WOW.. So many questions !! This is more like it. I love when a cuckold comes "out of hiding" and lays his deepest desires on the table for discussion. It is the only way many will ever experience these urges and cravings. Life is too short to keep these desires hidden.. And when we are too old to enjoy them say "I wish I had .....".
I want to answer each and every question as I have time.. Hopefully today. I admire and respect those of you that admit openly here.
Here is a quote from another post I did that may help someone here with certain desires:
I need to tell my wife more about my bisexual desirers especially cause they all are about it being with her present. I use to have this bisexual guy suck my cock often. He was the best cock sucker...providing me with the best I've ever had. He's call wanting to suck me, I'd shower, put a towel on the couch & a mat on the floor for him to kneel on. When he arrived we'd both get naked, I'd sit & he'd suck. He provided me with the most powerful oral orgasms I've ever had. I fantasize about that same position except with my wife standing feeding me her sweetness while he sucks me and looks up at her ass and her watching him & how he does it to me. He always swallows and I once let him fuck my ass cause I wanted him to get off good after he orgasmed me so well.
[Brad] That is a very exciting fantasy !! I find many husbands have similar fantasies and also include sucking a BF's cock.. And more. But do not have a plan or a way to introduce it into their playtime. If a BF does not initiate it and you are concerned with your wife reaction, here is a way to bring it into your play while the sexual tensions are HIGH and inhibitions are wide open.
The next time she sucks a cock and you are with her, move up to her while she is sucking. Kiss her shoulder.. Then her neck. Watch closely as it excites her sucking his cock and feeling your lips in her shoulder and neck. You will hear her moan lightly as it escapes around his cock. Then slide your fingers into her hair and grasp.. Tilt her head back a little and kiss her forhead... Then the tip of her nose. If she hasn't pulled off his cock at that moment, pull her head off his cock and lift her lips up to yours and kiss her.. Then guide her head back down onto his cock. Now that you are very close to her mouth and his cock, let your tongue move down her cheek to her lips that are wrapped around his cock and begin moving your tongue around the edge of her lips and consequently touching his cock. At this point a couple of things may happen.. 1: you might feel his hand on the back of your head pulling you into her so that both of you are licking his cock.. 2: you might see her lips come up to the tip of his cock so she can lick his tip and play tongue to tongue with you so that both of your tongues are licking his tip.. 3: she might put her hand on your head and guide you to the tip of his cock so she can play tongue to tongue with you and lick his tip along with you. BUT.. One thing is for sure at that point .. Him or her will see and feel your desire and urge to suck his cock along with her and will pull your lips over and down his cock .. Or you will see that one moment of opportunity and let your lips slide down his cock.
If you rehearse this in your mind.. Over and over.. You will be ready at the first opportunity to move close to her while she is sucking his cock... And you WILL be sucking a cock with your wife !!!!
Once that dam is broken you are opened up to many different scenarios with your wife and her boyfriends.. And become very close to her and included in her fantasies as a "team" to seduce and suck/fuck BF's !!!"
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