Thanks for explaining that. I didn't realize you were already together in Kenya.snoogaloo82 wrote: ↑Thu Nov 23, 2023 7:42 amwell actually we developed a regular relationship at first. It wasn't until I came back from Kenya that I thought of talking with her about my all time fantasy of having her be a hotwife. i talked with her and she said "what?" and said she wasn't interested. once i explained how it actually could benefit her, AND it wouldn't change how I felt about her and that I would stay true to her did she decide to embrace it. she started looking on Badoo, and found a guy who had promise. They went out for coffee and wouldn't you know it it starts to rain like crazy and she didn't have any transportation, so he invited her to his place to spend the night so that she didn't have to walk in the rain. Of course being a bachelor he only had one bed and no couch! lol Smart man he is!! They slept in the same bed and he began groping her breasts, and then wanted to have sex with her, but she said it was too early in the relationship. So morning came and they planned to meet on Friday for more coffee, only this time she would pan on spending the night. Friday came and they had their coffee and then headed back to his place where they stripped their clothes off and started getting hot and heavy. They even did it standing up with her long legs wrapped around his waist and her pinned up against the wall. The sex was so good that they decided that she would spend the whole weekend since he had nothing else planned. And that is the beginning of their relationship. It didn't take long ! And now they try and meet every "weekend" friday evening through to monday morning. This weekend he's taking her someplace besides his house but he hasn't said were yet. So she's going to let me know where just to be on the safe side even though we trust him.Greg_N_Shelley wrote: ↑Thu Nov 23, 2023 7:18 amShe's beautiful. I really like her smile.
I am curious considering how you met...How did your long distance discussions develop into a mutual decision to embrace a cuckolding relationship? Was this a pre-existing fantasy/kink that you confided in her and she liked? Or was she already into the idea?
Your situation is interesting. Seems many of us on OHW enter this lifestyle through one of two routes. One, couple begins in a "conventional" monogamous relationship living together for some time before husband shares a fantasy and wife agrees to try it. Or two, wife cheats on husband who discovers he's oddly excited by the situation. There's probably some other variations too, but it usually begins with a monogamous living arrangement. Your situation seems rather unique.
You're a lucky man. Sounds like you found your perfect match and spent some great time in Kenya. Kenya has always been on my bucket list. I was supposed to do some work in Nairobi several years back and then that got cancelled when the pandemic broke out. Maybe some other day.