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He is a cuck, and not in a casual or fantasy-only way. He is a true cuck. He introduced this dynamic to me more than 21 years ago, and we have actively lived this lifestyle together ever since.

His devotion to me is not performative. It is not something he only wants when he is turned on, bored ...

There's something about the attitudes of all three of you that sets off alarm bells. First, any bull who makes these kinds of demands, up front, before you even start to play, is someone I would reject right away. A bull should be anxious and motivated to have sex with your wife. Yes, they might ...

We *started* with a month at a time, after the initial trial and error of finding the right sizing and an adjustment period. That eventually increased to as much as a year or a little more at times, not getting out for any reason, with only caged ruins every three months. (I found that going too ...

I have a question for you. Actually, it's a question for any bull. Is it a more intense sexual experience for you to fuck a married woman vs a single woman? Does it turn you on to know you are giving her something she does not get from her husband? Once she also realizes you are giving her something ...

Many cuckolds like to be lead down a path towards increasing dominance and control by the bull and increasing pleasure and submission by the wife -- and also by the cuck. It's the process of being gradually taken over that is most exciting to the couple, as they each being to realize their focus ...

She is contemplating if I should be in a cock cage for the trip. I have never been nude in front of others while in a device. It’s a cool thought experiment to wonder how I will handle it.


I know how you feel. We went to a nude beach a few times. The first time I wore the cage but stayed ...

I’d like to make some comments in support of pussy free. A lot depends, of course, on how you define it. If pussy free is described as the death of sex, either through neglect or lack of interest in intercourse, then I understand some of the criticisms. But, for many couples practicing a version of ...

I'm curious if anyone here started non-monogamy through a traditional cuckold setup, but gradually the relationship evolved into something closer to polyamory when a long-term bull became more involved -- physically or emotionally -- to the point of becoming a second partner forming a triad ...

I realize I am putting on a show for them as much as I am satisfying their woman. Often the woman is also watching their man’s reaction and getting off on it. I have been in situations where it is obvious that we are putting on a live porn show for her guy. So how do you really feel when you are ...

@Tryagain: Love your having experienced this wonder of nature too. And the guy in question was at least a good 8 thick inches. So, maybe size can make the difference. But even though I am nowhere near as long and thick as he was, just keeping my cock in her pussy can trigger a chain of repeat, air ...

A theme that would be amazing to explore is whether Abby eventually wants to be impregnated by Wade and have his baby. What is the thought process that goes through John's mind? Can he get his head around this? He seems to be fully accepting that Abby's sexuality is owned by Wade. Is having his baby ...

Over the years, for me, sucking the bull's cock was always a show of sexual dominance on his part. His alpha to my beta, my sub. When the bull has the husband suck his cock in front of the wife, there is also an element of humiliation, which some of us crave. Learning to control your gag reflex ...

But why stay in the room while she is in the bar? You could go down before or after she arrives and watch from a distance to see who hits on her. Much more fun than staying in the room.

I had a prostate infection in my early 30's. My urologist at the time told me it was healthy to ejaculate regularly. I don't think lack of ejaculating would lead to testicular cancer, but it's like any organ. It needs to be used to stay healthy. And, no, I'm not a doctor, but I have always trusted ...

I think I can answer the OP's question as Becky had a lover for around 20 years.

He was great in bed and a really nice guy. We had holidays together and became good friends in and out of the lifestyle.

He was single the whole time, only once did he have a regular girlfriend and Becky stepped ...

How do you keep the primary relationship primary, and give time to the wife and lover? How often does she see her lover?


I guess "Poly" can mean somewhat different things to different people. Having a steady boyfriend to us wasn't poly, even when she had feelings for that person. Poly for us ...

This is a great thread.

My best friend is a guy I met in grad school. He’s still my best friend. We met when I was a newly married 22-year-old and we had classes together. He was single and we became regular study partners, often at our house. We were young and always horny, and it didn’t take ...

The first time I saw her orgasm with another guy was in the initial phase of our dating in college. I was crazy about her and although I wouldn't say we were in a "relationship" yet, I considered us a "thing." We had never discussed exclusivity, but I was still pretty shocked when she said she ...

When I was a kid, my parents were very good friends with another couple. They would com over to our house a lot and stay long after my brother and I had to go to bed. One night, when this couple was at our house, my brother can I quietly came down the stairs after we had gone to bed and looked ...

Don't let her forget the condoms. It's especially fun if you are the one who buys them.

nostringsorworries wrote: Thu Dec 26, 2024 10:13 am And for him, he says his big turn on is really having another guy watch him cum in the guy's wife. . .

When you say "cum" in your wife, do you mean with a condom? Or do you literally mean he will cum in your wife bare?

Relax and have fun. Get to know one another.

Are you planning to play on this first meet?


This is the best advice. We always found that you know right away if there is sexual attraction or not. And, it's not necessarily about appearance. Sure, someone attractive is a plus, but beauty, alone ...

Going to bump this up. I feel like there is more that can be discussed here.

Hi Subguy80,
Long time your follower. It’s been almost one year since your last post. Hope you are doing well and when ready to share again we love to hear some updates!


Hey! Sorry for not replying sooner. I don't want to start posting on this thread again, but I have had several people PM me ...

First a little background: Several years ago when we were still in a swinger's group, my wife and I became friends with another couple. There weren't really any sexual sparks between us, but we enjoyed each other's friendship. The wife of this couple (they were Asian) met a black guy and she started ...