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I thought a bit of update after such time would be nice!

Things were going strong and steady with no major change in the past 6 months or so. She is visiting him once a week, or twice a week.

Once they had full sex on the back seats of her car but he actually converted that to a bed using a ...

Yes, and many more to come!

She just called me from the vacation she is on with her BF bull. She had a very wide and nice smile on her beautiful face and I could see she is enjoying it too much! She is going to be there for 2 nights and is really enjoying it.

Great to hear of your experience and I must agree with the others you are being a great husband loving and trusting. To give your wife the freedom to explore and enjoy her sexuality freely is a great gift. Your open communication made this work beautifully.

She is lucky to have found a great ...

One of my favorite stories on OHW. Thanks for the great update.

You allow Eli to fly like a bird on the wing, not like a kite on a string.

No wonder she's so happy. So cool.

Best wishes


Thanks. This is actually because of her qualities. She has been a loyal and caring wife and mother. She ...

interesting, didn't she initially say that she didnt detect very much when they were under the linens?


Yes, that had been a concern for quite some time. As you may recall, she went four months without any sexual penetration, and during that period, he was at least wearing boxers. She mentioned ...

Whatever it is, I like it!

Long Lurker 34 wrote: Wed Apr 02, 2025 4:48 pm EMSW
- One of my goals here is to find the humour in things and in a observational and odd, some times, perspective.
- I have often pondered if this is the case. Rather like an actor in a part, but not role playing, more like the self's perhaps alter-ego.

That was funny.

No, he doesn't come to our home. She goes to him.

She likes to keep it private and away from home. She says, when she is there, she is a different person. She almost forgets about having a husband and kids, etc.


- At some point your SIL will be over and your HW will get a call ...

Well, I guess it is like a simple hotwife who is in love and committed with her husband and family and also has a regular boyfriend who she likes and is FWB. She has agreed with her BF that they both stay close as they have bareback sex and she is worried about STD.

One point I missed. His boy ...

A few days ago. She had a bad cold. She said: "I feel so unwell that even if BF calls for sex, I would say No."
A few minutes later, she added: "I think I lied. I would have gone!!!"

interesting read. Thanks.

No, her sister and I pretend that nothing is happening while both of us knew that the other one is aware of this! Sometime she tells me what the sister has said and I really like that.

Our case was really interesting. How a wife who was calling herself frigid and not interested in sex, turned to ...

Some update after a long time:

She is still going strong. Still have the same man as her main and only boyfriend. She goes to him one afternoon and evening per week, sometimes stay at night and sometimes go to a 2 night vacation.
She enjoys being fucked in multiple positions. Sometimes it takes 4-5 ...

It seems Eli is growing into a new woman in many ways, maybe she will soon need 2 men to keep her going


Yes, she is going toward that, LOL! but for now she is very happy with 1.

She says she is another person when she is there. We call it "El" vs "Eli".
"El" is a 20 year horny insatiable girl ...

They had about 9 times in 44 hours day and night! She wanted more but he couldn't help. She was glowing and belated when back home. She has changed a lot. Previously she could not even maintain eye contact with him for the first 1 hour. Now she is asking for sex right after entering the cottage.

Still nothing is clear on his moving on. They will decide later.

I haven't received updates yet. I will post and update soon. He is not a pusher or maybe he has understood it will from the early dates that Eli react negatively when pushed. She just needs constant smooth and delicate pushing and ...

She is now in another 3d+2n vacation. She left yesterday morning and will return tomorrow afternoon. She was so busy that she could rarely send me IM updates however first day, they did it 3 times. Today I guess it will be 5 times but I have not received any updates!

She is enjoying herself very ...

Yes, absolutely correct. She is a high grade demisexual. I don't think she can change at this moment when she has a good case who she is enjoy having sex with.
When the current relationship ends, that I am not sure when, things can change. She says she is not going to continue hotwifing after this ...

Well, she always tells him to end the relationship if he wants to be with someone else. They’ve decided to be fully exclusive to each other, while I am still the husband, which creates an imbalanced situation. I also think he may start dating others. I hope that does not happen because it will ...

This gentleman has been expecting Eli to spend more time each day with him through phone calls and texts. However, she’s not very interested in virtual communication and is also quite busy. As a result, he has been feeling unhappy and spoke with his counselor, who suggested that ENM relationships ...

Well, you are talking about a woman who took 5 months and about 12 dates to let penetration!

I wouldn't rush!


Good things are progressing, has Eli changes recently being more open to new ideas, is she still developing her sex life

The more she let’s her BF do new thinks, the more she is ...

Very well said.
I always say: If Eli could become a hotwife, any otherwise should!


How this evolved ever so slow, your patience, his wooing her, the fact that he had a girlfriend that made your wife realise how much she was into him and then restarting. Eli is a classic example how most (not all ...

Ask her if she would agree to a threesome with MFM sex. It's time to participate more actively in this and have your share of HW. HW is not only about her but also about you two. Until now it was only about her and her entry into the new life! It's the fear that she will think about you too! That ...

She goes to his home once a week if possible and stays there for around 6 hours (4-10).

A couple of times she went there Friday night and came home in the morning (4p-9a, around 16 hours). Those days she is the happiest woman on earth as she is well fucked without worrying about driving home at ...

Yes, we have however she offers her pussy to the BF, 2-3 times more than to me!!! LOL

edgedndenied wrote: Wed Oct 16, 2024 4:50 am Thanks for the update.
Do you still have sex with Eli? If so does it include PIV sex?