Body Image - What men really think is sexy

[Luv It]

FWIW......

*My wife is not attractive in the classic sense but, she does have a quite pretty face ...a kind of an earthy looking face that men have always been attracted to.
*She does not have big breasts ....just a 38-B but, they are well proportioned to her slim (not skinny) body.... and she has great legs with relatively small feminine feet.
*She emits a raw sexuality, without her even realizing it... sort of sending a message that "I am available" to fuck". Coupled with her demure, feminine personalty, most men are attracted to her.
*Once a guy fucks her, he is hooked on her .
*So, it is the whole package with her...the way she looks, acts and carries herself etc that is so attractive and sexy.

BTW, It was almost love at first sight for me .
She was at friend's house visiting his sister.

So, a gal need not be a raving beauty with big tits etc to be quite sexually attractive.)

[afagehi7]

FWIW......

*My wife is not attractive in the classic sense but, she does have a quite pretty face ...a kind of an earthy looking face that men have always been attracted to.
*She does not have big breasts ....just a 38-B but, they are well proportioned to her slim (not skinny) body.... and she has great legs with relatively small feminine feet.
*She emits a raw sexuality, without her even realizing it... sort of sending a message that "I am available" to fuck". Coupled with her demure, feminine personalty, most men are attracted to her.
*Once a guy fucks her, he is hooked on her .
*So, it is the whole package with her...the way she looks, acts and carries herself etc that is so attractive and sexy.

BTW, It was almost love at first sight for me .
She was at friend's house visiting his sister.

So, a gal need not be a raving beauty with big tits etc to be quite sexually attractive.)

A woman that exudes confidence and owns what she has as opposed to being self-conscious is hot. Plus, if she puts out the signal that she's down to F and enjoys dirty sex that's the hottest. I'd, and I think most men, would rather have a chunky baby body 50 year old that met the above than a slamming porn star hot 25 year old that was self-conscious, didn't like sex, and was prudish.

Sounds like your wife is in the first camp. I searched and can't find any pics of hw Barb. Am I missing them?

[early-kink]

A7 - ^^^^ Preach it, brother!! I've seen slim girls who acted as if they were God's gift to men, and acted all "up there." Dated a few in the past. They were ZEROES!! A woman who is confident, welcoming to guys, and is sexy/flirty is a candle and we guys become moths.

[afagehi7]

A7 - ^^^^ Preach it, brother!! I've seen slim girls who acted as if they were God's gift to men, and acted all "up there." Dated a few in the past. They were ZEROES!! A woman who is confident, welcoming to guys, and is sexy/flirty is a candle and we guys become moths.

I went through this with the wife this past year. I wanted her to wear a bikini to the beach instead of that one piece grandma thing she wears. I'd point out women (even grandma's) who were owning it in a bikini and tell her that's way hotter than trying to cover everything up. I'm not talking thongs or anything. Well, nada dayum thing.

[early-kink]

A7 ^^^^^ - I wish we could convince our women that they really DO look sexy and more attractive than they give themselves credit for!! I swear, my wife thinks she's the book definition of unattractive, but she's really quite attractive!! She's 5 ft. 5 in. tall and weighs 135. Beautiful green eyes, "B" boobs, cute tush, cute little feminine feet with perfect straight toes, and pretty manicure & pedicure. To top that all off, she's friendly, caring, & has a great sense of humor and she's cuddly as cuddly can be. But she thinks I'm "just saying that because we husbands are supposed to say those things!"

I need other guys to hit on her just to prove my point that she IS attractive, cute, & desirable. She looks great in a dress & high heels !!

[Zappafan79]

For me, a confident woman who loves flirting and has a smile like a cat that's got the cream is WAAAAAAAY sexier than just a playboy type body with zero personality.

[Johor]

My absolute favorite body attribute for a woman is small breasts. The smaller the better. Combined with boyish looks it just sets me afire. I have friend/neighbor with virtual no tits. We have gone on some tubing weekends with a group. It is all I can do to not embarrass myself when she is in a bikini. On top of that we are both active, outdoors types and have gone hiking in many of the same places. So there is always something to talk about.

Alas she is married and about half my age.

She is not conventionally beautiful but has a great personality that is sexual and flirtatious.

Her husband is an OK guy. He is a bit to much of a geek and spends way too much time playing Pokemon in the neighborhood park. I fantasize about cucking him. That is taking care of her unmet needs, with his knowledge.

But in reality, it is mostly a how a woman expresses her inner sexuality that turns me on. I like women with a spark. As long as they are in a decent shape that reflects some level of discipline, body characteristics aren't particularly important.

[calicolombia69]

When I met my wife she was skinny but had a good ass (latina) Although I am a tit and ass man, I was attracted to her by her sluttiness and thick mane of long black hair. After 20 years, 3 boob jobs and an ass job, her thicker body attracts me even more. She always wonders why I sought her out if I have always been attracted to a thicker figure.

[ckathrill]

My wife has the absolute perfect body for me. She is 5'5" tall, 152 lbs, - long thighs ( but some cellulite) and beautiful calves. She has a small waist giving her an hour glass figure - for me an essential ingredient to appearing sexy. Her breasts are pretty firm double Ds for her age; her shoulders are thin and narrow, giving a youthful appearance; her hips are not wide and her ass still has that pop to it.

She is also very beautiful too with full sensuous lips. And she is now 67 yo ( okay so she has a bit of a belly at her age) I wish i could enter her in a contest for aging well. As i write this i get hard because she is so very sexy and I love how the guys just go wild for her!

[LisaViva]

My confidence went up from modeling. I realize more now then when I started that what I thought men wanted due to magazines, TV, and just social behavior that it's just not true. I don't look anything like a runway model or TV actress but I have done very well for myself with my normal body type!

I'm sure there are many out there who would never ever do what I do because they lack the confidence. All I can say is try it once... You will be pleasantly surprised at what's fake and what's real with how Men truly feel about our bodies!

[afagehi7]

My confidence went up from modeling. I realize more now then when I started that what I thought men wanted due to magazines, TV, and just social behavior that it's just not true. I don't look anything like a runway model or TV actress but I have done very well for myself with my normal body type!

I'm sure there are many out there who would never ever do what I do because they lack the confidence. All I can say is try it once... You will be pleasantly surprised at what's fake and what's real with how Men truly feel about our bodies!

You should become a verified hotwife. You don't have to be married, just female. It helps set you apart from the men who post pretending to be a woman (yes there are some here that do that). You also get access to a woman only forum that us guys can't see.

I hope you get verified and continue to post. I've enjoyed what you have posts so far

[LisaViva]

I have asked how to do that.

My confidence went up from modeling. I realize more now then when I started that what I thought men wanted due to magazines, TV, and just social behavior that it's just not true. I don't look anything like a runway model or TV actress but I have done very well for myself with my normal body type!

I'm sure there are many out there who would never ever do what I do because they lack the confidence. All I can say is try it once... You will be pleasantly surprised at what's fake and what's real with how Men truly feel about our bodies!

You should become a verified hotwife. You don't have to be married, just female. It helps set you apart from the men who post pretending to be a woman (yes there are some here that do that). You also get access to a woman only forum that us guys can't see.

I hope you get verified and continue to post. I've enjoyed what you have posts so far

[afagehi7]

I have asked how to do that.

My confidence went up from modeling. I realize more now then when I started that what I thought men wanted due to magazines, TV, and just social behavior that it's just not true. I don't look anything like a runway model or TV actress but I have done very well for myself with my normal body type!

I'm sure there are many out there who would never ever do what I do because they lack the confidence. All I can say is try it once... You will be pleasantly surprised at what's fake and what's real with how Men truly feel about our bodies!

You should become a verified hotwife. You don't have to be married, just female. It helps set you apart from the men who post pretending to be a woman (yes there are some here that do that). You also get access to a woman only forum that us guys can't see.

I hope you get verified and continue to post. I've enjoyed what you have posts so far

It's a sticky thread in the hotwife forum.

ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

[S-and-M]

i find a lot sexy about women. Teeth, eyes, hair, legs n butt. What i love to focus on is her feet. love sucking nice toes n soles.

[franklee0914]

it's a nice topic，mark here

[LisaViva]

I know as a nudist it takes plenty of will power when I greet new guests and they have to disrobe. Everyone feels they are fat or this or that. No one is perfect and once you realize and then go to the resort (AANR) you see hey I fit in! More people should let go and try!

[SailorGuy]

My wife is perfectly flat-chested, and until I came along and told her how sexy she was she lived shyly and dressed to cover it up.
She was just a friend in college. I thought she was nice and had a pretty face. Until I saw her at the pool one hot summer's day I had no idea what she looked like underneath her androgynous clothing.
She was wearing a micro bikini: a tiny hi-cut bottom that revealed great curvy hips and a huge bulge between her lovely long legs. Big big labias, obvious as hell and stunning to see. And her bikini top was just a little strand of cloth going across a perfectly flat toned muscular chest, covering only a pair of long thick nipples. Also stunning.
Long story short we married and I told her how beautiful her chest was, how erotic her meaty labias were, how sexy her hairy underarms were. In time she began to believe me and started wearing clothes that accentuated all this, especially the stunning purple one-piece swimsuit that fit her toned body like a glove, showing off how curvy her hips were, her big camel toe bulge, her flat flat chest. Stunning indeed!
And not unnoticed by a neighbor friend who frequented the same pool complex. He became her lover a few years later, at my urging.
One of my favorite moments for them was early on in their affair. They had made love two or three times at his place, once at ours, always at night in the dark. One afternoon on a hot summer day she visited him and they went into his bedroom. She dropped her dress to the floor and lay down on his bed and stretched out, basically revealing her every inch to him in broad daylight, flat chest and all.
She later told me that he was stunned. He undressed and slid up next to her on the bed and gazed at her flat breastless chest and her massively dark hairy underarm bushes. He finally spoke: my god, he said, you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life! And with that my wife stretched herself even more, inviting him to do things with that chest and bushes. And he did. He massaged her chest and licked and kissed her underarms, kissed and licked and sucked her huge thick nipples. My wife spread her legs and pushed his head down to her wet lips sticking way out.
In the warm daylight of his bedroom he saw my wife for all her naked glory, and confirmed what I'd aways been telling my wife.
My wife is a unique woman; both her husband and her lover are crazy about her. What a thing to see her walk by, knowing she is beautiful and very sexy.

[early-kink]

My confidence went up from modeling. I realize more now then when I started that what I thought men wanted due to magazines, TV, and just social behavior that it's just not true. I don't look anything like a runway model or TV actress but I have done very well for myself with my normal body type!

I'm sure there are many out there who would never ever do what I do because they lack the confidence. All I can say is try it once... You will be pleasantly surprised at what's fake and what's real with how Men truly feel about our bodies!

Speaking for myself, I find a woman's ATTITUDE and flirtatious, sexy confidence to be the biggest attractor for me. If she seems to be a "she-devil, flirty vixen" type, she'll have my attention for sure!! I won't be scrutinizing her body if she's teasing me, flirting with me, is confident in her sexuality, and seems very welcoming and interested in me. A few extra pounds will not be noticed!!

[LisaViva]

I'm very curvy. Large chest. (Large ass too) I am also a social nudist. Meaning I go to resorts nude. Mostly on weekends I go to a local nudist place! I have been going to to the same place for 9 years now. It's always wonderful seeing everyone!!! It’s really a nice home with a really large pool! I always have a great time! I am a greeter there. I love being a greeter! We had always have new couples. I meet them as they arrive. It's a 100% nudist place so you have to be nude. So I take them to the disrobing room. We chit chat and then once they are nude, we all go out to meet everyone! Always a nice mic of regulars and first time couples! We spend a little more time in the disrobing room before we came out to meet everyone. I’m nude with them so to make them more comfortable as they undress and warm up to it! We all play a game or two of volleyball! But mostly it's lay out and tan! Plenty of convos with everyone! It's a really nice time seeing everyone!!! And of course I enjoy when the older men pay attention to me too!

[early-kink]

Great story, LisaViva. ^^^^^ I think being nude levels the playing field for everyone.

I don't care who it is or how spectacular they look when they're 22, 28, or 32 years old - man or woman - we ALL age and get a bit soft, no matter how hard we try to look 22 again. So we have 2 choices .......
1 - Pout and get grouchy, hide away and be unsociable ................. or
2 - Lighten up, decide we're going to have as much fun (regular fun and sexual fun) as we can & enjoy that fun with others. Enjoy life!!

I love sexy, flirty confidence in a woman. A woman who - if she wants a guy - she lets him know it, but in a CLASSY, FEMININE way.

[analystguy27]

My lover has a one year old kid and is quite self conscious of her body recently.

Me and her husband keep telling her she is awesome and honestly she is.

Her attitude towards sex and the free spirited nature is what makes it so much fun. She enjoys sex a lot and we take turns to pleasure her.

When the clothes come off, she loves being fucked and loves to fuck too.

[kaskap79]

For me it depends on where I am.

If I am sitting alone watching porn, then it is petite young women. Preferable with short hair, other blond or asian women. It is all about me and is over in a couple of minutes.

But if it is women I meet in person, it does not matter how she looks. It is all about personality. Easy to talk to and not to much younger than me. For me it is about giving the woman the best experience I can give her and not so much about me, it can take many hours with sex. Basically until she begs for mercy because she is worn out.

[WishfulThinking]

My wife is a very pretty girl, perfect cheek bones, big, dark eyes, and a great smile. Her figure at 58 is still trim, proportioned and feminine. But her sexiness is her soft, quiet affect and natural shyness. She attracts attention due to her looks, but gives off an air of unapproachability due to shy deference she projects to me. She has a hot, naughty private sexuality, but I have to totally protect her from ever having to experience any of that outside fantasy.

She is also very smart (university Prof) which to me is very sexy. She tends to have a hard time letting her down and not being extremely serious all the time, which make the times she is able to a delightfully contrast. She is shy about her figure and killer legs and dresses modestly, but has no hesitation about her short, skimpy tennis attire because it’s for a purpose. Being sexy isn’t a worthy purpose, so tennis is always a thrill!

She is very submissive and wants to be directed, and her range of fantasies all fall into that. She would never be turned on by cuckolding me, but being forced to submit to a group of my friends drives her wild, but in fantasy only.

After 35 years she is still as breathtaking to me as ever, and she stops me dead in my tracks by just appearing.. so it’s her face and figure, her deferential shyness and authentic submissiveness, her naughty imagination, intellect and exquisite femininity that still has powerful impact. My friends think she’s hot, but they sense her boundaries, though it doesn’t stop them from polite admiration. I’d like it if she was more overtly sexual and comfortable with her beauty, but she has so much that it makes that quite ok.

[afagehi7]

My wife is a very pretty girl, perfect cheek bones, big, dark eyes, and a great smile. Her figure at 58 is still trim, proportioned and feminine. But her sexiness is her soft, quiet affect and natural shyness. She attracts attention due to her looks, but gives off an air of unapproachability due to shy deference she projects to me. She has a hot, naughty private sexuality, but I have to totally protect her from ever having to experience any of that outside fantasy.

She is also very smart (university Prof) which to me is very sexy. She tends to have a hard time letting her down and not being extremely serious all the time, which make the times she is able to a delightfully contrast. She is shy about her figure and killer legs and dresses modestly, but has no hesitation about her short, skimpy tennis attire because it’s for a purpose. Being sexy isn’t a worthy purpose, so tennis is always a thrill!

She is very submissive and wants to be directed, and her range of fantasies all fall into that. She would never be turned on by cuckolding me, but being forced to submit to a group of my friends drives her wild, but in fantasy only.

After 35 years she is still as breathtaking to me as ever, and she stops me dead in my tracks by just appearing.. so it’s her face and figure, her deferential shyness and authentic submissiveness, her naughty imagination, intellect and exquisite femininity that still has powerful impact. My friends think she’s hot, but they sense her boundaries, though it doesn’t stop them from polite admiration. I’d like it if she was more overtly sexual and comfortable with her beauty, but she has so much that it makes that quite ok.

If she's a professor she has to be super careful. She can lose her job. For example, if a student found her online on AFF or sls it would likely be the end of her career. Even if they didn't fire her for that directly they'll be looking for reasons to downsize her. Careful.

[WishfulThinking]

No danger there, there are no pathways into our privacy.