Our Hotwives

Nice story you share of current times (and past). Enjoyed them greatly. And I take it from the typos that you were typing with one hand!

My experience is that having sex with other people than a spouse doesn't tend to harm relationships; in fact, it may strengthen them through increased honesty and intimacy. Deceit, lying, concealing, and misleading a spouse can murder an otherwise good relationship. So, even if there is no legal con...

Welcome back, Tom! Enjoyed your treatise back then about scriptural permission for wife sharing. I think it helped many here who came from religious backgrounds.

We have never really discussed this but I do know that she would love to have a regular boyfriend. We spent a few days with one person in Tucson a few years back and she did have some strong feelings for him that could have grown into more. I was not threatened by it at all. A poly situation I thin...

I'm sorry to hear that. But there definitely are some HWs who cheat despite having a green light to pair up openly. Maybe a rush for some to do something against the rules.

I love origins stories tremendously. When we date prospective couples or extra guys, I always ask how they got into the LS. And I love hearing the accounts of how traditional conservative women toss off their shame to allow themselves -- and their guy -- to explore the exciting surprises and exaltat...

TK-421 wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 25, 2025 12:11 am

lol, just got the text, K's hanging out with Moe tonight.

May all have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

@TK-421: Thank you for the additional information. I am heartened to hear your responses. I think your emerging relationship is headed in a good direction. My wife and I did lots of group sex activities, much of which she came to call "a lot of mediocre sex." If having sex with Moe is good because s...

And under what conditions would your wife wish to explore one?

Two is better than one.

I share the lawyer's concerns. What you describe doesn't sound like polyamory. It sounds like off-the-books cheating -- if your suspicions are accurate. I suggest checking out your apprehensions with her, letting her know you're okay with her having other men but don't wish to be left in the dark. M...

Thanks Zoro. That may be a good way to as you say " to take an adventure, dip our toes in the water and have something to discuss." I doubt we'd participate on an initial visit but it another step and definitely a much closer look at reality. Lodging for our upcoming trip is booked but we'll be bac...

Just a few cents worth: I don't think you need to switch to the cuckold forum -- yet. All of what you describe can and often has happened in HW relationships. NRE can easily happen in HW relationships, and K is communicating better with you. It is unclear if K is discovering that she has a demisexua...

Saute, can you reframe it not as challenging Fi but as clearing the air? I believe it's important she knows that you wish to know who and what she is doing.

We enjoyed the few we had, up to only 4 at a time. Let us know how she likes it!

Greg_N_Shelley wrote: ↑

Wed Nov 12, 2025 2:11 pm

I laughed as I read this. It reminded me of Shelley's motto regarding our adventures: "Two is better than one!"

Well said, Greg. Shelley has a way with words as well as eroticism! And from what I have seen, she's right.

A simple thought: If you are in Palm Springs, consider going to Sea Mountain Inn for an introduction to group nudity and possibly being around others engaging in sex play. You might offer it as an invitation to your wife to have a mind-expanding experience where you and she will be safe and able to ...

Since I started this thread in -- gasp -- 2012, things have evolved. At that time we only played together. Later, when we had a frequent flyer FB, I came home from a business trip to learn she had fucked our friend on her own. I was a little shocked but also discovered I kind of liked it and duly lo...

Novelty and diversity make for great enhancements for a woman's erotic. She sounds like she is getting a lot of yumminess with each of her quite different partners. I am extremely happy for her, especially since she has a husband who has the bandwidth to support her becoming all she can be and disco...

Congratulations! Yes, details please.

My wife is very open and rarely goes 1:1 and then only with long-term FBs. So, it hasn't come up.

But one factor to keep in mind in that some extra guys don't want to take any chance at all of being shot if the husband finds out.

Conventional mindsets die slowly if at all.

On further reflection, 3 women from OHW, everyone more than once. They were all wonderful.

@TK-421. This is good news. No question that sharing your wife and upping her sexuality can be enhancers of intimacy. Good communications make all the difference. Glad to hear she and you are by sharing more together reaping the extensive benefits that HW can provide.

There are so many good reasons to feel anxiety when you're doing something society has always told you you shouldn't do. I don't recall having shivers, but I sure recall the intense arousal and uncertainty that goes with it. I had always feared everything would change if another man fucked my wife. ...

Yes, with 2 members of this forum. Both were married. They were wonderful women who played with me several times, sometimes with the husband present, sometimes not. The best was a road trip they made to visit me in Idaho. We went white water rafting down the Canyon Run of the South Fork of the Payet...