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by coastalkid
Tue Sep 08, 2026 11:23 pm
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: New here. I think my wife's having an affair. What to do?
Replies: 491
Views: 62221

Re: New here. I think my wife's having an affair. What to do?

Yeah, I question Aaron's reasoning for sending the video. I can easily see how that would seem like he's "stirring the pot". Like, not all of his joy is coming from JUST having sex with your wife. Some of his joy, it appears, is poking at your emotions blindly. He doesn't even know how you'll ...
by coastalkid
Tue Sep 08, 2026 11:43 am
Forum: The "Wannabe" forum
Topic: Playing it safe
Replies: 2
Views: 314

Playing it safe

I chose the "Wannabe" specifically because I've been reading a few threads in the cuckold forum that have taken a turn for the worse. The posts have all been from males. I realize that most people don't want to dwell on the negative. Unfortunately the negative has proven to be a devastatingly real ...
by coastalkid
Mon Sep 07, 2026 10:31 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: I though we'd be together for ever - it was not to be
Replies: 17
Views: 1074

Re: I though we'd be together for ever - it was not to be


You’re spot on. We’re in Mpls for my sister’s funeral. We’re flying back together tomorrow. We’re separating. She’s renting a place. It’s too much for either of us. While I’m sad I’ll be ok. I hope she finds what she wants and needs. I’ve accepted I can’t give it her. Perhaps she’ll find it ...
by coastalkid
Mon Sep 07, 2026 1:25 pm
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: I though we'd be together for ever - it was not to be
Replies: 17
Views: 1074

Re: I though we'd be together for ever - it was not to be

...... her first words were "you must have been really hurting." And yes I was. But, the hurt was of my own doing in large part.

I'm hoping that this is a lesson well taught. Yes we have work to do when I get home. I'm hoping that I have the necessary emotional stability to approach things ...
by coastalkid
Mon Sep 07, 2026 11:51 am
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: Want my wife to cuckold me with my best friend.
Replies: 1415
Views: 257339

Re: Want my wife to cuckold me with my best friend.

Nickie has always been (I'll use the English phrase) difficult to get sorted, for me. At some point she feels like she is in it to facilitate and witness John's experience. At other times she seems like she is ambivalent to the sex between Lucy and Greg. That flies in the face of the stereotypical ...
by coastalkid
Mon Sep 07, 2026 11:02 am
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: My gym night, her date night
Replies: 11
Views: 1542

Re: My gym night, her date night

Welcome to the forum WannabeTom!
by coastalkid
Sun Sep 06, 2026 9:00 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: My situation
Replies: 10
Views: 1814

Re: My situation

Welcome to the forum khirsath!
by coastalkid
Sun Sep 06, 2026 2:20 pm
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: New here. I think my wife's having an affair. What to do?
Replies: 491
Views: 62221

Re: New here. I think my wife's having an affair. What to do?

.....There's no way she'd ever do that with me. If I told her to swallow like that she'd tell me to go fuck myself. I was trying so hard not to cum while I watched. The video ended, I took a moment but when I went back to watch again, she'd deleted it.

......She texts right away: "Please tell me ...
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 8:19 pm
Forum: Hotwife Forum
Topic: Less bulls to choose from lately
Replies: 5
Views: 506

Re: Less bulls to choose from lately

truesub wrote: Wed Sep 02, 2026 9:28 amStagflation.
This is priceless!

Funny! The bull market has turned "bearish"! I would imagine a savvy trader with viable assets could fair better in an unpredictable market. If the right offer is made then the bull market returns!
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 7:59 pm
Forum: The "Wannabe" forum
Topic: Wannabe but just had a big move forward
Replies: 6
Views: 813

Re: Wannabe but just had a big move forward

Gotta agree with Hellion4u. Most places that have gloryholes are seedy adult bookstores, typically far from classy.

You might try to find swinger clubs through SLS or any of the other similar sites. Attend a function and see if there are others like you there. Seems less risky than the randos at ...
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 7:35 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?
Replies: 23
Views: 2471

Re: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?

Pure and simple test is in the answer to, "Are you having fun?" If everybody is getting what they want and need then it's great. If you aren't having fun then why do it? Is it some sort of personal challenge, something you can "tough out"?

As Hellion4u says, there are lots of different types of ...
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 12:39 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: "Cicisbeism" can be seen as ancestors of modern cuckolding?
Replies: 7
Views: 1150

Re: "Cicisbeism" can be seen as ancestors of modern cuckolding?

This is interesting in that I've ever heard of it before. In the strictest of definitions it's sure sounds like a cuckold situation. I guess that matters if you're more concerned with what you consider your title to be.

In the Wikipedia account it mentioned that the Cicisbei (the lover) was more ...
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 10:50 am
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: Want my wife to cuckold me with my best friend.
Replies: 1415
Views: 257339

Re: Want my wife to cuckold me with my best friend.

Nigella Lawson is off the charts hot. If your MIL is a "deadringer" for her I would have trouble keeping my eyes off her. Not to mention that you have some her "hand-me-downs" if I'm not mistaken. You have to imagine what that underwear you wear looks like on her. I'm still obsessed with the "cuck ...
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 10:35 am
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: Anyone from the UK?
Replies: 19
Views: 1866

Re: Anyone from the UK?

Welcome to the forum danielbuzz69!
by coastalkid
Sat Sep 05, 2026 10:13 am
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Touch and Go
Replies: 11
Views: 1537

Re: Touch and Go

This is just my observation/opinion. I don't think I'm right or wrong. She will never enjoy herself fully with nagging doubts regarding her guilt. For me this falls into the category of "learning to like" something. "Learning to like" something by definition means that you don't like parts or ...
by coastalkid
Fri Sep 04, 2026 7:04 pm
Forum: Cuckold Forum
Topic: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?
Replies: 23
Views: 2471

Re: I might be a cuck now…thoughts?

Honestly, it sounds like an ideal situation. Funny, as I write this I'm listening to the radio playing Todd Snider's "I Can't Complain". If your situation is what you want and "you can't complain" then ride that pony till it throws you off! If what you have going on is fun and you crave the next ...
by coastalkid
Thu Sep 03, 2026 12:30 pm
Forum: Hotwife Forum
Topic: Angela Plays
Replies: 910
Views: 239170

Re: Angela Plays


I really haven’t been de-activated since we began about 8 years ago. I’ve always had times when I was more so and I’ve had regular FWB’s, Fuck Buddies, Lovers, etc. also had dry spells too. For instance, the last three guys I’ve been with, all this summer, were past regulars. Not saying I’m not ...
by coastalkid
Wed Sep 02, 2026 9:37 pm
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: New here. I think my wife's having an affair. What to do?
Replies: 491
Views: 62221

Re: New here. I think my wife's having an affair. What to do?


I agree with the logic of it, I just struggle with the concept of her fucking other guys or even her thinking about it.
With Aaron, it had already happened, she knew he could give her something more. In my head I rationalize it like she is going for a massage, a service better than I can give her ...
by coastalkid
Wed Sep 02, 2026 9:09 pm
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: new here and could use some advice/opinions
Replies: 94
Views: 2913

Re: new here and could use some advice/opinions

Sorry, I've been on the road. Thanks for sharing all that you have. There's always something for me to learn here! Your story has been a welcome one for me even though you have had your struggle/adjustment with it. I know your situation is far from concluded even if your time here is. Thanks again ...
by coastalkid
Wed Sep 02, 2026 9:02 pm
Forum: The "Wannabe" forum
Topic: Reignite the Flame
Replies: 699
Views: 219707

Re: Reignite the Flame

That's good news all around QuietHope! I've been on the road so I'm catching up! Glad that you are feeling better about yourself and even more happy that your wife noticed your effort!
by coastalkid
Sat Aug 29, 2026 11:31 am
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: new here and could use some advice/opinions
Replies: 94
Views: 2913

Re: new here and could use some advice/opinions

Yes! Decisions12 your situation is not typical here and definitely an intriguing scenario. It hovers around this lifestyle but it clearly isn't a kink or obsession. It still has the element of your wife having sex with another man and how you cope with that solution. That in and of itself could be ...
by coastalkid
Sat Aug 29, 2026 10:15 am
Forum: The "Wannabe" forum
Topic: Dare I Disturb the Universe
Replies: 75
Views: 13793

Re: Dare I Disturb the Universe


Later she commented that it wouldn't be fair for her to have sex with other men if she didnt let me have sex with other women. I told her that wasn't necessarily true and asked if she would be upset if I had sex with other women. She said it would depend on the situation and I asked her what ...
by coastalkid
Sat Aug 29, 2026 9:15 am
Forum: Hotwife Forum
Topic: Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!
Replies: 3199
Views: 1639995

Re: Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!



I am 65 suffering from diabetes and can’t get hard erections for penetrative sex. Would like wife to be a hotwife so that she can have proper sex. She hasn’t been with anyone but me all her life. She says she’s fine and satisfied. I don’t like our situation. Please help


I'm not a hotwife so ...
by coastalkid
Sat Aug 29, 2026 9:06 am
Forum: New Member Intros
Topic: new here and could use some advice/opinions
Replies: 94
Views: 2913

Re: new here and could use some advice/opinions


And one final point- I trust my wife far more than I trust any single one of you.

You are entitled to hold whatever views or opinions you wish. But sometimes you might find it helpful to step out of your own head when assessing a situation that involves people you don't know. Everyone is very ...
by coastalkid
Sat Aug 29, 2026 9:03 am
Forum: Stag/Vixen Forum
Topic: Wife on a date tonight!
Replies: 1321
Views: 448321

Re: Wife on a date tonight!

Welcome to the forum Cplmaricandau!