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Poly is ethical nonmonogamy, so if your partner is cheating, it's not polyamory. Full stop. That being said, polyamory doesn't have to be marriage level commitment. It can be, but it doesn't have to be. It's simply multiple ethical romantic relationships where all involved parties consent. You can'...

Fantasies are fun... but in my 24/7 FLR, I still love and respect my husband. Why would I be married to him if I didn't enjoy his company and like him as a person?

But I do tend to be the final decision maker and we have rituals that reinforce this.

Honestly, it sounds like your GF has a really, really good handle on the ethics of nonmonogamy. There are a lot of posts here that truly do make the wife sound like nothing more than a toy to fulfil the husband's fantasy, and it gets even worse when you consider the third person. I find a lot of hot...

Poly is ethical nonmonogamy, so if your partner is cheating, it's not polyamory. Full stop. That being said, polyamory doesn't have to be marriage level commitment. It can be, but it doesn't have to be. It's simply multiple ethical romantic relationships where all involved parties consent. You can't...

If you think men don't like being wrapped up in latex or whatever, what makes you think there's not a sensory issue for women as well? No matter how much lube I use or how aroused I am, condoms give me microirritations and I hate long sex sessions using one. Thank you, SSQ. You've confirmed what my...

So talk about a blast from the past! I got an email from A, way back in 2012 when I first started hotwifing. We haven't talked since pre-covid at least, but it didn't end for any particular reason that I can think of. It was always just an occasional FWB kinda thing. He emailed me that he was in my ...

I can understand why men don't want to wear condoms during intercourse with a hotwife, but why do hotwives care? (My wife is a hotwife, seldom does the guy wear a condom, but I find there is no point asking her if I expect a straight answer). Well this shows a complete lack of understanding of how ...

It may be a sensitive subject, but I'll take my chances. Is a cheating wife a HotWife? Does it turn you on to know she's cheating on you? Do you prefer to encourage her to fuck other men with you approval, or you enjoy to spy on her, to wait for her at home, knowing she was coming from her lover? A...

SSQ, I’m at section 22 of 59 and I want to take this moment to let you know that I absolutely adore you and your lifestyle! I can’t stop reading your content! Thank you for opening up your world to us!💕💕 Why thank you! LOL you're about to get to some interesting parts. It's all there though- the go...

Hey y'all, Cancun was awesome!!! Charles and I got some gorgeous professional photos done. It's always bothered me that I have a gallery wall with wedding pictures with Henry and no photos posted with Charles. He's said it doesn't bother him because he isn't treated like he's unimportant, but it bot...

Charles and I are leaving on Friday for Cancun! It's our 5 year anniversary and I can't wait to spend a week on the beach with him <3

Henry will be driving us to the airport and being a single parent for the week lol.

I think there's 2 other types of guys that would stay available for a long time, to be a secondary, or a nearly equal partner. 1. Guys on the autistic spectrum that are high functioning. They like to have plenty of time for their special interest hobby and appreciate more time alone. Also, they can...

Man, just for shits and giggles, Henry and I watched an episode of TLC's Seeking Brother Husbands and what a dumpster fire that show is. And since it's the only experience many people get with polyamory I guess that's what they think of us :P I've not seen it, but that is why I get irritated by all...

Man, just for shits and giggles, Henry and I watched an episode of TLC's Seeking Brother Husbands and what a dumpster fire that show is. And since it's the only experience many people get with polyamory I guess that's what they think of us

Nothing wrong with hiring a sex worker. It's the easiest way to get exactly what you want without worrying about managing another person's feelings, because they're paid to be there. Especially for people thinking of starting out, I think it's a much better idea than treating a person like a human d...

Funny that I was worried about things when apparently Kiddo doesn't care lol. In health class at school they were going over the sexual health curriculum, and one sentence in the handout said that a healthy relationship was monogamous. My kid put up his hand and argued the point and announced that h...

I didn't realize it's been so long! Same old same old here... just living our lives :) My anniversary with Henry is coming up soon, 5 years married, 9 years together, end of May. And my anniversary with Charles is coming up soon, 5 years together in June. He and I are going away for a week to Mexico...

An observation on here and life in general. Two people meet and the immediate response is to hide or lie about your preferences. I just can't understand this. How can you get what you want by lying or hiding your preferences? If your sexual preferences are very important to you, then right from the...

Not too much going on here, lately- just life :) But honestly, my love life is pretty awesome, and so I have no complaints. All three of us tend to get hit pretty hard with seasonal affective disorder, so my sex life tends to be slower in the winter. As long as we still make time for intimacy and fu...

Oh, I didn't realize it has been so long since I updated! I guess the holidays were busy! The board is a better place when you are actively participating in it.. in good time or trying ones, always enipy seeing you engaged. That being said, sorry to hear…. Heartbreak is real and while we can always...

I suspect it was a surprise to Kaci. Apparently 12 hours before the breakup text, she had sent him a cartoon she had drawn of the two of them together. But that's my point- vetos really are unethical in my opinion. They reek of hierarchy and couples' privilege, and treat other partners as disposable...

Oh, I didn't realize it has been so long since I updated! I guess the holidays were busy! We celebrated Henry's birthday just before Christmas, and Kaci joined us (me, Charles, Henry, and Kiddo) for dinner. Kiddo knows we're poly, so to him it wasn't a big deal at all to bring Kaci. We all had a nic...

Well, my 40th birthday was pretty awesome. Nothing super sexy, but also great. Had a special dinner with my family one day and played board games with Kiddo, followed by a fun and exhausting evening with Charles ;) Then the next day a house party with my friends (Kiddo went to visit grandparents), a...

Poly is about more than just having a friendship- it's about having a whole second romantic relationship. It would be like if she is mono, and has a boyfriend- exactly like that except she's still married. Poly people might also swing, but that's not generally where you find them. If she's open to h...

I'm married, but I see single people on dating apps who put it right there on their dating profile. Gets it out into the open and more likely you'll meet someone who likes similar things.