Our Hotwives

To be honest I never felt really close to her there has always been a barrier between us a wall I could never break through. Maybe that's not a bad thing, I had a very honest and open relationship with my first wife but it caused a lot of problems


Could the 'barrier' simply be 'her denial' vs ...

...And to make a long story short I ended up heading to bed later in the night and she stayed downstairs with them. And some things ended up happening. I didnt know until the morning. But man was it the hottest thing when she told me about it.


Yeah, you teased us...Now you gotta tell the ...

My wife and I are good friends with this couple. They are about 10 years younger and have older teenage boys. We go over each others houses for dinner, sports events and such. The husband is a great guy. He is funny, intelligent, good looking and to top it of he has a British accent.
His wife is ...

My wife and I are in our mid 50s. We are very much in love and looking to live out some of our favorite fantasies.

We tried light swinging with another couple a while ago (just oral and only the girls did bisex) but only did it a few times. It was fun but I guess we're looking for something a bit ...

It's crazy to think that many years ago that was a total 'no' in my head; now the ONLY thing on my bucket list is to creampie a wife while he 69s then have her straddle his face and we tuck his legs under her shoulders so I can impale him! I was talking with someone and had the random thought "Could ...

This has become my favorite over the years and I've coordinated with both husbands and wives to both get there as well as being the one responsible for it happening. Have them 69 with him on the bottom and then join in. It's rare for her to object to simply telling her to pull me out and put it in ...

Biggest surprise to my wife and I was black lovers like more than one white wife. White women are use to the white man being faithful. Her black lover let her know their are to many white wife's needing him. She would have to accept her new life.


A couple of additional things:
1) You started ...

surry wrote: Sat Feb 22, 2025 1:56 am Wow, a bunch of folks getting upset over a sex fantasy post. LOL

Read the title of your post; it is a supposed statement of fact. As a Black man who was married 16 years, widowed 25 years, finished raising our kids and spoiling the hell out of their kids I found it extremely offensive.

That's literally how I was introduced to alternative lifestyles! Way back in my navy days I met an older woman in a night club in Copenhagen and spent two days in bed with her in Malmo, Sweden. We were in bed naked when the door opened and her daughter came in. I, in my modesty, pulled up the sheets ...

Awww, aren't you two sweet!!!
Rebecca I do remember you..glad I didn't follow my first instinct which was to suggest you two go and get a room!

We are about to celebrate 40 years of marriage in 2025 and I made a list today of the men I absolutely know my wife has fucked and there are 27 men on that list 4 of them fucked her in front of me but my wife preferred to fuck then in a hotel and then tell me about when we fucked. Those are just ...

I call them my lovers. Bull just seems off to me.


I refer to my intimate friend this way being careful in referring to a married woman that way. He knows but you never know what makes someone reactionary...but I confess I do like it when she calls me her sidepiece to him and when we're out as ...

You set off my radar! On Friday night you share your true story and on Monday afternoon, she's already left that situation; what gives? I can appreciate an experience from the past, but the way this came out, something significant didn't come out here.

There is definitely a tipping point of diminishing returns, where pleasure becomes pain. Slow and steady wins the race when it’s a big one, and still you can be sore afterwards. Let me dispel a myth though, for all the men out there who have some delusional fantasy about a big cock permanently ...

I find that frequently the term is used by single men and it usually comes off as egotistical. As a man of color the term I really, really have come to despise is BBC!

We were just becoming comfortable with the hotwife lifestyle, really enjoying new partners and how it drew us closer together when my wife became ill. After several terrible months in and out of the hospital she passed. I didn't want to live for quite some time, was pissed to be left behind. And ...

Welcome Hannah!
I'm a lifestyle experienced Black man and I agree with all of the posts against workplace dalliances. Josh did not respect you, your marriage, or your employer (father) by having those discussions and I would bet that all 17 of the Black employees are aware of it whether you or Josh ...

My wife has been in a relationship with a guy for a few weeks now. She is exclusive to him and allows him to control the relationship totally.
Last night he turned up at our house with one of his friends. He insisted that his friend be allowed to join in, which he did.
Is it OK for a bull to ...

I think some of your questions seek a general answer and I 'know' and preach every situation is unique unto itself. That definitely applies to the first, how do I see the wives, how do I see the husbands.

1) More husbands initiate contact than wives so while exchanging with him and always again ...

I have my fingers crossed, first time may be this weekend. I met a couple online about an hour from me last week, and at their suggestion we've already exchanged numbers and are texting. Last night the wife asked what was on my bucket list and I told her the only thing was that my favorite was ...

With no disrespect intended, every response here has been totally wrong.

No one has mentioned the change leading to the question; many have talked about the dialog shared entering in, some have talked about the dialog once in...every and anything detrimental be it fear, jealousy, insecurity or ...

I'm not one to be too philosophical about things. Society teaches us from an early age that husbands and wives should only have sex with each other. Having sex outside of marriage is "naughty". It's exciting being naughty.
Society teaches us that interracial sex is "naughty". It's exciting to be ...