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No, you’re not alone. In fact after milling it over like a zillion times I always land on how beautiful I find her doing that. In fact I just told her a while ago that I find it hot that she doesn’t need to have feelings for a guy. I have seen her go from just one coffee with the three of us just ...

And I can stir those feelings of compersion when I flashback to good couplings she has had and my good fortunate at being able to be present to enjoy them with her. As you say, even more than erotic (notwithstanding my cock thickening and stiffening). It feels loving.


Yes! "Loving" and "joyful ...

We have contemplated the threesome start, but it’s neither of our preference at least from a “hotness” perspective. However, I can see why it’d make it easier. I’ll bring it up and see what she thinks. I think it makes sense as a stepping stone. But generally, she felt like she’d be a lot more ...

Have you thought about trying this as a threesome first time? You can give him preferred honors, but maybe join her on her first journey. This is how my wife and I started and I think it was hugely instrumental in putting everyone’s jitters to rest. She had my assurance and support, and I had the ...

It's my opinion that the deleted video is an opportunity for you to get back on the right track with your wife. You can tell her that it makes you suspicious about what she is hiding from you. The bottom line is she needs to trust you and if you tell her something turns you on she needs to believe ...

…I don't want to tell her I have them, but I want her to know I'm not upset, I'm actually cool with it and I'd love to see more like this. She's worried she's going to hurt me or make me think less of her. Honestly, I feel a bit like I married a closet slut but I don't think any less of her. I ...

My girl definitely had a type--stocky white guys with big cocks and good stamina. And facial looks weren't very important. They were all pretty ordinary looking guys, some overweight. In fact, I probably look more attractive and fit than any of her playmates.

I don't think she was exclusive about ...

With other guys, she doesn't know how they'll perform so it would be purely out of attraction which seems somehow worse.


I can’t speak for everyone, but seems there’s always an element of attraction in this. I doubt she would have gone over to Aaron’s last year for bikini show-and-tell if there ...

The short-term memory tricks are holding. And if you'll forgive the crudity, I'm now banging the wife up the butt two or three times a day and making her come over and over again. Either of those things was an impossible dream a short while ago. I can't deny that's been a factor- I'm sure you can ...

As for how I'm handling it- it's easy, I love J far more than I love myself. Sexual jealousy? Yes I had that but there's a far bigger picture than my hurt feelings; and the aftermath...I've dealt with it by simply just loving J. I have found over the years that most things are easier to handle if ...

…J thinks we (yes I'm taking partial credit even though it's entirely undeserved) may have made a scientific breakthrough. It's not her field, so she isn't certain, but she thinks that she might actually have managed to rewire part of her brain in a way that has never been done before. (aside- I ...

decisions12 wrote: Fri Aug 28, 2026 3:59 pm Thank you. I hope I managed to make everything make sense in the end.

You did. Thanks for sharing your journey with us. I hope our varied perspectives were useful to you.

And we are both absolutely loving it.


And that’s the only part that really matters.


...J's CSBD craved vaginal orgasms- she thinks, after a few goes at it, that the growing body of evidence indicates it is now satisfied by anal orgasms and possibly beginning to crave them, but this is by ...

Here's something that I know from various comments that some of you won't understand- J and I belong to each other, totally and completely, and that's the way we both want it. She belongs in my arms, always.


You might be surprised.

There are many in this community for whom humiliation and ...

... but the things that will become the core memories were held back so that they came as surprises because that apparently works better than anticipation. (J says it's something to do with potential disappointment versus unexpected pleasure without pre-expectations) and I will try and remember to ...

Call me cray cray, but wouldn't this mean some medication, not get an escort? I mean, by all means, you clearly are game, but I'm just sayin. She can get one rubbed out... but it's not going to change a thing. And why not... um... you?

..It's a crazy situation and there was no straightforward ...

Thankyou for your thoughts.

My wife will treat me the same way she always does- with love, respect, consideration and understanding.
The impression I have obviously given when I started the thread is understandable but I was having a bit of a moment- J is an amazing person, we have an incredible ...

...I've been avoiding the topic with her other than a couple of half-joking comments about black guys. She says Aaron gives her everything she needs and she's not really interested in anyone else but I know she only started with him because he showed interest. If some other dude did the same thing ...

J's idea is to hire an escort, and honestly, that makes sense in so many ways. There's nothing personal about it so it won't feel like cheating to either of us, she doesn't have to go trawling for a man, she is almost certain to get what she needs since that's the fella's job, and the mental ...

But I also know that if I'm on the right track... well, no-one is going to deprive their wife of water simply because how they drink it upsets them, are they?


Sounds to me like you’ve made a decision. If so, feel free to compose your thoughts here if you wish.

FWIW, I agree with DreamWeaver ...

I am 99% certain that I don't have the kink. I am 100% certain that J knows I would hate watching her with someone else. I am 100% certain that she knows I will allow her to scratch an itch if it's unbearable, even if I don't yet know it... although I do. I am 100% certain that J knows exactly ...

Welcome to the forum, D.

She said "while you watch." Have you considered she's inviting you into something rather than something she wants without you? It’s possible that this is just a fantasy she wants to share with you and may be probing to see if this turns you on. The fact she mentioned “while ...

This is why she often gets that “after sex glow” as her vagina absorbs his semen and sends these hormones through her entire body. So let that creampie soak in for a while before you reclaim her.


This is something else I notice too. I love my wife's afterglow. Watching her exhausted body and ...

I find all this 'internal' activity pretty hot too!

I remember the first time another guy came inside my wife. He ended up being her regular FB for the next 14 years and came inside her dozens of times over the years...

The first time they had sex he pulled out. This time I gave him the blessing ...

I've exchanged a few messages with some of the bulls on here in recent months. Maybe it was a bad idea but I was curious about a few things from their side of things. Some of what was discussed stuck with me and got me thinking things I can't help but consider.


I'm curious what they said that ...