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I know you're disappointed in having to cancel and that's a shame that you are sick. But to always try to find some humor in all situations, I had a flash in my mind of the two of you NOT cancelling your date and to keep him from catching your cold, you could use a dental dam between you when you are kissing!!!!!! Kind of like a condom but on the other end!!!!!
Ok! Ok! I know!! Too many unemployed comedians in the world!!!! Just my kind of warped humor. Hope you get to reconnect again soon!!
Ok! Ok! I know!! Too many unemployed comedians in the world!!!! Just my kind of warped humor. Hope you get to reconnect again soon!!
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Yes I am aware of dental dams - kind of takes the fun out of kissing! Yuck!
If he lived closer we would just meet up on the weekend but he is a couple hours away.
This was going to be a special trip to see me next time will be a trip up to visit with friends and he will see me while he is here.
We are both disappointed but both of us would rather I be healthy and physically be at my best instead of so tired. Don't want to lose my energy too fast on him - He is almost 10 years younger!
We were texting for a long time yesterday and we are in contact frequently. H is definitely more of a FWB instead of just a FB.
If he lived closer we would just meet up on the weekend but he is a couple hours away.
This was going to be a special trip to see me next time will be a trip up to visit with friends and he will see me while he is here.
We are both disappointed but both of us would rather I be healthy and physically be at my best instead of so tired. Don't want to lose my energy too fast on him - He is almost 10 years younger!
We were texting for a long time yesterday and we are in contact frequently. H is definitely more of a FWB instead of just a FB.
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I'm starting to get better - Thanks Her number 1 and to your Farmgirl too
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I thought I would stop in and give an update. Not much going on because of getting over my cold but I am looking forward to that changing soon.
I talked to M on the phone for the first time yesterday. I might have mentioned that our cell signal is horrible so I was actually in town and decided to give him a call. He was surprised to hear from me -he knows about our signal issues- and we ended up talking about half an hour til he had a meeting. He offered to call back but I had to go.
I'm going to try doing that more often. I haven't seen him in awhile because his driving route and my schedule haven't worked. I was feeling like I would never see him again and the call reassured me that he does want to see me again.
I will be seeing H on the 13th and he said he has naughty plans for me but won't give me any hints!!
I had hoped that things with S would have moved past the casual conversation toward a potential meeting in December but he hasn't been online in almost two weeks.
If things do move forward with S and I continue forward with both M and H then I will make changes to my profile because I won't be actively seeking out anyone else at that point. If an ideal situation appears I won't ignore it however, I won't go looking for it. I would rather explore where things are going with these men instead.
I talked to M on the phone for the first time yesterday. I might have mentioned that our cell signal is horrible so I was actually in town and decided to give him a call. He was surprised to hear from me -he knows about our signal issues- and we ended up talking about half an hour til he had a meeting. He offered to call back but I had to go.
I'm going to try doing that more often. I haven't seen him in awhile because his driving route and my schedule haven't worked. I was feeling like I would never see him again and the call reassured me that he does want to see me again.
I will be seeing H on the 13th and he said he has naughty plans for me but won't give me any hints!!
I had hoped that things with S would have moved past the casual conversation toward a potential meeting in December but he hasn't been online in almost two weeks.
If things do move forward with S and I continue forward with both M and H then I will make changes to my profile because I won't be actively seeking out anyone else at that point. If an ideal situation appears I won't ignore it however, I won't go looking for it. I would rather explore where things are going with these men instead.
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" ... where things are going with these men ..."
I know where I hope their things are going ...
I know where I hope their things are going ...
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It's been awhile I might jump whoever I see first poor guybubbajack wrote:" ... where things are going with these men ..."
I know where I hope their things are going ...
Yep definitely feeling better!
Oh guys? Anyone available tonight
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If I was in your area I would gladly volunteer.2inUPMichigan wrote:It's been awhile I might jump whoever I see first poor guybubbajack wrote:" ... where things are going with these men ..."
I know where I hope their things are going ...
Yep definitely feeling better!
Oh guys? Anyone available tonight
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Good to know!rickflst wrote: If I was in your area I would gladly volunteer.
That's the problem with living in a rural area = scheduling and availability of play partners!
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Its time you took a road trip to Kansas!!!!
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Kansas?superb101 wrote:Its time you took a road trip to Kansas!!!!
Is there a reason you are suggesting Kansas
Shoot I could travel a couple hours south and meet up with H quicker if I wanted to take a road trip.
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You're probably only an hour from me by helicopter. I really need to up my game!
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How chivalrous you men are - willing to "help a girl out"
Whosbeensleeping - a helicopter huh? You are close
Whosbeensleeping - a helicopter huh? You are close
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Unfortunately I am on the East Coast... Rural but way east. If I ever head out your way I will let you know2inUPMichigan wrote:How chivalrous you men are - willing to "help a girl out"
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Well H made reservations for next week so I guess I can wait until then
Looking forward to finally meeting him after having to cancel twice. We have been in contact now for about 2 months!
Now I have to rest up before then and hope the roads are good that night.
Looking forward to finally meeting him after having to cancel twice. We have been in contact now for about 2 months!
Now I have to rest up before then and hope the roads are good that night.
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Isn't it so annoying how reality has a way of laughing at all our plans?! Wishing you the best-aligned of stars. xo
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I hope he rocks your world!
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I know he has plans for me so we have to make this happen this time!
In fact he has back up reservations I think he is looking forward to this too.
In fact he has back up reservations I think he is looking forward to this too.
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I hope that a lot of bells get rung for both of you that weekend!
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I'm looking forward to Thursday and playtime with H. I also got a message from M today saying he wanted to get up to see me soon because he missed me
This weekend however I know that both H and M are playing elsewhere so I am going back to look through profiles at SLS again to see who I might have missed
S hasn't been online in almost 3 weeks so that might not progress any further.
I would like to find a third man for those times when M and H are not available since they both live hours away and scheduling is an issue. I had hopes that S would be that third man and I could stop looking but with no contact in over two weeks (and we haven't met yet) I'm thinking it's time to start looking again.
Honestly if the two of them lived closer or I knew I could see each of them once a month on a regular basis I wouldn't look for anyone else.
So I guess I will be sending off more emails this weekend and see what happens.
This weekend however I know that both H and M are playing elsewhere so I am going back to look through profiles at SLS again to see who I might have missed
S hasn't been online in almost 3 weeks so that might not progress any further.
I would like to find a third man for those times when M and H are not available since they both live hours away and scheduling is an issue. I had hopes that S would be that third man and I could stop looking but with no contact in over two weeks (and we haven't met yet) I'm thinking it's time to start looking again.
Honestly if the two of them lived closer or I knew I could see each of them once a month on a regular basis I wouldn't look for anyone else.
So I guess I will be sending off more emails this weekend and see what happens.
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I know you'd like to get this worked out but I also know how much ladies love to go shopping, even if they don't buy anything!Don't buy the first cock you see.
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LOL, window shopping for men gotta love that!
I won't settle, I'm looking for specific qualities and will be picky.
I won't settle, I'm looking for specific qualities and will be picky.
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Well you never know what will happen
A few hours later and I have been chatting on SLS with a man who has experience with hotwives and has a cabin within an hour of where I live!
I had seen his profile before but because he lives almost 4 hours away didn't contact him. Tonight just as I was going to email someone else an IM pops up and I recognized the name. Let this be a lesson! This is why you want to add those maybe guys as friends. That way when they pop up you will want to respond and not ignore them.
I'm seeing possibilities with this new man R - back to the IM!
A few hours later and I have been chatting on SLS with a man who has experience with hotwives and has a cabin within an hour of where I live!
I had seen his profile before but because he lives almost 4 hours away didn't contact him. Tonight just as I was going to email someone else an IM pops up and I recognized the name. Let this be a lesson! This is why you want to add those maybe guys as friends. That way when they pop up you will want to respond and not ignore them.
I'm seeing possibilities with this new man R - back to the IM!
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2inUPMichigan wrote:Well you never know what will happen
A few hours later and I have been chatting on SLS with a man who has experience with hotwives and has a cabin within an hour of where I live!
I had seen his profile before but because he lives almost 4 hours away didn't contact him. Tonight just as I was going to email someone else an IM pops up and I recognized the name. Let this be a lesson! This is why you want to add those maybe guys as friends. That way when they pop up you will want to respond and not ignore them.
I'm seeing possibilities with this new man R - back to the IM!
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I'm taking numbers and causing trouble!
Actually we have family coming into town next week (staying at a hotel) and they will be here about 10 days - yikes!
So I'm getting together with H on Thursday so I sent M a message saying I really will need to see him to have him "work me over" after all the stress of having them here. So we are trying to get a date figured out within a few days of them leaving.
He said "that sounds hot" and we will I'm sure figure something out to lower my stress level!
Actually we have family coming into town next week (staying at a hotel) and they will be here about 10 days - yikes!
So I'm getting together with H on Thursday so I sent M a message saying I really will need to see him to have him "work me over" after all the stress of having them here. So we are trying to get a date figured out within a few days of them leaving.
He said "that sounds hot" and we will I'm sure figure something out to lower my stress level!