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by Swingpaul
Wed Sep 09, 2026 1:01 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: mothers that know and like it
Replies: 4
Views: 831

Re: mothers that know and like it

to make her son happy?
by Swingpaul
Tue Sep 08, 2026 5:06 am
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: I though we'd be together for ever - it was not to be
Replies: 17
Views: 1072

Re: I though we'd be together for ever - it was not to be

So sorry to hear that, it must be really tough for you now, especially dealing with the loss of your sister. You may feel alone but there are people for you out there and lean on them and try not to tackle everything y yourself. The therapist you mentioned, any other family or friends or this online ...
by Swingpaul
Sun Sep 06, 2026 10:14 pm
Forum: Hotwife Forum
Topic: Do we move from fantasy to reality?
Replies: 12
Views: 1492

Re: Do we move from fantasy to reality?

Sounds like you are on exciting journey, are all of your conversations on the topic whilst you are having sex?

As others have intimated it would indeed seem like this is something she wants but why not try having a conversation in the cold light of day, it is difficult but as this was your ...
by Swingpaul
Sun Sep 06, 2026 10:01 pm
Forum: Hotwife Forum
Topic: Resort Report
Replies: 21
Views: 2921

Re: Resort Report


My wife and I had an interesting and thought provoking conversation last night after another evening of voracious sex. We have been reading about ways to revert to our passionate, exciting, and indiscriminate sex.

She asked me if I have ever been watched having sex. I replied, "No." I asked her ...
by Swingpaul
Sun Sep 06, 2026 1:29 pm
Forum: The "Wannabe" forum
Topic: Pussy denial
Replies: 7
Views: 481

Re: Pussy denial


By way of update….
We had sex again last night with no penetration again for me. It has been two weeks without that now. She says she is not joking about my until January penetration ban but I think we both remain unsure how emphatic she is about that. I think we both find that exciting. She took ...
by Swingpaul
Sun Sep 06, 2026 12:55 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Swinging experience
Replies: 21
Views: 2831

Re: Swinging experience

Er anyway…….

That takes me back to E and my first post, she was ridiculously hot, incredible body and breasts, 5ft 6 and if I had not had those previous experiences there was no chance I would ever have tried to ask her out.
We met at a language exchange, I haven’t been to one for many years but ...
by Swingpaul
Sat Sep 05, 2026 10:50 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?
Replies: 23
Views: 2471

Re: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?



Aside from the recordings you receive, what was the original agreement based on? Are you happy with the current arrangements?


That was the agreement recordings and that I can object to her fucking any of the bulls if I feel like it. The agreement came based on both of us realizing and ...
by Swingpaul
Sat Sep 05, 2026 11:29 am
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?
Replies: 23
Views: 2471

Re: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?

Aside from the recordings you receive, what was the original agreement based on? Are you happy with the current arrangements?
by Swingpaul
Thu Sep 03, 2026 10:33 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?
Replies: 23
Views: 2471

Re: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?

As others have suggested it depends on your feelings and desires. I would also add there is sometimes not a clear definition as you may initially switch depending on your needs at the time.

Are you ever present when she is meeting the bull, or just videos? How do you feel about the current ...
by Swingpaul
Thu Sep 03, 2026 11:20 am
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: No chance to a small chance?
Replies: 2
Views: 648

Re: No chance to a small chance?

You seem to be progressing well, the experience is always bespoke so always normal, some couples take 20 years , some 20 minutes, some never quite get there as one of the couple won’t be keen.

Your happy accident in March has allowed you both to explore new experiences. By taking it step by step ...
by Swingpaul
Sat Aug 29, 2026 12:32 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Swinging experience
Replies: 21
Views: 2831

Re: Swinging experience

pixmangurn wrote: Fri Aug 28, 2026 1:14 pm Really enjoying the retelling of your adventures and growth through your experiences Paul, keep up the great work 👍!
Thanks! It can be tricky trying to remember everything in order and it can seem a little disjointed, but that is life…
by Swingpaul
Mon Aug 24, 2026 10:46 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Swinging experience
Replies: 21
Views: 2831

Re: Swinging experience

We met three days later and this time it was different, like meeting old friends, no nervous introductions, we all were certain what was going to happen so were more relaxed.

We talked first, about each other, about the lifestyle, these small moments taught me a lot, how important communication was ...
by Swingpaul
Sun Aug 23, 2026 1:34 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: Filipina Wife's Boyfriend is Moving In
Replies: 379
Views: 254042

Re: Filipina Wife's Boyfriend is Moving In


Great insights Cory87,

Especially interesting how you both caught them cheating with first/high school boyfriends. Perhaps just a coincidence but I wonder if wife sharing/cuckolding in the Philippines has a higher percentage of these situations than in other countries.

It might also just be ...
by Swingpaul
Sun Aug 23, 2026 1:33 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: Filipina Wife's Boyfriend is Moving In
Replies: 379
Views: 254042

Re: Filipina Wife's Boyfriend is Moving In

Great insights Cory87,

Especially interesting how you both caught them cheating with high school boyfriends. Perhaps just a coincidence but I wonder if wife sharing/cuckolding in the Philippines has a higher percentage of these situations than in other countries.

It might also just be more ...
by Swingpaul
Tue Aug 18, 2026 11:01 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: Documenting as It Happens: Any Day Now...
Replies: 8
Views: 2536

Re: Documenting as It Happens: Any Day Now...

Wow, what a great development! You have handled it well, good open honest communication, checking in with both your feelings as it can be a confusing time.

Sounds like the sex between you is going to be so passionate now as you repeat the fantasy and move towards the real thing.
by Swingpaul
Mon Aug 17, 2026 10:23 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Swinging experience
Replies: 21
Views: 2831

Re: Swinging experience

We went back to their holiday apartment and they nervously explained that P might suddenly develop some conflicted thoughts and have to sit in the terrace, they explained that sometimes it’s was too much for him to watch another man with H his wife.

It wasn’t clear whether they were feelings of ...
by Swingpaul
Mon Aug 17, 2026 9:45 pm
Forum: The "Wannabe" forum
Topic: Give me your best dirty talk topics/question
Replies: 8
Views: 731

Re: Give me your best dirty talk topics/question


Calling wannabes! We are all about using toys in the bedroom. We dirty talk all the time but I want to up my game to get her more engaged and respond more.

Some things that are commonly used are like "Do u wanna cum on a big dick for me?" "Do you like being stretched out by a bigger cock?" "Are ...
by Swingpaul
Mon Aug 17, 2026 12:41 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Swinging experience
Replies: 21
Views: 2831

Re: Swinging experience

UKhusband26 wrote: Sun Aug 16, 2026 8:50 am Great accounts - thank you!
Thanks! The next chapter is coming soon
by Swingpaul
Sat Aug 15, 2026 10:16 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: My wife said she is ready
Replies: 11
Views: 1111

Re: My wife said she is ready

You have received some good advice above, it is natural to be faced with a huge range of emotions, the key is to recognise them, understand why you have them and then communicate them to your wife. I am sure she is feeling a range of emotions too so would appreciate talking about them.
You should ...
by Swingpaul
Sat Aug 15, 2026 1:55 am
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: A much complicated one
Replies: 121
Views: 17617

Re: A much complicated one

She is indeed something! Good to hear that you are allowed to suck G’s cock sometimes.
These situations can be complex as, in my opinion, a cuckold still should have their needs fulfilled even if they are of secondary importance.
Interesting to hear of the new development, it sounds like you will be ...
by Swingpaul
Fri Aug 14, 2026 4:36 am
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: When they say thank you and you do too
Replies: 13
Views: 1204

Re: When they say thank you and you do too


In my experience, my relationships with couples work best when everyone is happy and appreciative of one another. I appreciate the wife for our relationship and the husband for allowing and supporting it. She appreciates me for the pleasure I give her, and her husband for the freedom and support ...
by Swingpaul
Fri Aug 14, 2026 4:28 am
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: Hello from the Colorado mountains
Replies: 4
Views: 177

Re: Hello from the Colorado mountains

Welcome, enjoy the roleplaying, lots of different scenarios to discover together. If you have only recently started talking about it with her then it may take some time for her to come around to the idea. You have been fantasising for years so she has some gentle catching up to do at her own pace.
by Swingpaul
Fri Aug 14, 2026 12:06 am
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Back at it again
Replies: 28
Views: 1977

Re: Back at it again



The more I read your posts and the more I think about it, you are in a very good spot. You both have stayed together. You both have experience to draw on from her earlier days. She's ten years younger than you and she still calls YOU oversexed! This guy is obviously quirky and discreet so ...
by Swingpaul
Thu Aug 13, 2026 4:51 am
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: Getting somewhere!! Thoughts? Suggestions?
Replies: 17
Views: 995

Re: Getting somewhere!! Thoughts? Suggestions?

You have approached it in the right manner. It is a fine line between being pushy and letting her go at her own speed. Open and honest communication is best especially as you and her will have some seemingly conflictive feelings e.g jealousy and lust, be supportive and understanding and express to ...
by Swingpaul
Mon Aug 10, 2026 6:31 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Swinging experience
Replies: 21
Views: 2831

Re: Swinging experience


Hi MartasBoy,

The hotwife lifestyle is something I hadn't considered until threads I've read here. Maybe the hotwife lifestyle would be beneficial for us. My wife and I are firmly committed to keeping our otherwise fabulous marriage intact. Neither of us want to dissolve our marriage. We have ...