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Bump! Any new developments?

I do have something to share that has been on my mind lately. I’m not sure why I find it intriguing, but I’ve been thinking of asking hubby if we can go to Temptations in Cancun. We’ve been there many years ago as I was being introduced to Hotwife play and full of resistance. I think it’d be fun to...

Good evening, all. Interesting and somewhat confusing development today. I am out of town for business until tomorrow evening. My wife and “D” got together this morning to go to a local outdoor market. The three of us have been there together before, but he was kind enough to take her today in my a...

For anyone interested- a lot of life has happened in the last year. We have been very busy and sexy time in general has been in the back burner. We had just reached a place where we have started to have the time and energy to reconnect sexually. The good progress here is that every time we’ve had s...

Ultimately, Lana and I have acknowledged that denying a connection between her and Conner and what she calls the best sex of her life , would only breed (pun intended) resentment. Does it bother you in any way whatsoever that Lana would say that the best sex of her life came from someone else? I re...

No "happy endings" with waxing apparently. That must be an "add on" from the menu!

I think the fantasy of the wife getting pregnant by a clearly superior, alpha lover is probably the most gut-wrenching ultimate turn-on for a cuckold couple. It’s the wife surrendering her very core, her genes, to be mingled with another man. I’m sure there are a lot of cuckold couples that play ar...

Dear FLR_fan, I went through 13 years of what is probably a milder version of your girlfriend, including marriage for nearly the past four. We are now in the middle of a messy divorce where she is camped out in the home I own with a restraining order she got on false pretenses of me abusing her. Fo...

Thanks for the update. I hope you and Lana can find your way to something that is satisfying for everyone included. Are you going to continue with the therapist? Were there any significant outcomes from the sessions you did have? I second this great question. I don't see any change other than they ...

Thanks for the update. I hope you and Lana can find your way to something that is satisfying for everyone included. Are you going to continue with the therapist? Were there any significant outcomes from the sessions you did have?

Cheating is universally seen as immoral. The reaction to those that cheat is usually met with two distinct responses. One, that they are scum, detestable, self centered, they deserve to be caught and exposed, or two, I can't control what others do, it's not my place to tell them what they are doing ...

Buitenman wrote: ↑

Wed Nov 12, 2025 11:07 pm

I'm not you but I would have said yes to the divorce. Does not sound like love what you describe.

Hang in there!

I have been pussyfree for well over 15 years. My wife lost interest in me sexually but overall we have a good marriage and we care for each other. I miss the intimacy but as I was a poor lover I am sure does not miss sex with me. I have encouraged her to take a lover but I am sure she has not. So y...

Risk pregnancy! Before we found out Cressida was infertile - and I was catching her cheating - I asked if she used her diaphragm and spermicide when she was fucking. "NO! Of course not! I'm not going to ruin the passionate mood to put THAT THING in!" "But you do with me..." "You're different...when...

First you must accept that you can never "please her in that way". Never. You are not built to satisfy her. Successful cuck relationships depend upon the husband accepting that. If you only felt inadequate in that way, you can fix things by accepting your limitations. But the cutoff from sex is ano...

Risk pregnancy! Before we found out Cressida was infertile - and I was catching her cheating - I asked if she used her diaphragm and spermicide when she was fucking. "NO! Of course not! I'm not going to ruin the passionate mood to put THAT THING in!" "But you do with me..." "You're different...when...

Swallow. My wife hates the taste of my cum, I generally never get to cum in her mouth and the few times I have shes spits it out. Other guys? Straight down her throat. She tells me its just easier and she doesn't want to ruin the mood, but im not so sure about that. Thankfully, she does let me do s...

I'm not a cuckold but your situation is what scares me the most about the lifestyle. Feeling inadequate doesn't go away when your wife/gf ISN'T having sex. It resides in your head 24/7. It also seems to be an issue that husbands/bfs have to deal with all on their own. You almost NEVER read about a w...

You wouldn't have started this thread if you didn't have some sort of mixed emotions about this. I know I could be all wrong and you're actually perfectly fine with all of it so you can set me straight on that. I'm interested to know how you feel? Are your pleasure to anxiety levels imbalanced? Do y...

Is Becka interested in or has she shown any interest in finding someone local? What is your playtime like now? Is it a lot of teasing and the two of you dwelling on the (what seems to the successful) experience you had? When you say that Becka reminds you that, "you're JUST a cuck", does she do anyt...

You're going to get a lot of mixed messaging here. There are those that will say, "You're just topping from the bottom!" They'll say, "You just have to accept whatever your wife/gf wants doesn't require your input!" They'll say, "Obviously you're not cut out for this lifestyle if you have a problem ...

troilusand wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 06, 2025 4:30 pm

So, Stubby, you and Lisa have never consummated your marriage? WOW! How does THAT feel?

Troilus

Good question! How DOES that feel? How did it feel then and how does it feel now?

I know there are many topics on wives playing alone, which is a topic my wife and I go over. She started playing alone, and now we play together. As we become more comfortable with regular sessions, she will opt for private sessions, as that is what she prefers. She has also mentioned the idea of n...

I hope you guys can get it worked out. Don't give up. If you and Lana really want to grown old together and have a family, you'll have to protect that dream/goal together. You still are in the literal infant stages of your first child. That alone has to have had a significant impact on every aspect ...