"Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

[scavenger7]

Because it is a turn on like no other. Why? I have no idea but the thought of someone else banging my wife has always turned me on.

[wild wifey]

I used to wonder the same question about my husband. But the more he talked about his fantasies of me sleeping with other men, the more I started liking the idea. I mean, sure, it is a pretty HOT topic! I love sex. And other men? Yum! AND, after all, I would get to be the one to have the fun, while he sits at home doing dishes. haha. I have finally learned the best way to get him to help me around the house! When I am out with another guy, I don't even have to ask hubby to do anything. His mind is busy wondering what I am doing, that he just starts cleaning. I love it! (and he doesn't even cross my mind! hahah ) SO, in the end, I don't question WHY my husband would want me to sleep with other men any longer. I just do it, and get the best of both worlds (including fun experiences with new men, a clean house and lots of sex from husband afterwards)

Sometimes, I think he is jealous, but he lives for it somehow. It is a thrill that he cannot control me. And he loves it. I don't try to understand men! But I love them! And I love driving them crazy. Especially hubby. He is stronger than me physically, but I have finally figured out his weaknesses and how I can gain leverage over him. I love it. I LOVE IT! And I have been so much happier since becoming a hotwife.

[Mia]

I used to wonder the same question about my husband. But the more he talked about his fantasies of me sleeping with other men, the more I started liking the idea. I mean, sure, it is a pretty HOT topic! I love sex. And other men? Yum! AND, after all, I would get to be the one to have the fun, while he sits at home doing dishes. haha. I have finally learned the best way to get him to help me around the house! When I am out with another guy, I don't even have to ask hubby to do anything. His mind is busy wondering what I am doing, that he just starts cleaning. I love it! (and he doesn't even cross my mind! hahah ) SO, in the end, I don't question WHY my husband would want me to sleep with other men any longer. I just do it, and get the best of both worlds (including fun experiences with new men, a clean house and lots of sex from husband afterwards)

Sometimes, I think he is jealous, but he lives for it somehow. It is a thrill that he cannot control me. And he loves it. I don't try to understand men! But I love them! And I love driving them crazy. Especially hubby. He is stronger than me physically, but I have finally figured out his weaknesses and how I can gain leverage over him. I love it. I LOVE IT! And I have been so much happier since becoming a hotwife.

Welcome to OHW, wild wifey.



Mia

[wild wifey]

Welcome to OHW, wild wifey.



Mia

Thanks Mia! I am really excited to have found this forum. It is nice to find others out there who have similar interests.

[DrDemento_68]

I want my wife to fuck other men for several reasons:

I love porn; I love watching people fuck. My wife and her FBs give me great, live porn shows! For free!

Seeing another man turned on by my wife makes me more turned on by her too. She becomes even more sexy to me.

Allowing another man to see my wife naked, touch her body, kiss and suck her breasts, fondle and lick her pussy, stick his cock in her mouth, fuck her and shoot his cum in her somehow for me is an exciting violation of a taboo that gets me very aroused.

Having my wife look at me while she is getting fucked and hearing her tell me how good his cock feels inside her and what a good fuck he is makes me insanely hot. I love how she looks right at me as his cock is thrusting in and out of her pussy.

Seeing her lips and chin covered in another man's cum after she sucked him off is obscenely beautiful to me, and never fails to make me crave to kiss her and feel and taste the evidence of her giving herself to him.

Watching another man cum in her and watching her reaction as she feels his cock shoot off in her and she feels her pussy flooding with hot cum can sometimes make me cum without even touching myself. Her look of ecstasy really excites me!

Seeing her pussy fresh-fucked and full of another man's cum gives me the irresistible urge to plunge my face into it and lick, suck and kiss her cummy creampie until she cums on my face. I love how her pussy looks, feels and tastes when she has just been fucked. I especially like it when she tells me how good he fucked her and how she could feel him cumming in her while I enjoy her wet pussy.

Sliding my cock into her hot, slick, loose pussy and feeling his cum coating her walls and my cock as we fuck adds an erotic element that can't be described. When she says "Fuck me in his cum!" I just go nuts.

I could go on, but you get the picture.....................

[Salsonero]

I want my wife to fuck other men for several reasons:

Wow, an A+ for this hot expository essay!

[rs480]

What Salsonero said right above.^ Whew!

AND
From my brain.
For my wife to be able to feel the tingle, excitement and giddiness I felt a couple of weeks ago during and after I played with a real nice couple (friends). Wow.

[DrDemento_68]

I want my wife to fuck other men for several reasons:

Wow, an A+ for this hot expository essay!

Thanks. And I didn't even get to the part about I also want my wife to fuck other men because our agreement is if she gets to fuck them I get to suck them

[afman]

I want my wife to fuck other men for several reasons:

I nearly cum

[Sensual in Ontario]

Because it is the most erotic and hottest thing any husband can see!

[finendandy]

Because the idea is simply massively erotic. I actually think it's far more natural than people realise to be not only attracted to someone but turned on by their sexuality. Once you realise that jealousy as a negative force disappears. I yearn simply for the woman I fancy so much I married her to be sexual. I want her to experience what I no longer can offoffer... excitement, newness, butterflys. Thrill. Its not rocket science. But it fits my personality because I'm naturally non conventional as is my wife. Love all

[Salsonero]

Because the idea is simply massively erotic. I actually think it's far more natural than people realise to be not only attracted to someone but turned on by their sexuality. Once you realise that jealousy as a negative force disappears. I yearn simply for the woman I fancy so much I married her to be sexual. I want her to experience what I no longer can offoffer... excitement, newness, butterflys. Thrill. Its not rocket science. But it fits my personality because I'm naturally non conventional as is my wife. Love all

That is a very romantic statement. You must give her plenty of butterflies yourself if you can think such loving thoughts about her!

[54321]

"I actually think it's far more natural than people realise to be not only attracted to someone but turned on by their sexuality."

"I yearn simply for the woman I fancy so much I married her to be sexual."

"I want her to experience what I no longer can offer... excitement, newness, butterflies."

These three phrases totally sum it up for me.

Thank you for an excellent post!

54321

[ChasteHusband62]

Cuckoldry is about non-possessiveness, and a more expansive view of what two people can experience OUTSIDE THE TYPICAL BOUNDS OF MONOGAMOUS MATRIMONY!

[finendandy]

I really really really really, really want her to fuck other men.

[ChasteHusband62]

54321 has hit on an important point when it was said: "I want her to experience what I can no longer provide...excitement, newness, butterflies." That's a lot of the way I think of this as well. I know a couple who no longer have sex because the husband takes certain medications that make him achieving an erection basically impossible; and over a period of time, he began encouraging his younger wife to seek sexual satisfaction outside of their marriage. So, instead of having her risk her personal safety and health outside their home, he became (essentially) a cuckold, and had his wife and her lovers do the deed there.

It wasn't sex in the traditional view of things for him, and yet, acting the part of a voyeuristic cuckold brought about a very sexually charged experience itself, though a step or two removed! Instead of the marriage crumbling, it grew stronger, and a new sort of "intimacy" immerged. This older couple inspired my own wife and I in that same direction--though for different essential reasons. The definition of what "sex", and "intimacy" is, can be much different, and more broadly viewed, and practiced, than we sometimes assume. A marriage is what the couple make of it anyway.

[GreatWolf]

For me it is a fantasy that I had for many years but was always scared to admit to my wife. She and I sat down and began discussing the good and the bad of her becoming a hotwife for what seemed like an eternity. After months of discussion, she came to me and told me that she wanted to have her first experience. We were both excited as well as nervous about how things were going to go, the first time was wonderful and something that I will never forget. Seeing this thread reminded me of some of the things that we had discussed together.

For instance, Scarlet has a much higher libido than I do and it can be hard keeping up with her high sex drive. Her being a hotwife helps her curb her sexual desires. It also helps us because she is a bit of an exhibitionist and I tend to be a bit of a voyeur, her sleeping with another man fulfills that aspect of our personalities. I find it very arousing watching her engage in sex with another, as well, as hearing how much pleasure she is having. It is about achieving mutual pleasures in some form or the other, for me it is being able to watch my wife engaging in sexual pleasure and witnessing her personal growth and being there with her along her journey.

It is an experience that when all said and done, brings us closer together and fulfills our wants and desires.

[tunafish]

I read all these comments and can identify with many of them.
Like Greatwolf i had the HW fantasy from the first time I had sex with my wife. She was dating a few other guys back then and I knew she was having sex with them as she was on birth control.

Over time I became consumed with her past sex life but she is not one to share any of that, never has over 30 plus years of marriage.

Along the way I began to share my fantasy of her having sex with others. She was appaled at first. But over time she began to at least
go along with it though I know she thought it strange. Over the years she's become far more willing to engage my fantasies and even makes up "date" stories for me.

I know she'll never engage in real hotwifery but I don't care. She willingly teases me, tells me about how she has been fucking a few guys over the years and more. At 62 she is still a gorgeous hottie, and she tells me all the time how wonderful it is that I love to have sex with her all the time. Its done wonders for her self esteem and it has done wonders for our sex life.

I can't thank this site enough for allowing me to open up about my fantasies and thanks to the many regular posters and others for having an amazing site to look at.

Steve

[Footfreak]

A women can satisfy many men. A man can not satisfy one women.
Women are smarter, better workers, more imaginative & just Superior to the male in all ways except in brute force.
The correct system IMO is Polyandry

[Luv It]

A women can satisfy many men. A man can not satisfy one women.
Women are smarter, better workers, more imaginative & just Superior to the male in all ways except in brute force.
The correct system IMO is Polyandry

Female/goddess worship cults go back a long way.... back to ancient times.... for basically the reasons you outlined.

It even has a history to this day in America's symbols and statues.
What is now often referred to in the US as "Lady Liberty" is actually the goddess "Columbia" .... which is actually a feminized version of Christopher Columbus/Columbo
There is even a statue of the goddess "Columbia" on top of the dome of the US capital building.
Washington D.C. is actually named after this goddess.

Let's not forget the Statue of Liberty.
When first erected in the US, critics of the statue correctly called it "just a pagan goddess".
We now love her of courses.

So, female worship is not uncommon by any means.
To have your own personal goddess is sort of the ultimate for us I guess.

[Salsonero]

To have your own personal goddess is sort of the ultimate for us I guess.

Borrowing someone else's comes in as close second.

[malenurse]

You know when we are screwing, making love, fucking, balling or whatever you call it, I like to see what is going on. I like to see my dick disappear into her pussy, mouth, as or wherever. I am a voyeur. Always have been. Love porn, love to think of my wife in porn. What is better than that. Your own personal pornstar. And although I may be the only person she will perform for now, knowing that other men desire her confirms her beauty, her sexuality. That she is hot and I have also serves to validate my own masculinity. "Hey all you people look I have a very hot wife". Damn, I am a lucky SOB!

[stiggs]

The wife went for a girls night out, got hit on, came back wetter than I've ever seen her.
Obviously, she enjoyed it, so why not let it escalate since I'm the beneficiary?
I'm by nature an observer, love to watch her with toys.
What's another guy, but one big interactive toy.
This is, of course, as long as she doesn't leave me. Then I'd have to kill her, lol.

[TheManInBlackFlagg]

so many great posts in here that echo my own sentiments. I encourage my wife to have other partners so she can have the butterflies that 54321 mentioned. I encourage her because her pleasure is mine. I encourage her because I love to watch, and (as FootFreak said) who doesn't want their own personal porn star? I encourage her because even after she's been ravaged, she still wants more from me. she has always been a prolific lover, why should that stop now that she has me? I want her to have that variety that she was accustomed to before she met me. we are married, but I don't ever want her to lose the wildness that attracted me to her in the first place.

[ChasteHusband62]

Some great posts here. Jealousy is such a poison. Monogamy is, let's face it, a mainly man-created concept. Monogamy can be a good thing, but it so easily lends itself to an unhealthy form of possessiveness. Guys that are hyper jealous are deeply insecure within themselves. They apparently need a woman to lead around, to boss around, to make themselves feel important. I've seen it many times in my life. Those sorts of relationships are more like a prison. So, for me, allowing my wife a lot of personal freedom to enjoy herself sexually outside of our marital confines does several things at once---First, it spices up our own relationship with variety and excitement; and second, it reminds me that any relationship is fluid, rather than fixed; and that my wife is not truly "mine", in a property sense, but a "gift." I love this gift very much, but it is NOT "mine." When I see her with another man, I am reminded of this fact; and am grateful to be with her as I am.