Our Hotwives

Gulfcpl wrote: Fri Jul 10, 2026 2:21 am Her Number 1, I’m just glad you’re both doing well.

Thanks!

A fitting comment was sent to me recently that I feel will be appreciated here -

"I wake up every day with a positive attitude - then idiots happen"

Unfortunately we are surrounded by them!!!



Happy,
You are so right, such a fitting saying! :D
I don't suffer idiots very well, especially as ...

pixmangurn wrote: Tue Jul 07, 2026 6:46 am There are lots of small minded people in the world whose only joy in life is making others feel bad. Sorry it's affected you both here.

Thank you.

Pufferfish wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 6:08 pm Glad you're both doing great. Sorry to hear about the fatigue, but it's understandable. Enjoy yourselves every which way you can.

Thanks, I still enjoy reading about your lovely wife!

Guys and gals,
I appreciate all the kind words, really do.
But, I didn't say what I did to garner simpathy, or anything of that sort.
I just wanted to let those who care, why we aren't as active on OHW.

Life is over the top for us, we are truly blessed.

leggysman wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 3:24 pm Come for the friends, and mute the twerps

You're one of those friends too.
And,if it weren't for the friends, I wouldn't keep checkin' in.

Number1 and Farmgirl - good to know that both of you are well. It is a shame that a few feel "bold" enough to pass judgement and disrespect the VHWs (and their better halves) who give us a peek into some of the most intimate aspects of this LS.


Thanks! Many of y'all have always been respectful ...

coastalkid wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 9:13 am

Her number1 wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 7:41 am........ they get tired of the disrespect .......... Eventually, they come to it's just not worth sharing what they love to do.

That's how I felt as a classroom teacher in the end. I didn't start out that way.

I completely understand. You've been a long time on our journey, thanks.

tonasketcouple wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 7:50 am Unfortunately people will be just that people. Keyboard warriors are a real menace in all aspects of life.
Tell farmgirl for us that she is just great from our point of view, nothing but respect.

She will appreciate that!

Thanks to those of you who have checked in. 😃
Both of us are doing good, and she is still seeing Allen. Life is good! Having a hotwife is, and has been, great.

I realize we have been absent for a while. It's just a combination of normal things.
She lost interest in posting for the same reason most ...

Farmgirl hasn't used condoms since she was a teenager.

Farmgirl has been an active hotwife for 33 years. We'll have been married 52 years in Sept.

:up:
It's curious how this topic is first broached in a relationship and communications then proceed. By the time it first emerges as an idea shared through words, most wives communicate their predisposition for it non-verbally. My wife sent clear non-verbal cues even at a time she denied ...

Farmgirl does all of her's the old fashion way, she meets guys in public to see if she likes them, and goes from there.

BCiym wrote: Fri Apr 10, 2026 8:45 pm No. It hurts. Really.

If the hurt is not something you want, change it.

BCiym wrote: Thu Apr 09, 2026 4:42 am

MarknSusan wrote: Thu Apr 09, 2026 3:53 am Shouldn’t this be posted in the cuckold section?

This is not hotwife content.

I don't agree, but I just posted it in the cuckold section anyway. Thanks for the feedback.

Thanks for understanding we have different forums for a reason.

MarknSusan wrote: Thu Apr 09, 2026 3:53 am Shouldn’t this be posted in the cuckold section?

This is not hotwife content.

Karen has a much stronger personality and has always been more adept with finances than me. So early on she became the decider on all the big issues couples face: investments, insurance, home improvements, credit cards, which car to buy, where we go on vacations, where to retire (the latest ...

I wasn't in a FLR for every day relationship matters or household matters but just the sex part. Perhaps I'm misunderstanding the whole point of FLR and maybe it automatically it does only apply to the sex part of the relationship, someone please correct me if I'm wrong.

When we were 19 with lots ...

We are in a FLR. My wife makes the final decision , we discuss things, but the final decision is hers.
We belive in the female led marraige and it works so good.
It certainly became that way after we opened up to hotwifing. But why bother trying to convince other people its the way forward ...

I’ve been thinking a lot about what this lifestyle really does—not just what it is.
And for me, it comes down to this:

It forges virtues.

Justice — in the form of compersion
Not envy. Not possession.
Learning to take genuine joy in her joy.
That requires a shift most men never make—away from ...

Farmgirl has a boyfriend, and yes she loves him.
I wouldn't expect her to have sex with a lover and not love him. Her loving another in no way deminishes me or our love, if anything, it enhances it.
All of this works because I fully trust her

Hi
How long are they a couple?
Also is he the ...

Farmgirl has a boyfriend, and yes she loves him.
I wouldn't expect her to have sex with a lover and not love him. Her loving another in no way deminishes me or our love, if anything, it enhances it.
All of this works because I fully trust her

No

A lot of guys in this lifestyle want the fantasy.

Very few understand what actually makes it work.

Let me be blunt:

If you don’t trust your wife 100%—this can destroy you.

My wife was a virgin when we met.

She gave herself to me first. Completely.

And in over 35 years, she has never once ...