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Heh... Believe it or not our very first foray was a fivesome. It was one of the best nights of my life, but everything was so new I don't think I can separate what was special about that night because there were five vs. what was special because it was our first time.

Wonderful hearing from you ...

There's a sex position with a woman pleasuring five guys called a pterodactyl. Basically an airtight with an extra guy on each side being stroked by hand. Her arms and head moving up and down resembles a pterodactyl flying, hence the name.

Have never partaken, but would be interesting.

It most ...

We play like this regularly. My wife's boyfriend (unofficial second husband) lives with us permanently. My wife and I have been swingers for about 30 years (I am 51 and she is 50) her boyfriend is 15 years younger at 35. We regularly play with swinger friends as a 5some and sometimes a-lot ...

Sounds very promising and exciting. Keep us informed

An enduring fantasy of mine has been to have 2 couples and an extra guy play together. One wife could have 3 cocks enter and pleasure her, and then the other would get her turn, so over time each woman would be fucked six times.


It's been hard to find another couple even though we have an ...

I don't. Our experience is increased desire for the other guy makes for hotter and more gratifying sex -- and for a stronger marriage.
Sexual desire is part of our makeup as humans. Knowing and accepting the reality for what it is stimulates loving, ultimately intimate feeling and knowledge of the ...

My wife's regular longterm lover is half-black/half-white. So, best of both!

Greg, my response is definitively in agreement and positive. I consider myself most fortunate. When other men voice their anxiety and rage over even the thought of their wife sharing her pussy with another man, I am puzzled, because I feel nothing of the sort.
It definitely helps to have the ...

Leggysman is our hero. Thanks to him and the beauty Sandy who inspires him.

For us, it was 3 months, after telling her how she would love what I'd gotten into (swinging). And I was right: She loved it. Over many years, she can still love it but she has now become demisexual and needs to feel an emotional cconnection with the men she fucks. The joy of fucking other men has ...

Invariably, every woman who has been sexually active can truthfully say one cock or another is the biggest she's ever seen!

Very hot! AND she paid you. You were apparently worth every penny,

Fabulous boobs in your avatar, @yournyhotwife!

Welcome to the Forum, LI_hotwife.

You will hear mentioned here the principal operating rule: Communication, communication, communication.
Several of us here have found that having sex with other people can bring a couple closer. To achieve that, it helps to become more open, communicative, and ...

It should not be a competition. Ideally, a healthy woman will find a variety of men who address her sometimes even unknown sexual desires and feelings in ways the husband may not like to do or fully meet the challenge.

Example: One of my lady friends from years ago maintained a stable of 5 ...

I actually think both your hot, busy wife and you are winners because she gets the fun of lots of new cock, your cleaning her up, and you get the win of telling yourself you are a loser.
So, you are winning at being a loser.

May you lose more and more until you are blissful!

When I've heard women say a guy is "not my type," it has always turned out they have never been able to describe their type. I have come to believe it is a circular statement: The men who turn them on are their "type."
My wife has played with all kinds of guys of different ancestries, skin types ...

I am struck how the request for input from a HW has resulted only in HW hubbies responding.
Assuming the genuineness of the post (and despite the confusing beginning, the issue sounds real to me), what would HWs counsel?

A key component is having a conversation with yourself. Why do you hesitate to tell her your truth: It would be hot for her to enjoy other men. You very articulately expressed that you have her sexual elevation in mind, not your experiencing other women.

Are you held back by shame or guilt about ...

Absolutely! Great pleasure for her means great pleasure for the hubby! All that lube for silky seconds.

Wonderful responses. And ample examples to give the lie to occasional assertions we hear on here that sharing your partner will end the relationship. I have long thought sharing your partner does not inherently threaten a relationship. And as several on here affirm, sharing your partner can ...

The word "wanting" also springs to mind!

Kitty, this is a brave new world you are entering. I love how full of promise and potential it offers. And I wish you the very greatest success in your path.

Please do keep us well informed.

Z.

I have had to give some time to reconstruct contributing experiences that led to my happy status of hotwife hubby.

Neither HW nor swinging were part of my family history. My evolution occurred during my own experiences.

I think the first inkling I had was when I went out for coffee with an ...

Love your reunification story. And yes, it is great when your wife resumes fucking a former FB.