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sandy98 wrote:

impo64 wrote:My hubby and I have a poly relationship with my live-in bf. Hubby and my bf have become best friends and we do pretty much everything together.

About this poly relationship I just have some curiosities: 1 - Does the bf work or stays at home all day with the wife while hubby go to work and give bf a wage every month for his personal needs? 2 - If he works, how are the bills of the house divided? the husband paying for everything and the bf saving all his money in the bank? 3 - Does the wife sleep with both or the "poly" doesn't apply for the nights and she sleeps always with the bf? 4 - When the husband wants something and the bf another very different the wife the wife always backs up hubby or the bf?

Hi impo64, I'll try to answer each question.
1. Bf does work. He is a fitness trainer for a local pro sports team. It may sound exotic, but it really doesn't pay a huge salary.
2. My hubby makes a very good salary as an airline captain. My hubby adores my bf and what my bf brings to our relationship, so my hubby pays for everything. My hubby even pays my bf's car note, insurance and gas. Hubby wants my bf to save every dime he makes, but my bf will sneak and spend money on gifts for my hubby and I, from time to time. Also, my bf is very handy around the house. He helps clean, do laundry and fix things.
3. I sleep with both, when both are home. My bf is home every night, but hubby goes on 3 or 4 day trips as an airline pilot. When hubby is home, the three of us share one king size bed. When he is gone, it's just my bf and I. It's a little annoying if I have to pee in the middle of the night, because I have to climg over one of them, but I love sleeping between my two naked guys.
4. Believe it or not, we have never had a situation where I had to back up one or the other. My hubby and my bf are, both, extremely laid back. If they have a difference, they work it out themselves. However, although my bf dominates me sexually, he is very respectful of my hubby's alpha role with in all other matters.

sandy98 wrote:What I found the most interesting was the difference between the married women and the single women. The single women seemed to prefer 1 on 1, but the married women wanted multiple guys at one time.

SutterKane wrote:Sandy please come back and tell us about what has happened since then then. I'm still interested!