Leggysandy Stepping Out

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by afagehi7 » Thu Oct 12, 2023 5:26 pm

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Unfortunately, tonight's guy was a "no".

They had an excellent dinner, some good conversation (mostly about food), they kissed, and they felt each others' muscles. But she wasn't attracted to his face, in person. Pity, that! :cry:
Bump….

Leggy,

Such a shame the last date ended that way. Was that awkward the way the date ended, or was this intended as a “meet and greet” to begin with? Thats an interesting discussion in and of itself to be honest.

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It was supposed to be just meet and greet and the date went fine as far as he was concerned :lol: We kissed in the end (I was trying out the chemistry - just in case!), but did not tell him how I really felt until some days later when he messaged me. In fact, even when I told him it wouldn't happen, he took it as a challenge, so he's still messaging me every now and then :lol: (he is a sweet guy really and not too annoying, so I don't mind)
Was it his physical appearance and attributes or his attitude that benched him?

For example, too short or not confident enough...

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysandy » Fri Oct 13, 2023 11:32 am

afagehi7 wrote:
Thu Oct 12, 2023 5:26 pm
leggysandy wrote:
Wed Oct 11, 2023 1:21 pm
PlayboyFan wrote:
Wed Oct 11, 2023 7:27 am
leggysman wrote:
Wed Jul 26, 2023 4:12 pm
Unfortunately, tonight's guy was a "no".

They had an excellent dinner, some good conversation (mostly about food), they kissed, and they felt each others' muscles. But she wasn't attracted to his face, in person. Pity, that! :cry:
Bump….

Leggy,

Such a shame the last date ended that way. Was that awkward the way the date ended, or was this intended as a “meet and greet” to begin with? Thats an interesting discussion in and of itself to be honest.

PBF
It was supposed to be just meet and greet and the date went fine as far as he was concerned :lol: We kissed in the end (I was trying out the chemistry - just in case!), but did not tell him how I really felt until some days later when he messaged me. In fact, even when I told him it wouldn't happen, he took it as a challenge, so he's still messaging me every now and then :lol: (he is a sweet guy really and not too annoying, so I don't mind)
Was it his physical appearance and attributes or his attitude that benched him?

For example, too short or not confident enough...
It was his face to be honest. Though he was a bit shorter than expected, I didn't mind that, as he does have a great body. His attitude was great, he is a really sweet guy and we did have a lovely evening (the fact that food was absolutely outstanding probably helped) :lol:

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by Parsifal » Sat Oct 14, 2023 6:24 pm

I love how you love the whole person, Sandy

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by Small » Fri Jan 26, 2024 11:36 am

It's been a while since we heard from you guys here. Isn't it time for LS to explore again? :)

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysman » Fri Jan 26, 2024 2:04 pm

Small wrote:
Fri Jan 26, 2024 11:36 am
It's been a while since we heard from you guys here. Isn't it time for LS to explore again? :)
Thanks for the reminder ;)

No plans to speak of yet, but we haven't gone away. Just on the bench at the moment. I think things might start to warm up again soonish. Of course when they do, our friends at OHW will be among the first to know :mrgreen:
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by Midnight Joker » Sat Mar 02, 2024 5:58 am

Well, was reading your stories and looking at the pics of your beautiful wife, especially the bridal photos. Got me so hot that I just attacked and ravaged my wife, while begging her to take a lover like your wife has. Thanks for the inspiration ;)

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysman » Thu Apr 18, 2024 11:01 am

leggysman wrote:
Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:34 pm
I think there's a mutual attraction building with one of the local guys, here in our village. He's a handsome, tall, single dad
Tonight they're on a "first date" at the local pub :mrgreen: Nothing much will happen tonight, I'm almost certain. She called it a date, then said it isn't. But it's ... something

He has known for a while that she's a hotwife (one of the only people we know IRL who is aware). He's been acting more flirty and interested lately. She sent him her bikini pics when we were on holiday. :twisted:
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Thu Apr 18, 2024 11:23 am

leggysman wrote:
Thu Apr 18, 2024 11:01 am
leggysman wrote:
Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:34 pm
I think there's a mutual attraction building with one of the local guys, here in our village. He's a handsome, tall, single dad
Tonight they're on a "first date" at the local pub :mrgreen: Nothing much will happen tonight, I'm almost certain. She called it a date, then said it isn't. But it's ... something

He has known for a while that she's a hotwife (one of the only people we know IRL who is aware). He's been acting more flirty and interested lately. She sent him her bikini pics when we were on holiday. :twisted:
LM - Is this of any concern?

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysman » Thu Apr 18, 2024 11:46 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Apr 18, 2024 11:23 am
LM - Is this of any concern?
I guess it tells me they will be on their best behavior while they're in public. :lol: I assmed they'd go to the bigger town near us for a bit more anonymity.

To all outward appearances, I'm sure it will just look like 2 friends out for a pint. Which it is, more or less. But this is new, and I know the theoretical idea of going further turns her on. I hope she's tempted!
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysman » Mon Apr 29, 2024 3:18 pm

An update: Their pub date went well, and they stayed for nearly 3 hours. She's just little, so it doesn't take much drinking to have an effect on her. She tried a few suggestive comments, but he couldn't seem to respond in kind. He seems shy about it; he's a 'vanilla' guy so I think he's tentative about the whole hotwife dynamic (he's acquainted with me, and we chat sometimes).

She and I swapped a few messages throughout the evening, and I was agitating for a goodnight kiss (they've never kissed) but she didn't think he'd go for it. In the end, he walked her home (but not all the way home, haha) and they had a long hug.

They chat all the time, and on Thursday he unexpectedly asked whether she was going for her usual evening walk/run, and whether she'd like to come over. No pretense or cover story -- just wanna come over? She declined due to some work she had to do, but that seemed like a promising step!

They took the kids to the pool on Saturday. She wore her bikini - the one I posted pics of (viewtopic.php?f=9&t=67265&start=525#p1479159) and which she sent to him while we were away on holiday. They were busy with the kids most of the time, but he's since mentioned that he definitely noticed how good she looks in it.

Saturday night while I was out, they got right into the conversation about this thing that's been developing, and started talking openly about some of the "what ifs" of taking it to the next level. It became obvious to us that it's probably going to happen. She's 99% in, and he's certainly getting over whatever reservations that seemed to be holding him back.

Tonight she told me that she's going over to his house this Thursday. She's bringing dinner, and he's in charge of refreshments. He mentioned wanting to ask more about the 'lifestyle' and the roles. Of course, I'm hoping they'll also finally break the ice. As I understand it, the chatting has been getting more flirty, and he's getting more bold. At the pace they've been going, I don't really anticipate more than kissing, but I'd certainly be happy with that. If there's more, so much the better! :twisted:

I think there's an excellent chance I'm soon going to be sharing leggysandy with, as she put it, her local "secret boyfriend". He lives within walking distance, and if all goes well, she said she might want to be hooking up with him several times per month. I assured her that I'm very OK with that. We're both pretty excited about the possibilities.

The other thing she mentioned tonight was: the good thing about this guy is, they can go bare. And creampies, I added helpfully. Nods and smiles. :mrgreen:
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by Her number1 » Mon Apr 29, 2024 6:21 pm

Great news!!

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Unread post by kaskap79 » Mon Apr 29, 2024 7:29 pm

I hope he is brave enough to take the next step, I know I would be. :D

If he takes the next step, just imagine how it will be, to go to work and not knowing whether your wife will be fucked or not while you are at work. I love it when I know my wife and her lover are in the same area for some time.
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by fitz_f » Mon Apr 29, 2024 8:48 pm

Excellent update. Hope Thursday goes well!

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by james2011 » Sat May 04, 2024 3:47 am

How did her Thursday adventure go? An innocent walk down the block…..arriving at his doorstep.

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysandy » Sat May 04, 2024 6:14 am

james2011 wrote:
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How did her Thursday adventure go? An innocent walk down the block…..arriving at his doorstep.
It didn't go. Leggysman remembered he has made some other arrangements, so I had to stay at home with kids. We thought of moving it to Friday, but I got a cold, so didn't really feel that well. Next week hopefully :)

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by kaskap79 » Sat May 04, 2024 1:16 pm

leggysandy wrote:
Sat May 04, 2024 6:14 am
I got a cold, so didn't really feel that well.
Poor you, I should be there to comfort you. :D :D
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysandy » Sat May 04, 2024 11:03 pm

kaskap79 wrote:
Sat May 04, 2024 1:16 pm
leggysandy wrote:
Sat May 04, 2024 6:14 am
I got a cold, so didn't really feel that well.
Poor you, I should be there to comfort you. :D :D
haha, I don't need comfort Kaskap, I need to avoid people :lol:

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysandy » Sat May 04, 2024 11:09 pm

So, an update... I had a long long chat with my handsome, tall neighbor last night (messaging). And wow, the things he has said. Unlike year ago, he seems to want to do it, but he doesn't want to do it under "my" rules as he calls it. He doesn't want it to be super secret, he doesn't want to be careful about what he says and does in public and he doesn't want to actively try to hide it. :???:

So, he says that it would be natural to share with his friends if he was dating a new woman and I tried to explain that this would not be dating. You don't just come to your friend and say: hey, I am having sex with this woman. And btw, she's married and her husband is on board!

I said the only way to do it is if he learns how to be private about it. And he said that I could learn how not to be married, or how to be more open about who I am seeing. He still wants to meet, even if just for a chat, and seems like he want to meet me half way, as in find some compromise.

I think this is pretty much dead end and we can try negotiating year from now again :lol:

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysman » Sun May 05, 2024 2:16 am

leggysandy wrote:
Sat May 04, 2024 11:09 pm
He doesn't want it to be super secret, he doesn't want to be careful about what he says and does in public and he doesn't want to actively try to hide it. :???:
I don't get it. Sure, it would be nice to be open about everything -- in an ideal world.

But we live in a village. He's a 'lifer', but we're relative newcomers. Surely he can understand why we might not want everybody gossiping about us, things getting back to our young kids, etc.

[ Especially considering our mean girl problem -- a wannabe "village queen bee" who used to be leggysandy's good friend, but who turned on her on the flimsiest of pretenses (something our child allegedly said to hers, but I don't think it happened; her child is a fabulist who makes unlikely claims even about her own mother). I reckon she's jealous, sees leggysandy as a rival, and needs an enemy for her mean girl games. We're staying above it, but I think she's already badmouthing us -- I doubt we want to hand her ammunition. ]

I think he was just fantasizing, and probably understands all of the above.
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by Toonfan66 » Sun May 05, 2024 2:59 am

Family always comes first, and you're right that's the whole family not just the two of you. If he's not going to agree to your eminently sensible ground rules, or more worryingly doesn't understand the premise of hotwifing, then it's his loss, plenty more fish in the sea; hooking the right 'one' can take a while, especially if a decent catch was almost on the hook (but somehow managed to exclude themselves) and you need to start over, but life was never meant to be easy 🤔

P.S. Love your story and both your updates, even if they make me envious 😉

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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by 54321 » Sun May 05, 2024 3:08 am

This guy, unfortunately, is a definite 'No'.

But how did he get to find out about you guys being Lifestylers in the first place?

Also, for my edification, what does 'IRL' stand for?

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Unread post by kaskap79 » Sun May 05, 2024 3:12 am

What an ass.

Forget him and move on.

I am sure you will have no problem finding a Gentleman that accepts your rules.
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysman » Sun May 05, 2024 3:27 am

Toonfan66 wrote:
Sun May 05, 2024 2:59 am
Family always comes first, and you're right that's the whole family not just the two of you.
Not to mention his own kids, his ex wife (although maybe that's who he really would want to know). If he tells some people, it's safe to assume everybody will know eventually. It would make him the subject of gossip, as well.
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Sun May 05, 2024 3:08 am
But how did he get to find out about you guys being Lifestylers in the first place?
She told him a while ago, presumably to reel him in :lol: I think I would have preferred him knowing less detail, at least while he remains on the 'outside' so to speak.
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Also, for my edification, what does 'IRL' stand for?
In Real Life
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Sun May 05, 2024 3:12 am
Forget him and move on.

I am sure you will have no problem finding a Gentleman that accepts your rules.
The idea of a local, vanilla guy holds a lot of appeal, though. She really likes him.

I think we just need to train him.
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by kaskap79 » Sun May 05, 2024 4:51 am

leggysman wrote:
Sun May 05, 2024 3:27 am
kaskap79 wrote:
Sun May 05, 2024 3:12 am
Forget him and move on.

I am sure you will have no problem finding a Gentleman that accepts your rules.
The idea of a local, vanilla guy holds a lot of appeal, though. She really likes him.

I think we just need to train him.
Yes, you have.

But you still must be sure that you can trust him and that he is not talking about your back to his friends. Especially when you live so close.
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Re: Leggysandy Stepping Out

Unread post by leggysandy » Sun May 05, 2024 5:16 am

kaskap79 wrote:
Sun May 05, 2024 4:51 am
leggysman wrote:
Sun May 05, 2024 3:27 am
kaskap79 wrote:
Sun May 05, 2024 3:12 am
Forget him and move on.

I am sure you will have no problem finding a Gentleman that accepts your rules.
The idea of a local, vanilla guy holds a lot of appeal, though. She really likes him.

I think we just need to train him.
Yes, you have.

But you still must be sure that you can trust him and that he is not talking about your back to his friends. Especially when you live so close.
He's got two small kids of his own (one of them being my student!). So, it just seems silly and irrational to me that he wouldn't want to keep it completely discreet.

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