Our Hotwives

Enjoying the lake. We’ve had a few friends over and some family. S isn’t necessarily more flirtatious now but I think she’s indulging in a little more vanity than she has in the past. Less relaxed and “shlumpy” and more tighter outfits, showing off her nice muscle tone. I’m a lucky dude. We’ve ...

I've always been interested in Morocco but had no idea it was a party destination. I assumed that it was too strictly Muslim-is that not the case? Seems like a very beautiful and romantic place regardless. We had plans to go in 2023 that we cancelled after their big earthquake.

I'd echo what others here have said...be patient...worked for me. She knows where you want to go and she's open to it so let life evolve and move to that point.

I can just imagine how turned on you must already be in anticipation...do you know what she bought? The kind of thing like a bra that she could offer lots of guys peeks at during the day? Or something more like sleepwear that she may just be sharing with that one lucky guy?

I didn’t expect to post today and I know when you see a long post, which this will be, you might expect something to have happened but nothing did. Don’t want you to be disappointed at the end.

Karim showed up. Nice young guy. Very polite. He seemed a little disappointed that S wasn’t there but who ...

Thank you Coastal, always like to hear from you and I heed your guidance.

It's been quiet and since we’ll be away at a lake house over the next week, I don’t expect any “activity” although you never know. She continues to have texting conversations with her alumni friends about getting together but ...

Small updates. Summer is going well. S is on a more relaxed schedule and my work is a little slower so it's been nice family time. When I said “less obsessed”, I meant that I feel more calm about everything that’s happened. Maybe just more adjusted to reality although I still get excited when I ...

Did she say anything more about or explain what she meant regarding "emotional reclaim"?


I think I can get so preoccupied with the sexual aspect of our relationship that I forget to be her loving best friend.


what are you most surprised about,


She seems to be doing this all so cooly ...

I guess this is "pun intended". Will Sophia be taking a "full load" (of classes) during the Summer?


No, its a relaxed schedule.


As to Todd and his "connection" with Sophia on non-sexual matters and the time spent on it, did you ever envision that you would feel those twinges of jealousy ...

School year is pretty much over now. She still has projects and work to do on campus but she’ll be home more often. Excited for it.

Some things I forgot mention:

Todd got into anal play, his bum. She started with fingers and used her tongue eventually. They also used a small dildo.

He would ...

She met Todd for coffee and they talked about summer coming. He’ll be going home while she's staying part time on campus. Given that she’s a married woman and he’s got a girlfriend, she said it would be best if they just let things cool and see where things are when he comes back to school. He ...

Nothing is wrong with you! I had a hard time wrapping my brain around it when my wife first started having sex with other men. I couldn't begin to comprehend why I liked it so much. I knew the more she enjoyed it, the more I enjoyed it, which led to me discovering the term "compersion". It's how ...

I do agree about the oddity of him jumping into CNC. As I mentioned in the posts, she was surprised by his request given how shy he'd been. I also mentioned that I felt like I was relatively naive about these things when I was his age but on the other hand, I was having actual sex in high school ...

So Todd had a couple of small confessions to make. First, he “kind of” has a girlfriend back home. They’ve never even kissed but he did take her to prom and they did pledge themselves to one another before he left for college. His family and hers are pretty strictly religious so this may have ...

Good luck with your slow cooker!


Bought a new one!


QH, I read your wife's mini breakdown a little differently, I think. She refused extra housekeeping because she likes to do it and she also go up early to prepare you and the kids' dinner for that night. I don't think the issue is ...

Not sure others, maybe Coastkid, would be interested in this but her educational pursuits do still result in the occasional blow up at home but it's really about how little time she has when she is at home. I've said before, we have been very traditional in how we divide chores-I don't do much of ...

Sophia went on a hike with Paul and during the hike, she divulged our activities. Told him that she is a hotwife. I think that’s a pretty big deal for her to openly say to a guy.

They hiked about five miles on a nice afternoon. She wore hiking pants and a t-shirt. He was in shorts. He’s thinner ...

A lot of natural questions.

First, I had no idea any of this was happening when it did. I was traveling abroad and she didn't mention anything. After I got home, we had the normal dinner routine, regular catch up conversation and then we went to bed, both very tired. It was then, in bed, that she ...

I’ve reconstructed what happened here as best I can. I have a lot of additional thoughts and emotions to discuss but let's start with what happened.

In order for her to get her graduate degree, there are some background undergrad courses she needs to take. In one of them, she’s struggling a bit (so ...

She did it again. Not with Paul or anyone I’ve mentioned previously. A freshman kid. I'm totally blindsided by it. When I posted last night, she hadn't yet told me. I will share the details soon.

Sorry I've been abroad for work and unable to update for a few days.

Coastalkid, your post got me thinking. Honestly, if I could have anything, I'd have this monkey off my back and give up this sexual obsession and be happy with a traditional relationship. But that's not who I am. And have a wife ...

Nothing happened on the evening with Paul.

She went to his small apartment and he made a nice dinner. He’s vegan and he made some kind of pasta dish. She said it was delicious. No alcohol. She wore jeans and a sweater, tight. He was polite and nice. A little hug hello but nothing out of the ...

They're together now

Sorry I should have said earlier, it's Thursday evening.

What's your personal take QH, too fast or just right? Do you want her to take it slow or get with it? If she sees it as a distraction to her school work it could possibly come back on you whether you pushed or not. She knows the idea gets you off. She might need to hear you say, "Hey look honey as ...