Our Hotwives

You have to start a thread in hotties. That's the only place with pics.

Lmk when you post so I don't miss it!

Things have definitely improved in the last couple of weeks. Posting sometimes still takes an age, and then gives a '504 Gateway Time out' message. But the post has actually gone through. And today, for the first time since joining a couple of months ago, the search function worked! So thanks for y...

zoe wrote: ↑

Tue Sep 30, 2025 5:46 am

In addition to the Bad Gateway response I have gotten several You Have Been Blacklisted responses in attempts to post

You'll have to send me a screenshot and your IP address. That's usually not us but a filter on the network. For example, Starbucks blocks OHW

We are working with the hosting company and have checked ever possible configuration. The intermittent nature makes it hard to track down. In fact, I personally haven't had it happen in a couple weeks. Also, we are very limited staff. We don't read every thread. If you need a response or actions you...

Briella4BBC wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 26, 2025 9:12 am

Struggling trying to find where to post pics

Pics are only allowed in the hotties thread so either start a thread there or i can move this one if you prefer. If so DM me with a link to the thread you want moved.

we are trying to find out what is going on. we have to be careful because we haven't made changes to the system so it is most likely an issue with the hosting provider. This phpBB debug is a new issue so we have two going on. So we know it is happening but don't yet have a solution. If any new error...

Why do I get this error message when I click on "Active Topics, New Post, etc, etc? The search takes a lot of resources so we have it severely throddled back. Best time to try it is off hours when the site is not busy. We're a free site without advertising or spam who relies on donations and volunt...

Private message me a link to the thread you want deleted and I'll take care of it for you.

Please be mindful of the rules

Try another browser but this is usually someone outside of ohw blocking... Especially if on a public network. It usually goes away on its own in a few days.

If not I can tell you how to get your IP and i can check the database (done it a bunch of times and it was never us, spamhaus thinks were NSFW)

Mwstag wrote: ↑

Wed May 07, 2025 12:26 pm

If you google "Malicious bots behind nearly half of web traffic in S’pore: Study", there is a very good article on it.

Yeah... We're not using some no name hosting company out of someone's garage. It's a major provider so they should be able to easily block that stuff.

Yes, we're having an issue outside of the site with the host. It's outside of our control. It's a server or routing problem most likely or they were attacked or something like that.

Sorry, we're as frustrated as anyone. Armyguy has been dealing with their ticket system and process.

FYI: this also happened to me. I just happened to try before I emailed and I logged in so everything was good. Also for Fidelity, I tried to break up my intro post… And that has to be approved? Does that drop off after a couple post? I guess I get it but not the way I would choose to run a public f...

Sorry but new to all this. Would it be in this section I would comment on my wife’s life before we met that really warmed me up? If you just want to introduce yourself there is a new member forum, tell your story then hotwife forum, if pics only in the hotties. I can always move it later if you nee...

newtonmenlo wrote: ↑

Thu Mar 13, 2025 12:10 pm

Trying to figure this out.
I've gotten private messages from a member and can't figure out how to respond.
I am obviously missing something, but I can't figure it out.
Help please?

Make a few more posts and you'll be out of moderation and able to pm

That's where they stay until they're read by the recipient. It's just how phpBB works. It's counterintuitive compared to the way email works, but it is actually kind of nice to be able to see whether it was read Really? So the PM’s don’t move from the Outbox until they are read by the recipient? Co...

HopelessCuckold wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 07, 2025 5:33 am

Why is the search feature impossible to use?

It doesn't work.

Wistful wrote: ↑

Sun Mar 02, 2025 9:16 am

Eager to hear about that fresh Mr. B appearance . . .

Agreed. I hope we someday know the truth

Hungdaddynyc wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 18, 2025 11:42 am

Can someone explain why I am always and constantly getting logged out while navigating the site?

Try a different browser. I suggest chrome, brave, Firefox, or opera.

After 6 months and not a peep from Tacoma, I think it’s not unreasonable to assume the ‘honeymoon period’ turned into an imploded marriage whose wreckage Tacoma understandably has no interest in discussing any further. It's called survivorship bias. It's a shame because hearing the other side would...

Try once more

Madcouple25uk wrote: ↑

Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:25 pm

Not abusive or violent lol sorry ok with cocky bigheaded guys lol

Edited the post for you.

Just a reminder that calling people out without direct evidence is against the rules. If you have evidence please report it to the admins or just move on and let the others enjoy the thread.

NewForUs wrote: ↑

Fri Dec 20, 2024 6:57 am

Is there a post tracker on the site somewhere that we are unaware of? Haha! Think you're correct

Under the profile is a post tracker. You can see other's too

NewForUs wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 18, 2024 10:43 am

Hey snoop, thanks for the kind words and message. This site does seem to have a wealth of knowledge and people willing to help and that's awesome. How do we get the direct messages to work? We need to post X amount of times?

Yes 5-10 posts to make sure you aren't a spammer or blazing assh0le