Wife's sexual experience prior to marriage

[Frakkmywife]

My wife M had one cock before me. This I'm positive of. It was her first boyfriend. He was young and dumb and apparently a selfish lover. I was the first guy to eat her pussy, give her an orgasm , fuck her in the ass, and the first cock she sucked.

To the best of my knowledge only one guy has fucked her since we got married. M's never opened up to me about her affair but I'm pretty sure she sucked him off and he's gone down on her. I know my wife, he didn't get the opportunity to fuck her in the ass.

I want the number to grow significantly now.

[Bigjay74]

There should be an other category!

My wife for the most part slept with long term boyfriends. But there were a few friends with benefits or even sex with someone she had just met briefly (as in spring break). She also had the benefit of experiencing a few bigger cocks than what I have to offer at 7.5".

She even admits to doing some things with a guy who she briefly dated for a few weeks during a hiatus we were taking. She made it a point to let me know he had a bigger cock and although (she claims) she didn't fuck him, she sucked his cock at every chance she could get, and licked and sucked his balls and I suspect have him a few rim jobs as well (she had already seen the pleasure that gave me prior to this). What she did with him that she didn't do with me up to this point: he would stand at the foot of the bed and fuck her face with his large cock and when he came it was all over her lower face, mouth and lips, and her DD breasts. She would then proceed to lick off every drop of him, and he particularly liked to watch her clean her breasts off right on front of him. She now licks my lips and licks and sucks her breasts to remind me of where he used to drop his cum while we have sex, and makes me stand at the foot of the bed and fuck her face and make her gag. She also admitted that he gave amazing head and made her cum multiple times while doing so, the best she ever had. She still regrets not fucking him. Unfortunately, while looking him up, I found that he is married, and I know she would never go there.

[Drillher]

I first met my wife when she was 18. Her family was extremely conservative and her dates, and the time with them, closely monitored by her parents right down to the minute. There's no question that she was a virgin when we married, if you know what I mean! The first time I mentioned a fantasy of mine to her while we were hot and heavy into it, she went ballistic and, needless to say, I spent the remainder of the night sleeping on the chesterfield. Eventually however she came around, we eventually saw our first porn movie, and she began to play along with my fantasy of her doing another guy. I later added her doing a BBC! That got her attention far quicker than anything I could have ever thought of! I recall her having the longest, and in her words "the best orgasm I ever had!" Little did I ever think that my fantasy would become a reality and I'd actually see black guy do a white girl! Never ever dreamed that the white girl being fucked would be my wife!

[armyguyot1]

I popped her cherry when she was 16. She was pretty damn easy now that I think about it. She has always loved to fuck. I think she has had one other that she won't admit during our marriage. I think I had some very hot sloppy seconds a few years ago. Now I think its high time she experience some variety in dicks. I think she is ready for it and I am trying to get the stars to align so it will happen. She gets turned on when I talk about it but won't admit wanting it. She has a guy that wants in her pants so damn bad her will probably cum prematurely. I just have to get the stars to align for them to fuck one another.

[armyguyot1]

I thought I would bump this. Its a great thread and looking at some of the recent escapades of some wives on this forum a good discussion of how much experience is enough and is there too much.

[BigE]

I just found this. I think it is a hot topic and due a bump.

[VandR4fun]

My wife was preggo at 15, an escort at 22 and estimates that she fucked 300 johns in 2yrs, she married for 16yrs and was monogamous, then she divorced and fucked 50 guys in the year before I met her at a gangbang.

I married her 5yrs ago and began sharing her with single guys. We had a couple gangbangs and then I started whoring her out to businessmen. I'd guess she's at around 500 cocks now. She is the perfect whore. Loves to fuck and loves male attention.
Getting paid to fuck makes her squirt. She can fuck for hours and takes loads like a champ.

What can I say. I'm a lucky fucker......

[rypmar7]

I met Lynda when she was 18 and she admits to 9 before me, but I've always wondered if the total is really higher.

I'm sure, by this time, she would tell you the truth or even embellish it just to push your buttons.

She said it was 7 back then. She only admitted to the last 2 3-4 years ago.

Well then maybe there are a couple more to come out of that brain at some point.

Looking back at this post from 6 years ago, you were right. Lynda now "remembers" or admits to 12 before me, so I am now lucky number 13 and I fucked her first when she was 18.

[Traveller]

My wife said she was a virgin when I married her.

[Cdncuck]

My wife was 17 when we met.
Prior to our meeting she was raised on a farm by an extremely conservative and religious family.
She has told me she became sexually aware and masturbated frequently and when caught was beaten for it.
When she turned 18 I got her cherry.
Not long after she began being with other men.
She has always had a large appetite for other men and new experiences. I attribute much of her sexual behavior to a combination of rebellion against her religious upbringing. That coupled with her higher than average sex drive and the fact that I encouraged her to be with others so there were no negative consequences for her as she explored her sexual self.

[annarborhw]

I don't know my wife's "number". We got together when she was 34. I know of 2 specific boyfriends she had sex with. I think she did something somewhere between kissing and fucking with 2 guys we both know. She undoubtedly had sex with other guys I don't know about specifically. She was never one to do a one-nighter, she says, but she also says she had recreational sex outside of a "relationship".

[FiveInchLullaby]

My wife says she had sex with 30 or so men before we met in 2003.

We broke up a couple times and she bedded maybe another 5 or so.

She has had a few black cocks, which is nice.

[dw22207]

I was #8, so my wife had seven before me and so far three after me. Two of those three we have had threesomes with. #3 and #11 are the same guy. Not sure how to count him since he was both before and after we married. A former friend with benefits and they re-connected. He wasn't getting much at home and I didn't mind him getting some from Sylvia. We had an awesome threesome the last time he was in town on a work trip. They used to fuck on a regular basis, so it was nice to see that rekindled.

[radio4ron]

My wife became highly sexual in her early teen years. She didn't need to be in a relationship to have sex. She was teased in high school, other girls called her a slut, but she said in her opinion they were just jealous because she was getting laid and they weren't.

Her first marriage failed, she had a number of men during her marriage, and after they split up, she said she was back having sex with men 3 days after breaking up.

Had I known about her "past" when we met, I would have NEVER married her, I had convinced myself she'd only been with her first husband. But her and I grew together, and I eventually got the balls to start asking about her past, and I was pleasantly shocked and turned on to find out about her experiences. She one of those people that if you ask her a question, you will get an honest answer, period!

So, when I figured out my feelings, I wanted to see her with other men, and because of all the men she'd had sex with and the fact that she didn't need any kind of a relationship to have sex, I figured she was a perfect fit for this lifestyle. It's been an amazing journey and life with her ♥

[isinlarsa]

Shortly after we started dating, my future wife and I had the talk about our sexual past. It turned out we had both had had 24 sexual partners, although she was 13 years younger than me (26 when we met). She wasn't particularly interested in my sexual history beyond the number of women I had. On the other hand, I wanted every detail I could get out of her. She was very matter-of-fact and casual about her sexual past, not particularly shy, but only offering details when I asked. I discovered it was very titillating to hear about the number of men who had fucked her. Most of her experiences were positive because she came pretty easily. If she went on a date with a guy, she would let him fuck her. Occasionally she did have a bit of a boring experience where she told me that she just wished he would hurry up and cum.

She enjoyed men from different ethnic background (she was a pale skinned blonde). She had been fucked by Arabs, Iranians, Asians, Africans as well as white men. She did have a preference for black men. (She liked to tease me by saying "you know I prefer dark meat".)

Although I always enjoyed hearing about her sexual past, I hoped she would have more experiences to tell me about after we married.

[radio4ron]

Shortly after we started dating, my future wife and I had the talk about our sexual past. It turned out we had both had had 24 sexual partners, although she was 13 years younger than me (26 when we met). She wasn't particularly interested in my sexual history beyond the number of women I had. On the other hand, I wanted every detail I could get out of her. She was very matter-of-fact and casual about her sexual past, not particularly shy, but only offering details when I asked. I discovered it was very titillating to hear about the number of men who had fucked her. Most of her experiences were positive because she came pretty easily. If she went on a date with a guy, she would let him fuck her. Occasionally she did have a bit of a boring experience where she told me that she just wished he would hurry up and cum.

She enjoyed men from different ethnic background (she was a pale skinned blonde). She had been fucked by Arabs, Iranians, Asians, Africans as well as white men. She did have a preference for black men. (She liked to tease me by saying "you know I prefer dark meat".)

Although I always enjoyed hearing about her sexual past, I hoped she would have more experiences to tell me about after we married.

Speaking of dating, I asked my wife once why she would go on dates, and what she would expect from her date. She said SEX, and said that's why you go out on dates to have sex. She said if a date didn't end is sex, she was done because that was a sign. She actually lost her virginity on her first date as a teen. She said the guy wanted to have sex, and she said she knew she would lose her virginity sometime, why not now? So she let him have it...

[isinlarsa]

Shortly after we started dating, my future wife and I had the talk about our sexual past. It turned out we had both had had 24 sexual partners, although she was 13 years younger than me (26 when we met). She wasn't particularly interested in my sexual history beyond the number of women I had. On the other hand, I wanted every detail I could get out of her. She was very matter-of-fact and casual about her sexual past, not particularly shy, but only offering details when I asked. I discovered it was very titillating to hear about the number of men who had fucked her. Most of her experiences were positive because she came pretty easily. If she went on a date with a guy, she would let him fuck her. Occasionally she did have a bit of a boring experience where she told me that she just wished he would hurry up and cum.

She enjoyed men from different ethnic background (she was a pale skinned blonde). She had been fucked by Arabs, Iranians, Asians, Africans as well as white men. She did have a preference for black men. (She liked to tease me by saying "you know I prefer dark meat".)

Although I always enjoyed hearing about her sexual past, I hoped she would have more experiences to tell me about after we married.

Speaking of dating, I asked my wife once why she would go on dates, and what she would expect from her date. She said SEX, and said that's why you go out on dates to have sex. She said if a date didn't end is sex, she was done because that was a sign. She actually lost her virginity on her first date as a teen. She said the guy wanted to have sex, and she said she knew she would lose her virginity sometime, why not now? So she let him have it...

Sounds like your wife's attitude was similar to my wife's.

[radio4ron]

Shortly after we started dating, my future wife and I had the talk about our sexual past. It turned out we had both had had 24 sexual partners, although she was 13 years younger than me (26 when we met). She wasn't particularly interested in my sexual history beyond the number of women I had. On the other hand, I wanted every detail I could get out of her. She was very matter-of-fact and casual about her sexual past, not particularly shy, but only offering details when I asked. I discovered it was very titillating to hear about the number of men who had fucked her. Most of her experiences were positive because she came pretty easily. If she went on a date with a guy, she would let him fuck her. Occasionally she did have a bit of a boring experience where she told me that she just wished he would hurry up and cum.

She enjoyed men from different ethnic background (she was a pale skinned blonde). She had been fucked by Arabs, Iranians, Asians, Africans as well as white men. She did have a preference for black men. (She liked to tease me by saying "you know I prefer dark meat".)

Although I always enjoyed hearing about her sexual past, I hoped she would have more experiences to tell me about after we married.

Speaking of dating, I asked my wife once why she would go on dates, and what she would expect from her date. She said SEX, and said that's why you go out on dates to have sex. She said if a date didn't end is sex, she was done because that was a sign. She actually lost her virginity on her first date as a teen. She said the guy wanted to have sex, and she said she knew she would lose her virginity sometime, why not now? So she let him have it...

Sounds like your wife's attitude was similar to my wife's.

YES, they sound the same. My wife was surprised that I wanted to know so man details about her past, and other questions in general.

I asked her ways she would test guys to tell how sexual they were, she said she liked to go out in short skirts with no panties, and if guys didn't notice, she said they were generally duds. lol

Questions about different cock sizes and things like that. And I apologise for asking so many questions, but I said how else would I know unless I asked. She agreed and was VERY open.

She's an AMAZING woman who has many-many-many men and in the end, she chose me and I'm honored and prove myself and honor her each and every day.

[isinlarsa]

Shortly after we started dating, my future wife and I had the talk about our sexual past. It turned out we had both had had 24 sexual partners, although she was 13 years younger than me (26 when we met). She wasn't particularly interested in my sexual history beyond the number of women I had. On the other hand, I wanted every detail I could get out of her. She was very matter-of-fact and casual about her sexual past, not particularly shy, but only offering details when I asked. I discovered it was very titillating to hear about the number of men who had fucked her. Most of her experiences were positive because she came pretty easily. If she went on a date with a guy, she would let him fuck her. Occasionally she did have a bit of a boring experience where she told me that she just wished he would hurry up and cum.

She enjoyed men from different ethnic background (she was a pale skinned blonde). She had been fucked by Arabs, Iranians, Asians, Africans as well as white men. She did have a preference for black men. (She liked to tease me by saying "you know I prefer dark meat".)

Although I always enjoyed hearing about her sexual past, I hoped she would have more experiences to tell me about after we married.

Speaking of dating, I asked my wife once why she would go on dates, and what she would expect from her date. She said SEX, and said that's why you go out on dates to have sex. She said if a date didn't end is sex, she was done because that was a sign. She actually lost her virginity on her first date as a teen. She said the guy wanted to have sex, and she said she knew she would lose her virginity sometime, why not now? So she let him have it...

Sounds like your wife's attitude was similar to my wife's.

YES, they sound the same. My wife was surprised that I wanted to know so man details about her past, and other questions in general.

I asked her ways she would test guys to tell how sexual they were, she said she liked to go out in short skirts with no panties, and if guys didn't notice, she said they were generally duds. lol

Questions about different cock sizes and things like that. And I apologise for asking so many questions, but I said how else would I know unless I asked. She agreed and was VERY open.

She's an AMAZING woman who has many-many-many men and in the end, she chose me and I'm honored and prove myself and honor her each and every day.

Had she sampled other men during your marriage? Does she still?

[radio4ron]

We've been in the lifestyle for 6 years (exactly). So yes, I've watched her having sex with other men during our marriage :-)

[iwish]

I think I was her first. She was certainly my first. I fell for her the first time I saw her. I can remember the tinyest details of our time together through high school, college, and beyond. When we were attending different schools I would see the same make and color car she drove and hope it was her coming for a visit. I was always on the lookout for her car even though we were thousands of miles apart. I think I was way more into her than she was into me. I think it's still that way after being together for well over twenty years. It's closer to thirty years.

All that said, I wonder whether she's happy. Not only with how her life turned out. I wonder if she thinks about what could have been; about what she might have missed. I desire her to no end. She consumes my every thought. She is my porn star. But, I can tell I'm not hers. Perhaps she's just not into sex, or perhaps she's not with me. It's probably due to my poor performance. Combined with her lack of experience (ie good sex). I don't know if I could take her being with another, and I doubt she would ever act on the opportunity, but she certainly deserves it.

[armyguyot1]

Guys like you are exactly what the how to porn videos are made for. Show her some of the porn videos and see if she likes or learns from it. What do you have to lose?

[2wheel]

Before I met my wife she was a real slut. She told me she had sex with more than 300 guys, more likely 500, her words not mine.

She told me that she NEVER said no. She would fuck anybody and/or everybody. She had no limits. Sometimes it was more than one in a night, early date - late date.

She started in college and ended about 10 years later when she married #1.

She absolutely refuses to give any details, just a few hints here and there.

[randynsandy]

so hoe many men has she has a a HW?

[funcpl477]

Wife 1: Knew each other from the eight grade. She was very popular, and I had other things going. We often talked but never dated in high school. She had a fiance from the neighborhood she lived in, She later told me she would have gone a lot farther if he had tried. She said he was a lousy kisser and very shy, so he had only played with her very nice C cups. She had become pretty bored with him by the time we hooked up. She later told me she was duper horny then and was eager to start playing with guys, like her older sister was.

I asked her to party at a friend's over Christmas break, during my first year in college. She told me she had a date; I told her to bring him, we were just trying to get a bunch of old high school friends together for fun. He wound up leaving to work, she stayed and left with me at the end of the party. I headed to a popular parking spot "to talk". We, started making out. Pretty soon it got hot and heavy and became the third girl I had gone down on... Shes totally surprised me by returning the favor. It was her first blow job and orgasm with a guy. That was before even our first date. She broke up with him and we began dating. A couple of months later, she gave me cherry in the backseat of my Chevy at a drive in movie.

I was the only one she had fucked at that point. I already had the kink of being turned on by sharing a girl, in fact already had. With the girl next door and had even taken turns making out with girls from church, in the back seat of the Chevy. We were supposed to be going for ice cream after church.

It turned out my wife had always had a thing for me and wife thought I was a real stud. She said it turned her on that I knew how to kiss and eating her pussy blew her mind and it turned her on that I had fucked other girls. Not nearly as many as I let her think.

She told me that if opportunities happened it was ok if I sometimes fucked someone else. I told her that she had the same freedom and even talked about a couple of other guys. A year or so after we were married we had already agreed that we would try to fuck others, if we could find a way for no one else to know. We almost swapped with another couple, but didn't. There were a couple of close calls... but decided to have our first baby.

It turned out the draft was coming. She told me when I got on the bus on the way to the Army, that it would be hot if I fucked other women if I got a chance. I told her she could fuck others, but she was pregnant and didn't.

I eventually went to flight school, by then she was really hot to fuck another guy... no one specific. At my flight class's get to know each other at the O club, she and another wife got to talking about how hot some of my flight school classmates were. My wife told her that she had the freedom to fuck other guys, and wanted to and the my classmates were looking good. The other wife told her she had cheated some & fucked around with a couple of other guys while her husband was away in training. She was hot for some of my classmates too, but she was the only one her husband had ever fucked. They agreed that my wife would seduce her husband and the other wife would fuck me, my wife told her that I would not need seducing so she should be ready to fuck me right off.

On the way home from the party, my wife said the other couple was coming over the next night, and what the two of them had planned. I of course, became an eager conspirator and within an hour of their arrival, took the other wife for a ride in my new car We were soon fucking in the right seat of my Corvette.

We figured that my wife would already have her husband naked and them already fucking by the time we got back to our house. My wife was shy about seducing him and it took a couple of visits, but she accomplished her mission. That was her first other guy.

When we divorced a decade or so later, she had probably fucked 20 to 30 other guys... mostly in swaps, but had had very few single guys too. Eventually good baptist guilt cause major problems and a year in combat and much time apart and we were no longer the kids that we once were.

Sorry it was too long, but hopefully it will be a fun read for some of you. Probably it is a fairly typical story for the Vietnam era and the beginning of the sexual revolution. The birth control pill came into existence early in our high school years and the sexual revolution was being born...