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Lovely update. Thanks for that and look forward to more as and when.

Thanks for the update. Please continue,as events happen!

My hero!

Ironically she pegged it right away, “Grace?”

I asked “How’d you know?”

“I know you, and I’ve seen you together and how she looks at you.”
Noted. Swinger-radar? Swadar? Don’t know how to say it as catchy as gadar?

Just read through this thread. I would have gone with “Swinger Ringer”!

So between seeing her a few times a week, a few times a week with Grace, my schedule has been pretty full.

Poor you! I sympathise. Still, when the going gets tough...

54321

Any early summer updates?

Mark KL wrote: ↑

Tue May 30, 2023 4:16 pm

Any early summer updates?

I think I'll have something in a couple of weeks. I'll update then.

WatchinginNJ wrote: ↑

Thu Jun 01, 2023 3:59 am

Mark KL wrote: ↑

Tue May 30, 2023 4:16 pm

Any early summer updates?

I think I'll have something in a couple of weeks. I'll update then.

Marvellous.

WatchinginNJ wrote: ↑

Thu Jun 01, 2023 3:59 am

Mark KL wrote: ↑

Tue May 30, 2023 4:16 pm

Any early summer updates?

I think I'll have something in a couple of weeks. I'll update then.

Excellent.

I've had a few PM's so I think I'll update. Nothing sexual to report. Grace is a new mom again, and they are very happy. Of course it's taken up a majority of their time. Things have been pretty curtailed for us on the playing front, but I expected that. My house is mostly done, with some finishing touches here and there, and few things on back order. The pool is filled and once the kids are out for the summer Grace said she's going to be spending plenty of time next to it.

I mentioned in a previous post that I'm dating a new woman (Sarah), and that's still going well. She's a mid-thirties professional. She has a long term partner but they are living in separate states for career reasons. She has a pretty high sex drive and while she's pretty experienced to non-monogamy she hasn't done things like swinging or hotwifing, but it is interesting to her.

I'm going to have a big 4th of July party to open the new house to friends and family, but it'll be strictly vanilla with kids and family. I'll also be introducing Sarah as she seems to enjoy being around for the long term.

So yeah, that's where we're at.

Great to see how well things are going. Keep us in mind for updates of any sort as time goes by. And send congratulations to Grace from this adoring fan.

So yeah, that's where we're at.

Wow! One good place by the sound of it!

54321

Great update. Thanks.

How did the Fourth of July party go?

My party went well. All in all a pretty standard party. Grace and her husband came with their kids. My family was there, and some friends too. Sarah was welcomed.

I'm private about my personal life but don't cover anything up. I can get away with these kinds of things without much drama. Sarah is ENM herself, so when I introduce her as "my new friend" I think most people get the deal. My mom is always the one who's conflicted. She's straight from the 60's so she gets ENM as a concept, but she's also an old lady who wants her kids to settle down, even in their middle age like me.

My ex-wife was there for a little bit (she and my family get along well) and later she cornered me.

Grace's baby was the hit of the party, and was doted on plenty. I love my kids when they were babies, and wouldn't hesitate to hold them. Other peoples kids? Meh, sometimes I'm not comfortable with them. Friends and family? No problem. Well the baby was fussing, and I stuck my hands out and she came right to me. I didn't think anything of it and walked her over to Grace.

"Is that baby yours?"

"No"

"She's awfully familiar with you" she said, "I know you don't do things traditional" and she made air quotes with her fingers, "but messing with a married woman"

"Thank you for your concern, but everyone here is adults and it's all above board"

She frowned and walked away.

A little confusing.

Did your ex wife ask you about the baby or your mom or was it Grace asking you ironically?

54321

54321 wrote: ↑

Fri Jul 14, 2023 8:12 am

A little confusing.

Did your ex wife ask you about the baby or your mom or was it Grace asking you ironically?

54321

My ex asked me if the baby was mine. We were married for a long time, and she knows me pretty well. She knows I'm not one to dote on baby's that I'm not familiar with. We had a history of swinging, and explored the lifestyle so I do get a lot of side eye from her like this. One of the main impetuous of us getting divorced was severely mismatched libidos. It doesn't bother me. She's a great mom and coparent, so she has a right to her opinions, but I also have a right to live my life as I see fit so long as no one is hurt.

I love reading about your journey. Hopefully we get an update soon.

How about a quarterly update regarding how it's going with Grace and Sarah.

I do have some updates, but I've had some business changes that have taken up a lot of my time. Both women are doing well. Sarah and I are still in the NRE stage while Grace and I have reached a steady state between her family addition and time.

I had a big lifestyle party at the end of summer. Both Sarah and Grace came, so be patient and I'll write it up. I've started writing it down a few times, but just haven't pulled the trigger to finish it.

WatchinginNJ wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 16, 2023 5:04 am

I do have some updates, but I've had some business changes that have taken up a lot of my time. Both women are doing well. Sarah and I are still in the NRE stage while Grace and I have reached a steady state between her family addition and time.

I had a big lifestyle party at the end of summer. Both Sarah and Grace came, so be patient and I'll write it up. I've started writing it down a few times, but just haven't pulled the trigger to finish it.

Sounds great.

I had a big lifestyle party at the end of summer. Both Sarah and Grace came...

I can't wait!

54321

Please do share!

Looking forward to the update … to prepare, I just reread the last two pages to refresh my memory. :-)

WatchinginNJ wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 16, 2023 5:04 am

I do have some updates, but I've had some business changes that have taken up a lot of my time. Both women are doing well. Sarah and I are still in the NRE stage while Grace and I have reached a steady state between her family addition and time.

I had a big lifestyle party at the end of summer. Both Sarah and Grace came, so be patient and I'll write it up. I've started writing it down a few times, but just haven't pulled the trigger to finish it.

I'm a long term fan and can't wait.