added color to my skin. (My dirty mind attracts the men online, lol)

I'm thick and I know it but I also know that all I have to do is offer to walk (slowly) up the stairs in front of him and most men will be hooked.

Own it Hotwives! You are all awesome! ❤

Nice one! I couldn't agree more :-)

[SensualDeviant]

Self-confidence isn't that important to me. In fact, as a Daddy Dom I'm attracted to girls who are naturally submissive, even a little insecure or shy.

I like natural beauty, the cute girl next door type. I don't like plastic surgery or a lot of cosmetics or tattoos.

Only authentic, thinking girls. Superficiality is a huge turn-off.

[OldBoyToy]

Confidence. A confidant woman who carries herself with confidence is sexy as hell to me. She's comfortable in her own skin. She's not bashful in the bedroom. Doesn't giggle at inappropriate moments (such as when I drop trou) Loves men and you can tell she loves men. Isn't afraid to try new things. Moving slowly and confidently - damn, that just gets me every time!

That's what makes a woman sexy to me.

I think that sums it up best…. Confidence. My wife is a BBW and has never had confidence in her dress. Once she started HW activities she has gone much more confident about wearing long cut tops and showing cleavage. She understands now that most men are attracted to a confident woman that takes pride in her assets. It has been a remarkable change over the last 10 years

I like the confidence also. And to be honest SEKnight, I think a woman with confidence AND the breasts that your wife has would be a dream come true!!

[TheRealMrs]

So refreshing to see a group of men be so open minded and embracing REAL women.

[+jonnychingas]

Ten years as a Greeter... I have been mostly nude since I was 19.

Recent pic...

Gorgeous!

OMG What a beautiful sexy fuckable woman

[Aussiem]

Sexy is an attitude, not a body shape.

[nks]

I will tell you about body image. While attitude is important, I do think that the way a woman’s body looks can be important. However, my impression is that most men are quite happy with average looks. I really like ordinary looking women. Here are some things I personally find sexy on a woman: chubby bellies, chubby ankles in heels, large thighs, or a short tomboyish look, a flat Asian chest, glasses, birthmarks, all shades of skin tone, public hair, a little hair on their thighs, mature women over 50, ordinary looks all around. I think a woman’s unique features and personality creates the chemistry. Her body needs not to be perfect and all those imperfections can be a source of sexiness.

[eztoget44]

long legs, short skirt, high heels ....nothing visually hotter

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I can tell you that everything I ever thought was a "flaw" about my body, men loved. I think I have small tits, men tell me they love natural tits they can squeeze, suck and bite.. the size doesn't matter. I hate my cellulite, men tell me I'm soft and they LOVE to grab ahold of the fat on my hips and squeeze it tight. I have a small neck, men tell me they love the feeling of sucking and biting my neck and leaving huge hickies. But what they like more is an open kinky attitude. Since becoming a hotwife, no man has ever had to ask me to suck his dick.. my lips are on it as soon as it gets pulled out. I know what men like, I understand them and I like to please them, not hate on them for their male natures. It's so fun to flirt and have a man give me his undivided attention seducing me, and see the look on his face when he gets that attention right back.

[WOLVERINE007]

I can tell you that everything I ever thought was a "flaw" about my body, men loved. I think I have small tits, men tell me they love natural tits they can squeeze, suck and bite.. the size doesn't matter. I hate my cellulite, men tell me I'm soft and they LOVE to grab ahold of the fat on my hips and squeeze it tight. I have a small neck, men tell me they love the feeling of sucking and biting my neck and leaving huge hickies. But what they like more is an open kinky attitude. Since becoming a hotwife, no man has ever had to ask me to suck his dick.. my lips are on it as soon as it gets pulled out. I know what men like, I understand them and I like to please them, not hate on them for their male natures. It's so fun to flirt and have a man give me his undivided attention seducing me, and see the look on his face when he gets that attention right back.

You are a great woman. The men in your life are no doubt supremely lucky to have you

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I can tell you that everything I ever thought was a "flaw" about my body, men loved. I think I have small tits, men tell me they love natural tits they can squeeze, suck and bite.. the size doesn't matter. I hate my cellulite, men tell me I'm soft and they LOVE to grab ahold of the fat on my hips and squeeze it tight. I have a small neck, men tell me they love the feeling of sucking and biting my neck and leaving huge hickies. But what they like more is an open kinky attitude. Since becoming a hotwife, no man has ever had to ask me to suck his dick.. my lips are on it as soon as it gets pulled out. I know what men like, I understand them and I like to please them, not hate on them for their male natures. It's so fun to flirt and have a man give me his undivided attention seducing me, and see the look on his face when he gets that attention right back.

You are a great woman. The men in your life are no doubt supremely lucky to have you

Thanks you so much. I think so too!

[Parsifal]

I can tell you that everything I ever thought was a "flaw" about my body, men loved. I think I have small tits, men tell me they love natural tits they can squeeze, suck and bite.. the size doesn't matter. I hate my cellulite, men tell me I'm soft and they LOVE to grab ahold of the fat on my hips and squeeze it tight. I have a small neck, men tell me they love the feeling of sucking and biting my neck and leaving huge hickies. But what they like more is an open kinky attitude. Since becoming a hotwife, no man has ever had to ask me to suck his dick.. my lips are on it as soon as it gets pulled out. I know what men like, I understand them and I like to please them, not hate on them for their male natures. It's so fun to flirt and have a man give me his undivided attention seducing me, and see the look on his face when he gets that attention right back.

Well put. Most men I know are quite capable of finding a woman perfectly attractive as long as she has at least one outstanding physical feature, plus the sense of kink and appreciation of male-ness you exude. And BTW, your avatar, though frustratingly indistint, does suggest quite a bit more than the one outstanding physical feature sufficient to keep my attention undivided.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I can tell you that everything I ever thought was a "flaw" about my body, men loved. I think I have small tits, men tell me they love natural tits they can squeeze, suck and bite.. the size doesn't matter. I hate my cellulite, men tell me I'm soft and they LOVE to grab ahold of the fat on my hips and squeeze it tight. I have a small neck, men tell me they love the feeling of sucking and biting my neck and leaving huge hickies. But what they like more is an open kinky attitude. Since becoming a hotwife, no man has ever had to ask me to suck his dick.. my lips are on it as soon as it gets pulled out. I know what men like, I understand them and I like to please them, not hate on them for their male natures. It's so fun to flirt and have a man give me his undivided attention seducing me, and see the look on his face when he gets that attention right back.

Well put. Most men I know are quite capable of finding a woman perfectly attractive as long as she has at least one outstanding physical feature, plus the sense of kink and appreciation of male-ness you exude. And BTW, your avatar, though frustratingly indistint, does suggest quite a bit more than the one outstanding physical feature sufficient to keep my attention undivided.

Thanks for that

Being a hotwife has opened my eyes to the differences of men and women. I've also become bisexual, and I've been close to several women physically and emotionally now. How they think, what they focus on, what they react to and how they react, are completely opposite of a man. I never understood the women who complain about men. The male nature is not like the female nature. A woman who wants a man to be just like she is should become a lesbian. I decided early on that I liked pleasing men, both my husband and the men I give myself to. Men are blessedly uncomplicated and so easy to please. I understand how they are, and I work with it instead of against it. Even the way I dress on a date is designed to entice the man I'm seeing, not the other women in the room (something I had to unlearn: subconsciously I was dressing with other women in mind!). Even as a cuckold, my husband still has a male nature, and it works much the same as the Bull, just different rolls, but the maleness of it is the same. A woman's open attitude & sense of discovery and adventure, a physical attribute(s) she flaunts like fishing lure (eyes, lips, tits, hips, ass, thighs, a walk, whatever), sense of kink and appreciation of male-ness, as you stated so well, and youre off to the races!