My Ex-Hotwife T (true story).

[Johng1953]

I am really enjoying this story but I find myself really struggling with people being identified with just a letter. I fully appreciate the need to not identify anyone but it would be really, really appreciated by me (and probably others from comments I've read on other threads) if you could just make up names.

[lkh96]

Love reading T's exploits.

[4herpleasure89]

T is, or was, a wild woman. I’m not sure how you handled it.

[DLD]

I was curious, in a previous post you said that you did not want P and T to be dating, and that’s why you took the trip to Vegas for a little break from him. Then, when you got back, they started dating and he was integrated into the family (hanging out when the kids are home, sleepovers, “uncle P”) - what changed in your mind? Also, did the neighbors catch on that they were dating and that he was spending more time/overnights at your house?

[Reveur]

We think you have started in lifestyle, HW, Cuckold... without to fix a rules and the limits how far you will go.

[wannabecUKold]

I am really enjoying this story but I find myself really struggling with people being identified with just a letter. I fully appreciate the need to not identify anyone but it would be really, really appreciated by me (and probably others from comments I've read on other threads) if you could just make up names.

I agree
Tania
Peter
Robert

[Sexyhotwife2475]

Not to be disrespectful, but a picture is worth a thousand words......

I sure all of us following this thread are dying to see T!!!

[2inUPMichigan]

Welcome to OHW Sexyhotwife2475

He is welcome of course to post a picture in the Hotties forum as long as he has T's permission. It's up to them.

[Sexyhotwife2475]

Thanks VHW

[steveb713]

Your story kept me wide awake last night. Having been through a small piece of your highs and lows I could relate to much of what you’ve gone through these past few years.

I wish you, your children and T all the best.

Steve

[DLD]

I hope gsharpe comes back and continues the story to the present.

[gsharpe]

I was curious, in a previous post you said that you did not want P and T to be dating, and that’s why you took the trip to Vegas for a little break from him. Then, when you got back, they started dating and he was integrated into the family (hanging out when the kids are home, sleepovers, “uncle P”) - what changed in your mind? Also, did the neighbors catch on that they were dating and that he was spending more time/overnights at your house?

Message received. I'll use full names now.

DLD. You hit the nail on the head here man. Throughout our relationship Trish (T) almost always seemed to get what she wanted, and I rarely did, but I had moments of rebellion that manifested in strange ways. It was a one-sided situation most of the time and the further we got into the relationship the less control I had. It certainly had its ups and down, where at times things would even out slightly, but it always went back to Trish in control. Trish was my wife on paper, but she did whatever she wanted and controlled me in the process.

Although I do have to say with Paul (P), and another future boyfriend of hers, I got along well with them, one even becoming a close friend. I would not have tolerated someone around my house and kids that I did not like or respect. Most of the guys fell into the latter category. While I allowed Trish to have a sexual relationship with them, they never hung around the house with our family or were there at all for anything other than sex. The type of the relationship I endorsed really depended on the guy. A few men I liked and became friendly with, while most I was happy it was a booty call. In hindsight I had a case of cuckold dual personality going on.


As you can imagine a giant young black man in an upscale suburban mostly white neighborhood full of families can draw attention. When asked about P mowing, trimming, weeding, mulching, etc, I just told them he was a college kid we hired for the summer. It is the type of neighborhood where people ask and talk about who does your lawn care, pest control, house cleaning, or any other construction/services. The house is on several acres on a wooded lot on a hill with a long driveway. The only time you can see people is when they are on the lower front lawn near the end of the driveway, which is usually kids playing or someone doing yard work. If you are on the side or back of the house, it's private. You can swim or walk around naked if you please.

Nobody knew Paul occasionally spent the night at our house until he stayed the whole week with us. Our neighbors thought it was generous and nice of us to allow him to stay with us. Little did they know he was dumping loads in Trish every chance he got. To be honest part of the excitement for me during the entire journey was the fact that we had a dirty taboo secret that no vanilla friends knew about.



Back to our story. I was pissed about the 2 new guys. I had been aware of or involved with every single guy in the past. Sex with my consent was hotwifing, but sex without my knowledge was cheating.


Trish was nervous Paul would find out she had fucked the two guys at the party. We weighed the decision to come clean and tell him, or just hope he did not find out. We chose the latter knowing how Paul viewed Trish as his girlfriend. Things were fine for a few weeks until after Christmas break and then Paul found out. The other guy who had quickly fucked her first, had run his mouth and word had gotten back to Paul. He was bragging to people how he and (R) Rhamond (muscle guy) fucked the "hot MILF" at the party. Apparently, Trish had a lot of attention and eyes on her at the party as everyone was wondering who the "hot MILF" was. He could just not keep his mouth shut. To make matters worse both guys were teammates of Paul.


Paul was furious at first but changed his tune as he confessed his love for Trish and was willing to forgive her. The fallout ended the relationship with Paul. It had to. It was clear Paul was in too deep with Trish, and getting out now before he got even more attached was the only option. We had talked for years about keeping it light and about sex, but their relationship had surpassed that, especially for Paul. I think this is often unavoidable in the lifestyle. It was the right decision, and a big lesson for us as to what to watch out for. As much as a good dick can hook a woman, a hot woman can hook a man.

In all fairness, Trish was built for fucking hung and physical guys and seemed to have guys get attached to her. 1. She had an accommodating pussy and could take a hard pounding from the biggest of guys. 2. She liked it rough and physical. Most women, especially the young girls around the age of the guys she was dating, would probably leave crying if some donkey dick guy was pounding her into the mattress. Not Trish, she was all women and could take a fucking. This was pointed out over the years by several men. Guys with really big cocks don't like girls with a small pussy. Just like most guys with small cocks don't typically like girls with a big pussy. Square pegs need square holes and round pegs need round holes.


Paul may not have liked the fact Trish was fucking other guys, but he may have been less possessive. It was also selfish on our part. We knew Paul would be upset with Trish if he knew about the other men. Plus, there was an element of being turned on by the fact that Trish was fucking around on her boyfriend and being the naughty cheating girl. I usually felt more comfortable if Trish had more than one guy she played with, and often pushed this. Trish was upset as she had developed feelings for Paul.


During this time, Rhamond had contacted Trish. He apologized to her and swore that he had never said a word, and that it was the other guy running his mouth. She was weary of him at first, but he was persistent in his pursuit of Trish, and she started chatting regularly with Rhamond. They hit it off. She admitted she was attracted to him and wanted to pursue it. He, like Paul, was a senior and was 22. We talked over the issues of her going from dating one teammate to another, but they were now done with football, and would both be graduating in May. Rhamond said that while he was teammates with Paul, they were not close friends. He was really pursuing Trish. I'm telling you man. She had a way about her that hooked guys.

We set a date with him at a local hotel. We met for drinks and explained our situation to him. He was the typical buff muscular guy Trish usually goes for. It had been a few months since Paul had found out and their relationship ended. She had not seen her other guy Terrence (bull T), as we were taking a break to sort things out after the Paul mess. She was horny and willing for strange cock, and the night ending with Rhamond fucking Trish in front of me. He did not act like a 22 year-old and was very dominant over Trish, which she loves. He was much more of a "man" in that aspect than Paul was. She wanted a new boy toy, and it was Rhamond, but I was not sure about him. Once again, I caved, and Trish got her way, and I agreed as long as it was discreet, and she agreed to keep it tamer this time. No more college parties fucking strangers. She could keep Rhamond and her other bull Terrence for now. They become a regular thing. It was a booty call though; he was not there for anything else. He agreed to keep it quiet so as to not hurt Paul's feelings.


We again settled into a groove of Trish having a regular boyfriend. Although Rhamond is more of a fuckfriend which is good after the emotional attachment to Paul. Trish was still having occasional dates with Terrence, her other long term occasional bull. Rhamond was definitely there for the pussy and nothing else. He was very casual about sex and did not seem to view Trish as a girlfriend in any way, which was nice after the Paul debacle, and they always used condoms. When we discussed this Rhamond said he would be fucking other girls and did not care if Trish fucked other guys, and we wanted to keep it safe. Her other long-term bull, (D) Dion, we had lost contact with.

I watched her a few times per month, but she averaged a few dates per week. I was typically there for Terrence and Trish as those were usually nighttime dates, and less frequently being only a few times per month. Rhamond was usually fucking Trish during the day with the kids at school/daycare and was the most dominant over Trish I had seen of any guy yet. I did not like Rhamond as much as Paul. Paul was actually a nice guy and got to know myself and the kids. Rhamond was more standoffish and not as friendly. A lot more thuggish. He also liked to talk a little shit when I was there. He would make Trish say things like how much better he fucked her and how she preferred his cock. He was one of those guys who got off on fucking someone’s wife. I got the feeling he was fucking some other attached women who were cheating on their SO's. He was not a trustworthy guy. Trish was smitten with him and loved the sex. She got her way and I let the relationship continue.


Rarely, I would take some time at home to watch Trish and Rhamond fuck, but most of the time it was without me. My company was exploding, and I worked a lot of hours. I started to get the feeling that Trish was hiding something. It was Springtime now and just after Trish's 36th birthday. There were clues like her time just not being accounted for and unexplained marks on her body that looked fresh according to Trish "must have been from the other day". It was the way she was acting too. Something was just off. We had installed a doorbell camera a few years back, but I had never really used it to capacity. I opted not to pay for the recording subscription and had turned off the alerts because they were annoying. I decided to activate both so I could see if anything was up. That first week I saw Rhamond arrive at our house for a scheduled date I knew about.

The next day some random older guy I have never seen before shows up and is in our house. It was an older guy who was there maybe an hour. No uniform or tools, but just athletic wear. I was not aware of any repairs or maintenance due at the house, but Trish takes care of that stuff since she is home all the time. I looked at the checkbook and credit cards but didn't see any transactions. Invoice maybe? Am I being paranoid? A few days later was the next date and Rhamond came to the house with another guy I had never seen before. They were there for over an hour before they left. I pondered confronting Trish to ask who the stranger with Rhamond was, but wanted to observe her to see what was actually happening. I started asking her more questions about her time with Rhamond to see if she would tell me anything, but she gave me nothing. She had no clue about the video doorbell. Did she have sex with this other man or was he just tagging along while Rhamond brought her upstairs.


The next week the same older guy from the week before is at my house again. No tools or anything, just normally dressed. A day later Rhamond is back at our house, but later that week he returns again with not one, but two other guys. In the last two weeks I had seen not only Rhamond, but now 4 other men, including one unaccompanied by Rhamond, come into my house. Now, I'm super suspicious. I almost confronted her that week but wanted to see what was happening inside. Instead of confronting her I did research on spy cams and opted for a Wi-Fi hidden camera. It was a smoke detector version and was absolutely brilliant. I had been considering getting cameras anyway, but these allowed them to be undetected even by Trish. As soon as they arrived, I put them in our living room, kitchen, and master bedroom. As far as Trish knew I was just replacing some old smokse. For anyone out there looking for a good hidden camera, these babies are gems. Besides being a real working smoke detector, they have hidden cameras. You can get them on Amazon. Invasion of privacy? Debatable. It was my home after all.


With the new smokes/cameras installed I could finally see what was going on inside my house. The cameras showed up on and I installed them that night. The next day the mystery older guy shows up at my house. I watch and listen as they go into the kitchen where Trish gets him a drink of water. As soon as he puts the drink down, they start kissing. I watch as he fondles her tits and kisses her and then they move upstairs. She disappears into the master bathroom where I cannot see, while he strips down and gets on our bed. Moments later Trish comes out fully naked and starts sucking his cock. She ends up fucking him in various positions before they are done, and he leaves. It felt like watching her for the first time all over again. My stomach was in knots, but my cock was hard. She was cheating on me. The fucked-up part is that when I did get home at night, I could not wait to fuck my whore wife's pussy. I was hot for her.


I don't know why I didn't intervene that night. I wanted to see just how bad Trish was behaving. It was disbelief. The cat was already out of the bag. I was going to gather evidence. Also, to be completely honest, I was turned on. I now have live stream porn into my office of Trish's adventures. I'm now certain the guys Rhamond brought with him were probably fucking Trish too. A day later Rhamond is back solo fucking Trish as scheduled. Thursday, nothing. Friday Rhamond brings a friend along. As expected, they tag team her on the couch in the living room. Cheating lying whore. I don't know why I waited. I now had her on video fucking two other guys besides Rhamond, but suspected it was more. What would you do in this situation? I'm not a confrontational person by nature. At least she was using condoms. The next week her period started so nothing. I stayed later and later at work, withdrawing, and burying myself in my work.


The very next week the older guy was back at my house fucking Trish again. Next day Rhamond solo. Two days later Rhamond shows up with 3 other guys and they gangbanged her. This was the final straw. There were too many strange men in my house. That night I finally cracked. I arrived home late when the kids were in bed, I straight up asked her who were the other guys she was fucking. She acted like she did not know what I was talking about, but I told her about the cameras and showed her proof. She lost it and completely broke down. She told me that a few months ago Rhamond had brought a friend with him without notice. She swore to herself it would be a onetime thing, but that was not Rhamond's plan.

This started to become a regular occurrence and over the next few months she met more of Rhamond's friends. I asked her how many. She said she had sex with 12 other guys, some a few times and some only once. Most of these guys were football players, but she had fucked a few from the basketball team as well. T was a college athlete slut, but she was a 36-year-old married woman. The guys' ages ranged from 18 to 22. 18! She was fucking young men half her age. She was a real-life Mrs. Robinson. I asked about the older guy who was a regular visitor. She had gotten such a reputation that some of the coaches had heard of her. One of the coaches sought her out, convinced Rhamond to introduce them, and that was the older black guy she had been fucking regularly. A 56-year-old football coach. She had betrayed me and cheated.


She cried a lot. She was worried that I would want to divorce her. I was not sure. As you can imagine, like it would most couples, this nearly ended us. Trust had been broken. It needed repair. I loved my wife, even with all of her faults, and our family. We went to counselling this time. We decided to work through it. We went back to a vanilla couple again, after our 3 plus year hotwife/cuckold adventure in which 30 plus men, many only college age, had fucked my slut. Our sex life was in the toilet though. A lot came out with counselling. We had been so wrapped up in the hotwife/cuckold thing for the past 3 years that it was difficult for me to have the same interest in her without knowing she had been naughty. Our trust had been damaged. Plus, going back all the way to her "boyfriend" relationships with Maurice, then Paul, followed by Rhamond, Trish had admitted that she needed a certain type of sex and someone with a big cock.


As the counselling and months progressed, and wounds healed, our communication and sex life improved, and we were in a good space. We were the most open we had been with each other in many years. We worked through the cheating, and my lack of attention to her, lack of taking care of her sexual needs, and frankly, lack of time at home. I had been dismissive of her and was so focused on work I had not shown as much interest in her. She felt like I was just using her for a quickie and usually only wanted to after one of her bulls had had sex with her first. She was not wrong, and the proof was in the fact that when I caught her cheating and fucking around, I was more interested in her than I had been in a long time. Sometimes it's easy to place blame on others, but one needs to look at themselves to understand their involvement.

We discovered some deeper things about ourselves. Trish's impulsiveness and submissiveness. My slightly sadomasochistic side. Not physical pain but I did enjoy the mental anguish and humiliation. One interesting tidbit, although known, was that Trish admitted in therapy that she preferred having sex with and had a stronger attraction to black men. It's different when you are discussing this completely separate from hotwifing while not currently involved in the lifestyle. She had not had sex with a white guy other than me in 2 1/2 years and had admitted she had not wanted too other than me. It had developed over time. Sexual preferences aside, she loved me, the kids, and our life together. We were going to work it out.

[4herpleasure89]

Wow. You two really went through it and appear to have stayed together which is great. What I’ve been through doesn’t compare. It also appears that our wives have some things in common.

[DLD]

I was curious, in a previous post you said that you did not want P and T to be dating, and that’s why you took the trip to Vegas for a little break from him. Then, when you got back, they started dating and he was integrated into the family (hanging out when the kids are home, sleepovers, “uncle P”) - what changed in your mind? Also, did the neighbors catch on that they were dating and that he was spending more time/overnights at your house?

Message received. I'll use full names now.

DLD. You hit the nail on the head here man. Throughout our relationship Trish (T) almost always seemed to get what she wanted, and I rarely did, but I had moments of rebellion that manifested in strange ways. It was a one-sided situation most of the time and the further we got into the relationship the less control I had. It certainly had its ups and down, where at times things would even out slightly, but it always went back to Trish in control. Trish was my wife on paper, but she did whatever she wanted and controlled me in the process.

Although I do have to say with Paul (P), and another future boyfriend of hers, I got along well with them, one even becoming a close friend. I would not have tolerated someone around my house and kids that I did not like or respect. Most of the guys fell into the latter category. While I allowed Trish to have a sexual relationship with them, they never hung around the house with our family or were there at all for anything other than sex. The type of the relationship I endorsed really depended on the guy. A few men I liked and became friendly with, while most I was happy it was a booty call. In hindsight I had a case of cuckold dual personality going on.


As you can imagine a giant young black man in an upscale suburban mostly white neighborhood full of families can draw attention. When asked about P mowing, trimming, weeding, mulching, etc, I just told them he was a college kid we hired for the summer. It is the type of neighborhood where people ask and talk about who does your lawn care, pest control, house cleaning, or any other construction/services. The house is on several acres on a wooded lot on a hill with a long driveway. The only time you can see people is when they are on the lower front lawn near the end of the driveway, which is usually kids playing or someone doing yard work. If you are on the side or back of the house, it's private. You can swim or walk around naked if you please.

Nobody knew Paul occasionally spent the night at our house until he stayed the whole week with us. Our neighbors thought it was generous and nice of us to allow him to stay with us. Little did they know he was dumping loads in Trish every chance he got. To be honest part of the excitement for me during the entire journey was the fact that we had a dirty taboo secret that no vanilla friends knew about.



Back to our story. I was pissed about the 2 new guys. I had been aware of or involved with every single guy in the past. Sex with my consent was hotwifing, but sex without my knowledge was cheating.


Trish was nervous Paul would find out she had fucked the two guys at the party. We weighed the decision to come clean and tell him, or just hope he did not find out. We chose the latter knowing how Paul viewed Trish as his girlfriend. Things were fine for a few weeks until after Christmas break and then Paul found out. The other guy who had quickly fucked her first, had run his mouth and word had gotten back to Paul. He was bragging to people how he and (R) Rhamond (muscle guy) fucked the "hot MILF" at the party. Apparently, Trish had a lot of attention and eyes on her at the party as everyone was wondering who the "hot MILF" was. He could just not keep his mouth shut. To make matters worse both guys were teammates of Paul.


Paul was furious at first but changed his tune as he confessed his love for Trish and was willing to forgive her. The fallout ended the relationship with Paul. It had to. It was clear Paul was in too deep with Trish, and getting out now before he got even more attached was the only option. We had talked for years about keeping it light and about sex, but their relationship had surpassed that, especially for Paul. I think this is often unavoidable in the lifestyle. It was the right decision, and a big lesson for us as to what to watch out for. As much as a good dick can hook a woman, a hot woman can hook a man.

In all fairness, Trish was built for fucking hung and physical guys and seemed to have guys get attached to her. 1. She had an accommodating pussy and could take a hard pounding from the biggest of guys. 2. She liked it rough and physical. Most women, especially the young girls around the age of the guys she was dating, would probably leave crying if some donkey dick guy was pounding her into the mattress. Not Trish, she was all women and could take a fucking. This was pointed out over the years by several men. Guys with really big cocks don't like girls with a small pussy. Just like most guys with small cocks don't typically like girls with a big pussy. Square pegs need square holes and round pegs need round holes.


Paul may not have liked the fact Trish was fucking other guys, but he may have been less possessive. It was also selfish on our part. We knew Paul would be upset with Trish if he knew about the other men. Plus, there was an element of being turned on by the fact that Trish was fucking around on her boyfriend and being the naughty cheating girl. I usually felt more comfortable if Trish had more than one guy she played with, and often pushed this. Trish was upset as she had developed feelings for Paul.


During this time, Rhamond had contacted Trish. He apologized to her and swore that he had never said a word, and that it was the other guy running his mouth. She was weary of him at first, but he was persistent in his pursuit of Trish, and she started chatting regularly with Rhamond. They hit it off. She admitted she was attracted to him and wanted to pursue it. He, like Paul, was a senior and was 22. We talked over the issues of her going from dating one teammate to another, but they were now done with football, and would both be graduating in May. Rhamond said that while he was teammates with Paul, they were not close friends. He was really pursuing Trish. I'm telling you man. She had a way about her that hooked guys.

We set a date with him at a local hotel. We met for drinks and explained our situation to him. He was the typical buff muscular guy Trish usually goes for. It had been a few months since Paul had found out and their relationship ended. She had not seen her other guy Terrence (bull T), as we were taking a break to sort things out after the Paul mess. She was horny and willing for strange cock, and the night ending with Rhamond fucking Trish in front of me. He did not act like a 22 year-old and was very dominant over Trish, which she loves. He was much more of a "man" in that aspect than Paul was. She wanted a new boy toy, and it was Rhamond, but I was not sure about him. Once again, I caved, and Trish got her way, and I agreed as long as it was discreet, and she agreed to keep it tamer this time. No more college parties fucking strangers. She could keep Rhamond and her other bull Terrence for now. They become a regular thing. It was a booty call though; he was not there for anything else. He agreed to keep it quiet so as to not hurt Paul's feelings.


We again settled into a groove of Trish having a regular boyfriend. Although Rhamond is more of a fuckfriend which is good after the emotional attachment to Paul. Trish was still having occasional dates with Terrence, her other long term occasional bull. Rhamond was definitely there for the pussy and nothing else. He was very casual about sex and did not seem to view Trish as a girlfriend in any way, which was nice after the Paul debacle, and they always used condoms. When we discussed this Rhamond said he would be fucking other girls and did not care if Trish fucked other guys, and we wanted to keep it safe. Her other long-term bull, (D) Dion, we had lost contact with.

I watched her a few times per month, but she averaged a few dates per week. I was typically there for Terrence and Trish as those were usually nighttime dates, and less frequently being only a few times per month. Rhamond was usually fucking Trish during the day with the kids at school/daycare and was the most dominant over Trish I had seen of any guy yet. I did not like Rhamond as much as Paul. Paul was actually a nice guy and got to know myself and the kids. Rhamond was more standoffish and not as friendly. A lot more thuggish. He also liked to talk a little shit when I was there. He would make Trish say things like how much better he fucked her and how she preferred his cock. He was one of those guys who got off on fucking someone’s wife. I got the feeling he was fucking some other attached women who were cheating on their SO's. He was not a trustworthy guy. Trish was smitten with him and loved the sex. She got her way and I let the relationship continue.


Rarely, I would take some time at home to watch Trish and Rhamond fuck, but most of the time it was without me. My company was exploding, and I worked a lot of hours. I started to get the feeling that Trish was hiding something. It was Springtime now and just after Trish's 36th birthday. There were clues like her time just not being accounted for and unexplained marks on her body that looked fresh according to Trish "must have been from the other day". It was the way she was acting too. Something was just off. We had installed a doorbell camera a few years back, but I had never really used it to capacity. I opted not to pay for the recording subscription and had turned off the alerts because they were annoying. I decided to activate both so I could see if anything was up. That first week I saw Rhamond arrive at our house for a scheduled date I knew about.

The next day some random older guy I have never seen before shows up and is in our house. It was an older guy who was there maybe an hour. No uniform or tools, but just athletic wear. I was not aware of any repairs or maintenance due at the house, but Trish takes care of that stuff since she is home all the time. I looked at the checkbook and credit cards but didn't see any transactions. Invoice maybe? Am I being paranoid? A few days later was the next date and Rhamond came to the house with another guy I had never seen before. They were there for over an hour before they left. I pondered confronting Trish to ask who the stranger with Rhamond was, but wanted to observe her to see what was actually happening. I started asking her more questions about her time with Rhamond to see if she would tell me anything, but she gave me nothing. She had no clue about the video doorbell. Did she have sex with this other man or was he just tagging along while Rhamond brought her upstairs.


The next week the same older guy from the week before is at my house again. No tools or anything, just normally dressed. A day later Rhamond is back at our house, but later that week he returns again with not one, but two other guys. In the last two weeks I had seen not only Rhamond, but now 4 other men, including one unaccompanied by Rhamond, come into my house. Now, I'm super suspicious. I almost confronted her that week but wanted to see what was happening inside. Instead of confronting her I did research on spy cams and opted for a Wi-Fi hidden camera. It was a smoke detector version and was absolutely brilliant. I had been considering getting cameras anyway, but these allowed them to be undetected even by Trish. As soon as they arrived, I put them in our living room, kitchen, and master bedroom. As far as Trish knew I was just replacing some old smokse. For anyone out there looking for a good hidden camera, these babies are gems. Besides being a real working smoke detector, they have hidden cameras. You can get them on Amazon. Invasion of privacy? Debatable. It was my home after all.


With the new smokes/cameras installed I could finally see what was going on inside my house. The cameras showed up on and I installed them that night. The next day the mystery older guy shows up at my house. I watch and listen as they go into the kitchen where Trish gets him a drink of water. As soon as he puts the drink down, they start kissing. I watch as he fondles her tits and kisses her and then they move upstairs. She disappears into the master bathroom where I cannot see, while he strips down and gets on our bed. Moments later Trish comes out fully naked and starts sucking his cock. She ends up fucking him in various positions before they are done, and he leaves. It felt like watching her for the first time all over again. My stomach was in knots, but my cock was hard. She was cheating on me. The fucked-up part is that when I did get home at night, I could not wait to fuck my whore wife's pussy. I was hot for her.


I don't know why I didn't intervene that night. I wanted to see just how bad Trish was behaving. It was disbelief. The cat was already out of the bag. I was going to gather evidence. Also, to be completely honest, I was turned on. I now have live stream porn into my office of Trish's adventures. I'm now certain the guys Rhamond brought with him were probably fucking Trish too. A day later Rhamond is back solo fucking Trish as scheduled. Thursday, nothing. Friday Rhamond brings a friend along. As expected, they tag team her on the couch in the living room. Cheating lying whore. I don't know why I waited. I now had her on video fucking two other guys besides Rhamond, but suspected it was more. What would you do in this situation? I'm not a confrontational person by nature. At least she was using condoms. The next week her period started so nothing. I stayed later and later at work, withdrawing, and burying myself in my work.


The very next week the older guy was back at my house fucking Trish again. Next day Rhamond solo. Two days later Rhamond shows up with 3 other guys and they gangbanged her. This was the final straw. There were too many strange men in my house. That night I finally cracked. I arrived home late when the kids were in bed, I straight up asked her who were the other guys she was fucking. She acted like she did not know what I was talking about, but I told her about the cameras and showed her proof. She lost it and completely broke down. She told me that a few months ago Rhamond had brought a friend with him without notice. She swore to herself it would be a onetime thing, but that was not Rhamond's plan.

This started to become a regular occurrence and over the next few months she met more of Rhamond's friends. I asked her how many. She said she had sex with 12 other guys, some a few times and some only once. Most of these guys were football players, but she had fucked a few from the basketball team as well. T was a college athlete slut, but she was a 36-year-old married woman. The guys' ages ranged from 18 to 22. 18! She was fucking young men half her age. She was a real-life Mrs. Robinson. I asked about the older guy who was a regular visitor. She had gotten such a reputation that some of the coaches had heard of her. One of the coaches sought her out, convinced Rhamond to introduce them, and that was the older black guy she had been fucking regularly. A 56-year-old football coach. She had betrayed me and cheated.


She cried a lot. She was worried that I would want to divorce her. I was not sure. As you can imagine, like it would most couples, this nearly ended us. Trust had been broken. It needed repair. I loved my wife, even with all of her faults, and our family. We went to counselling this time. We decided to work through it. We went back to a vanilla couple again, after our 3 plus year hotwife/cuckold adventure in which 30 plus men, many only college age, had fucked my slut. Our sex life was in the toilet though. A lot came out with counselling. We had been so wrapped up in the hotwife/cuckold thing for the past 3 years that it was difficult for me to have the same interest in her without knowing she had been naughty. Our trust had been damaged. Plus, going back all the way to her "boyfriend" relationships with Maurice, then Paul, followed by Rhamond, Trish had admitted that she needed a certain type of sex and someone with a big cock.


As the counselling and months progressed, and wounds healed, our communication and sex life improved, and we were in a good space. We were the most open we had been with each other in many years. We worked through the cheating, and my lack of attention to her, lack of taking care of her sexual needs, and frankly, lack of time at home. I had been dismissive of her and was so focused on work I had not shown as much interest in her. She felt like I was just using her for a quickie and usually only wanted to after one of her bulls had had sex with her first. She was not wrong, and the proof was in the fact that when I caught her cheating and fucking around, I was more interested in her than I had been in a long time. Sometimes it's easy to place blame on others, but one needs to look at themselves to understand their involvement.

We discovered some deeper things about ourselves. Trish's impulsiveness and submissiveness. My slightly sadomasochistic side. Not physical pain but I did enjoy the mental anguish and humiliation. One interesting tidbit, although known, was that Trish admitted in therapy that she preferred having sex with and had a stronger attraction to black men. It's different when you are discussing this completely separate from hotwifing while not currently involved in the lifestyle. She had not had sex with a white guy other than me in 2 1/2 years and had admitted she had not wanted too other than me. It had developed over time. Sexual preferences aside, she loved me, the kids, and our life together. We were going to work it out.

For continuity purposes, about how long was the timeframe between Rahmond becoming a partner and you finding out about all of the other guys that he introduced to her? And when you went to counseling did you guys shut it down completely? And how long was that shut down and how did that affect your relationship?

[gsharpe]

For continuity purposes, about how long was the timeframe between Rahmond becoming a partner and you finding out about all of the other guys that he introduced to her? And when you went to counseling did you guys shut it down completely? And how long was that shut down and how did that affect your relationship?

She first had sex with Rhamond at the party in December. A month later Paul found out and they broke up. Another month later (early Feb) she started seeing Rhamond. I set up the doorbell camera in late April and within 2 weeks set up the indoor hidden cameras. I watched her for a few weeks before dropping the bomb. She admitted that within weeks of starting to see Rhamond he had brought a friend with him, and it snowballed from there. So, to answer your question, she was Rhamond's slut for about 4 months in which time she fucked 11 other football or basketball players, and one coach. I now believe passing Trish around was his intention all along. He had been texting with her since the night they had sex, but she had denied his advances while she was still with Paul. He was charming and persistent though and was all over her the minute he knew Paul found out, and courted her hard.

He had already double teamed her the first night he met her even though she was dating someone else (Paul) and also married. Rhamond was the type of guy who got off on treating girls like his slut and pegged Trish as an easy target. Older hot milf hanging on to her looks and youth who likes young guys and somehow seeks validation through them wanting her. These are all recent revelations btw and never thought about or addressed back then.

We shut it down immediately, or so I thought. More on that later, but Trish was always a cheater. She is a liar too. I still don't know what was true and what was not. She was also a manipulator, especially of me. According to her she met the older guy, the coach, because he wanted to confront her about having sex with some of his players. I think there was more to it than that.

More recent revelations. I think coach was talking to the boys and he wanted in on the action. I think he sought Trish out precisely to have sex with her and think Rhamond might have offered her up to him. I have no proof but it's just a feeling. Maybe he was in trouble with him or using it for leverage. I feel Rhamond played the part of the good guy to be there for her after the breakup with Paul to build her trust and then used that goodwill to slut her out. I read his texts and he was sweet and complimentary to Trish. Obviously a real player. He managed to talk Trish into double teaming him and another guy the first night they met and she was at the party with another guy. I can picture him telling her stuff like she was too hot for just one man. Some of the same things I used to tell her early on. Karma? Who knows. There are some real assholes out there who will gladly use your wife or any other girl for their own gain. I don't think Rhamond was pimping her out but do think sharing his hot milf gave him status. I think he did this with other girls too.

[DLD]

Thanks for sharing your journey with us. Looking forward to hearing further developments.

[hoballoy647]

I find it sad that so many guys were so blatantly disrespectful to mostly your wife but also you. Giving them a free good time and they jerks in return. Esp considering she was obviously looking for acceptance and validation. People needing that tend to be blind to the real way they are being treated. I would have punched each of the disrespectful fucks upside their empty heads. I can see there is no happy ending in sight. It hurts my heart! Take care check on her often. Lee

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum hoballoy647.

[DLD]

Would love to hear the continuation of this story!

[gsharpe]

I'm back. I was working on this for a while but neve really had time to finish it.

There was a lot I could not see, and many more things Trish did sneaking around that I did not know of for years.


As we went to therapy our relationship repaired, and we gained a better understanding of ourselves. We found that we both loved and missed the lifestyle. Once you have experienced certain sexual thrills, it is very difficult to go back to a vanilla way of life. I know others can attest to this. I felt that if we were going to make it in the long run then Trish having lovers, and me the satisfaction I get from the anguish of her having them was going to be part of our relationship. I have the brain of a cuckold. I don't know what else to say. I have never been an addict to drugs or alcohol, but I can imagine it’s much the same draw that I have to being cuckolded.

Given Trish's past indiscretions, it was a risk to do so, but we promised that there would be nothing but transparency. No more lying, secrets, hidden cameras, and no more cheating. Although Trish agreed to leave the cameras in place so I could watch her fuck if we got to that point of her having solo dates, but I was not to place any more devices. We were going to do it right this time. So naive.


We were back on the profiles. This time we had set rules and would take it slower. The one biggest rule was that no more fucking anyone without my consent first. Trish was going to look for something different, something she had little experience with, but enjoyed, and that was an older man. The football coach was the first older guy she had sex with and him being a regular was not a coincidence. This sparked her interest in older men. She said when she met him, he just took her, and it was easier to submit to an older man. I learned about the relationship with him. He had sought her out because of the issues she was creating with his players. They met at his office to talk it out. She said he fucked her in his office that day and later admitted to her that was not his intention but once he saw her he could not help himself.

We decided to not include or approach anyone from our past. It was better to start fresh, so the search for someone new started. As much as T loved muscular guys, she just really loved large dominant men. Trish started chatting with many men, looking for the right fit for us at the time. She hit it off with a man named Braylon. He was 52 and huge at 6'5" and thickly built. As you would assume he had a cock that matched his body and had the coal dark skin that Trish liked. He was not ripped and muscular like many of the men from her past, but more like Paul in that he was a huge man.

Unlike Paul, who was only 21, Braylon was a true man. We met him for drinks and the three of us hit it off. The first night they only kissed goodnight and we discussed the rules of engagements. We decided to take this a little differently and once he understood that I would be involved with sex, while mostly watching, she went on another date with him. She was not allowed to have sex. We all went out later that week and had a nice dinner, again only kissing. He was looking for a couple to establish a relationship with, and he and I hit it off right away. I honestly really liked him. Trish wanted to have sex with Braylon. While Trish had mostly played it safe with condoms in the past, only taking a few men bareback, it was better and more intimate for her to have them bareback. Trish and Braylon both got tested with the plan to consummate their relationship. I was all for the bareback thing with someone tested and trusted. I loved watching other men cum in Trish and enjoyed cleaning her pussy.


Trish was back on the hotwife train and that night I watched Trish fuck her new lover. It had been almost a half year of repair and trust building. Like her previous boyfriend Paul, Braylon was a mass of a man. He could easily toss her around. Although we had some large dildos Trish played with, it had been a long time since she had taken a real fucking from a huge cock. He left her pussy sore. We met Braylon again the next week.

Things moved fast with him. Braylon had been in the military and had two kids when he was young, who were now 20 and 22 and they did not live in the area. He had been divorced 7 years before and after a few years of vanilla dating, had decided to try the lifestyle and had been in it ever since. He never wanted to get married again so settling down with a married woman meant there would be no pressure for that. Like us he had tried different things and was looking for something more permanent and steadier.

We both got along great with him. He was chill and not interested in parties and going out all night like Trish's younger lovers, but just liked hanging out. The relationship exploded and he fucked Trish at our house, then at his, and they agreed to be exclusive to one another after only weeks of dating. Unlike last time when I pushed Trish to take multiple lovers, we decided for her to be monogamous with Braylon.

With me now being 40, he and I were much more on the same wavelength than I had been with Trish's previous lovers, who seemed like kids to me. Braylon and I became fast friends. He turned out to be an amazing lover for Trish. It helps that his cock is so thick Trish can't even wrap her hands around it. He is dominant when she needs it but is also gentle at the right times. He often includes me, telling Trish to suck my cock, or telling her to fuck me first.

There is something psychological that happens to a man when his wife has a regular lover that is much bigger and better than him at sex, especially when the wife, lover, and husband all know it. I knew she loved me, but I also knew I could never give her the type of sex she needed. It can destroy your confidence over time. I realized this now looking back, but could not see the forest through the trees at the time.

Soon, he was dining at our house, introduced to the kids as my friend, and regularly hanging out with us. We'd even hang out together outside of the hotwife stuff. He soon became part of our friend group. Keep in mind that these are all vanilla people.
Braylon and Trish were wizards at hiding anything going on and completely discreet. As far as anyone knew we had met through work and that was it. I did not hang out with people from work outside of work functions since I was the company owner and I always wanted to keep personal and business separate, and I refused to hire friends. Business and personal do not mix.

No one suspected my 37-year-old trophy looking wife was my large friend's lover. I distinctly remember when one of my friends asked him about getting laid, he played it off by telling him he gets plenty of hot pussy, he just does not need to brag about it. When my friend questioned him more, he told him that he gets women just as hot as Trish for which my friend jokingly mocked him. Braylon looked at me to back him up. I just said he's not lying, he gets plenty of hot pussy just as hot as Trish, but nearly spit out my drink. The woman he was fucking that was as hot as Trish was actually Trish.

Now almost 4 years into this crazy lifestyle and my wife now had a regular boyfriend who happened to now be one of my buddies. Being good friends with the man fucking your wife is strange. We kept an open line of communication though, with all 3 of us on a text string. It even led to some odd disagreements between the three of us. There was one occasion we were watching a game and playing pool at a local bar and supposed to be going back home to have dinner with Trish and the kids, which would end up with Braylon and Trish in our bed after dinner and bedtime.

We ended up getting into a heated battle with some other guys over a pool game and had too much to drink. The best of 3 turned into best of 5, which turned into the best of 7, and also a $1000 loss. Braylon was so drunk that he had to uber home, which was rare for him, and I did the same. Coming home late for dinner, drunk, and having lost $1000 was not a good look. The worst part was that Trish was horny and wanted her lover's huge cock. She was truly pissed and locked my cock up for 3 weeks. She made me watch her and Braylon though. He was as much to blame as me. I get my cock locked for three whole weeks and he gets no punishment at all. Totally unfair.

Then Covid came and the world stopped. I still remember that March weekend when the news was hitting. We had gone hiking as a family and then out to an early dinner. The usually busy restaurant was half empty. I even said to my family this might be the last time we go out for a while. I was right. Everything changed quickly. With everything shut down, including schools, we found ourselves at home a lot. Braylon started spending more time at our house since he had no family in the area. Not knowing what was going to happen we took the isolation and distancing thing pretty seriously. We had become the closest thing to the family Braylon had around, so naturally he was with us a lot, and he stayed at our house frequently. With the kids at home all of the time, they got used to him and he became Uncle Braylon.

After the kids were in bed and asleep, they would retreat to the bedroom for fun. My comfort level grew with Braylon, as it did with Trish teasing me, and also caging me in front of Braylon. I would watch locked up as my friend and wife's lover made her orgasm repeatedly, and I loved it. She would regularly tell Braylon that I was too small to fuck her properly and that's why she had him as a boyfriend amongst other things calling my cock useless, saying I can't satisfy her, etc. She also told him she loved fucking, him, loved his cock, etc. When this first started occurring Braylon checked in with me separately to make sure I was okay with it, which was really cool and showed he cared how I felt. I admitted that when in the right mood I liked it. We got in tune so that when I was not feeling it, I would just tell them not tonight. Even if Trish wanted to push it Braylon would tell her to respect her man.

As we progressed, Braylon asked me if I liked him talking a little shit to me from time to time. Again, I told him the same answer, it depended on the mood. He never talked shit to me when sex was not involved or if I was not in the mood for it. He was a class A bull. Braylon having Trish tell me that she loved his cock amongst other things was not uncommon. Trish started in on the occasional breeding talk as well, begging Braylon to breed her. I heard Trish ask for a baby many times. She was 36, soon to be 37 and we did not really want another child, nor did Braylon, but it pushed my cuckold buttons perfectly. We discussed if this were to happen, and all agreed what Trish would do. Still, I can't imagine a more cuckold act than your wife and her lover telling you they were going to make a baby and then actually doing it. If we were younger and 26/30/42, not 36/40/52, it may have been a real possibility.


Sometimes I watched and joined in, other times I would watch TV downstairs, and just check in, and other times I would not bother them at all. He always slept in the guest room though. I had been mostly displaced sexually by what might now be my closest friend. I still engaged sexually with Trish, but it was usually for shorter amounts of time. I was always a fast cummer anyway and with Braylon's ability to last a long time Trish was satisfied sexually. Plus, Braylon had a thick 10 inches compared to my skinny 6 (on a good day) incher so I didn't fill her up the way he could. The constant battering of his huge cock in Trish's pussy had done some resizing.

We had a great house and large private backyard with a pool and a hot tub, so that first Covid summer consisted of lots of lounging around the house since there was really nothing going on. Braylon was almost always there, and he and Trish had sex often. Braylon had 3 times as much sex with Trish as I did, and they fucked like rabbits that Covid summer with not much else to do. He was a horny guy and definitely had higher levels of testosterone than I did, even being older. Given their closeness and the time we spent together, Braylon and Trish had an almost spousal thing going on. She even joked about having two husbands, usually when annoyed with us. We were very much moving into a polyamorous situation. Something I'd never dreamed we'd do, but it happened naturally.

As summer rolled on into Fall, we had some distancing parties around the neighborhood and with select friends. Everyone agreed to keep their space. They really did keep it discreet, but they would kiss or embrace when the kids were outside playing or downstairs in the playroom. The problem was that Trish and Braylon had spent so much time together, it was impossible not to see their chemistry.

One of my neighbors who is also a decent friend picked up on it. He is a direct type of guy. He asked me if I was worried that Trish and Byron had something else going on. I played it off that they were close friends, and he was like a brother. He seemed to buy it. It was the same guy who asked about Paul, and I suspect he may have had a cuckold fantasy of his own, but it was true their chemistry was now noticeable. I was a little worried about the kids too. They were now 9,7,6. We did not need them to see mommy kissing Uncle Braylon.

[DLD]

Welcome back! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Sounds like things with Braylon are a lot more stable. Interesting observation on how it was evolving into a poly relationship. Did that bother you or did your friendship with him make you comfortable with it? How obvious was their chemistry after two or three years of sexual intimacy and quasi-cohabitation?

[ArdentOneX]

What an incredible update!! I love how things have progressed for you. Is this being told in the past ... what I mean ... is this up to date? Or has more happened since summer / fall covid?

[Johng1953]

Welcome back. And thank you for using names.

[54321]

Truly amazing thread.

54321

[Dream Weaver]

You are a great writer and your experience is super interesting. I'm glad you're back!