viking53 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 12:31 am
Hi Michael
Thanks for the update. That's quite a turnaround! Does this mean that you have spent the last year back in the study? Would you share the cuckold contract with us? It sounds as if that has helped you focus and cope with the development. Where do you and Jen see this going in the future?
Yeah. I've been sleeping in the study. The bedroom belongs to Jason and Jen.
I don't mind sharing the contract. I'll post it at the end of this comment.
As far as the future, I'm pretty sure at this point that it's going to stay this way for the rest of the time Jen is in college. Jason and Jen haven't shown any signs of wanting to mess with the status quo.
katt wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 8:53 am
Excellent to see an update. I hope you will find time to fill in more of the details from over your last year. Hope I am not asking to much to see regular posts again of your ongoing life.
Thanks. You're not asking too much. I just needed to get away from the board for a while.
poppag wrote: ↑Thu Feb 14, 2019 9:24 am
Welcome back! It’s great to hear that everything is going well and that you and Jen have found a balance that works for you. I think like the rest of your followers, that something bad happened. Glad to hear otherwise. From reading your update, soon you will celebrate the anniversary of not having sex with your wife. I would love to hear about how you are doing with that. Also. Since you signed the cuckold contract, have Jason and Jen acted differently together and towards you. What has your sex life been like. Are you in chastity. Do you have any contact with Jason?
Really glad you are back. Looking forward to seeing more updates.
Thanks!
As stupid as this may sound, I'm looking forward to our no-sex anniversary. It actually feels like a really huge accomplishment to me. The idea that it'll be a whole year since my own wife stopped having sex with me is so fucking crazy! Part of me can't believe that I've made it this far. Of course there's that other part of me that misses sex with Jen and feels bad that it was so easy for her to give up sex with me. But, the part of me that thinks all of this is hot is the part that's been winning out. All of the effort is pretty much in me dealing with my mixed feelings. As far as Jason and Jen are concerned, I think it's been pretty effortless for them.
By the time we signed the contract, we were already pretty much living up to its conditions but without having anything in writing. I think the contract has freed up Jason and Jen to be more of a couple and be more easygoing. The contract puts Jason's status as Jen's exclusive sexual and romantic partner in writing, and I think that makes him feel more assured in that role. The contract also puts my status as a platonic friend and roommate in writing. Which I think is also assuring to Jason. But, it also keeps me from questioning what my place in all of this is and helps to keep me in line. As far as Jen, the contract pretty much gets rid of any marital sexual obligations toward me. Which makes Jen seem way more carefree.
My own sex life is just me masturbating in private. I'm not allowed to expose myself to Jen or to touch my penis to her body, even through clothes. Since I have to keep my penis to myself, there's no possibility of Jen putting the chastity cage on me. And I don't feel like putting it on and taking it off myself. So it's just sitting in a drawer.
I've had no sexual contact with Jason. I would suck his dick in a heartbeat though. But, I think the contract prohibits it since it says that Jason and Jen are "an exclusive romantic and sexual couple." Not that it matters. Jason doesn't have any interest in any gay stuff. He told me so early on. So, instead I just worship his cock from a distance whenever I get to watch him and Jen make love. I know this might gross some of you out to read (sorry about that), but Jason does have the most amazing cock I've ever seen! It's not even just the size. Yeah, it's bigger than mine. But, it's also the shape, the smoothness, the contour. It just looks so fucking perfect! It adds this whole other element of superiority that Jason has over me! Whenever I think about sex with Jen while masturbating, I only ever think about Jason's cock inside of her. I've gotten to the point where I can't even imagine my own penis inside of Jen. Which is pretty fucked up, I know. But, that's how it is.
Anyhow, here's our cuckold contract:
Cuckold Contract and Roommate Agreement:
This signed contract is between the following parties:
1. Jen.
2. Jason.
3. Michael.
By signing this contract, all parties agree upon the following:
Although Michael and Jen are married, Jason and Jen are an exclusive romantic and sexual couple.
Jen is not interested in Michael sexually.
Jen's romantic interest in Michael is platonic in nature.
Jason and Jen shall live together in the apartment as a couple. The apartment bedroom shall be Jason and Jen's bedroom. Michael shall sleep exclusively in the study, even on nights when Jason is not home.
For the sake of convenience, the parties have agreed to limit disclosing specific details of this living situation to various individuals. In such cases, it is typically told to individuals that Jason is a friend/roommate who sleeps in the study and that Michael and Jen sleep together in the bedroom as a married couple. Such falsehoods shall not actually exist between the parties in private. In private, Michael shall not behave in a manner that implies that he and Jen are a couple; he shall always act in accordance with his status as a platonic friend and roommate and shall always treat Jason and Jen as the couple.
All parties shall treat each other with respect. Michael shall be viewed and treated as an equal member of the household, but shall not have an equal say in matters directly pertaining to Jason and Jen's sexual and romantic relationship. Michael's input in such matters shall be limited to what Jason and Jen consider reasonable.
Michael is not permitted to engage in any sexual contact with Jen under any circumstances. This includes intercourse, oral sex, or sexual touching. Michael is not permitted to touch Jen's breasts, ass, or pelvic area, even through clothing.
Jen has no interest in touching Michael sexually. Michael agrees to avoid any situation that would result in his penis coming into contact with any part of Jen's body, even through clothing. Examples include rubbing against Jen, full body hugs, lap sitting, etc.
Jen has no interest in seeing Michael's penis. Michael shall keep his penis hidden from Jen at all times. At minimum, Michael shall always wear a pair of underwear when in Jen's presence. In the event that Michael has an erection in Jen's presence that isn't suitably contained by his underwear, Michael shall further cover himself with a minimum of shorts over the underwear.
When Jason is not home, Michael is not permitted to see Jen naked. Bra and panties are acceptable, as are bath robes.
When in Jason's presence, Michael shall limit his physical affection toward Jen. An occasional, brief, friendly kiss/peck on the cheek (given or received) is acceptable. Outside of Jason's presence, lip to lip kisses/pecks between Michael and Jen are acceptable, but should still be kept friendly/platonic (i.e. no tongue, no making out).
Sexual relations between Jason and Jen are a private matter. Michael shall respect their privacy. Michael is not entitled to view any sexual relations that occur in the bedroom while the bedroom door is closed. Michael is permitted to view sexual relations that take place while the bedroom door is open. Such permission does not grant Michael the right to enter the bedroom or to stand in its doorway unless invited by Jason and Jen to do so. If Jason and Jen elect to engage in sexual relations in common areas while Michael is home, Michael is permitted to view those sexual relations as well. Michael shall not be asked to leave common areas. Permission to view does not mean permission to touch or to participate.
Household chores shall primarily be Michael’s responsibility. Jason and Jen shall list chores for Michael to do on the dry erase board. Michael is expected to complete all listed chores in a timely fashion and only erase each chore from the dry erase board once actually completed. Michael may ask for help with chores when absolutely necessary.
Michael shall also be required to serve Jason and Jen on a somewhat frequent basis. Examples include preparing meals, serving breakfast in bed, acting as a chauffeur, etc.
This contract shall remain in effect until whichever of the following comes first: 1. Jason and Jen decide to end their sexual and romantic relationship. 2. Jen finishes college.
Alleged violations of this contract shall be brought to the attention of the violator in a non-accusatory manner. If a violation is confirmed, the violator shall apologize and make the necessary corrections. It is understood that most of the conditions in this contract apply primarily to Michael's behavior. Therefore, Michael is the most likely of the parties to violate this contract. As such, Jason and Jen shall try not to be too hard on Michael for minor violations. However, additional punishment for certain violations may sometimes be in order (i.e. Jason and Jen keep the bedroom door closed more often as a form of punishment). Certain violations shall be considered especially egregious and worthy of prolonged punishment. In particular, asking for or attempting to engage in sexual contact with Jen. To prevent the possibility of such a violation occurring, Jen shall frequently remind Michael that she is not sexually attracted to him and that Jason has completely taken his place as Jen's sexual and romantic partner. Furthermore, Michael should expect to be quizzed frequently about his status in comparison to Jason's and also about the terms of this contract. Therefore, Michael should regularly re-read the contract to keep its contents fresh in his mind at all times.
Signed,
Jen, Jason, Michael