Steel/Daphne Sex Journal

[SteelRidge]

I'm going to utilize this topic as our journal of sexual activities, fantasies and other related items.

We have been married 23 years and after taking the advice of some here back in early January we have decided on a 100% open honest communication and 100% mutual consent. Our sex life has been rejuvenated for sure! Some of it has been recorded on this site at the Fetish forum and also the Hotties forum (link in signature).

We are from a vanilla sex life and may be doing things considered tame by the standards of the board but I hope a journal here would be welcome nonetheless.

[SteelRidge]

One thing my wife is doing much more of is dressing in a sexier and sometime provocative manner. About a year ago I bought her a push up padded bra which she tried on and used a couple of times but then threw to the back of the closet because she was uncomfortable because she looks too stacked (all told it makes her look like a 36DD). Imagine my surprise when a few weeks ago I come home from work and she asks me if I noticed anything. I said "hell yeah" and immediately began to feel her up. We both had talked about dressing better to improve our self image and she really taken it to heart!

Now she wears that bra all the time except when exercising at the gym. It's amazing what an article of clothing can do. She has her breasts up and proud, doesn't feel self conscious about it and I think she takes some delight in turning men on. It also inspired her to show some cleavage (a no no her whole life). Photos of the results are in the Hotties section with link below in the signature.

I dared her to dress like a hottie when going to the gym so she had started wearing tighter shirts and showing a little more of her fantastic ass. One day she took the bra to change into after her work out and when he walked out she got a verbal "holy shit" from some younger guy. I suspect this guy really, really wants to fuck her based on some other comments she has heard about and some of the interactions.

[afagehi7]

One thing my wife is doing much more of is dressing in a sexier and sometime provocative manner. About a year ago I bought her a push up padded bra which she tried on and used a couple of times but then threw to the back of the closet because she was uncomfortable because she looks too stacked (all told it makes her look like a 36DD). Imagine my surprise when a few weeks ago I come home from work and she asks me if I noticed anything. I said "hell yeah" and immediately began to feel her up. We both had talked about dressing better to improve our self image and she really taken it to heart!

Now she wears that bra all the time except when exercising at the gym. It's amazing what an article of clothing can do. She has her breasts up and proud, doesn't feel self conscious about it and I think she takes some delight in turning men on. It also inspired her to show some cleavage (a no no her whole life). Photos of the results are in the Hotties section with link below in the signature.

I dared her to dress like a hottie when going to the gym so she had started wearing tighter shirts and showing a little more of her fantastic ass. One day she took the bra to change into after her work out and when he walked out she got a verbal "holy shit" from some younger guy. I suspect this guy really, really wants to fuck her based on some other comments she has heard about and some of the interactions.

Don't see any new pics?

[SteelRidge]

Don't see any new pics?

Ok I added the bra for evaluation and review.

[afagehi7]

Don't see any new pics?

Ok I added the bra for evaluation and review.

Very nice. A motorboat came to my mind. Yes...I am 12.

[SteelRidge]

We have begun some role playing during our bedroom activities. This past weekend we role played an actual person instead of anonymous activities. My wife was telling about a dream she had of a MFM encounter with me, her and a well known celebrity singer she has the hots for. Apparently this dream was very vivid as she went into some amount of detail about who did what to her.

This is the first time I recall her ever talking about another man fucking her in such a matter of fact way. I wasn't going to let this opportunity go to waste so I told her I'd role play as that celebrity for her and immediately went down on her. She turned on one of his albums and every now and then I'd comment about her pussy as if it was this celebrity. My wife would call out my name "Steel" as she was groaning in pleasure but each time I'd say, "uh no". Eventually Daphne got the hint and started calling out this celebrity's name.

That really, really turned me on hearing her calling out another man's name in hot passion. At this point, though, I was completely in character and it was becoming a dream come true for my wife. I ate her out as much as I could until I just had to stick my cock in her. I was pounding her hard and asking her how she liked it to which I'd just get back moans of pleasure interspersed with another man's name. This went on for a little bit until I just exploded in her.

I rolled off her and we talked about if she would ever do it if the real opportunity presented himself with this celebrity. We also talked about how big he would be compared to me and details about how we would share her.

I thought Daphne would end up showing some signs of remorse calling out another man's name but that didn't happen at all. Rather she was concerned about how I felt about it and making sure I knew she knew it was me the whole time. My answer was if she wanted me to role play other men, old schoolmates, men she meets at the gym and etc that I'd be willing to do it for sure.

[wocka-wocka]

I thought Daphne would end up showing some signs of remorse calling out another man's name but that didn't happen at all. Rather she was concerned about how I felt about it and making sure I knew she knew it was me the whole time. My answer was if she wanted me to role play other men, old schoolmates, men she meets at the gym and etc that I'd be willing to do it for sure.

Know that she wants to be close to you, much more than anything else. Work hard on sharing your feelings and showing her unconditional support while she experiments with the idea of having a lover that isn't you. Keep practicing and don't let it take over all of your time/energy in the bedroom.

She's so hot. Dating her would be amazing. Have fun, together!

[OOAA]

We have begun some role playing during our bedroom activities. This past weekend we role played an actual person instead of anonymous activities. My wife was telling about a dream she had of a MFM encounter with me, her and a well known celebrity singer she has the hots for. Apparently this dream was very vivid as she went into some amount of detail about who did what to her.

This is the first time I recall her ever talking about another man fucking her in such a matter of fact way. I wasn't going to let this opportunity go to waste so I told her I'd role play as that celebrity for her and immediately went down on her. She turned on one of his albums and every now and then I'd comment about her pussy as if it was this celebrity. My wife would call out my name "Steel" as she was groaning in pleasure but each time I'd say, "uh no". Eventually Daphne got the hint and started calling out this celebrity's name.

That really, really turned me on hearing her calling out another man's name in hot passion. At this point, though, I was completely in character and it was becoming a dream come true for my wife. I ate her out as much as I could until I just had to stick my cock in her. I was pounding her hard and asking her how she liked it to which I'd just get back moans of pleasure interspersed with another man's name. This went on for a little bit until I just exploded in her.

I rolled off her and we talked about if she would ever do it if the real opportunity presented himself with this celebrity. We also talked about how big he would be compared to me and details about how we would share her.

I thought Daphne would end up showing some signs of remorse calling out another man's name but that didn't happen at all. Rather she was concerned about how I felt about it and making sure I knew she knew it was me the whole time. My answer was if she wanted me to role play other men, old schoolmates, men she meets at the gym and etc that I'd be willing to do it for sure.

GREAT step!!!!! Now start to open more the door of fantasies and roleplaying

[afagehi7]

Steel - what an awesome play date! Do you have a toy collection? Does she like big toys? My wife and I had the realistic Rocco dildo and she'd take it all and I loved it. After using it she felt looser and I loved it.

Maybe now that she's comfortable with talking about another guy you can move it closer to home with someone in real life... Friend, co worker, bar tender.. etc...

Who is the mystery celebrity?

[SteelRidge]

Know that she wants to be close to you, much more than anything else. Work hard on sharing your feelings and showing her unconditional support while she experiments with the idea of having a lover that isn't you. Keep practicing and don't let it take over all of your time/energy in the bedroom.

She's so hot. Dating her would be amazing. Have fun, together!

I try not to push anything. If she never fucks another guy, it wouldn't bother me. But she does have a strong desire to experiment in sensual pleasure and I'm willing to oblige.

One thing about dating, she is really getting comfortable showing herself off with tighter clothing, cleavage, etc.

[SteelRidge]

Steel - what an awesome play date! Do you have a toy collection? Does she like big toys? My wife and I had the realistic Rocco dildo and she'd take it all and I loved it. After using it she felt looser and I loved it.

Maybe now that she's comfortable with talking about another guy you can move it closer to home with someone in real life... Friend, co worker, bar tender.. etc...

Who is the mystery celebrity?

We have a large dildo 8.5" long by 2" girth. I think it's modeled on some porn star. We've had that one for years. I told her to give her toys a name, so we now call that one Winston. Just last week she out of the blue said she wanted a vibrator, so we went shopping on Saturday at the local sex stores in town and found one. She really has a good time using it, just cumming and cumming. I really just wanted to watch but she grabbed my head and made me suck her tits. She named that vibrator Cupid.

She also wants to get another dildo, a black one, so we have been shopping around. The local stores are expensive as hell and I think we will select one online.

She now as

[afagehi7]

Steel - what an awesome play date! Do you have a toy collection? Does she like big toys? My wife and I had the realistic Rocco dildo and she'd take it all and I loved it. After using it she felt looser and I loved it.

Maybe now that she's comfortable with talking about another guy you can move it closer to home with someone in real life... Friend, co worker, bar tender.. etc...

Who is the mystery celebrity?

We have a large dildo 8.5" long by 2" girth. I think it's modeled on some porn star. We've had that one for years. I told her to give her toys a name, so we now call that one Winston. Just last week she out of the blue said she wanted a vibrator, so we went shopping on Saturday at the local sex stores in town and found one. She really has a good time using it, just cumming and cumming. I really just wanted to watch but she grabbed my head and made me suck her tits. She named that vibrator Cupid.

She also wants to get another dildo, a black one, so we have been shopping around. The local stores are expensive as hell and I think we will select one online.

She now as

A BBC dildo. That's an interesting and awesome development

[SteelRidge]

Steel - what an awesome play date! Do you have a toy collection? Does she like big toys? My wife and I had the realistic Rocco dildo and she'd take it all and I loved it. After using it she felt looser and I loved it.

Maybe now that she's comfortable with talking about another guy you can move it closer to home with someone in real life... Friend, co worker, bar tender.. etc...

Who is the mystery celebrity?

We have a large dildo 8.5" long by 2" girth. I think it's modeled on some porn star. We've had that one for years. I told her to give her toys a name, so we now call that one Winston. Just last week she out of the blue said she wanted a vibrator, so we went shopping on Saturday at the local sex stores in town and found one. She really has a good time using it, just cumming and cumming. I really just wanted to watch but she grabbed my head and made me suck her tits. She named that vibrator Cupid.

She also wants to get another dildo, a black one, so we have been shopping around. The local stores are expensive as hell and I think we will select one online.

She now as

A BBC dildo. That's an interesting and awesome development

You don't know the half of it.

Like I said we have a pretty big dildo and I know it drives her wild but she always says "I've never complained about your dick". I'm about 6.5" length and 5.5" circumference hard, about average or maybe just a little more for a white guy.

Anyway I told her there was a website dedicated to teaching men how to make their dick's bigger, Thunder's Place. Well that got her interested and, even though she's never complained about my dick, she strongly hinted that would be a good thing to do. Apparently that got her interested in dick sizes because a few nights later she out of the blue tells me the average sizes for Orientals, whites and blacks! Now my wife during our entire marriage has said the thought of doing a black guy turned her off (we know a couple of mixed race couples and sometimes the subject would pop up between me and her). Then she lays on me that if ever I were to die the first guy she would fuck would be a black guy! I'm thinking like I better get all the rat poison out of the house, but used the opportunity to ask her if she would like a black dildo. She jumped on the offer, so now we're looking around for one.

My guess is the though of a big dick filling her up really turns her on. So tonight we're going to buy one online before our sex play.

[afagehi7]

Steel - what an awesome play date! Do you have a toy collection? Does she like big toys? My wife and I had the realistic Rocco dildo and she'd take it all and I loved it. After using it she felt looser and I loved it.

Maybe now that she's comfortable with talking about another guy you can move it closer to home with someone in real life... Friend, co worker, bar tender.. etc...

Who is the mystery celebrity?

We have a large dildo 8.5" long by 2" girth. I think it's modeled on some porn star. We've had that one for years. I told her to give her toys a name, so we now call that one Winston. Just last week she out of the blue said she wanted a vibrator, so we went shopping on Saturday at the local sex stores in town and found one. She really has a good time using it, just cumming and cumming. I really just wanted to watch but she grabbed my head and made me suck her tits. She named that vibrator Cupid.

She also wants to get another dildo, a black one, so we have been shopping around. The local stores are expensive as hell and I think we will select one online.

She now as

A BBC dildo. That's an interesting and awesome development

You don't know the half of it.

Like I said we have a pretty big dildo and I know it drives her wild but she always says "I've never complained about your dick". I'm about 6.5" length and 5.5" circumference hard, about average or maybe just a little more for a white guy.

Anyway I told her there was a website dedicated to teaching men how to make their dick's bigger, Thunder's Place. Well that got her interested and, even though she's never complained about my dick, she strongly hinted that would be a good thing to do. Apparently that got her interested in dick sizes because a few nights later she out of the blue tells me the average sizes for Orientals, whites and blacks! Now my wife during our entire marriage has said the thought of doing a black guy turned her off (we know a couple of mixed race couples and sometimes the subject would pop up between me and her). Then she lays on me that if ever I were to die the first guy she would fuck would be a black guy! I'm thinking like I better get all the rat poison out of the house, but used the opportunity to ask her if she would like a black dildo. She jumped on the offer, so now we're looking around for one.

My guess is the though of a big dick filling her up really turns her on. So tonight we're going to buy one online before our sex play.

Would she be down with some BBC hotwife porn? I wouldn't be able to wait for online... I'd be at the closest shop paying whatever price... kinda like selling umbrellas in the rain.

[andyupnaway]

Enjoying your thread. Seems real and believable. Hope you will continue to update.

Don't know where you are located but would suggest you find a way for the two of you to go to a nude beach. Our experience is that it is very safe (and tame) and creates the opportunity for her to gaze upon other men in real time. Should set up some interesting conversations, both while at the beach and later at home.

Another benefit is that is should further build her self image and confidence. Looked at the photos you posted in the "Hotties" section. She looks like a nice healthy mature woman who hasn't let herself go. She will easily be more attractive than over half of the other women on the beach, including the younger women, too. BTW, I just love looking at mature women like your wife. Hope you will continue to post more images as you continue this journey.

[SteelRidge]

Would she be down with some BBC hotwife porn? I wouldn't be able to wait for online... I'd be at the closest shop paying whatever price... kinda like selling umbrellas in the rain.

I've tried the BBC porn but she doesn't seem aroused by it. Japanese anime porn does it for though. She has mentioned that the dicks in anime are often darker than the skin of the characters.

I guess I'm cheap in that the sex shops don't have a big selection of black realistic dildos and the ones they have are running around $120. The online ones are about $50. But honestly it's pretty easy to get my wife aroused. We went to the sex toy store and to look at dildos. She got so aroused later she told me she wished she could fuck them all. It's kinda hot thinking about her in a pit full dildos pleasuring herself.

[afagehi7]

Would she be down with some BBC hotwife porn? I wouldn't be able to wait for online... I'd be at the closest shop paying whatever price... kinda like selling umbrellas in the rain.

I've tried the BBC porn but she doesn't seem aroused by it. Japanese anime porn does it for though. She has mentioned that the dicks in anime are often darker than the skin of the characters.

I guess I'm cheap in that the sex shops don't have a big selection of black realistic dildos and the ones they have are running around $120. The online ones are about $50. But honestly it's pretty easy to get my wife aroused. We went to the sex toy store and to look at dildos. She got so aroused later she told me she wished she could fuck them all. It's kinda hot thinking about her in a pit full dildos pleasuring herself.

She's certainly warming up her engine. I think y'all are on a path to someday giving it a try if the right guy comes along.

I'm going to have to check out some anime porn as I've not watched it. I usually stay away from anything Japanese for obvious reasons. They are cray cray.

There is nothing hotter than a woman taking and enjoying a large dildo...other than the real thing.

We'd love to see her toy collection...even better a pic of her in action. Even if you don't share action shots she may enjoy the naughtyness of a photo shoot.

I tried to get my wife to the toystore awhile back but she said she wasn't interested and would rather just get ice cream. Eventually we went and I let her pick out whatever she wanted. It wasn't as large as I would have liked. She doesn't lube up like she used to so we got lube...she just didn't enjoy or get into it so it's all collecting dust. 20 years ago she loves putting on a show.

You are lucky she plays fantasies with you. Maybe do some work and find BBC hotwife porn that is more sexy and erotic than just poundtown. Maybe the right one she'll like since she's getting a BBC dildo and admitted if you were gone she'd want to F a black dude. When she said that I'm surprised you didn't cum in your pants.

Edit: just saw the toy collection. That while suction cup dildo is huge. Does she love it? Can she take it all? Will the BBC dildo be bigger yet? She looks good in the background too. I see she likes trim as opposed to shaved. Interesting hair style as my wife is usually shaved and a landing strip.

[SteelRidge]

She's certainly warming up her engine. I think y'all are on a path to someday giving it a try if the right guy comes along.

I'm going to have to check out some anime porn as I've not watched it. I usually stay away from anything Japanese for obvious reasons. They are cray cray.

There is nothing hotter than a woman taking and enjoying a large dildo...other than the real thing.

We'd love to see her toy collection...even better a pic of her in action. Even if you don't share action shots she may enjoy the naughtyness of a photo shoot.

I tried to get my wife to the toystore awhile back but she said she wasn't interested and would rather just get ice cream. Eventually we went and I let her pick out whatever she wanted. It wasn't as large as I would have liked. She doesn't lube up like she used to so we got lube...she just didn't enjoy or get into it so it's all collecting dust. 20 years ago she loves putting on a show.

You are lucky she plays fantasies with you. Maybe do some work and find BBC hotwife porn that is more sexy and erotic than just poundtown. Maybe the right one she'll like since she's getting a BBC dildo and admitted if you were gone she'd want to F a black dude. When she said that I'm surprised you didn't cum in your pants.

Edit: just saw the toy collection. That while suction cup dildo is huge. Does she love it? Can she take it all? Will the BBC dildo be bigger yet? She looks good in the background too. I see she likes trim as opposed to shaved. Interesting hair style as my wife is usually shaved and a landing strip.

We watch the ordinary anime porn but not much and not the hentai with the tentacles crap.

The white dildo is huge and she can take the whole thing, especially when she has it mounted and is riding it up and down. The black dildo is about the same size of the white one. We did a little online shopping last night and ordered it.

Looking over all those dildos definitely put Daphne in the mood. Then I blindfolded Daphne and tied her up. I used all the toys on her except the Lush, interspersed with me fucking her and asking her about how much she wanted the BBC. She told me about another fantasy she had with me, her and a high school guy she is keeps in contact with on Facebook. That was a new one. Then I ended by fucking her with Winston the white dildo. She went wild because she hasn't used him in a couple weeks.

[afagehi7]

She's certainly warming up her engine. I think y'all are on a path to someday giving it a try if the right guy comes along.

I'm going to have to check out some anime porn as I've not watched it. I usually stay away from anything Japanese for obvious reasons. They are cray cray.

There is nothing hotter than a woman taking and enjoying a large dildo...other than the real thing.

We'd love to see her toy collection...even better a pic of her in action. Even if you don't share action shots she may enjoy the naughtyness of a photo shoot.

I tried to get my wife to the toystore awhile back but she said she wasn't interested and would rather just get ice cream. Eventually we went and I let her pick out whatever she wanted. It wasn't as large as I would have liked. She doesn't lube up like she used to so we got lube...she just didn't enjoy or get into it so it's all collecting dust. 20 years ago she loves putting on a show.

You are lucky she plays fantasies with you. Maybe do some work and find BBC hotwife porn that is more sexy and erotic than just poundtown. Maybe the right one she'll like since she's getting a BBC dildo and admitted if you were gone she'd want to F a black dude. When she said that I'm surprised you didn't cum in your pants.

Edit: just saw the toy collection. That while suction cup dildo is huge. Does she love it? Can she take it all? Will the BBC dildo be bigger yet? She looks good in the background too. I see she likes trim as opposed to shaved. Interesting hair style as my wife is usually shaved and a landing strip.

We watch the ordinary anime porn but not much and not the hentai with the tentacles crap.

The white dildo is huge and she can take the whole thing, especially when she has it mounted and is riding it up and down. The black dildo is about the same size of the white one. We did a little online shopping last night and ordered it.

Looking over all those dildos definitely put Daphne in the mood. Then I blindfolded Daphne and tied her up. I used all the toys on her except the Lush, interspersed with me fucking her and asking her about how much she wanted the BBC. She told me about another fantasy she had with me, her and a high school guy she is keeps in contact with on Facebook. That was a new one. Then I ended by fucking her with Winston the white dildo. She went wild because she hasn't used him in a couple weeks.

That's so hot. I used to have similar sessions with my wife 15-20 years ago.

The fantasy with the high school friend is an interesting development as is she saying she wants BBC. Either is very doable IRL. You are extremely lucky. Those type sessions were among some fond memories for me.

Maybe you'll get her to do some flirting with the highschool friend....go slow and let the fantasy develop but keep it real enough that if it happens it's not a total let down.

Can you divulge this fantasy?

[SteelRidge]

That's so hot. I used to have similar sessions with my wife 15-20 years ago.

Tell me about your experiences. It sounds like things got off the rails with you two. Certainly things were off the rails between me and the wife, all this stuff I'm talking about has only started since New Year's Eve. I do so wish we could get together as couples and have open communication. Maybe there is some personal block between you two that prevents her from completely surrendering herself to pleasure from you.

I can say this, I've 100% committed to pleasuring my wife with no demands in return. To be honest at least half the time I don't even stick my dick in her and don't even have an orgasm. Isn't that essentially hotwifing, except without another man involved. I take great emotional and rational satisfaction in what I do for her.

The fantasy with the high school friend is an interesting development as is she saying she wants BBC. Either is very doable IRL. You are extremely lucky. Those type sessions were among some fond memories for me.

Maybe you'll get her to do some flirting with the highschool friend....go slow and let the fantasy develop but keep it real enough that if it happens it's not a total let down.

Can you divulge this fantasy?

The fantasy was pretty basic. This friend coming to town on a business trip and us three going out on an innocent night on the town. He and I get a little too drunk and then we take him back to his hotel and one thing leads to another and then we have a MFM on the wife for a couple hours. Hearing her freely divulging and describing this (even in that basic manner) really turned me on Friday night. Especially with her tied up.

She also talked about revenge fucking guys from her high school that wouldn't give her the time of day back then. As you can see from the photos my wife dresses up very well and at her high school reunion last year she was definitely turning some guys on. Sometimes when she rolls me over and grinds me hard I think she is thinking about that. She's got that look on her face that says "take that!" I can't say that is a fantasy of hers, just some offhand comment she made.

[afagehi7]

That's so hot. I used to have similar sessions with my wife 15-20 years ago.

Tell me about your experiences. It sounds like things got off the rails with you two. Certainly things were off the rails between me and the wife, all this stuff I'm talking about has only started since New Year's Eve. I do so wish we could get together as couples and have open communication. Maybe there is some personal block between you two that prevents her from completely surrendering herself to pleasure from you.

I can say this, I've 100% committed to pleasuring my wife with no demands in return. To be honest at least half the time I don't even stick my dick in her and don't even have an orgasm. Isn't that essentially hotwifing, except without another man involved. I take great emotional and rational satisfaction in what I do for her.

The fantasy with the high school friend is an interesting development as is she saying she wants BBC. Either is very doable IRL. You are extremely lucky. Those type sessions were among some fond memories for me.

Maybe you'll get her to do some flirting with the highschool friend....go slow and let the fantasy develop but keep it real enough that if it happens it's not a total let down.

Can you divulge this fantasy?

The fantasy was pretty basic. This friend coming to town on a business trip and us three going out on an innocent night on the town. He and I get a little too drunk and then we take him back to his hotel and one thing leads to another and then we have a MFM on the wife for a couple hours. Hearing her freely divulging and describing this (even in that basic manner) really turned me on Friday night. Especially with her tied up.

She also talked about revenge fucking guys from her high school that wouldn't give her the time of day back then. As you can see from the photos my wife dresses up very well and at her high school reunion last year she was definitely turning some guys on. Sometimes when she rolls me over and grinds me hard I think she is thinking about that. She's got that look on her face that says "take that!" I can't say that is a fantasy of hers, just some offhand comment she made.

There isn't anything to tell about our experience. Things just kinda fell flat. Both to blame. Moreso me in the beginning and moreso her now and now meds and menopause killed her libido. Other than a lacking sex life, things are good so I happily accept that. Better than being married to a drama filled crazy slut.

It's great she's opening up about her fantasies. They've always been there she's just now letting you know. Who knows what else she has buried in her pretty little head and steamy Honeypot. Since you are so receptive and supporting maybe she'll tell you about her BBC fantasy.

It would be so hot to revenge fuck someone from back in the day. Back in highschool we are idiots and things like what click matter too much. I know I look back and regret many women I should have given a shot. Hopefully some chicks are regretting not giving me a shot but I doubt it. If they are it's because I make good money in a high profile position and not because I am hot. Hahahaha

Having her tied up and talking about revenge banging some dude... So hot. If there are still high school reunions it's a definite possibility. I've never been to one but I believe there is a good bit of hooking up that happens.

Can't wait to hear about her BBC fantasy. Interesting that is a thing in the UK too.

[SteelRidge]

There isn't anything to tell about our experience. Things just kinda fell flat. Both to blame. Moreso me in the beginning and moreso her now and now meds and menopause killed her libido. Other than a lacking sex life, things are good so I happily accept that. Better than being married to a drama filled crazy slut.

I would think there is some way to awaken her libido. I'm starting to read about Tantra (I'll post something about that later). I do stuff like running my fingers up and down my wife's body. I just don't focus on the tits and pussy. I hit practically every square inch, don't rush, and continually softly tell my wife she deserves pleasure. A scented candle and a soft red light bulb in a lamp. I start with absolutely no intention of fucking her (it may happen, it may not).

Do you do stuff like that?

[afagehi7]

There isn't anything to tell about our experience. Things just kinda fell flat. Both to blame. Moreso me in the beginning and moreso her now and now meds and menopause killed her libido. Other than a lacking sex life, things are good so I happily accept that. Better than being married to a drama filled crazy slut.

I would think there is some way to awaken her libido. I'm starting to read about Tantra (I'll post something about that later). I do stuff like running my fingers up and down my wife's body. I just don't focus on the tits and pussy. I hit practically every square inch, don't rush, and continually softly tell my wife she deserves pleasure. A scented candle and a soft red light bulb in a lamp. I start with absolutely no intention of fucking her (it may happen, it may not).

Do you do stuff like that?

SR - I've commented before that her libido is dead. A combination of meds and menopause. I've mentioned addyi before but she thinks and I agree that adding more pills to the equation isn't a good idea. Many women here claim to have been similar with the libido waking back up (eg 2hot). I am giving it some time as pushing sex with her was making her feel bad that she no longer has that desire resulting in tears and conflict. It's not worth making her upset and depressed because I want some pussy. Everything outside of the sex life is good and she's a good wife so I accept it. I'm not happy as I want the dirty girl I married back but we don't get everything we want. It's not worth letting sex cause problems in an otherwise good marriage with a good woman.

I like living vicariously through some of you on here and stay keen for a change in my situation. My desire for pussy isn't worth emotionally harming the woman I love who, at this time, just isn't capable of enjoying it.

[SteelRidge]

There isn't anything to tell about our experience. Things just kinda fell flat. Both to blame. Moreso me in the beginning and moreso her now and now meds and menopause killed her libido. Other than a lacking sex life, things are good so I happily accept that. Better than being married to a drama filled crazy slut.

OK, I don't want to push anything. Hope everything works out in the long run.

I would think there is some way to awaken her libido. I'm starting to read about Tantra (I'll post something about that later). I do stuff like running my fingers up and down my wife's body. I just don't focus on the tits and pussy. I hit practically every square inch, don't rush, and continually softly tell my wife she deserves pleasure. A scented candle and a soft red light bulb in a lamp. I start with absolutely no intention of fucking her (it may happen, it may not).

Do you do stuff like that?

SR - I've commented before that her libido is dead. A combination of meds and menopause. I've mentioned addyi before but she thinks and I agree that adding more pills to the equation isn't a good idea. Many women here claim to have been similar with the libido waking back up (eg 2hot). I am giving it some time as pushing sex with her was making her feel bad that she no longer has that desire resulting in tears and conflict. It's not worth making her upset and depressed because I want some pussy. Everything outside of the sex life is good and she's a good wife so I accept it. I'm not happy as I want the dirty girl I married back but we don't get everything we want. It's not worth letting sex cause problems in an otherwise good marriage with a good woman.

I like living vicariously through some of you on here and stay keen for a change in my situation. My desire for pussy isn't worth emotionally harming the woman I love who, at this time, just isn't capable of enjoying it.

[SteelRidge]

My wife expressed a desire for us to share our cum after orgasm. She apparently wants to experience the the taste of us together. Of course when she gives me a BJ she tastes my cum and when I finger and she get wet I often bring a taste to her and let her suck pussy soaked fingers. So I guess it's just natural to want to taste them together.

I finally screwed up the courage a few night ago and after having a deep orgasm together I immediately went down on her to pull out some with my tongue. I then went up for a deep, passionate kiss. Not as bad as I thought it would be. My wife says my cum tastes different, sometimes sweet and sometimes salty (I guess, not clear on the other taste). In this instance our combined juices were very mild flavored, but she called it sweet.

I'm experiencing some ED, and my dick alternates between hard and soft. As a side benefit though, I really have to go rough when fucking to have an orgasm and when I go I can really feel the cum shooting from my balls, up my shaft and out the tip. I think my tip is less sensitive than it used to be. I don't really mind as I love pleasuring my wife and the thought of me pounding her to get an orgasm makes me feel like a bull.