Why is Your Hot Wife So Attractive to you?

[Tryagain]

I felt compelled to write this having just learned that one of her guys contacted her again after he was told the relationship was off. About 2 months ago my wife told him that she did not want to see him anymore. That was after he had called and begged for another chance at another time, which she gave him. He is great at fucking but did not show any caring about her, especially when she became sick.

He is one of many who always want to fuck her again, and some come out of the blue after a long time asking to be with her again. When I met her so long ago, when she was an unbelievably gorgeous 19 yo, guys whom she dumped still kept trying to be with her.

Of course, this makes her so much hotter to me - so sexy - that guys love to fuck her and hardly ever forget her.

I love the comments on her pics - how “stunning,” how “beautiful “– how “gorgeous” - she is and how her tits are “fabulous,” and get then “hard” while viewing them, and “I am a lucky man” – many times.

Sure…some (smart) guys throw compliments around but not like this.

So not only is she beautiful and sexy to me, but to have the affirmation of so many other guys, just drives me crazy for her. Big problem...huh

[Tryagain]

Gee...I thought at least a few guys would either say they feel the same way or add something else related to their wives attractiveness.

[Her number1]

I get everything you said about your wife, and suppose it applies to most hotwives.
On top of all of those things you spoke about, I love my wife's true confidence, a real confidence that makes her so sexy. It is also what attracted most of her guys over the years.

[Parsifal]

I get everything you said about your wife, and suppose it applies to most hotwives.
On top of all of those things you spoke about, I love my wife's true confidence, a real confidence that makes her so sexy. It is also what attracted most of her guys over the years.

She's got a lot smarts to back that confidence up too. High IQ like hers has always turned me on about a woman.

[Tryagain]

I was hoping for more responses about how gorgeous or hot guys think of their wives.

When we were in our early 20s, we had some heavy fights about my in-laws that caused her to leave me for a few weeks. After app 3 weeks, we arranged to meet briefly to discuss things. We agreed to meet to talk in the street outside of the apt building. When she approached me and stood rather close, I swear I felt a surge of heat, actually heat, and got a hardon just looking at her ! phew...

[isinlarsa]

I guess in a sense, it is a reflection on me that she is with me permanently, even though she has dalliances with other men. But knowing how she attracts other men turns me on. That some of them score with her just makes her hotter in my eyes. And when they get a taste they want more. The man who made her a hotwife was a guy she worked with who had a reputation as a Player. I think she chose him, because of his reputation of being good in bed. However, after three times with her, she cut him off because he did something to piss her off. She would never tell me what it was, but she started calling him a "male slut." He kept trying to get back with her, but she didn't need him any more, and she wouldn't let him have what he had come to crave.

[Farmgirl]

I was hoping for more responses about how gorgeous or hot guys think of their wives.

When we were in our early 20s, we had some heavy fights about my in-laws that caused her to leave me for a few weeks. After app 3 weeks, we arranged to meet briefly to discuss things. We agreed to meet to talk in the street outside of the apt building. When she approached me and stood rather close, I swear I felt a surge of heat, actually heat, and got a hardon just looking at her ! phew...

So, you're looking more for looks, assets, etc.?

[philxxo]

I hear what you are saying about this. My wife is beautiful and draws all kinds of attention from men. It makes me very proud to be her husband. I am still a wannabe, and probably always will be, but the potential is definitely there. Men act stupid around my wife. She gets in the Starbucks car line and has some guy in front of her already pay for her order. That has happened 2-3 times that she has told me. Everywhere she goes, any hardware store or any place else she gets all kinds of help from men. She is in a parking lot and needs help? 2-3 men will come to her aid. LOL I try to tell her that skanky women don't get all that attention and help. And no honey, they aren't just being nice. LOL

[luvwives999]

We are older than many on here, wife will be 70 in July, we'll be married 49 years come Dec. We moved to Florida 18 months ago, knowing no one. My wife walks every morning with 3 other women, 2 of which are snowbirds. One of the snowbirds decided before she goes back home, she'd have a BBQ. We did not know any of the husbands. At the BBQ all the men when they talked to my wife had to touch her, hand on back, shoulder, knee etc. She was not flirting, nor was she dressed provocatively. None of the men touched any of the other women, and there were 3 single women there I did not know. I asked my college roommate, who has known my wife as long as I have, why would they all want to touch her? Is it possible they could sense that at one time she was a party girl? He just said,he couldn't explain it, that she just had IT. To explain why my wife is so attractive to me I can best explain that through 49 years of marriage, whatever depravity I could conjure up, she was game. I read somewhere that a woman's 4 top fantasies, in no particular order were, sex with a woman, sex with a stranger, sex with someone other than your spouse, sex in public. I told this to my wife,and told her her proud I was that she did all of those things. One quick story, we were at a swing club, wife and I sitting on a bench, couple comes over who we knew, he starts doing his wife from behind, her hands are on my knees for support. My wife unzips my pants and takes me out so the woman could suck me while getting fucked. Now that is a supportive wife.

[Tryagain]

Now that's what i am talking about guys ! I agree...some women just have IT !

[Tryagain]

Any more responses?

[funfortwo]

As for me, I would say she has a beauty that resonates from within and is truly captured in her appearance. She is a fun, exciting, cheerful, supportive person that loves a bit of adventure. Outwardly, she is gorgeous...IMHO...has blonde hair, green eyes, DD breasts and a bigger bubble type butt with toned legs. We share everything together and are best friends for almost 30 years. She always acknowledged my fantasies and would indulge me in the bedroom with role play. Eventually, over the course of 10 years, we...well mostly her, took a dip into the LS. We had a few ups and downs, but have learned to work this into our lives, which has quite honestly improved something that was already amazing. She now has taken the lead, if you will, and come to really enjoy the desire and attention from someone other than me. It has given her a newfound confidence that others have noticed.

[D+D]

My wife didn’t become a hotwife until she was 60 although I had tried for years to get her to. She thought no one would want her. All I could see was an attractive and sexy milf with a flirtatious spirit and plenty of sex appeal. She’s not like a model or anything but men are just drawn to her. She was always having conversations with men she didn’t know when we were out. When she finally tried being with another man she couldn’t believe how easy it was! She is seeing three different men right now and she is 71. Two are younger (46 and 52), one the same age. I love and desire her more than ever because I’m the one she comes home to.

[Sissy triple D]

Lady M is so attractive to me because she has become a different woman since we experienced this. Her charisma and self-confidence make her irresistible to me. She now dares to dress in a way she never did before. She dares to play with the attention she gets from other men. Lady M just exudes sex and yet she still has a little bit of the naivete and shyness from before... All this makes her so beautiful to me.

[BrunetteLover]

My wife is attractive to me, hot or not hot.

[bella-joy]

As a hotwife, I enjoy reading these so much! I had always felt all of these things that everyone is naming about myself subconsciously, but now I'm totally owning it and loving my life. It's so sexy and powerful to read these reasons.

[elina]

As a hotwife, I enjoy reading these so much! I had always felt all of these things that everyone is naming about myself subconsciously, but now I'm totally owning it and loving my life. It's so sexy and powerful to read these reasons.

Dearest Bella-Joy

I think you have discovered the holy-grail of cuckolding.
Being a HotWife or Cuckoldress allows the Lady to experience multiple males attraction and strong desires for Her,
This fuels the Lady's self confidence,
This again makes the Lady behave in a more self-confident way which just further fuels Her cucks and lovers infatuation with Her and for Her.

In particular, feeling how Her now cuck-husband becomes even more in love and infatuated with Her, his willingness to do whatever it take to stimulate Her to enjoy Herself so that He can experience a Happy and Sexy wife who is attractive to many males.....

It can become a selfstimulating feedback loop. To keep it that way, the key is that both you and your husband derrives some kind of joy from it. The paradox is that for a cuck, especially a submissive cuck, being sexually denied and kept chaste can often be the most stimulating part of the exercise; "Males wants what they cannot have", so by carefully playing with denial, demanding Her husband only cums when given permission, locking Her cuck in a cage while She has sex with selected lovers, will stimulate both parties emotions for each other.

Maybe I am running a little ahead of myself here and maybe you are not quite where I describe yet. I saw you husband introduced himself in your thread and was very pleased to see him report that the two of you were having good conversations leading to better understanding of what both of you want. You have the foundation to move forward in a good way.

Sincerely
elina

[bella-joy]

Yes...the "self-stimulating feedback loop" ! Thank you for connecting the dots here so well. I'm excited about the foundation we're building and the adventures (soon) to come!

[dinoo]

From the moment I met my (future) wife, it did become very clear to me that men fell for her.
Was it because of her eternal smile?
Was it because of her open and friendly nature?
Was it her looks?
Was it because she almost never rejected advances?

Because of that attention from other men, I really felt like I had won a lottery ticket.
After all, I could always show those around me that I was her number one.

During the years before and after our marriage, she had no objection to allowing physical attention from other men.
Nay, it stroked her ego. Either I witnessed it, or she told me later what had happened.

It was only decades later, when the children were out of the house, that much changed. Sex was reinvented, especially the not-usual stuff. Call it fetish. Another decade or so later, I had to expose myself at her request as to what forms of sex I followed on the internet. And that was particularly cuckolding/HW-ing.

A direct result was that together we decided to explore another life in sex clubs.
I came up with several options from which she could choose.
She chose a club with a nudist night where single men were also welcome.
During the first visit to what became "our club", she surprised me by taking advantage with both hands of the fact that the number of men far exceeded the number of couples. Not a second of that evening was she left alone. For the last half hour, she was even the centre of attention for a dozen or so men.
Out together and home together but in between, I felt I did not exist for her.
Jealous? Nay, I enjoyed the fact that she took such pleasure in confronting me with it.

All visits thereafter the same picture, albeit that men dared to express themselves more and more, allowed themselves more.
Twice I offered her if I should ask a man to stop what he was doing to her.
Twice I got a "no, let him" reply. After that, I never asked again. Even when that inclination did arise.
With complete surrender and passion but, above all, a lot of fun, she joined in the game.
I enjoyed that abandonment and freedom she entrusted herself with.
So much so that I would much rather watch than participate and above all did not want to be a disturbing factor.

What she found so "beautiful" was that I was her number one again after every event.
That we went through the evening in detail together again, enjoyed it together once more.